Y**u
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Yisu (大头教主) 于 (Thu Apr 5 09:35:34 2012, 美东) 提到:
问：＂一切众生及菩萨如来世尊所证所得，有什么差别？＂
答：＂“善男子，圆满觉悟的自性，不是前面所说的五种性，因随缘而起，所以说是‘
性有’；又随缘而起不是实有，所以无处取、无所证。在真如实相中，实则没有菩萨和
众生可言。这是为什么呢？菩萨和众生都是幻化的，因为幻化的都将消亡，也就没有可
用以取证的。比如眼晴不能看到自己本身，自性本来平等，不是强制使他们平等的。迷
惑颠倒的众生不能除灭一切幻化，对于一切幻化或除灭，或未能除灭，除灭的功力不等
，则便显有差别。如果随顺寂灭圆觉，平等无待，也就没有寂灭以及证悟寂灭的人。
“善男子，一切众生从久远的过去以来，便妄想有实在的自我和爱我的人，而不知道因
为有念念生灭，所以才生起憎爱，沉迷于五欲中。如果能够遇到好的教友，教导他开悟
清净圆觉本性，明了诸法起灭，则会知道此生空自担负忧悲苦痛的劳虑。如果有人永远
断除劳虑，就能得知法界清净，如果执着于清净见解又会成为自己... 阅读全帖 |
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x*******g
发帖数: 1363 | 2 The kid's bad habbit is typically not as hard to fix as some parents thought
.
The key is 'persistent'. Whatever way you pick, be persistent. Don't give in
-- once you give-in, it just makes it much harder next time since the baby
learned that she/he has the power to change the consequence.
With that bottom line, then think about which way will make the battle less
stressful. To my kids, I know them so well, I will take the 'cold turkey'
approach -- but for yours, you may try to go progressive w... 阅读全帖 |
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b*******r
发帖数: 6655 | 3 The habbit will change. It's always more difficult to keep a good habbit
than
a bad habbit. Laziness is human nature.
During the heat of Linsanity, NYK did won every game. When NKY lost 6 in a
row, I didn't see how they fight harder than previous winning games. You can
blame his teammates of course. But Lin could work harder on defense at
least. Don't tell me your american friends only like the first 7 games.
game
the |
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m******e
发帖数: 574 | 4 首先非常感谢Arthur，我的protocol基本上是在他的帮助下整理出来的，当然也离不开
本版各位的经验的指点。现在把自己认为比较重要的部分贡献出来，希望能对后考者有
所帮助，并bless自己和其他朋友顺利pass
（左面部分是mnemonics，右面， 就是对应的问题. ＊ 问题是 选问，视情况而定）
GENERAL QUESTIONS-------OCDFPAA + HD
O WHEN DID IT START
*H *DID IT HAPPEN SUDDENLY OR GRADUALLY
*D *WHAT WERE YOU DOING WHEN YOU GOT THIS PROBLEM
C IT IS CONSTANT OR DOES IT COME AND GO
D HOW LONG DOES IT LAST
F HOW OFTEN DOES IT HAPPEN
P IT IS GETTING BETTER OR GETTING WORSE
A DOES ANYTHING MAKE IT BETTER
A ANYTH... 阅读全帖 |
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m******r
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memorize (memorize) 于 (Tue May 1 12:44:09 2012, 美东) 提到:
首先非常感谢Arthur，我的protocol基本上是在他的帮助下整理出来的，当然也离不开
本版各位的经验的指点。现在把自己认为比较重要的部分贡献出来，希望能对后考者有
所帮助，并bless自己和其他朋友顺利pass
（左面部分是mnemonics，右面， 就是对应的问题. ＊ 问题是 选问，视情况而定）
GENERAL QUESTIONS-------OCDFPAA + HD
O WHEN DID IT START
*H *DID IT HAPPEN SUDDENLY OR GRADUALLY
*D *WHAT WERE YOU DOING WHEN YOU GOT THIS PROBLEM
C IT IS CONSTANT OR DOES IT COME AND GO
D HOW LONG DOES IT LAST
F HOW OFTEN ... 阅读全帖 |
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l***e
发帖数: 1121 | 6 eating slow is a not a bad habbit in my opinion.
I am trying to eat slow now for a better digest. When I was young, my mom
always asked me to be faster so I can eat a big meal in ten minutes. But I
will feel unconforatble after eating.
Children should be treat individually to their needs and habbits. |
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l*********e
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Helen0505 (Helen) 于 (Thu Jan 24 21:31:36 2013, 美东) 提到:
一个月前上的辅食，无论米糊还是水果、蔬菜和肉泥，都是Gerber家的小瓶小罐。不知
道这样对宝宝好不好?
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Bedodo (Bedo) 于 (Thu Jan 24 21:40:13 2013, 美东) 提到:
Me
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kaka814 (kaka) 于 (Thu Jan 24 21:46:11 2013, 美东) 提到:
大部分不做。罐头没有的东西偶尔做做。
喵的，不是我不想做，我们家主子不赏脸啊，做的一口不吃，现成的才吃！
积极性都磨光了。
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Helen0505 (Helen) 于 (Thu Jan 24 21:48:37 2013... 阅读全帖 |
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x*******g
发帖数: 1363 | 8 hehe, sounds like a bad habbit, if he can eat only when he is doing
somethigng else the same time.
Not sure when you say '一碗饭', you mean rice? Maybe your kid doesn't like
rice. My son refused to eat rice at all, but he can eat the toast, baozi,
three times quicker than the rice. If i gave him quesadilla, ok, done in 3
mins.
You may need to find out what kind of food he likes. Food size matters!
Finger food is the best to help build habbit at this early age.
Your kid didn't eat anything in the sc... 阅读全帖 |
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b**d
发帖数: 7644 | 9 Followed GYFM for 10 years on the board, is that right?
您这样想当的习惯有多久了？
I do not have this habbit. You have this habbit. If there is no evidence,
what will make me think this way? Or maybe GYFM did not teach you anything
till recently? |
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D**S
发帖数: 24887 | 10 Maybe you should try and make him change this bad habbit. |
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p*u
发帖数: 2454 | 11
house
many ppl in US live below their means, maybe thats their habbit built in
poor childhood. it's totally reversed in China, pls dont judge ppl simply
based on their living style. u might b stunned by how many properties they
own and how much money is in their savings accounts. |
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R****a
发帖数: 6858 | 12
要让他们形成抢劫华人的habbit，然后等中国的航母造好以后，派个编队远远的等着，
引诱汤加再来一次对华人的洗劫，等抢掠烧杀进入高潮以后，中国军队再突然介入，一
举灭亡岛上所有的原住民。 |
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C*****H
发帖数: 7927 | 13 you overrated the time to spend, sometime it's just a habbit, an attitude. |
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y****t
发帖数: 10233 | 14 see, you can for sure control your eating habbit.
so government should regulate your sugar intake, salt intake, fat intake,
chinese food intake, mcdonalds intake, or you can not even eat say during
the middle of night, because that not gonna help your health.
这不就是我上次跟你说的嘛,没事别动你的乳房, 想ooxx也最好找政府请示一下,看看政
府是什么意见,你需要不需要license 什么的.
lol...
But
control
punish |
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y***n
发帖数: 1135 | 15 It really depends on your driving habbit and condition of driving.
You can wait until you hear the sounds. |
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i****x
发帖数: 17565 | 16 if risk of death is of scale 100
improving driving habbit and skill will reduce 80
get a stronger car will reduce 5
the other 15 no one can remove
when I see one wants a strong car to save life, I know you have given up
your own responsibility and are ready to crash. |
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c*********e
发帖数: 644 | 17 My habbit （I have a 5-speed manual）
>38mph 5th gear
37-35 switch from 5th to 4th (depending on the terrain and torque needed)
34-29 4th
28-26 switch from 4th to 3rd
25-19 3rd
18-14 switch from 3rd to 2nd
14-6 2nd
5-1 switch from 2nd to 1st
I only use 1st gear to get the car moving. As long as the car is moving and
rpm > 2000 I switch to 2nd gear. From highway speed ~65mph to 37mph, I keep
the car in 5th gear when braking, and shift down to 4th only when it gets
below 3... 阅读全帖 |
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r******t
发帖数: 2551 | 18 它怎么知道你的drive habbit的？有过accident? |
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N*********o
发帖数: 1167 | 19 tianjin dialetical habbit,
it means: after I got things done, does not mean: when I was doing things
你不是正在办事吗？出来干嘛？至少等做完了再出来看看。 |
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N*********o
发帖数: 1167 | 20 and any tianjin ren who does not know this habbit must be able to speak
standard chinese before 18 yo
so don't you 挑战 my ability to speak tianjin hua, i speak perfect, 100%,
1950' tianjin hua. |
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j****e
发帖数: 58 | 21 Also it was so hard for me to find a lawyer.
I consulted with Chinese lawyer firstly, but a lot of them was specialized
in immigration law or others. It is so hard to find a Chinese lawyer to deal
with this kind of issue.
Eventually I have to go to find non-chinese lawyer. It took me a long time
to find one, who said he can do it. I never had any experience in hiring
lawyer before. He is kind of nice but very very slow and have the habbit of
procrastination, which I believe he is very busy in ot... 阅读全帖 |
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M******u
发帖数: 115 | 22 I was a bachelor with a lot of bad habbits who did know much about quality
living before I met/got married to my wife. My wife has given me a nice/warm
home for the past 8y. She makes our home sweet/warm/neat/nice. She treats
my friends/family very well. She is pretty/sweet/warm/nice. She has a full
time job and still manage to get her MS. She is smart/charming.
Due to my stupidlity/careless/negligence, she is moving out, she wants to be
alone for now. For the past 10days, I was extermely mad at |
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I********e
发帖数: 6130 | 23 So naive. You can't say you truly love someone without knowing a lot about
that person and liking a lot of what you see. If you don't like many of his
habbits/hobbies/styles of doing things and don't enjoy love life with him,
why would you love him in the first place? |
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S******t
发帖数: 392 | 24 zan! I hope every one of us can think like you. If they don't want to tip,
they don't dine out.
I don't think Lz and her husband should go to restaurant with such tipping
habbit. Even if they made 2 MM, they still lived in a low life.
Real life experiecne: went to a restaurant,saw the manager talking to a
chinese couple (i knew the guy who is a pathologist) sitting couple table
down the aisle. The owner told them: we don't need your business, please don
't come back. Asked waiter what happened, ... 阅读全帖 |
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r*********e
发帖数: 12 | 25 Me:
Will work near Dupont Circle.
Female graduate student and young professional. Clean, quiet, good living
habbits, don't smoke, alcohol-free,reliable and easy going.
Need:
Look for a house room rent or an independent bedroom. Need furnitures, internet
provided, share kitchen and bathroom. The room shouldn't be one hour
further than Dupont Circle one way.
Price range:
300~400+ based on distance and conditions,negotiable (can not afford too much for rent, the cheaper the better).
Expected moving |
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r*********e
发帖数: 12 | 26 Me:
Will work near Dupont Circle.
Female graduate student and young professional. Clean, quiet, good living
habbits, don't smoke, alcohol-free,reliable and easy going.
Need:
Look for a house room rent or an independent bedroom. Need furnitures,
internet
provided, share kitchen and bathroom. The room shouldn't be one hour
further than Dupont Circle one way.
Price range:
350~400+ based on distance and conditions,negotiable. (can't afford a lot
for rent, the
cheaper the better.)
Expected moving in |
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r*********e
发帖数: 12 | 27 Me:
Will work near Dupont Circle.
Female graduate student and young professional. Clean, quiet, good living
habbits, don't smoke, alcohol-free,reliable and easy going.
Need:
Look for a house room rent or an independent bedroom or roommatehood. Need
simple furnitures, internet provided, share kitchen and bathroom. The room
shouldn't be one hour
further than Dupont Circle one way. I don't have a car, so convenient
transportation is a critical factor.
Price range:
350~400+ based on distance and con |
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j*p
发帖数: 411 | 28 Female graduate student and young professional. Clean, quiet, good living
habbits, don't smoke, alcohol-free,reliable and easy going.
Look for a house room rent or an independent bedroom or roommatehood. Need
simple furnitures, internet provided, share kitchen and bathroom. I don't
have a car, so convenient transportation is a critical factor.
Price range:
negotiable.
Please contact me as soon as possible.
email: j********[email protected]
cell:812-606-6855 |
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y******4
发帖数: 26 | 29 Very nice and bigger room in Grove Street, 5mins to path and very close to
Shoprite, BJ and C-Town.
Single bath room shared kitchen with another two professional girls. No bad
habbits.
If you interested please call Gao ayi 917-517-8181 |
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p******r
发帖数: 2999 | 30 m!
(?:(http|https|ftp)://) # protocol
(?:\w+\.)? # optional subdomain
(
(?:\w{2,})
(?:\.[a-z]{3,4}) # com,org,edu etc
(?:\.[a-z]{2})? # optional country code
) # domain name, catch this part only
!xi
enabling /x to comment inline is a good habbit |
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T*********s
发帖数: 2987 | 31 Agere with LZ.
The non-Chinese people I interviewed on average do not show this habbit as
much. |
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i******s
发帖数: 301 | 32 忍不住替habbit说一句，如果枚举所有点，并且每次内循环前用新的hashmap的话，可
以只存斜率，因为此时之前一点已经固定(外层循环确定起始点)，所以可以用斜率做
key。但是如果hashmap不是每次内循环前创建，而是在双重循序前创建，那么截距是一
定要的，光slope不够。还有这道题用slope有精度问题，
消除方法最简单就是换个直线表示方式，用Ax+By+C = 0。其中A, B和C都是整数，每两
个点构成的直线都这样表示，注意用gcd法保证A,B和C没有公约数，并且保证符号相
同(可以假设A永远是正)。而且这道题最大的trick是如何处理重复的点，一般没做过的
第一次做不一定想得到好办法。总体看之前的讨论无语了，跳出来说几句。 |
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i******s
发帖数: 301 | 33 忍不住替habbit说一句，如果枚举所有点，并且每次内循环前用新的hashmap的话，可
以只存斜率，因为此时之前一点已经固定(外层循环确定起始点)，所以可以用斜率做
key。但是如果hashmap不是每次内循环前创建，而是在双重循序前创建，那么截距是一
定要的，光slope不够。还有这道题用slope有精度问题，
消除方法最简单就是换个直线表示方式，用Ax+By+C = 0。其中A, B和C都是整数，每两
个点构成的直线都这样表示，注意用gcd法保证A,B和C没有公约数，并且保证符号相
同(可以假设A永远是正)。而且这道题最大的trick是如何处理重复的点，一般没做过的
第一次做不一定想得到好办法。总体看之前的讨论无语了，跳出来说几句。 |
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l****e
发帖数: 476 | 34 in tony's analysis, you factored in the history in the logic basis
of american americans(let's just use that term :), that's for some
ground, however you failed to factor in the the spending habbits
of 1st generation asian americans
we usually have a saving account, we usually have financial sense,
we usually won't spend until we are confident and comfortable with debt,
and many of us will pay extra to cover more principal for either
car or mortgage loan. that's our education/family made us thin |
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f******I
发帖数: 769 | 35
in an elderly with bowel habbit changes of course you'd worry about colon
cancer, but then again at her age even if she had cancer not sure what you
want to do about it,
agree that can start non-invasive work-up with x-ray or CT, but at 90 years
old, i think doing less is really doing more, |
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n******n
发帖数: 37 | 36 I am around 40 now ,for endoscopy , I am hesitate to go ahead cause
I don't have pain in stomach area , I am continuing to try some
conservertive
treatments now : traditional medicine , better diet habbit , more exercise...
If nothing help , I will still go endoscopy even I heard there may some risk
for that exam. |
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g***r
发帖数: 285 | 37
you did not provide enough detailed information, insomnia is quite
complicated and require a diligent work up, you need to review patient's age
, medical history, medications, social habbits and sleep hygiene, before you
can call it psychogenic,
from very limited symptoms you mentioned,
1. though some people only require few hours of sleep, your father is day
time fatigue and somnolence, and appears it does affect his quality of life,
2. if he takes hours of nap during the day, it would interfe |
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u*******r
发帖数: 2855 | 38 Keep a healthy eating habbit and a healthy diet |
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h****t
发帖数: 184 | 39
谢谢信息
habbit，您好：
您转给 conanzz,现金(伪币):20,收取手续费:0.2
站务 |
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h****s
发帖数: 16779 | 40 不行
[在 habbit (red) 的大作中提到：] |
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h****s
发帖数: 16779 | 41 不行
[在 habbit (red) 的大作中提到：] |
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c********l
发帖数: 244 | 42 Yes!Yes! Yes!
My son was like yours for the first 4 months. Exactly the same. Then from 4.
5 months, my mom-in-law
left and my father-in-law took over. He thought that it is not a good habbit
to rock him into sleep every
time. So he left him cry into sleep. He did it during the day because no one
is at home. Otherwise, I and my
husband can not stand to let our baby cry for longer than 30 seconds.
Luckily, it only took my son about
10-15 min for the first time to fall in sleep by himself. Then it |
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V***a
发帖数: 11942 | 43 太好了，打算3个月让我妈白天在家试试，就怕她心不够狠。
4.
habbit
one |
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s*****y
发帖数: 4595 | 44 pat pat, no big deal.
一家人吃饭必须用公筷 is actually quite a good habbit, :)
but it seems you do need to buy more 锅子.;p
的： |
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s****i
发帖数: 498 | 45 更新一下。
昨晚11：30pm 哭了30分钟，自己入睡。直到3：00am开始哼哼叽叽，这是一般他的吃奶
时间，所以抱起来喝奶，接着入睡（进步了，以前喝完奶还要Pacifier的）。一直睡到
早上6点，接着断断续续的哭，接近7点抱起喂早餐。虽然只是第一天，连睡了3个小时
是这几天当中睡的最长的了。
感觉每隔一段时间去看宝宝，宝宝哭的反而厉害，想起PED说的，不要进房间，只要时
不时偷偷观察下宝宝没事就好。
现在早上9点，到NAP时间了，放Crib离开。宝宝开哭，这次没有进房间，哭了15分钟，
自己睡了。呵呵，俺在偷偷的乐。以前是要衔着Pacifier才睡15，20来分钟来着。这次
看似能长些。
另外，昨天收到刚买的 Contend Little Baby 这本书，翻了下关于Pacifier的这一章
，说衔着奶嘴入睡是 The Worst Sleep Habbit 啊！ 吓的庆幸俺做的这个决定是对的
。不管Sleep Training的结果怎样，奶嘴这玩意看来怎么都该戒了。 |
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h**t
发帖数: 1678 | 46 save a penny fro nothing but for her own feeling.....habbit... |
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N******u
发帖数: 11939 | 47 Blush.关于sleep training，建议你看看healthy sleep habbits, happy child.里面
还特别提到关于cosleep的娃怎么过渡，简单讲就是晚上觉给放倒后挪crib，早上觉挪
回大床亲子一下，慢慢掐掉大床的觉。另外，娃也要学会self soothing什么的。我觉
得不一定要采用cry it out，或者稍微用点就成了。我怀疑你娃可能睡眠不足，平时兴
奋时间过长，到点儿闹觉--这是很多宝宝的通病，大人可能忽视了他们快睡觉的那些征
兆，以为是一个玩法玩烦了，要粘人而已。
另外，自你娃出生后，是不是一直是你和你父母带娃，你lg没插过什么手？感觉他在痴
人说梦般地点评你家娃的表现。这么小的娃，还要她尽量自己玩，自己什么什么，那要
大人干嘛？ |
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K***i
发帖数: 2250 | 48 我觉得男的跟男的,女的跟女的.
我们的医生很funny,有趣,负责任,我觉得他的personality很不错,所以我就让宝贝跟着
他.
我们这里的儿医Group,喜欢把医生的habbit写进去,我觉得这种氛围很不错.
医生们都是轻言细语的.每次看完之后都觉得心情很愉快 |
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m*********6
发帖数: 482 | 49 刚下课回来，赶紧去翻笔记，就写了两条，一是没有眼神交流，二是rigid habbits（
不记得什么例子了），宝宝很正常啊 |
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c*******u
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kaixinbb (kaixinbb) 于 (Wed Jan 11 15:46:26 2012, 美东) 提到:
恩， 你还没ready. 你应该40岁后再要孩子， 生不出来问题也不大，因为你的生活已
经很充实了。
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HoH (HoH) 于 (Wed Jan 11 15:47:56 2012, 美东) 提到:
也有过类似想法，不过自己决定的事情就要自己承担。生下来就好了，看着孩子觉得其
他什么都不再重要。现在反正也不能退货，干脆放宽心吧。
我们以为拥有昨天和明天，我们以为世界上有假如和意外，其实我们拥有的只是当下，
而事情的发生只有一种可能，那就是你所经历的那一种。如果有什么错了，那不是现实
错了，而是我们的想象错了。
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leeking (life is drama) 于 (Wed Jan 11 15:48:11 2012, ... 阅读全帖 |
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