h*********r
发帖数: 7786 | 1 【 以下文字转载自 LosAngeles 讨论区 】
发信人: airdragon77 (仍然自由自我永远高唱我歌), 信区: LosAngeles
标 题: 为湖南农村的留守儿童捐图书
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Feb 5 14:36:54 2013, 美东)
http://tinyurl.com/abe7yxx
捐款方法：点上面的链接，然后点Donate，就可以用信用卡捐款了。捐完款后会收到免
税凭据，而且有些公司可以凭收据再以一定比例MATCH你的捐款；所以请大家去自己的
公司打听一下，如果可能的话，资本主义的墙角不挖白不挖啊！
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In China's rural areas, there are many so-called "Left-behind kids". The
kids' parents have to go to cities, which could be hundreds or thousands of
miles away, to earn a livi... 阅读全帖 |
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w****k
发帖数: 6244 | 2 "That's The Way It Is"
I can read your mind and I know your story
I see what you're going through
It's an uphill climb, and I'm feeling sorry
But I know it will come to you
Don't surrender 'cause you can win
In this thing called love
When you want it the most there's no easy way out
When you're ready to go and your heart's left in doubt
Don't give up on your faith
Love comes to those who believe it
And that's the way it is
When you question me for a simple answer
I don't know what to say, no
But... 阅读全帖 |
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C*****1
发帖数: 83 | 3 Same here. You are not alone.
All I do are working, studying, exercising,sleeping and studying again. It
drives me crazy sometimes, but what can I do, I want to finish it so I can
put my mind in peace about the CPA thing.
I just finish my undergraduate study and now again.
It is really very stressful. Lucky that I don't have kids. I feel for you.
Can't go out with friend, have to study at home all the time. My friends
don't even call me for any event anymore because I always say "I'm sorry, I
c... 阅读全帖 |
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C*k
发帖数: 10 | 4 我记着前一阵子在 science上好像也说这个来着
loneliness |
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w***t
发帖数: 303 | 5 lol, why don't you ask your friend again about all those emails like "oh, i
am getting into all these great programs but i cannot make my freaking mind"
stuff? if he still thinks that's a brilliant move i would be shocked to
death
i know a guy who have 1st author neuron paper along with a bunch of other
papers and get into all 9-10 programs he applied to but he just simply chose
to work with some AP guy in a descent (but not top) school because he
enjoyed "doing my little experiment"
grow up, ma... 阅读全帖 |
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R******f
发帖数: 32 | 6 Reminded me of the memory I want to erase. I came to the US in the 80s. I
was like the little match girl on the first Christmas Eve. The whole campus
was deserted. I was driving around aimlessly, peeping at the Christmas
trees inside the windows of some mansions. Talk about loneliness. At $2 a
minute, international calls were prohibitively expensive. After playing the
peeping Tom, I wanted to go to a peep show. Nothing was open. To be
continued.
shock
techboom |
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w*******7
发帖数: 412 | 7 just wanna dampen the feeling of loneliness and boringness...at least most ppl here are interesting |
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F*******I
发帖数: 200 | 8 来自主题: MedicalCareer版 - 血液检测 Bleeding Love
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vzo-EL_62fQ
Bleeding Love
Leona Lewis
Closed off from love, I didn't need the pain
Once or twice was enough, but it was all in vain
Time starts to pass, before you know it, you're frozen
But something happened, for the very first time with you
My heart melts into the ground, found something true
And everyone's looking round, thinking I'm going crazy1
But I don't care what they say
I'm in love with you
They try to pull me away, but they don't know the... 阅读全帖 |
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c**m
发帖数: 1632 | 9 Yup. That's right. You know, we should study the Nobel prize's migration to
older ages as an index of the field of maturity. Simply put, since t'Hooft
got his prize for what he did 30 yrs ago, that means this field is extremely
old; but Yang got his money in 30+, that means that field was extremely
young.
In this way, we could have a better guidance of where to invest our brain
cells and youth and loneliness. hehe. |
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t****e
发帖数: 527 | 10 First of all, even when you are aware of your problems, you may not realize
your perceptions about your problems are not reasonable or what psycholgists
will call as " distorted, irrational" thoughts. problems do not become
problems until you think they are problems. Most people will encounter
life stressors like joblessness, loneliness, familiy dysfunctioning. If they
can handle them or do not regard as problems, stressors will not lead to
depression.
Second of all, psychologists have the o |
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t*******g
发帖数: 1301 | 11 最聪明的人
往往都
具备loneliness的特质
面讲 |
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a*********7
发帖数: 30080 | 12 【 以下文字转载自 LosAngeles 讨论区 】
发信人: airdragon77 (仍然自由自我永远高唱我歌), 信区: LosAngeles
标 题: 为湖南农村的留守儿童捐图书
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Feb 5 14:36:54 2013, 美东)
http://tinyurl.com/abe7yxx
捐款方法：点上面的链接，然后点Donate，就可以用信用卡捐款了。捐完款后会收到免
税凭据，而且有些公司可以凭收据再以一定比例MATCH你的捐款；所以请大家去自己的
公司打听一下，如果可能的话，资本主义的墙角不挖白不挖啊！
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In China's rural areas, there are many so-called "Left-behind kids". The
kids' parents have to go to cities, which could be hundreds or thousands of
miles away, to earn a livi... 阅读全帖 |
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O*****l
发帖数: 97 | 13 如果你是mm，正为长期形单影只而苦恼，或者厌倦了单一的固定伴侣，
不妨给你的人生一次wild的机会。没有牵挂，不用负责，只需追求纯粹
的快乐。
Your loneliness has been hurting,
Here comes medication.
Prescription is just in your hand,
It reads "FOLLOW YOUR MIND".
我：
年龄：27
身高： 178cm
体重： 75kg
外形：至少不会令你讨厌
要求：
1。女性，已未婚皆可
2。20－35岁，太大了俺会放不开
3。体态匀称，略胖亦可。
有意者站内投条联系，非诚勿扰。 |
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l****t
发帖数: 36289 | 14 我老成年后到现在都是alone的
可是我老enjoy loneliness
可能我老就是个天生的loner
（我分析，我老就是当初跟别人住一个宿舍害的-非常非常希望有个地方自己呆着） |
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R*******e
发帖数: 25533 | 15 刚刚才知道这个 Sopor Aeternus。太好听了。有对她（他）（们）熟的么请多推荐一
些？
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vtZCeq2gdfQ
Now and then I'm scared, when I seem to forget how sounds become words or
even sentences ... No, I don't speak anymore and what could I say, since no-
one is there and there is nothing to say ...
So, I prefer to lie in darkest silence alone ... listening to the lack of
light, or sound, or someone to talk to, for something to share ...- but
there is no hope and no-one is there.
No, no, no ...- not one livi... 阅读全帖 |
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R*******e
发帖数: 25533 | 16 没找见原唱，只看到Erik Truffaz的翻唱
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9ADWqoVYdI
I hate myself for lovin’ you and the weakness that it showed
You were just a painted face on a trip down Suicide Road
The stage was set, the lights went out all around the old hotel
I hate myself for lovin’ you and I’m glad the curtain fell
I hate that foolish game we played and the need that was expressed
And the mercy that you showed to me, who ever would have guessed?
I went out on Lower Broadway and I felt that place within
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s**a
发帖数: 433 | 17 ===========================================
Baby One More Time
Songwriters: Sandberg, Martin
Singer: Britney Spears
翻唱：Sega
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Oh baby, baby
Oh baby, baby
Oh baby, baby
How was I supposed to know
That something wasn't right here
Oh baby baby
I shouldn't have let you go
And now you're out of sight, yeah
Show me, how you want it to be
Tell me baby
'Cause I need to know now what we've got
[CHORUS:]
My loneliness is killing me
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w**t
发帖数: 1068 | 18 http://supersuxing.blog.sohu.com/86791315.html
2008-05-08 | Golden Silence
Night Walker
走夜路 走有风的夜路容易多想 晚上散步的时候感触颇多 如果不是急于上大号被迫加
快了脚步 本来可以很享受难得的夜路发信息给南半球的时候想了很久最后打出两个很
有意境的词组合在一起表达感受 beautifully lonely.. and who says loneliness
cannot be sth to be enjoyed, at least for one moment I thought it was better
to be with nobody around.. 夜路很静 脚步声细致到快能听得出心情白天在路上走
总是多注意怎么走 因为人多些 要注意任何方向的任何出现 夜晚走路却会多注意是什
么路 没了光亮少了路人少了四周的嘈杂却更专心眼前的脚下的每一步 边走边想 黑夜
是要比白天有那么些内涵.. 喜欢在黑夜中走路 会关注自己的每一步有时候小心翼翼却
也心平气顺 黑夜中的路 通向的目标显得更清晰些 |
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p*********y
发帖数: 1617 | 19 Further in Summer than the Birds
Pathetic from the Grass
A minor Nation celebrates
It's unobtrusive Mass.
No Ordinance be seen
So gradual the Grace
A pensive Custom it becomes
Enlarging Loneliness.
Antiquest felt at Noon
When August burning low
Arise this spectral Canticle
Repose to typify
Remit as yet no Grace
No Furrow on the Glow
Yet a Druidic Difference
Enhances Nature now
注: Emily's dog died. This poem was written early in 1866. |
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l******d
发帖数: 5255 | 20 来自主题: _FilmStudies版 - 观影记录 看了chloe
看了the september issue。这是个documentary，讲美国vogue editor-in-chief anna wintour为主角，其杂志creative director grace codington为二号角色的vogue 9月号杂志发行的全过程。满有意思的。感觉这杂志真正起作用的就是这俩人，并且工作充满了isolation/pressure/loneliness。 |
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s***s
发帖数: 7178 | 21 来自主题: _FilmStudies版 - 观影记录 chloe演员阵容挺强，细节也挺用心的。剧情是真没啥意思。看开头知道结尾，跟港剧
一个水准。
关键是跟这种中年危机主题没共鸣。偏偏老美还特喜欢这桥段，风韵犹存的中年妇女
would do anything, I mean, ANYTHING！来拯救婚姻。忒拿自己当盘菜了。
俩女主裸体可看。
anna wintour为主角，其杂志creative director grace codington为二号角色的vogue
9月号杂志发行的全过程。满有意思的。感觉这杂志真正起作用的就是这俩人，并且工
作充满了isolation/pressure/loneliness。 |
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l******d
发帖数: 5255 | 22 来自主题: _FilmStudies版 - 观影记录 看了chloe
看了the september issue。这是个documentary，讲美国vogue editor-in-chief anna wintour为主角，其杂志creative director grace codington为二号角色的vogue 9月号杂志发行的全过程。满有意思的。感觉这杂志真正起作用的就是这俩人，并且工作充满了isolation/pressure/loneliness。 |
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s***s
发帖数: 7178 | 23 来自主题: _FilmStudies版 - 观影记录 chloe演员阵容挺强，细节也挺用心的。剧情是真没啥意思。看开头知道结尾，跟港剧
一个水准。
关键是跟这种中年危机主题没共鸣。偏偏老美还特喜欢这桥段，风韵犹存的中年妇女
would do anything, I mean, ANYTHING！来拯救婚姻。忒拿自己当盘菜了。
俩女主裸体可看。
anna wintour为主角，其杂志creative director grace codington为二号角色的vogue
9月号杂志发行的全过程。满有意思的。感觉这杂志真正起作用的就是这俩人，并且工
作充满了isolation/pressure/loneliness。 |
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s****n
发帖数: 4902 | 24 Billie Holiday唱的调调是Jazz啊，似乎少了点忧伤，多了点悠长。听了这么美的歌居
然自杀，就是个urban legend的YY吧，甚或太傻，听了生活更有亮色才对呀，死了岂不
是没机会再听了。
这歌配的很多歌词还是很中的， 比如片子里女主角德文唱本的英译：
Gloomy Sunday, your evening is no longer far away.
I share my loneliness with dark shadows.
When I close my eyes, I see them a hundred times.
I can’t sleep, and they will never wake again.
I see shapes depicted in the cigarette smoke.
Don’t leave me here, tell the angels I’m coming too.
Lonely Sundays, I have spent too many of them.
Today I make my way into the l |
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l******d
发帖数: 5255 | 25 美国星巴克好似也是美国小子的集散地啊。都是谈人生谈理想谈文艺谈感触地。还有免
费上网。免费，人民是这马地喜欢。
孤独感Loneliness是区分petite bourgeoisie的重要标志。 |
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l******d
发帖数: 5255 | 26 美国星巴克好似也是美国小子的集散地啊。都是谈人生谈理想谈文艺谈感触地。还有免
费上网。免费，人民是这马地喜欢。
孤独感Loneliness是区分petite bourgeoisie的重要标志。 |
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a******e
发帖数: 6689 | 27 【 以下文字转载自 LeisureTime 讨论区 】
发信人: maonvlang (猫女郎), 信区: LeisureTime
标 题: Re: Life of Pi - 一个人的罗生门 (update 影评)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Jan 4 12:03:07 2013, 美东)
电影结构很棒，是一个连环套，也符合了Pi这个名字，让大家绕进去出不来，再绕，再
想，于是还没绕出来。
先说说内涵层面。
人分为三个自己：ID,ego, superego。ID是人的基本生存需要，吃饱穿暖，性，安全感
，和动物一样，没有任何区别。superego是心中的上帝，给我们自己道德评判，什么是
可以的，什么是不可以的，superego有些是conscious的，有些是unconscious的。人的
一生，都在ego和superego之间摇摆挣扎，形成了一个ID，就是人在社会中的形态。
老虎是Pi的ID，就是他自己。那个坐在老虎旁边的Pi是他的superego，两个自我一直在
海上制衡。
所以，当第二个故事上来的时候，你会用第一个故事再去理解一遍：他当时是怎么经历
了挣扎，怎么... 阅读全帖 |
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l******e
发帖数: 358 | 28 发信人: langdale (tintin), 信区: Carolinas
标 题: Re: 公民凯恩
发信站: The unknown SPACE (Sun Mar 30 16:24:33 2003), 转信
我都怀疑，是不是好多领袖都有和公民凯恩共同的想法和loneliness.
like 毛泽东。。
一方面他们非常有号召力，a politician,口号都讲如何为大众谋福利，
他们也觉得他们很辛苦的fighting for it, 不过，在周围的人的感觉是
He said he promise to love them, but actually he loves his terms on
love.
不过有个很大的差别如果拿他和毛泽东比，就是他实际上没有完成任何一件他
自己承诺的事。而毛是建立了新中国的。在这个意义上，毛泽东是做了他的
能力所及的事，而kane 只不过是个self egonism 大到有统治欲的空想家而已。 |
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a*****e
发帖数: 1700 | 29
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I'd say, it was nobody but their own fault. But instead of digging
at the origin of such loneliness, the director did nothing about
it besides showing off all she knew about the subtlety, big deal!!
换句话说，就是吃饱了撑的。 |
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a*****e
发帖数: 1700 | 30 Tsai himself commented that his films are not about solutions to
loneliness, so there is really no point if you are looking for
them!
Looking back at all his films, all characters were as stuck
in the ending as in the beginning. They were seeking ways to
let it out, but things wouldn't just change either way they
wanted. |
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i**e
发帖数: 19242 | 31 How to Raise an Unhappy Child
January 12, 2011 | The Main Dish | 76 Comments
Why do so many people still believe that achievement leads to happiness?
The media is abuzz about Amy Chua’s book, Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother (
see this excerpt from the Wall Street Journal). Chua argues that “Chinese
” mothers “are superior” because they demand absolute perfection—and won
’t refrain from berating, threatening, and even starving their kids until
they’re satisfied.
Chua acknowledges that her argum... 阅读全帖 |
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l*******e
发帖数: 3566 | 32 Chapter 19 how you get to Carnegie hall-1
Sophia开始跟耶鲁的牛老师wei-yi yang学习 -- 我瞅着这个名字是中国人，google了
一下，原来是从台湾来的。我台湾师姐的老公，人称钢琴小神童，也在卡内基演出过。
那个时候应该多跟他打听打听八卦就好了，扼腕！
杨老师从来没有这么小的学生，sophia才刚14岁。他的学生都是耶鲁的研究生，非常优
秀的本科生。不过他听过sophia演出，可见这个老师非常喜欢sophia。他只有一个要求
，告诉老师这个要求是小菜一碟。她又称赞大女儿，是靠得住的（能让虎妈靠得住，这
得是个多自推的娃！！），she can take anything: exclusion, excoriation,
humiliation, loneliness – 看得我都为这个娃心疼。不过人家不需要我心疼，人家
是虎娃啊。
杨老师的要求果然非常高，连虎妈以前也闻所未闻。杨老师也很严格，跟sophia说：
don’t waist my time with wrong notes。-- 哗，和虎妈倒是可以摆对。
杨老师让s... 阅读全帖 |
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j**4
发帖数: 10425 | 33 u can touch the loneliness |
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s*****r
发帖数: 790 | 34 考虑中：pay the airlines or pay myself for the loneliness. |
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r****r
发帖数: 891 | 35 昨天第二次therapy. 这回仔细观察了下诊所的环境.两名接待员都是good looking
good manner的男生. DR. C和DR.S是附近声名显赫的Gay Couple,一个做心理咨询,一个
做牙医.
我说我累得很, 什么也不想说.DR.C.在一块白板上开始讲解他如何治疗病人. talk
talk and talk. When we get to a sensitive point that you feel hurt, we will
stop and talk about something else.
然后他列举了一堆"sensitive point", 说到abandonness,loneliness的时候,我觉得想
哭.碰到sensitive point了? 或者大多数抑郁的人都会觉得being abandoned and
lonely? 我还有guilt...还是说不出话来.
Take medicine...you will feel better and we will talk next week.
从诊所出来碰到tropical storm,雨好大风好 |
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F*****n
发帖数: 140 | 36 终于迈出了这一步。
学校的心理咨询诊所，一下子就约上了。今天进行了第一个session。
主要是问了我一些问题，讨论导致现在这种状态的主要原因，例如loneliness，
too hard on myself之类的。心理咨询师很专业，使我感觉到她对我的理解与支持。
最后说好下周定些goals，还给我提供一些breathing，meditation，还有防止失眠
的策略/handouts.
回来后感觉没有多少太大的改善，不过毕竟只是第一个session.
与这里的人共勉。 |
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j*n
发帖数: 277 | 37 大哥你都严重成这样了，去看看吧，问问他/她如何cope with loneliness. |
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C********n
发帖数: 1744 | 38 好听就行，我也不懂，不过有英文翻译：
The Habit
You, for what you give me, that extra emotion,
in your every word...
You, probably, you have been till now too long alone
till you're convinced, like me you can stay alone
Because loneliness which never smiles becomes a habit
and not a choice you made
But now you're here the wind will change
it'll seem a whole lot easier the weather that comes our way
Life can surprise you in every little way
and where you don't imagine you can meet happiness
And I'm here with you An |
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s***h
发帖数: 372 | 39 这一章我们要讨论的是四世纪后基督教最主要的记号—沙漠教父。也许今日我们最何
共鸣的记号，就是沙漠的记号。在繁华的城市中不用住多久，就能体会人群中那种孤单。
沙漠可以用很多种形态表达，但城市中的沙漠可能是最突出的一种。英国诗人艾略特（T
S Elliot）在一九二四年写了一首长诗〈在荒芜之地〉（In the WasteLand），他说沙
漠不仅在南方有（他在此捐钓是撒哈拉沙漠），沙漠在地铁也有，甚至就在你身旁。这使
我们想到在交通最繁忙的时候，人们匆匆忙忙，无暇打招呼，我们事实上可以说就住在隔
阂的沙漠中。
沙漠中的「孤单」
每个人都经历过不同的沙漠，比如说孤单的沙漠。孤单在我们的生命中以许多不同的
形式出现。所谓本质的孤单（Ontological Lone-liness）就是「我不是你」。个人的特
性，成为我们彼此间疏离的原因；很多人发现，要突破你与我之间的距离非常困难。
另外一种孤单是专业上的孤单（Professional Loneliness）。有一个故事提到数年
前，有四位世界知名的数学家到加拿大的温哥华开会，他们四位原是世界上唯一能完全明
白对方的人，但事实上却非如此。我们在个 |
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发帖数: 372 | 40 Teach me the meaning of joy,
dear God---
strong,
deep,
genuine
and pure joy.
Don't let me succumb
to feelings of sadness,
loneliness and depression.
Teach me to turn to You
with my every problem,
frustration,
anxiety and pain.
Accept my broken heart.
Heal me,
and shelter me
in a haven of joy." |
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发帖数: 3872 | 41 Super-Toys Last All Summer Long
By Brian Aldiss
http://digilander.iol.it/stanleykubrick/ai/ai.htm
The inspiration behind Kubrick's ongoing AI project, a tale
of humanity and of the aching loneliness in an overpopulated
future.
Though Brian Aldiss bristles at being pigeonholed as a
sci-fi writer, the British author has won every major
science fiction award. He has also sparked director Stanley
Kubrick's imagination with the short story "Super-Toys Last
All Summer Long." First publ |
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发帖数: 3872 | 42 He distrusted her affection; and what loneliness is more lonely than
distrust?
-- George Eliot, "Middlemarch" |
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发帖数: 154 | 43 Somehow, believe it or not, loneliness is the fate of most intellectuals in
the modern society.
That
kind
have.
yourself
the
wash |
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