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发帖数: 2883 | 1 Talking to Molly McNearney, the Co-Head Writer of Jimmy Kimmel Live
http://splitsider.com/2011/11/talking-to-molly-mcnearney-the-co
One of the most hot button issues in comedy right now is the lack of women
writing for late night. Molly McNearney is the only woman who currently
writes for Jimmy Kimmel Live, but she is also the co-head writer. Molly
chatted with me about how she got her start in comedy, her favorite bits
that she’s contributed to the show and what it’s like being a woman behind
t... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 723 | 2 其实是苏菲玛索演的《心火》(Firelight) 里的角色
I'm not a servant. I'm a prisoner. So will you be when you grow up. The day
you come of age, the gates will close around you because you are a woman! If
you marry, everything you own will become the property of your husband. If
you don't marry, every profession will be closed to you but one, and that
one is a life of loneliness and humiliation. They lock you up, Louisa! But
there's one door they can't lock. They can't imprison your mind. That's why
I want you to lea... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 2578 | 3 Cold War Ghosts Haunt East Europe in Moves for Crimea
By Andrea Dudik, Konrad Krasuski and Leon Mangasarian - Mar 3, 2014
Alzbeta Ehrnhofer was a 13-year-old Slovak schoolgirl when the Soviet Army
poured into Czechoslovakia to “restore order” in 1968.
The unfolding crisis in Crimea took her back to the day almost 46 years ago
when tanks rumbled past her house in the southern Slovak town of Filakovo as
neighbors hid from the Russian-led invaders.
“It’s just like it was here in 1968,” she said tod... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 12955 | 4
家。
The failure of this experiment is that they took these kids out of Xinjiang,
but instead of mingle them into ordinary Han population, these kids are
still in their own separated groups. Not a lot in their life style changed
except using mandarin Chinese instead of their own dialect. Only real
difference they experienced was isolation and the loneliness that came with
it. So it's very likely some of these kids will have anger issues, and
would take out that anger on the government that too... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 20965 | 5 第一：工资就是用来买东西的。如果东西很少，工资很多，物价就贵。。 所以恶意地
猜想：中国政府年年给退休人员涨那么多工资，然而人民币相对美元没有贬值说明了一
个问题：就是人民币大概真值那么多钱。美国才是越来越虚胖。
第二：美国夫妻两个工作4口之家假设年入25万美元。扣除各项消费，大概总的省下来
的大概也就10万美元（含401K存入的，mortgage principle， 和存款）。而中国父母
辈工作不错的退休工资大概能达到2000美元每月。因为国内医疗基本不花钱，再加上房
子付清，所以大概两个老人一年能剩下2万美元。考虑的中国的人力成本，还有物价，
能做很多很多事情。而美国夫妇两个扣除401和mortgage， 基本也就3-4万美元。购买
力基本没有，也就几年换一辆车。。
所以，北京，上海，和中国其他发达地区的生活不错人士，其实很多，已经可以至少平
视北美wsn。北美高智商人士基本属于失去了10-20年。
为什么会这样？我认为根本原因还是北美工程师自己没有产出。虽然写了不少程序，设
计了不少东西，但是都是纸面上的，绝大多数都最后垃圾了。而国内就算一个小厂，一
个本科生设计管理个小东西，... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 7349 | 6 Eleanor’s increasingly busy life meant she had limited time.
So Hick makes only brief appearances in Ms Cook’s final volume, despite
living in the White House during much of the war. It is difficult to
understand the full scope of the relationship; Hick burned some of the
letters from the most intense period of their involvement, and as Ms Cook
likes to say, “I do not know what two people do when they are alone
together.”
What is clear is that Eleanor Roosevelt, a woman who could never find the
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发帖数: 1 | 7 https://muxiv.com/sc/playlist/732414013
『老民谣』白衣飘飘的纯真年代
本单绝大部分为中国大陆2000之年前发表的早期民谣代表作 ———————————
— 曾经的摇滚充满了一代人的青春热血 老民谣诉说的则是一代人青春的柔软 一说起
民谣老歌，人们总会想起风靡一时的校园民谣，由此想到...
明石飛行社
歌单简介
本单绝大部分为中国大陆2000之年前发表的早期民谣代表作
————————————
曾经的摇滚充满了一代人的青春热血
老民谣诉说的则是一代人青春的柔软
一说起民谣老歌，人们总会想起风靡一时的校园民谣，由此想到《同桌的你》、《青春
》等脍炙人口的校园歌曲。其实校园民谣并不是一个音乐流派，校园民谣实际上算是一
个成功的营销案例，自《校园民谣1》横空出世，之后这类歌曲就被统称为“校园民谣
”。 上世纪90年代，摇滚乐在大陆如火如荼地兴起，受当时台湾乐坛和欧美乡村音乐
的影响，民谣也逐渐在大陆生根发芽。校园民谣主要发源地在当时的大学校园里，与当
时的摇滚乐批判社会和传统歌曲的歌颂社会不同，这一类歌曲写的唱的都是自己个人的
情感。最开始这类歌曲是“晚... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 6601 | 8 独处的功夫
今天咱们说说孤独。你肯定不喜欢孤独。孤独是一个主观的情绪，对人的精神和身体都
可能有严重伤害。但我今天最想说的不是这些，而是孤独对人思想的影响。
孤独的思想，常常是极端的思想。思想上的孤独，可能比精神上的孤独更危险。
1.孤单和孤独感
孤独正在成为热门话题。最近十几年以来有个非常明显的趋势，独居者越来越多。按美
国的数据，从2004年到2014年，独居的年轻成年人比例从52%提高到了64%。中国的数据
不准确，有的说中国有两千万青年独居有的说有5800万，但可以肯定是比例不小，而且
正在增加。我看人们一提到这个现象就忧心忡忡，这些独居者会不会很不快乐，以至于
变成社会的公害呢？
其实独居不是毛病。独居的人之所以增多，是因为现代社会的便利使得独居成为可能。
过去的生活需要两个人互相照顾，是你为我把饭烧我为你打扫 —— 现在有外卖有钟点
工一个人完全可以生活得很好，一杯红酒配电影，还不用被谁管。独居的人工作可能非
常忙碌，可能天南地北有很多朋友，独居不一定孤独。
甚至哪怕这个人干脆就不怎么跟人交往，也不一定就是孤独的。有一些精神世界特别丰
富、智力水平特别高的人，就是不爱跟人交... 阅读全帖 |
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C******y
发帖数: 3249 | 9 台湾象乌克兰打个稀巴烂，两千万台巴各奔东西逃命。
美国没有和中共正面战争的承诺和能力。大陆的发展，评估下来，中共象齐奥塞斯库一
样解体，习近平被哗变部队枪毙，新型毛式政党上台，可能性为大，对官僚买办资产阶
级再次残酷的清算。
中国资本家为什么全部外逃当了汉奸？为什么只有给本国人住甲醛房子，吃假药的能耐？
为什么没有日本在对马海峡全歼俄罗斯舰队，在一战中崛起时的雄心壮志，以军刀为崛
起护航，成为全球颠覆和发动战争的急先锋？
对比一下特务发的，在中国大陆流行的，对越南战争部分的删除
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j6SD3wrwfqw
Read the Full Transcript of Henry Kissinger's Eulogy for John McCain
Town & Country
Elizabeth Angell
Town & CountrySeptember 2, 2018
Photo credit: Mark Wilson - Getty ImagesView photos
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C******y
发帖数: 3249 | 10 里根号被扣留，一万名美军作为人质。
美国这次在新疆支持的东突卫教军，是美国直接在中国支持的第二支军队，第一支是西
藏的四水六岗卫教军。
我们俄国人直接在中国支持过两个军队，第一支是孙中山的黄埔军，第二支是现在的中
共军。
台湾象乌克兰打个稀巴烂，两千万台巴各奔东西逃命。
美国没有和中共正面战争的承诺和能力。大陆的发展，评估下来，中共象齐奥塞斯库一
样解体，习近平被哗变部队枪毙，新型毛式政党上台，可能性为大，对官僚买办资产阶
级再次残酷的清算。
中国资本家为什么全部外逃当了汉奸？为什么只有给本国人住甲醛房子，吃假药的能耐？
为什么没有日本在对马海峡全歼俄罗斯舰队，在一战中崛起时的雄心壮志，以军刀为崛
起护航，成为全球颠覆和发动战争的急先锋？
对比一下特务发的，在中国大陆流行的，对越南战争部分的删除
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j6SD3wrwfqw
Read the Full Transcript of Henry Kissinger's Eulogy for John McCain
Town & Country
Elizabeth Angell... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1 | 11 I recognize that you are an immature, self hating Lu who was taught to hate
Asian men because we are inferior by your mother. I am not blind, I can see
that every time I try to have a conversation with my friends you try to turn
it about you by changing the topics to some past activity or inside jokes
where I'm irrelevant, or every time when I try to attend an activity with
them you try to sway them to join you at something else. I have no idea what
makes you hate Asian men so much that you even... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1422 | 13 If you are going to AAIFF:
http://www.aaiff.org/2010/films
I would be interested in knowing how this Korean film is:
The First Kiss Shorts Program
Lovers
Dir. Do-yeon Kim
South Korea | 30min
Sat 7.17 | 6:15p | QDFIRS
Quad Cinema
A closeted, older businessman faces remorse and guilt after his young lover
mysteriously disappears. Can he find some solace with his lover’s
girlfriend or will jealousy only deepen their mutual loneliness?
By the way, for those who missed this at Frameline34:
"Just Frie |
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L******k
发帖数: 33825 | 14 【 以下文字转载自 NewYork 讨论区 】
发信人: LXJSmonk (紫色心情的 LXJS NYC_monk), 信区: NewYork
标 题: 10/11 National Coming Out Day (United States)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Oct 11 15:46:30 2010, 美东)
http://www3.kumc.edu/diversity/other/comeout.html
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National Coming Out Day is an international event which gives gay, lesbian a
nd bisexual people the opportunity to "come out" to others about their sexua
lity. It also provides a means of increasing the visibility of gay people. I
n the United States, the day is f... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 7254 | 15 http://www.fridae.asia/newsfeatures/2011/06/10/10935.if-only-ga
d-stop-feeling-guilty-for-being-different
Rev Dr Yap Kim Hao, a former Bishop of The Methodist Church in Singapore and
Malaysia who appears as himself in the recent Pink Dot promotional video, u
nderscores the importance of self-acceptance among LGBT people, and acceptin
g others in the community by embracing difference and celebrating diversity.
"If only gay people could stop feeling guilty for being different" is my tag
line in th... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 2113 | 16 聽說要關掉版面發包子了，版主們趕緊發給我～～～～
I 行行重行行
六月二十六日最高法院下發肯尼迪大法官就同性婚姻的判決，正式把美國列入全球第二
十一個在全國范
圍內同志婚姻合法的國家。消息傳來，我想到古詩十九首開篇的這一首。雖然這首詩的
涵義跟同志婚姻
的相去甚遠，但，來路走了很久，而未來依然并非坦途。美國已經正式成為同性婚姻合
法的國家，但對
于同志的平權運動，這并非是結束。
兩年前的同一天，肯尼迪大法官的就Windsor v US一案的判決詞將同性婚姻合法納入聯
邦范疇已經被
認為是同志平權劃時代的勝利，今年Obergefell v Hodges 的判決下達之前，無論保守
派陣營還是自
由派陣營，都不確定肯尼迪大法官是否還會成為關鍵的搖擺票。畢竟兩年前的溫莎案針
對的是聯邦法的
定義性條款，對于各州行駛自治權確定州婚姻法的權力未做評斷。高院的傳統是以謹慎
著稱，尤其當憲
法與州法發生沖突時，高院基于對各州自治權的尊重，多數案件都以保守派保住州權自
治而結案。
沒想到肯尼迪大法官的判決詞中對于同性婚姻權應得到憲法認可的態度比兩年前更為堅
定。被各大報
章，網站，朋友圈轉發的判決詞最后... 阅读全帖 |
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h*********r
发帖数: 7786 | 17 【 以下文字转载自 LosAngeles 讨论区 】
发信人: airdragon77 (仍然自由自我永远高唱我歌), 信区: LosAngeles
标 题: 为湖南农村的留守儿童捐图书
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Feb 5 14:36:54 2013, 美东)
http://tinyurl.com/abe7yxx
捐款方法：点上面的链接，然后点Donate，就可以用信用卡捐款了。捐完款后会收到免
税凭据，而且有些公司可以凭收据再以一定比例MATCH你的捐款；所以请大家去自己的
公司打听一下，如果可能的话，资本主义的墙角不挖白不挖啊！
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In China's rural areas, there are many so-called "Left-behind kids". The
kids' parents have to go to cities, which could be hundreds or thousands of
miles away, to earn a livi... 阅读全帖 |
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J*V
发帖数: 3150 | 18 Cold War Ghosts Haunt East Europe in Moves for Crimea
By Andrea Dudik, Konrad Krasuski and Leon Mangasarian - Mar 3, 2014
Alzbeta Ehrnhofer was a 13-year-old Slovak schoolgirl when the Soviet Army
poured into Czechoslovakia to “restore order” in 1968.
The unfolding crisis in Crimea took her back to the day almost 46 years ago
when tanks rumbled past her house in the southern Slovak town of Filakovo as
neighbors hid from the Russian-led invaders.
“It’s just like it was here in 1968,” she said tod... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 19 早熟到这种程度？一对叙利亚儿童订婚，男童5岁，女童3岁，父母说“儿童自愿”
http://gulfnews.com/news/region/syria/five-year-old-khalid-pops-the-question-to-hala-three-1.699469
Dubai: Two Syrians, aged three and five-years-old, could be the youngest
couple in the world to get engaged of their own free will.
The parents of Hala, aged three and her fiancee Khalid, aged five, claim the
children have consented to the match. Their story was highlighted by the
local Syrian website Akes Alser, (meaning Against the Traffic) and has
become th... 阅读全帖 |
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h*********r
发帖数: 7786 | 20 【 以下文字转载自 LosAngeles 讨论区 】
发信人: airdragon77 (仍然自由自我永远高唱我歌), 信区: LosAngeles
标 题: 为湖南农村的留守儿童捐图书
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Feb 5 14:36:54 2013, 美东)
http://tinyurl.com/abe7yxx
捐款方法：点上面的链接，然后点Donate，就可以用信用卡捐款了。捐完款后会收到免
税凭据，而且有些公司可以凭收据再以一定比例MATCH你的捐款；所以请大家去自己的
公司打听一下，如果可能的话，资本主义的墙角不挖白不挖啊！
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In China's rural areas, there are many so-called "Left-behind kids". The
kids' parents have to go to cities, which could be hundreds or thousands of
miles away, to earn a livi... 阅读全帖 |
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m********8
发帖数: 7463 | 21 我曾经最痴迷的一个歌
现在鹦文和对时政的看法都更深入了。更加惊叹 Billy Joel的天才。
"Piano Man"
It's nine o'clock on a Saturday
The regular crowd shuffles in
There's an old man sitting next to me
Making love to his tonic and gin
He says, "Son can you play me a memory
I'm not really sure how it goes
But it's sad and it's sweet
And I knew it complete
When I wore a younger man's clothes"
Sing us a song you're the piano man
Sing us a song tonight
Well we're all in the mood for a melody
And you've got us feeling alright
Now John at the... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 22 In case you aren’t sick of all the talk of “diversity” and “tolerance”
and the race baiting going on in our oh so awesome progressive culture, I
have something for you that might just make you toss your cookies.
Apparently, a white English teacher who goes by the name of Dana Dusbiber,
has decided that she’s going to stop teaching about Shakespeare — you know
, the guy who wrote one of the most classic and wildly popular love stories
of all time, Romeo and Juliet? — because he’s white.
Feel free... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 23 左派杂志开始为娈童癖辩护了
http://www.salon.com/2016/05/17/im_not_a_monster_a_pedophile_on
“I’m not a monster”: A pedophile on attraction, love and a life of
loneliness
Todd Nickerson is an "out" pedophile who says he has never abused a child
Topics: original video, pedophile, Todd Nickerson, Virtual Pedophiles,
Virtuous Pedophiles
Todd Nickerson began to suspect he was attracted to young girls when he was
13-years-old. At 18 he regularly babysat a five-year-old girl and eventually
“fell in love” with her. B... 阅读全帖 |
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d****0
发帖数: 335 | 24 I don't know about women, but men have three goals in marriage.
Outside, a decent looking woman to show off.
At home, a compatible partner to avoid loneliness.
In bed, a strong sex drive lady to unload |
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j******l
发帖数: 10445 | 25 【 以下文字转载自 WaterWorld 讨论区 】
发信人: johninfl (johninfl), 信区: WaterWorld
标 题: 一个大学教授在他网页上关于PhD的文章
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Apr 5 13:25:44 2011, 美东)
除了最后的happy ending很多人并没有实现，前面的内容都同意。
Frustrations and joys of research
Research can be very rewarding and very frustrating. Most students describe
graduate school as a
roller-coaster with tremendous highs and tremendous lows.
Frustrations can come from not being able to solve a problem that you’re
working on, or from
having someone else beat you to the soluti... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 8 | 26 培根随笔全集――【英】培根 著 蒲隆 译 彩色插图本 中国书籍出版社
叔本华经典文存――李瑜青 主编 上海大学出版社
涉外礼仪 （少男少女礼仪幽默课堂）――詹德华 丛中啸编 接力出版社
Disney 100经典童话 （金卷 银卷）――童趣出版有限公司编 人民邮电出版社
杨柳风 雅典娜童书小经典――【英】肯尼斯 格雷厄姆 著 乔向东 译 广西师范大学出
版社
《苻文之子》之卷入风暴 （玄幻）――【韩】全民熙 著 吴雯 译 民族出版社
金刚经 国学经典丛书――中州古籍出版社
On living and dying――J.Krishnamurti
Freedom from the known――J.Krishnamurti
On love and loneliness――J.Krishnamurti
纪伯伦的诗 the collection of Gibran’s Poems――【黎巴嫩】卡里 纪伯伦 著 林
志豪 杜静斐
译 哈尔滨出版社
自我的真相 （钻石途经系列之三）――阿玛斯 著 胡因梦 译 深圳报业基团出版社
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B*****e
发帖数: 9375 | 27 看到前面的谈论, "把PhD的遮羞布扯下来", "满足虚荣心"而已,
"混完出去还得被本科生，硕士生面",
"不搞research，为什么要读PHD?"等等, 呵呵, 我说一个很牛B的.
千万别以为他是个足不出户的猥琐男. 他是Jerry Buss, 洛杉矶湖人的队主.
赢过10次总冠军, 白道的市长州长, 黑道的匪帮老大,
都在他面前装孙子祝贺, 连Magic Johnson都只是他手下的马仔.
他也直言他的最大爱好, 和广大年轻的WSN一样, 是玩女人, 而他是想做就做得到:
Hollywood是他的地盘, 阅女无数, 干完以后, 如果是精品,
还把她的资料整编入库作为战利品保存, 已经收集了几大本, 很大方地炫耀给记者看.
他这辈子上过的, 嘿嘿, 可能比我们说过话的都多.
而且他真的很放得开.
一个亲生宝贝女儿(众多子女中和他感情最好的), 已经提拔成湖人的副总裁,
上去Playboy拍裸照后，他做爸爸的还很自豪:"吾家有女初长成!"
然后她和大自己~20岁的教练Phil Jackson好上,
多年了男方也绝没有娶她的意思, 他却公开表示欣慰:
"我这女儿的性格, 就是该找... 阅读全帖 |
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d******u
发帖数: 397 | 28 "The PhD taught me how to handle loneliness, and that's extremely important." |
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f*****0
发帖数: 661 | 29 I like this comments...The marriage means sacrifice of one partner...Family
reunion is the priority of the family development. Lots things would happen
in future in the situation of long distance.
High payment and work achievements can't make up the the loneliness,depression,fear that you are facing while you are alone.However, the happiness and encouragement ,face to face,hand -in-hand, would be more valuable in the marriage.
Like me, couple years ago, i did the same thing and rejected the off... 阅读全帖 |
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d**e
发帖数: 6098 | 30 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
printf (helloworld) 于 (Tue May 8 22:20:25 2012, 美东) 提到:
下午接到G家猎头的电话，给offer了。听着猎头的祝贺，心里酸酸的。
自己骑驴找马，投A,G完全为了配合LD。可是LD前两天刚刚接到拒信，他在CA的
jobhunting已经全军覆没了。加上早就把他拒掉的M，我们在西雅图和硅谷团聚的美好
计划彻底泡汤。LD手头比较接近offer的职位都在中部，而我人在纽约。不管接受A，G
任何一个offer，或者继续现在的工作，我们之间的距离只能更遥远...
四年了，不想再两地了...如果一定有人要牺牲一下的话，那还是我来吧
回到家，打开邮箱，A，G家的offer静静地躺在那里。她们和网上传说的一样华丽。点
开，一页页的看过去，给自己几分钟的时间，傻乎乎地陶醉在那些数字里。然后呢，还
是删掉吧...祈祷几个月以后，这个幸运邮箱会把我带到LD那里
周一就要给A,G打电话了，还没想好说什么。陪LD一起找工作的这段时间里，一直看版
上的面经，受益匪浅。现在的... 阅读全帖 |
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d********t
发帖数: 9628 | 31 You know what's the worst things about a city? Loneliness and hopeless. That
's Stamford. Of course, Bridgeport is much worse.
seen |
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P*****s
发帖数: 2619 | 32 Just tell them,
Brother is not growing vegetable, is growing loneliness. |
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G***G
发帖数: 16778 | 33 Even if we are not alone, but sometimes we still feel lonely. This kind of
loneliness can even kill you.
Do you have the same feeling? You have your family with you. You keep
talking with your parents in QQ once a week, but you still feel lonely. You
feel desperate and helpless as well.
Why could this happen to US?
I tried to ignore them by focusing myself on planting and gardening this
year.
But it still sometimes came out just like a weird webpage sometimes popped
out of our computer windows. |
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t****a
发帖数: 144 | 34 Hi Fishingdays, I have the same feeling. I feel much better where
temperature is very low.
The issue is, the climate where i live is very dry. So humidity is not an
explanation.
I also feel better when mood is good. loneliness and bad mood make it even
worse. I am sure the symptom is significant, not just a "mental feeling." |
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D***e
发帖数: 435 | 35 only 6 weeks ahead of my parents departing date (we bought the return
tickets for them). I think it is recommended 45 days at least. We got really
lucky. It approved within one month.
Travel. I booked the travel tour for my parents and included the tickets and
tour itinerary in the package.
Also, I said in the letter that my husband and I live long distantly. My
parents stay greatly helps my loneliness, etc.... |
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p***w
发帖数: 1906 | 36 正常的4个月有个睡眠衰退期 ，我家宝宝前几天也开始晚上睡不好，然后查到下面这个
，我就认了，熬吧！
It's very normal for babies to start waking more around 4 months- so much
so that there's even a widely accepted term for it: the 4 month sleep
regression. It doesn't happen because you're allowing him to use the breast
as a pacifier or because you're been too lenient or because you forgot to
hop on one foot while singing the national anthem, or whatever other crazy
reason people have to explain why the sleep disruptions are your fault
instead of... 阅读全帖 |
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N*****a
发帖数: 499 | 37 i really recommend doing undergrad in China, especially given that she's
been admitted to tsinghua...
tsinghua undergrad programs are good, and most importantly she can gain so
much experience and friends during her best 4 years. she can also enjoy a
very nice time without worrying about cooking, loneliness and all that (i
know some undergrad do in the US).
of course if she intends to immigrate to the US eventually and have all her
friends/connections/life here, it's another story. |
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N*****a
发帖数: 499 | 38 i really recommend doing undergrad in China, especially given that she's
been admitted to tsinghua...
tsinghua undergrad programs are good, and most importantly she can gain so
much experience and friends during her best 4 years. she can also enjoy a
very nice time without worrying about cooking, loneliness and all that (i
know some undergrad do in the US).
of course if she intends to immigrate to the US eventually and have all her
friends/connections/life here, it's another story. |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 39 IMHO, this little girl has some problem with self-awareness and self esteem.
She does not truly understand herself. Therefore, she uses other's
preception of her as the real picture/assessment of her virtues/values. She
seems to be haunted by chronic feelings of loneliness, emptiness, and self-
loathing. To assure herself, she seeks a sense of worth and importance from
approval by peers.
There are many other ways to realize one's worth an importance to the class,
community, and the society. Thes... 阅读全帖 |
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k****r
发帖数: 851 | 40 agree
does anybody here feel the teacher has asperger's syndrom? coz he IS very
rude and has no empathy for his student
an average teacher would say: I don't know what they are talking about
either, sorry!
a good teacher would feel the boy's loneliness and would help him out in
many ways, such as encouraging him and showing him how to break the ice.
lz's son does not have adequate social skills, which could be taught at home
or some really good private schools. some kids with high EQ can pick it... 阅读全帖 |
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s***l
发帖数: 2236 | 42 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
qingqingfeng (qingqingfeng) 于 (Fri Jan 18 15:39:56 2013, 美东) 提到:
儿子11了，4岁半来美，现在初中一年，去年8月刚搬家到新的学区。在新学校总是出现
问题，以前小学不这样的。刚开始不会打开locker之类的事，就是手忙脚乱也过来了。
有时会为了小事，他就急。
最大的问题是说话不合时宜，经常说出让人意外话。一次，他说他的钢琴老师，你
smell like a Burger，我立刻打住他，可是已经说了，我很尴尬，后来老师就不在教
他弹琴了。我们已经发现他这个问题，总是在教他，可是，这好像是天生的，他改不了
。在新学校，一次，他见几个孩子在闲聊，他问在旁边的老师，他们在说什么，老师忙
，就说not your business,他就很生气，追上老师说，你为什么这么rude，老师当然不
会高兴，把他教育了一顿。另一次，他在课上举手想回答问题，第二个问题，又举手，
最后老师叫他了，结果他站起来问老师问什么才叫他，老师就发飚了，儿子就哭了。
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u*****a
发帖数: 6276 | 43 “No union is more profound than marriage, for it embodies the highest
ideals of love, fidelity, devotion, sacrifice, and family,” he wrote. “In
forming a marital union, two people become something greater than once they
were.”
“It would misunderstand these men and women to say they disrespect the idea
of marriage,” Justice Kennedy said of the couples challenging state bans on
same-sex marriage. “Their plea is that they do respect it, respect it so
deeply that they seek to find its fulfillment f... 阅读全帖 |
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s***n
发帖数: 1280 | 44 我也觉得可以理解。白人学生的自杀率都接近亚裔学生的两倍了。这些可怜的白人学生
已经无法再承受除了Eating disorders，Drug abuse，Sexual abuse/rape，Divorce
of parents，Trauma，Household financial problems，Being bullied，Social
rejection，Anger/guilt，Relationship breakup，Illness，Disability/
deformations，Domestic violence or abuse，
Loneliness，Feelings of being misunderstood，Insecurities，Extreme mood
swings，Loss of a loved one，Mental disorders之外的压力了。Academic failure
in school and grade retention绝对是压死蚂蚁的最后一根稻草。 |
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H******i
发帖数: 4704 | 45 是不是因为他实际上是一导游。
黄金错刀白玉装，夜穿窗扉出光芒。丈夫五十功未立，提刀独立顾八荒。京华结交尽奇
士，意气相期共生死。千年史册耻无名，一片丹心报天子。尔来从军天汉滨，南山晓雪
玉嶙峋。呜呼！楚虽三户能亡秦，岂有堂堂中国空无人！
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oxuwDd0RfTg
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1ris9mCAVDg
曾经真的以为人生就这样了
平静的心拒绝再有浪潮
斩了千次的情丝却断不了
百转千折它将我围绕
有人问我你究竟是那里好
这麽多年我还忘不了
春风再美也比不上你的笑
没见过你的人不会明了
是鬼迷了心窍也好
是前世的因缘也好
然而这一切已不再重要
如果你能够重回我怀抱
是命运的安排也好
是你存心的捉弄也好
然而这一切也不再重要
我愿意随你到天涯海角
虽然岁月总是匆匆的催人老
虽然情爱总是让人烦恼
虽然未来如何不能知道
现在说再见会不会太早
此地一为别，孤蓬万里征。
我怎么感觉不到你
曾经你就是我的空气
因为你的爱 我才呼吸
我怎么感觉不到你
你说过相爱的人有默契
所以你的沉默也变成了爱情
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c**s
发帖数: 3796 | 46 翻开安神主页下，差点被闪到。
=========================
黄金错刀白玉装，夜穿窗扉出光芒。丈夫五十功未立，提刀独立顾八荒。京华结交尽奇
士，意气相期共生死。千年史册耻无名，一片丹心报天子。尔来从军天汉滨，南山晓雪
玉嶙峋。呜呼！楚虽三户能亡秦，岂有堂堂中国空无人！
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oxuwDd0RfTg
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1ris9mCAVDg
曾经真的以为人生就这样了
平静的心拒绝再有浪潮
斩了千次的情丝却断不了
百转千折它将我围绕
有人问我你究竟是那里好
这麽多年我还忘不了
春风再美也比不上你的笑
没见过你的人不会明了
是鬼迷了心窍也好
是前世的因缘也好
然而这一切已不再重要
如果你能够重回我怀抱
是命运的安排也好
是你存心的捉弄也好
然而这一切也不再重要
我愿意随你到天涯海角
虽然岁月总是匆匆的催人老
虽然情爱总是让人烦恼
虽然未来如何不能知道
现在说再见会不会太早
此地一为别，孤蓬万里征。
我怎么感觉不到你
曾经你就是我的空气
因为你的爱 我才呼吸
我怎么感觉不到你... 阅读全帖 |
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c****e
发帖数: 90 | 47
Devote most of your time to research. get used to loneliness in vacation.
Travel. |
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s********r
发帖数: 1 | 48 我觉得在一个地方待久了,交流就主要不是communication skill,language
skill的问题,而是有没有共同话题的问题.我认识的许多美国人我可以跟他们说废话,却没
有真正的conversation.美国的popular topic如棒球,橄榄球我一点兴趣都没有.足球他们
又不懂.自称喜欢英语文学的美国人大概一定知道莎士比亚,狄更斯,可是不要指望他们知
道毛姆,连勃郎台姐妹都够呛.美国人狂喜欢印象派,可是没有几个分得清Manet和Monet.我
见过的几个欧洲南美人倒是可以和他们谈一点正经的话题.也许恰好我见到的都是比较没
文化的美国人和比较有文化的欧洲人?
那么你说的loneliness是为什么呢,小城市?周围没有可以聊天的人?中国人太少?
confirmation
hence
各
语
是
同
业
流
明年毕业,可能会认真考虑要不要去欧洲读博士后,为撕猛?看了这儿的一些文章,大
不能再简要地,概括地,抽象地跟我说说欧洲好不好,旅欧华人的生活愉快不愉快,有
题
国 |
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a****5
发帖数: 747 | 49 最近在读，已经快超过一半了。感觉很不错。
下面是Wiki的介绍：
The Paradox of Choice - Why More Is Less is a 2004 book by American
psychologist Barry Schwartz. In the book, Schwartz argues that eliminating
consumer choices can greatly reduce anxiety for shoppers.
Autonomy and Freedom of choice are critical to our well being, and choice is
critical to freedom and autonomy. Nonetheless, though modern Americans have
more choice than any group of people ever has before, and thus, presumably,
more freedom and autonomy, we don't s... 阅读全帖 |
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a*****g
发帖数: 19398 | 50 美国监狱里的围棋 2 （zz)
摘要：
一年后这个监狱已有了围棋俱乐部，每周有10-20人参加。
最好的棋力已经有6k水平。
THE TRAVELING BOARD: A FLOWER BLOOMS IN THE JAIL YARD
November 26, 2010
It has now been almost a year since I first visited the Federal Correctional
Institute in Englewood, CO, and I am pleased to report that they now have a
weekly go club with regular attendance of 10 to 20 inmates. My first
article on this program sparked a tremendous outpouring of support from the
go community: Slate and Shell donated over 20 books for the inmate... 阅读全帖 |
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