l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 1 Dalai Lama Tells Shocked Piers Morgan 'I Love President Bush'
By Noel Sheppard | April 24, 2012 | 19:39
The Dalai Lama said something Tuesday guaranteed to make liberal heads
explode.
Appearing on CNN's Piers Morgan Tonight, the Dalai Lama told his very
shocked host, "I love President Bush"
During an interview to be aired Wednesday evening, Morgan asked his honored
guest, “Which people that you’ve ever met have really impressed you?”
“I think Nelson Mandela,” responded the Dalai Lama. "Of course... 阅读全帖 |
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m*h
发帖数: 2750 | 2 有人居然拿love being American 说事。一个美国公民love being American有问题吗？
难道都要像你们，双重人格，吃里扒外?
你如果不是love being american 为什么在美国混着？
谁也没有逼着你来美国，现在全球化了，去一个你love的地方不是很好吗？
难道你来美国就是要灭亡美国的? 那你和寄生在宿主身上的病毒细菌有什么区别？
你要拧巴成什么样才不Love being american 但是还要拼了老命留在这片土地上？
我看这种人在中国也是汉奸的料。骂中国拿绿卡，然后不能融入而愤恨美国，不是吗？ |
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发帖数: 1685 | 3 http://carpoint.msn.com/Browse/win_2879.asp
America's Most Loved New Cars & Trucks
an automotive love affair
Volkswagen brings a touch of nostalgia to the entry-level market with
the New Beetle's unique styling.
The fifth-generation 3-Series was voted most APEALing entry-level luxury
car.
We've all heard that Americans love their vehicles. But what is it
about those vehicles that they really love? More importantly, which cars
and trucks do Americans love the most?
We found answers to these que |
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发帖数: 5207 | 4 其实我是到了美国，才听说unconditional love这个词的。因为各式各样的教育书籍都
把它奉为作人父母应该努力达到的境界，因为这些天版上出现的那么多悲惨童年的故事
，也因为自己和自己父母截然不同的育儿理念，我突然开始疑惑，这个unconditional
love是不是一个对大多数人来讲都可望不可及的目标？
拼命向孩子索取钱财的父母，养孩子看重物质回报的父母，就不用说了，肯定不能给孩
子unconditional love。因为一旦这种回报没有他们想象的那么丰厚，他们就觉得孩子
白养了，投资亏本了。
那么养孩子不求物质回报，只求精神满足的父母呢？一定能无条件的爱自己的孩子吗？
我小时候的同学朋友里面，几乎家里都有哥哥姐姐。一家好几个孩子的情况下，很多家
长都是对那个成绩优秀，乖巧听话的孩子严重偏心，对另外一个/几个要么见天冷嘲热
讽，要么动辄家法伺候。我去同学家做作业的时候，经常能听到人家父母把自己的几个
孩子比来比去，或者把我和他家孩子比来比去，或者直接说“我喜欢XXX，因为...;不
喜欢YYY，因为...” 有了这个“因为”，就有了条件。当一个孩子性格上或者能力上
的闪光... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 11530 | 5 Brittany Maynard, advocate for 'death with dignity,' dies
By Catherine E. Shoichet, CNN
updated 9:12 AM EST, Mon November 3, 2014
STORY HIGHLIGHTS
NEW: Brittany Maynard died Saturday, "in the arms of her loved ones,"
group says
"Love and peace to you all," she says in final message
Her story spread rapidly on social media
The 29-year-old said she had terminal brain cancer
(CNN) -- Brittany Maynard, the 29-year-old who said she had terminal brain
cancer, took medication to end her... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 2 | 6 Some Say Love (Lyrics)
Some say love, It is a river,
That drowns the tender ring,
Some say love, It is a razor,
That leads your sould to bleed,
Some say love, It is a hunger,
And endless aching need,
I say love, It is a flower,
And you its only seen,
It's the heart, Afraid of breaking,
That never, Learns to dance,
It's the dream, Afraid of waking,
That never, Takes the chance,
It's the one, Who won't be taken,
Who cannot seem to be,
And the soul, Afraid of dying,
That never, Learns to live,
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发帖数: 6339 | 7 <<< Chemical basis >>>
Biological models of sex tend to view love as a mammalian drive, much like
hunger or thirst. Helen Fisher, a leading expert in the topic of love,
divides the experience of love into *three partly overlapping stages*:
lust, attraction, and attachment.
[1] Lust is the initial passionate sexual desire that promotes mating, and
involves the increased release of chemicals such as testosterone and
estrogen. These effects rarely last more than a few weeks or months.
[2] Attractio... 阅读全帖 |
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p****x
发帖数: 980 | 8 “I Love You This Big” American Idol 2011 winner
http://www.yuehaixiao.net/2011/07/scotty-mccreery-i-love-you-th
Other "big" songs:
1.Justin Bieber - "I Just Need Somebody to Love"
A joke I wrote:
My 16-year old cousin went to Justin Bieber’s concert last month. When she
got back, she complained:“Throughout the whole concert, JB only greeted me
once…” Then she continued: “He waved to me and said “ how are you doing,
those people in the back?”
BTW,I was amazed at the oriental cultural elements in ... 阅读全帖 |
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z******9
发帖数: 1644 | 9 话说当年LOVE才进灰狼队不久，有一天，一个老哥们不知是在看完球还是什么的，总之
站在那里的时
候，突然觉得后脑勺一阵剧痛，反过身来，发现地上有一颗小石子，前面不远处有一个
身材高大的男子
在哈哈傻笑。老哥们很是生气，走上前去，这不是本狼队的LOVE吗？老哥可是认得的，
正要发作，忽然
前面的LOVE呜呜哭了起来，连声说“I AM SORRY"，“I AM SORRY"，一副无辜求饶
状，老哥见他
神态实在不像是假，就问怎么啦？LOVE诉说是在NBA在狼队压力太大了，他受不了。然
后还一头扑进老
哥怀里，痛哭了一阵，老哥拍着他的背，搂着他让他尽情了一会儿。后来老哥说他们成
了好朋友（不知
现在还是不是朋友就难说了）
联系到本赛季初，LOVE还在FIGHT FOR先发，和教练不停地吵。终于修成正果，打出了
个记录，打进
了全明星。真的是从垃圾股变成牛股啊。比较下某个国人，就像某些登陆北美的股票一
样，如MCOX，
FUQI，CHBT等等，高开低走，陷入造假风云中。真个是山内山外两重天。 |
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h*h
发帖数: 27852 | 10 话说当年LOVE才进灰狼队不久有木有！！！！！！！！
有一天，有木有！！！！亲！！！！！！！！！！！！
一个老哥们不知是在看完球还是神马的有木有！！！！！！！！！！
总之站在那里的时候有木有！！！！！！！！！！！
突然觉得后脑勺一泥马阵剧痛啊啊啊！！！！！！！！
泥马反过身来有木有！！！！！！！！！！
发现地上有一颗小石子有木有！！！！亲！！！！！！！！！！！！！
前面不远处有一个身材高大的男子！！！！！！！！
在哈哈傻笑啊啊啊有木有！！！！！！！！！
老哥们很是生气！！！！！！！！
走上前去！！！！
尼玛这不是本狼队的LOVE吗？！！！！！！！！
老哥可是认得的！！！！！！
尼玛正要发作！！！
忽然前面的LOVE呜呜哭了起来！！！！！
连声说“有木有！！！！！！！！！！
I AM SORRY"！！！！
“I AM SORRY"！！！！！！！！
一副无辜求饶状！！！！！
老哥见他神态实在不像是假有木有！！！！！亲！！！！！！！！
尼玛就问肿么啦？！！！！！
LOVE诉说是在NBA在狼队压力太大了！！！！！！
他受不了！！！！！！
然后还一头扑进老哥怀里！！！！！！
痛哭了一阵啊有木有！... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 3962 | 11 http://espn.go.com/nba/story/_/id/14757135/kevin-love-cleveland
CLEVELAND -- Cavaliers forward Kevin Love exited Cleveland's game against
the Los Angeles Lakers late in the first half on Wednesday with a left
shoulder injury. He will not return, according to the team.
It is the same shoulder Love dislocated in the first round of the playoffs
against the Boston Celtics, causing him to miss the remainder of Cleveland's
postseason run to the Finals.
A league source told ESPN.com that upon an initia... 阅读全帖 |
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K****D
发帖数: 30533 | 12 Let’s play a love game, play a love game
Do you want love or you want fame?
Are you in the game? Doin’the love game |
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m**y
发帖数: 18546 | 13 【 以下文字转载自 Joke 讨论区 】
发信人: miny (bee happy), 信区: Joke
标 题: Google翻译的杰作：Dry line, love line
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Sep 28 09:50:18 2011, 美东)
发信人: sjslip (sjslip), 信区: WaterWorld
标 题: Google翻译的杰作：Dry line, love line
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Sep 28 00:52:33 2011, 美东)
做任何工作，党教育我们要：干一行，爱一行
那么英语怎么表达呢？
Google翻译出： Dry line, love line
吓了一跳。幸好没翻译成 f**k a line, love a line?
又翻译回去。英语到中文，Oh Ye!
Dry line, love line ==> 干一行，爱一行 |
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J********i
发帖数: 50662 | 14 【 以下文字转载自 ebiz 讨论区 】
发信人: missladybug (头发3厘米。。), 信区: ebiz
标 题: 清转love版：昨天date的男生说他创办了北美省钱快报 (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Apr 17 18:12:17 2013, 美东)
发信人: nxysdnqr (老强), 信区: Texas
标 题: 清转love版：昨天date的男生说他创办了北美省钱快报 (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Apr 17 18:07:07 2013, 美东)
发信人: jaff1973 (jaff), 信区: Love
标 题: 清转love版：昨天date的男生说他创办了北美省钱快报
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Apr 16 20:44:29 2013, 美东)
发信人: Dreamer (不要问我从哪里来), 信区: Dreamer
标 题: 清转love版：昨天date的男生说他创办了北美省钱快报
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Apr 16 17:42:35 2013, 美东)
昨天date了一个男... 阅读全帖 |
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K****N
发帖数: 10783 | 15 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oU9BPwcPaO4
There’s a reason
for the sunshine sky
there’s a reason
why I’m feelin‘ so high
must be the season
when that love light shines
all around us
So let that feeling
grab you deep inside
and send you reeling
where your love can’t hide
and then go stealing
through the summer nights
with your lover
CHORUSLet your love flow
like a mountain stream
let your love grow
with the smallest of dreams
and let your love show
and you’ll know what I mean
it’s the reason
Let |
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wh
发帖数: 141625 | 16 谢谢morningllc推荐《The Lord of the Rings》导演Peter Jackson 2009年拍的这部
《Lovely Bones》，讲14岁的花季少女被中年男邻居诱骗杀害，惊恐失措的鬼魂在生死
两界之间飘荡，与濒于崩溃的家人、逍遥法外并又盯上她妹妹的凶手、以及爱恨未了的
自己艰难摆平。
电影来自同名畅销小说，从头弥漫着青春凄美的文学气息。一个清婉的少女声音打开她
一生的回忆——两岁时，她从玻璃球里的企鹅身上第一次感到孤独：“He was all
alone in there, and I worried for him.”
英俊而体贴的爸爸安慰说：“He’s trapped in a perfect world. Don’t worry,
kiddo. He has a nice life.” 可这安慰如此凄凉不祥。女儿转眼亭亭玉立，细白的
皮肤，薄薄的嘴唇，洒着几粒雀斑的鼻梁，微卷的软发，敏感的眼神，永远的青春。
14岁生日时她得到一只相机，一时沉醉其中，狂拍一切：
“I loved the way the photo could capture a mome... 阅读全帖 |
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s**a
发帖数: 433 | 18 ============================================================================
Loving You
Singer: Minnie Riperton
翻唱：Sega
============================================================================
Loving you is easy 'cause you're beautifull,
And making love with you is all I wanna do.
Loving you is more then just a dream come true,
And everything that I do, is out of loving you.
La la la la la, la la la la la...
No-one else can make me feel the colors that you bring.
Stay with me while we grow o |
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p*****v
发帖数: 332 | 20 适逢中秋佳节，希望大家人月两团圆，特意挑了一首温暖的情歌，
希望大家过个好节：）
Bob Dylan/ Adele – Make You Feel My Love
Songwriter: Bob Dylan
Original: Bob Dylan/ Adele
When the rain
Is blowing in your face
And the whole world
Is on your case
I could offer you
A warm embrace
To make you feel my love
When the evening shadows
And the stars appear
And there is no - one there
To dry your tears
I could hold you
For a million years
To make you feel my love
I know you
Haven't made
Your mind up yet
But I would never
Do you wrong
I've known ... 阅读全帖 |
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s********y
发帖数: 6 | 21 标题 ： love and love
时间 ： 12月25日
地点 ： 中国
主题 ： 和心爱的他（她)一起装扮圣诞老人陪幼儿园的小朋友过圣诞节
成本 ： 圣诞服 ，圣诞帽，自制的爱心圣诞蛋糕，小的圣诞老人、 最好是多对情侣参与，既活跃了气氛又降低了成本（待计算）糖果，银光棒，气球，小挂件
准备 ： 做人数统计，购物，为孩子们带去惊喜！
意义 ： 圣诞的氛围中，为幼儿园的孩子们送去温暖与快乐，情侣的心更加亲密无间
，孩子的心更加团结温暖
评价：主题不错，成本不高，意义深刻，既奉献了你们的爱心又为你们的爱情增添了精
彩的一页，加油，一起行动。
love and love = 爱心 + 爱情 |
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i****a
发帖数: 3116 | 22 shockway — 2008年10月23日 — [MTV] 王若琳 - I Love You
作詞：陶喆 作曲：陶喆
I love you, say we're together baby, you and me...
I can only give my life and show you all I am
in the breath I breathe
I will promise you my heart,
and give you all you need
if it takes some time
If you tell me you don't need me anymore,
that our love won't last forever
I will ask you for a chance to try again
to make our love a little better, ooh...
I love you, say we're together baby,
say we're together...
I need you, I need you for |
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M*S
发帖数: 459 | 23 本来听歌的感受是挺主观的，经常不是一个可以争论的东西，就好像我喜欢吃豆腐，这
有道理吗？没道理，就是喜欢。 不过我还是很惊讶这里很多网友对黄的评价，以至于
我刚才又把黄的这首“the power of love”听了一遍，难道我们听的不是同一首歌吗？
黄的确有些歌唱的不怎么样，但是像“the power of love”这样的歌，整个华语歌坛
几乎没什么人能跟黄比的吧？黄的这首“the power of love”是在一个很高的起点上
完成的，林唱的“the power of love”起点就不一样，怎么比？
况且，黄的音乐性也是很棒的，主歌到副歌层次都是很清楚的，重复句也是尽量每次都
表现的有所不同，在音域这么大的歌里，发音饱满，呈颗粒状，这根本不是林唱的那首
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U*****S
发帖数: 3098 | 24 【 以下文字转载自 Love 讨论区 】
发信人: bigsail (河马·面壁), 信区: Love
标 题: bigsail 封某版版主 mitbbs 在 Love 版
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon May 24 23:05:36 2010, 美东)
发信人: deliver (自动发信系统), 信区:
标 题: bigsail 封某版版主 mitbbs 在 Love 版
发信站: BBS 未名空间站自动发信系统 (Mon May 24 23:05:20 2010)
【此篇文章是由自动发信系统所张贴】
由于 mitbbs 在 Love 版的 越权删帖 行为，
被暂时取消在本版的发文权力 14 天。
备注:还是那句话：有广告贴，PA 贴，您了巡山删了，我感谢。可删可不删的，
请尊重版务，也请自重。
版主:bigsail
Mon May 24 23:03:17 2010 |
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z*i
发帖数: 58873 | 25 还有个poem呢。
In the final movement, Coltrane performs what he calls a "musical narration"
(Lewis Porter describes it as a "wordless 'recitation'") of a devotional
poem he included in the liner notes. That is, Coltrane "plays" the words of
the poem on saxophone, but does not actually speak them. Some scholars have
suggested that this performance is a homage to the sermons of African-
American preachers. The poem (and, in his own way, Coltrane's solo) ends
with the cry "Elation. Elegance. Exaltation.... 阅读全帖 |
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k***y
发帖数: 217 | 26 【 以下文字转载自 Dreamer 讨论区 】
【 原文由 Dreamer 所发表 】
You came when I was happy in your sunshine
I grew to love you more each passing day
Before too long I built my world around you
And I prayed you'd love enough of me to stay
If you love me let me know
If you don't then let me go
I can't take another minute
Of a day without you in it
If you love me let it be
If you don't then set me free
Take the chains away
That keep me loving you
The arms that open wide to hold me closer
The hands that run their finger |
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c*****l
发帖数: 2 | 27 Love From a Distance
---- Poem by Anna Prozzi
I have loved you from a distance,
and i have loved you intimately.
And i will keep on loving you
-even though it is not right;
we're not right.
Things are not right between us.
And you are as far away as day is to night.
Because i know in my heart
that you loved me once.
And i wish i could capture
that moment and make it stay,
even if for only a day.
So we could remember
and maybe try again.
But that chance seems as remote
as the miles you ar |
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p**p
发帖数: 10318 | 28 here is the music:
http://music.stedu.net/xc/5/03.mp3
here is the lyrics:
Where Do I Begin ?
( Theme from "Love Story" )
Where do I begin ?
To tell the story of how great a love can be,
The sweet love story that is older than the sea,
The simple truth about the love she brings to me,
Where do I start ?
With her first hello!
She gave a meaning to this empty world of mine,
There’d never be another love, another time,
She came into my life and made the living fine,
She fills my heart . . .
She |
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a*****t
发帖数: 7 | 29 I have a husband who loves me and whom I love,and yet I can't help feeling
lonely once in a while.I missed those days in Beijing when I hang out with my
roomates: in those bedtime chatting we shared our love stories and doubts
about love;I still remember there's a Friday rutine for my roomates when they
listen to the "Romantic Love Songs" from Beijing Musical Radio.I've only tried
to listen once and fell into sleep in the middle and later when I told this to
my husband he laughed and called me " |
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m******j
发帖数: 5079 | 30 【 以下文字转载自 SanDiego 讨论区 】
发信人: surfing2004 (亮如刀锋才能不流血), 信区: SanDiego
标 题: I LOVE YOU的几种翻译
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Aug 1 02:54:56 2013, 美东)
夏目漱石问他的学生如何翻译“I love you”，有学生翻译成“我爱你”。夏目说：日
本人怎么可能讲这样的话？“今夜月色很好”就足够了。还有类似含蓄美妙的表达么？
王家卫有一次让他的演员翻译“I love you”，有的演员翻译成“我爱你”。墨镜王说
，怎么可以讲这样的话？应该是“我已经很久没有坐过摩托车了，也很久未试过这么接
近一个人了，虽然我知道这条路不是很远。我知道不久我就会下车。可是，这一分钟，
我觉得好暖”。
有一次，张爱玲问她的朋友如何翻译“I love you”，有人翻译成“我爱你”。张爱玲
说：文人怎么可能讲这样的话？“原来你也在这里”就足够了。
刘心武问他的学生如何翻译“I love you”，有人翻译成“我爱你”。刘心武说：研究
红学的人怎么可能讲这样的话？“这个妹妹我曾见过的”，就足够了。 |
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m***a
发帖数: 71 | 31 From my youngest years till this moment here
I've never seen such a lovely queen
From the skies above to deepest love
I've never felt crazy like this before
* CHORUS : Paint my love you should paint my love
It's the picture of thousand sunsets
It's the freedom of a thousand doves
Baby you should paint my love
Been around the world then I met you girl
It's like coming home to a place I've known
* REPEAT CHORUS
Since you came into my life
The days before all fade to black and white
Since you came |
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j****e
发帖数: 12067 | 32 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q4lupqXayYI
Love of my life, you hurt me,
You've broken my heart, and now you leave me.
Love of my life can't you see,
Bring it back bring it back,
Don't take it away from me,
Because you don't know what it means to me.
Love of my life don't leave me,
You've stolen my love now desert me,
Love of my life can't you see,
Bring it back bring it back,
Don't take it away from me,
Because you don't know what it means to me.
You will remember when this is blown over,
And e |
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x***n
发帖数: 5127 | 33 Think arranged marriages are loveless? Not so, says psychologist Robert
Epstein, a contributing editor for Scientific American MIND magazine. He
spoke March 10 at the 92nd Street Y’s Tribeca site in New York City:
“And there’s even a study published in India [Usha Gupta and Pushpa Singh
of the University of Rajasthan, 1982] but using an American love scale,
called the Rubin Love Scale, that compared love in love marriages in India,
because they have those, too, to love in arranged marriages. An |
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r*********n
发帖数: 1166 | 34 God is love.
Love created this world, it is there with your soul before your body came.
You came to the world with your body to fully experience this power from God
, each soul is a mini-God, when it connects to God, miracles happen.
When you love for no reason, your love becomes unconditional, you will pass
no judgement, all negativeness (anger, hate etc) is gone, all you experience
is happiness and you become
a oneness like God.
Everyone came to your life for a reason -> to teach you how to lo... 阅读全帖 |
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z****u
发帖数: 3461 | 35 信老湿有肉吃
http://www.dm123.cn/new/xf/2012-04-17/39072.html
于「周刊少年JUMP」上连载的大人气卖萌卖肉漫画「To LOVE」(又名：出包王女)
，在2009年以全162话完结，是绘制过「黑猫」的漫画家矢吹健太朗又一力作。该作曾
于2008年与2010年分别被改编成第1季和第2季的TV动画。男主角结城梨斗是个普通的纯
情高中生，每天都以偷看自己喜欢的春菜来表达自己心中的情感。但是当一个可爱的外
星公主因为翘家来找上他后，他的麻烦就一直不断。每天与公主追求者的战斗不断，梨
斗的日常生活好像失去了动力的卫星般开始进入了无休止旋转的旋涡中。私下偷偷关心
着梨斗的春菜、被委托抹杀梨斗而来到地球的金色暗影、超有魅力的女主角等众多角色
将一一悉数登场。「To LOVE」讲述的就是平凡高中生结城梨斗与统帅银河系的“戴比
路库”族的王女菈菈偶然相遇，由此而卷入各种各样的麻烦中的故事。
此前，作为原作漫画续篇的「To LOVE～Darkness～」发表了动画化决定的重大消
息。围绕着该动画化消息的发布，各种关于该作动画化形式的猜测也纷纷... 阅读全帖 |
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w**********o
发帖数: 407 | 36 Looking up to the sky,
My thoughts just fly by,
Hear my heart pounding,
With the clock ticking,
The best to be found,
Is you safe and sound.
My love to you,
Baby
Is not there for show,
Deep in my heart,
I grow what I sow
Hear the sound in your head,
There is nothing to be dread,
To be with you,
Is not just a talk,
I will by your side walk.
I am so moved,
Love to be loved.
Don’t ask the whys,
Or the whos.
Don’t let our love go loose. |
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w**********o
发帖数: 407 | 37 【 以下文字转载自 Poetry 讨论区 】
发信人: waitingforyo (知道我在等你吗), 信区: Poetry
标 题: 【龙飞凤舞】 Love you all the way
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Jan 18 17:52:54 2012, 美东)
You are my light in the night,
You are my star from above far,
You are my sun never shun,
You are my hun number one.
You are always my true love,
Like I am in your heart to gov,
You are always my most beloved,
Nothing but gentleness without shoved.
More than once I inquire,
Love me only is all I require,
Take every breath you have,
That is how much I desi... 阅读全帖 |
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t********a
发帖数: 946 | 38 ****The flower of love🌹****
The sweet cuddle of wind makes me feel like
Being carried in the cradle of ocean waves in the night.
The first rosebud in the vase opens her eyes,
Blissfully peeking everywhere.
I can hear her murmuring, anywhere and nowhere~~
Roses bloom in bright. Love begins to sprout with delight.
One day she fades, as pale as white snowy weather,
As fatigued as a gray gloomy feather.
Since I can’t give her infinite life the way she wants,
I have to let her go.
I put he... 阅读全帖 |
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h********9
发帖数: 4 | 39 爱无能其实是一个很严重也很普遍的心理问题。
love inability跟生理能力无关，看到异性还是会有生理需求，喜欢一夜情或者快餐式
的爱情，也
不乏有很多在一起很久的情侣。但是但是最后还是很难下决心做long term commitment
，即使结
婚了的，也很难付出真心。有人跟我说ta已经很难爱别人了，不只是自己的爱人，还包
括父母，孩
子，ta说其实他们中任何一个突然去世，ta都不会很难过，最多是不习惯一阵子……但
是ta
pretend装作很爱他们，ta说他不知道该怎么办。
其实我觉得你在网上搜索这个问题，会有很多人评论这个现象，真的很普遍，我觉得我
认识的一半男
生都有这个问题和很多女生或多或少都有这个问题，爱情对于现代人来说太奢侈了，可
以花钱花时间
讨对方开心但是不敢付出真情，害怕最后失望。
很多人都评价了原因，像是曾经爱过受到伤害害怕再付出，觉得自己还不够富有不够成
功爱不起，还
有对爱情对异性失望的觉得他们要求太多自己难以满足还不如不爱了。
我觉得所有原因都make sense，大家都是human，都有情感，有害怕的，也都会犯错，
会愧疚。我
想主要谈第一点原因，... 阅读全帖 |
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r*****g
发帖数: 478 | 40
Truely, what I wrote LOVE here is not ordinary love. To make it simple
and clear, I may say it as LOVE from GOD. So there is no ENVY,
and it can be and must be the same to everyone.
Both Buddhism and Christianity said similar thing about this:
LOVE yr friends, as well as your enemy; LOVE your relatives, as well as
your neighers.
The true MORAL is to regulate ourself, but not others. As my MASTER
teach me: never JUDGE others, watch the manner of yourself.
The anncient ZEN MASTER 慧能also said sim |
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D****N
发帖数: 430 | 41 The love of God is what Erich Fromm proposed in "the art of love", the
book is very touching as a whole, but to say love is exclusive because
God prohibits other idols (or otherwise), is that a little harsh? :) Why
are we not allowed to love the whole world because God as we believe him
is living in each one and all?
Erich Fromm did say that human being are born lonely, and that love is
the only means to be complete, thus at peace with the world, this is kind
of too spiritual for me, but I agree |
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R*o
发帖数: 3781 | 42 Problem (1) God love us
John 3:16 "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoev
er believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.
This verse is cited most frequently. We can call John 3:16 the gospel in on
e sentence. This verse is the best declaration of "God is love". Yes, God
love us. God want to save us. What we need to do is just to believe in the
name of his only Son Jesus. Is that simple? Is that marvelous?
We also note the word "perish" here. There ... 阅读全帖 |
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R*o
发帖数: 3781 | 43 by Dave Hunt
Two Conflicting Views
Calvinism presents us with the mystery of why God Who is love and Who is inf
inite in mercy toward all lets billions go to hell whom He could rescue. The
Bible on the other hand, confronts us with quite another mystery: why anyon
e who is offered salvation as a free gift of God's grace chooses to reject i
t. We have no answer to that question. Pusey writes:
There is something wonderfully impressive in the respect shown by the Creato
r to the freedom of choice w... 阅读全帖 |
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r*******c
发帖数: 1060 | 44 回复：
楼上的说得，是对的。我始终还是在输送conditional love，虽然我渴望对方给与我
unconditional love，呵呵。
我曾经试图在你身上践行unconditional love，但是呢，我悲哀的发现自己做不到，这
让我相当没面子（类似皇帝游街回来突然意识到自己真的没穿衣服）。也让我再不好意
思腹诽/暗怨别人不给我unconditional love了。
也许，自我的人（由于无明/incomplete insight），很难做到完全毫无保留不计一切
的爱。我现在希望自己能更有智慧和洞见，能放下自我，毫无保留的去爱，不是男女之
爱/爱某一个人，而是一种慈悲之爱。可能类似上帝爱世人，AGAPE LOVE, 观音菩萨大
慈大悲， METTA , unconditional and voluntary, 我渴望那种状态。 |
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