z*****a
发帖数: 3809 | 1 President Barack Obama is backing a controversial campaign by progressives
to regulate schools’ disciplinary actions so that members of major racial
and ethnic groups are penalized at equal rates, regardless of individuals’
behavior.
His July 26 executive order established a government panel to promote “a
positive school climate that does not rely on methods that result in
disparate use of disciplinary tools.”
“African Americans lack equal access to highly effective teachers and
principals, safe... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 10265 | 2 其实这贴子挺好的, 让父母们有机会反省一下自己的孩子, 我是没有机会接触全时间的
天使娃, 基本上认识/教过的每个孩子都会有misbehave的时候, 所以承认自己孩子行为
有缺陷也没什么困难的. 我现在正在反省是不是我家孩子得罪了朋友而我还完全不知道
呢. 这么一回顾历史, 觉得娃还真就是劣迹斑斑呀.
所以我对那个三岁小孩的家里是持同情态度, 因为没底气可以保证自己的娃任何时候都
不犯错误--这个决定权在她手里不在我手里啊. 别说孩子了, 就是我自己也行为缺陷一
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发帖数: 1504 | 3 说三岁的孩子之间被吐口水，被推被挤，那也看那个娃娃是不是一直这样的再看啊。说
不定人家就这么一次呢，人都是会misbehave的吧，都需要理解吧。
另外，人娃娃之间的争吵，得看自己娃娃是不是可以handle了，能handle的话还是照样
玩啊，说不定你家娃就制服他了；如果handle不了，远离了就是。而且要是人父母带过
来让她娃向我娃道歉了，我是不会觉得他父母教养有问题的。只是三岁娃娃在叛逆期，
过一阵子基本就好了。
而且现在的问题是大人和小孩之间的事情。而且之前大人还向小孩eye touch了，就是
挤眉弄眼的意思吧，那么就是等于给小孩信号自己是喜欢跟他玩的。为什么那么多客人
里面小孩只缠着她呢？？？大人更有控制能力一点，不喜欢小孩就不要理他，慢慢的他
就无趣走开了。小孩之间的主动权是在于被欺负一方的父母这边，如果欺负人的小孩惹
不起，那么自己带小孩走开就行了。而且一般小孩欺负了被的小孩，只要那家父母有出
来说不好，要他们小孩道歉，被欺负小孩的父母也就过去了。谁在乎他们背地里会怎么
因为这件事情教育小孩呢。
大多数人会因为自己小孩欺负了别的小孩当场就教训小孩？？？我想不会吧。也只是道... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 261 | 4 you over reacted a bit towards the end.
my general philosophy would be to let the kids sort it out themselves, but
in this case, given the huge age gap, i would've done what you did.
if this happened to my kid, just like you, i would've tell the older kids to
stop and let them know what they are doing is not nice, in a calm but firm
tone.
but that's about as far as i would go. i don't necessarily look at this as a
bullying act - the other kids probably saw the plane hit ur son's head and
thought... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1160 | 5 http://www.theatlantic.com/entertainment/archive/2014/04/its-no
It's Not Just Frozen: Most Disney Movies Are Pro-Gay
By preaching acceptance and questioning gender, the company's kids films
offer a queer-studies crash course.
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The culture warriors have decided: Disney’s Frozen is queer. Elsa hiding
her ice-powers could be read as a metaphor for the closet, the Oscar-winning
“Let it Go” plays like a coming-out anthem, and a character in t... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 4098 | 6 我这就是举一例子，别搞得这么literal好不好。。。我的意思是说，小小娃都是通过
positive/negative reinforcement学规矩的，这就是为毛他们misbehave的时候家长要
批评，要time out, 行为好的时候要奖励，咱上小学的时候想成绩好是为了什么，为了
得小红花，为了家长老师表扬喜欢，为了家长多给零花钱，我还没见过哪个一年级小孩
能上升到“我学习好了以后能造福社会造福人类”的高度的
想要小孩在餐厅好好呆着，那就得让他enjoy, 觉得好好呆着是有好处的，比如好吃的
，好玩的，妈妈会夸等等...当然多动啊神马天生坐不住的除外。。。其实很多大人还
不是一样，比起让你白干给你加班费你干活会不会更努力点。。。
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t**o
发帖数: 1858 | 7 有。而且也和你怎么定义，看待，处理所谓的misbehave有关。 |
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发帖数: 1395 | 8 Dr. Richard Bromfield, a psychologist at Harvard Medical School and author
of “How to Unspoil Your Child Fast: A Speedy, Complete Guide to Contented
Children and Happy Parents” says yes, restaurants can be a learning
experience for children, but no, other diners do not have to suffer through
the lesson.
He suggests some rules, as follows:
1. Plan to take your toddler or school-age child to a restaurant that he
or she loves (preferably a modestly priced one).
2. Share her excitement about... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1478 | 9
的。
非常赞同生活即教育，我一直是这么理解的。
也要充分肯定你对“暴力”的反思，就如同我对“不使用暴力”的反思一样。
说出来你也许不信，我是从小被暴力长大的，虽然也是被爱到不行，但是屁股上手印没
有少过，膝盖上跪痕没有少过，到大学了，暴力的潜在威胁也还是存在。我父母一直骄
傲，我是“棍棒底下出孝子”的典范。可是，我不是很清楚，到底是他们无私的爱还是
严厉的管教造就了我，又或者两者都不太重要。我老公就一直嘲笑我，说我是一个本性
多么倔强和叛逆的人，时至今日，我还在反抗着父母的“管教”，哈哈。
然后，我就努力看书，试图在科学层面上找出娃misbehave的原因，找出科学的不暴力
的解决方案。
养娃，又何尝不是对自己人生的又一次审视和思考？ |
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发帖数: 812 | 10 分享一篇文章给大家看看。
http://online.wsj.com/article/SB1000087239639044459240457803035
Jennifer Bristol recently lost one of her oldest friends—thanks to a
Facebook fight about pit bulls.
The trouble started when she posted a newspaper article asserting that pit
bulls were the most dangerous type of dog in New York City last year. "
Please share thoughts… 833 incidents with pitties," wrote Ms. Bristol, a 40
-year-old publicist and animal-welfare advocate in Manhattan.
A recent study looks at rates of over... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 3060 | 11 if they don't understand English, how can they drive safely at all? The cop
may shoot them if they misbehave. |
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发帖数: 7881 | 12 The rap on Donald Trump is he’s all bluster. The New York Times says he’s
offering “incoherent mishmash.” Former GOP rival Ted Cruz claimed Trump
has “no idea” how to fix the economy.
Don’t believe it.
The Trump campaign is putting forward proposals to fix problems from the
long waits for medical care at Veterans Affairs facilities to the impending
collapse of ObamaCare.
Check out Trump’s economic plan, for starters. Unlike Hillary Clinton’s
anti-business agenda, Trump’s plan would actually help... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 472 | 13 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: scidem (羊你个驼), 信区: Military
标 题: 斯坦福毕业演讲炮轰Trump,"政治旁氏骗局,历史耻辱!"
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Jun 15 13:41:14 2016, 美东)
好莱坞导演Ken Burns在斯坦福大学2016毕业演讲上炮轰唐纳德·特朗普的总统竞选是"
美国历史的耻辱"，是一个"政治旁氏骗局"。
For 216 years, our elections, though bitterly contested, have featured the
philosophies and character of candidates who were clearly qualified. That is
not the case this year. One is glaringly not qualified. So before you do
anything with your well-earned degree, you must do everything you c... 阅读全帖 |
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c****e
发帖数: 1453 | 14 You cannot go back to yesterday to change your behavior, You should can send
email to their customer relation department to complain you feel insulted
by the implication from those misbehaved words. They will take care of this.
I went to Belk a lot when I lived in a small village in VA.
Generally, I feel the service here is worse than east coast, or Texas. |
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发帖数: 5141 | 15 Borris Johnson said "I think it'd be disgraceful if a chap wasn't allowed to
have a bit of fun in Las Vegas. The real scandal would be if you went all
the way to Las Vegas and you didn't misbehave in some trivial way."
BTW，这位就是在奥林匹克公园玩儿铁索被吊在半空的那位伦敦市长。//汗
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发帖数: 1 | 16 In the light of recent events, it is our prerogative (being the first
organized supporters group in Europe) to tackle the source of misbehaving of
Croatian fans, during the last match of the European Championship. Do not
be mistaken, they are CROATIAN FANS, maybe more so than those who accuse
them today. Croatian fans live their emotions and consider the national team
to be sacred, but are at the same time ready to hurt their teams’ chances
for progress in search of international help. Clutching... 阅读全帖 |
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r*******y
发帖数: 7108 | 18 misbehaving
no body would like to cuddle me. |
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发帖数: 346 | 19 Dan Rather going Hollywood? There were gasps of surprise at ABC's fall-
schedule announcement this week when the veteran TV newsman popped up as an
actor in clips for "Dirty Sexy Money," a new drama about a wealthy,
misbehaving New York family.
The role wasn't exactly a stretch. Rather plays a reporter at a fancy dinner
party pressing a politician, portrayed by William Baldwin, about his future
political plans.
Rather initially said no when the show's executive producer and director,
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l*r
发帖数: 79569 | 20 我没看到，放狗了才想起来，当初闹的飞飞扬扬的
前两天那个什么在美华人要注意的细节坑，是不是跟这个有一点关系？
说道儿童虐待，正好今天中午刚听到那个"bad dad"作者的访谈：
What happens when the worst 10 minutes of your life go viral and are shared
with the world? The true story of a Texas newspaper columnist who
investigates the shenanigans of a small-town police department -- then pays
a price. At a local restaurant one day, he orders his misbehaving son, 11,
to walk home. When the father returns, police are waiting. The dad is
arrested and charged with two felonies. The worl... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****r
发帖数: 18 | 21 可以看看这个前宇航员的观后感，写得很好。
http://www.quora.com/What-do-the-astronauts-think-about-the-mov
A few days ago, a group of us from SpaceX took the afternoon off to watch
Christopher Nolan’s ‘Interstellar’. We loved it. Then again, we don’t
get out very often. We probably could have sat through ‘Gigli’ and loved
it.
As for myself, I thoroughly enjoyed the movie, but there were a few things
that struck me as inaccurate. First and foremost – the casting. I mean, is
it really necessary to fill every astronaut... 阅读全帖 |
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g****d
发帖数: 3461 | 22 刚刚开始听这个
传统经济理论两个假设
1. homoeconomicus 理性判断，优化为目的做决定
2. 平衡理论，价值平衡
用这两个造出无数论文。学术上响当当。
实际上毫无用处，和homosapien高度不理性，
四处馄饨的不平衡世界，一点都不相关。
真正从“人”的行为出发，才能和现实相关。 |
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y******e
发帖数: 5906 | 25 英文的看起来好头痛啊！
要不你看了总结一下嘛，写个读书笔记啥的，跟大家分享分享。 |
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j**********5
发帖数: 5878 | 26 还不如放在股版去~~~~~这个版没几个人有兴趣吧 |
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c***x
发帖数: 1826 | 27
很高兴，看到版上有人在读这样的书。
读完了，哦， 听完了，请来做一下review，并谈谈你的看法。
基本上，与我已有的mindset是一个重大的颠覆。
所以我忙完手头的事情，也去翻一下，这个确实是以后的一个重要方向，而且也有趣。 |
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y******e
发帖数: 5906 | 28 这个版上的能人真多啊！呵呵
越来越繁荣了
大家都可以分享一下自己的兴趣特长啥的，就当给自己的孩子讲课了。 |
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N********e
发帖数: 3048 | 30 同求。。。
认识基大人也有些日子了，从没有见他长篇大论地教导过任何人，哈哈。。。。 |
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g****d
发帖数: 3461 | 31
自己听去，上次给你网址上有torrent
去看原著，别说出来的牙慧，远没有原著过瘾。
常文写情书用的。中文始终也写不长。
好像你又闯祸了。。。 |
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N********e
发帖数: 3048 | 32 不是闯祸，人不犯我，我乐得悠闲，兔子被逼急了还会咬人呢，何况我还老被人纠缠，是
吧。
用德语写的情书吗？反正德文也长，写着就长起来了。
我的黄金反向还握在手上呢！大人，怎么看？ |
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发帖数: 1967 | 34 52分钟，我听完了。。虽然中间大多数时间我是处在班睡状态，最后几分钟听好几遍。。 |
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g****d
发帖数: 3461 | 36
不一定
只是觉得上面黑线应该碰碰
可以横着过去 |
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发帖数: 1257 | 45 虽然没看过这本书，但是楼主这贴的概括有些言过其实。
如果作者是这个观点，在芝加哥会被围攻的。
理性人假定（Rational agent）是经济学大厦的基石。经济学假定人有效用函数
utility function，人在做决定时最大化效用。
行为经济学借鉴心理学实验方法证明：个人在做决定时经常不理性。从个人到经济现象
呢？行为经济学在进入到解释经济现象这个阶段还必须借助效用函数，就是使用传统经
济学的架构，修改效用函数把非理性行为理性化。但是目前越来越多的实验显示人的不
理性是五花八门的，所以修改效用函数也是五花八门，不存在一个统一的架构能够解释
所有的非理性行为。所以尽管实验证据非常充分，行为经济学并没有引起一场真正的革
命。如何构建非理性行为的统一架构？ 长期我看好神经经济学，就是在脑这个层次解
释人的行为。
一般均衡理论（General equilibrium）是经济学的主要分析方法。Arrow-Debreu证明
了按价格机制调节供需，市场的总供给和总需求可以平衡。后来的主流经济学家在分析
任何经济现象是都是先假定市场处于均衡，然后从均衡出发进行分析：某个变量变动导
致均衡往何处移... 阅读全帖 |
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N********e
发帖数: 3048 | 47 看见了，静观其变吧，我拿着黄金反向，打算看阵子，嗯
你最近做什么？仅观望呢？：） |
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发帖数: 1826 | 48
看来是同行，所以基本同意你说的，也不足为奇了。除了那句
就是“价格如何形成”，经过几十年的努力，基本无进展。
据说，那些做auction和bargaining的人也忙活了不少年？
我的理解是，你是做经济学理论的，这个理论解释95%的社会规律似乎还算胜任。楼主
是做投资实务的，最关心的就是那些个Anomalies了，否则像你我一样相信有效市场假
说，又何来超额回报可盼？
但是理解paradox and outlier也是有趣的，所以也盼着楼主写个读书心得，以及对投
资回报的影响。没准明天起，我也放弃有效市场假说去了，呵呵。 |
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发帖数: 2795 | 50 威武，和极品兄一样威武
咱不懂经济，倒是看着这个均衡态很眼熟
物理界有个很著名的哥本哈根学派，其重要工作就是研究非平衡态，甚至远离平衡态的
，觉得平衡态太小儿科了吧
举个例子，通常的趋势是任何非平衡态都会不自觉的滑向平衡态，也就是说非平衡态不
能够稳定存在。科学家的一个反驳就是:你说的是封闭系统，如果有输入输出，非平衡
态也可以稳定存在。
这个不得了啊，一下子就把视野从几个数学稳定点拓广到几乎无限(当然还是有限，人
的认识能力有限吗)
一个例子就是湍流。湍流中的大涡小涡一堆一堆，本应该是瞬现及逝的，但是偏偏可以
稳定存在。
记得以前一个经济史上的故事说到黄金价格。本来黄金价格的稳定就在于他的稀少，一
定时期进入市场的黄金可控可测。突然有一年发现了一种新的黄金提取技术(是不是汞
什么办法)，结果黄金大跌。这就是输入没有被充分预估，当然这个很难预估了。
胡言乱语，八卦大话，比不得楼上们的专业哈 |
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