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m**e
发帖数: 961 | 2 are you sure she's no-sexual experienced?
seeing most replies here, I just feel most people here know nothing about
china's young people today. such gay/les/exposure/soft porn themes are simply universal in a lot of
websites in china nowadays, by which kids and teenagers are facing everyday.
btw, curiosity is human nature. Your niece might be accidentally exposed to such pervert film once (either by
browsing web sites or solicited by other teenager friends), and then got indulged into it and fee... 阅读全帖 |
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s*****g
发帖数: 2140 | 3 if your brother and sister want, you can sponsor them to immigrate to the US
after you become citizen. it will take about ten years before they can
obtain a visa at the current pace. they can bring with them their children,
if under 21, when they come. then it is your brother's and sister's
responsibilities to take care of your nephew and niece. |
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a***8
发帖数: 4735 | 4 Wow, your niece is very mean and rude?? That is what the only child like in
China.
You done the correct thing, no one want to be a baozi. |
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T*******7
发帖数: 636 | 5 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
yanjie (xxxxxx) 于 (Mon Mar 26 13:55:38 2012, 美东) 提到:
今天和家里聊天，爸妈都在，姐姐也在。谈到姐姐的孩子上学的事情，说现在的课外补
习班一个下午的课要400元，还羡慕我家的孩子正在放春假，说美国的学习轻松。妈妈
突然问我，绿卡拿到了吗？我早就告诉过他们，说我已经拿到2年了。妈妈说，那我要
办移民，以后带你哥哥姐姐的小孩去美国读书。我说我自己还没有打算办公民呢，要等
5年以后再说了。虽然话题没有继续下去，但是我心里像压了一块石头。爸爸妈妈来过4
次美国，说实话和老公的关系不是那么好，老公和我说以后你爸妈来可以，但是不要超
过3个月。我觉得基本可以，每年安排爸妈来旅行一下，大家都开心。但是今天，说起
要办移民，而且还打算以后哥哥姐姐的孩子来，说实话我不知道怎么和老公开口。
妈妈的这些信息都是从他的同事得来的，他同事也有孩子在美国工作，说是可以给父母
兄弟姐妹办移民，还可以给他们的子女办。但是说实话，他们来了以后是事情真的是难
办，住可以和我们一起，但... 阅读全帖 |
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j******8
发帖数: 316 | 6 我在cragilist上卖一台旧笔记本。
有个email：
Hi,
Thanks for the mail, I'm really interested in buying this item for my
niece in abroad and i'll like to know more about this item.
....
(4) I'll be offering you $380 including the postage fee via post
office, USPS Express Mail Service
(5) I'll be making the payment via PayPal account because it safe
,fast and secure online transaction, kindly get back to me with your
PayPal email address so that i can proceed with the payment as soon as
possible,
我知道这99%是骗局，可是我不... 阅读全帖 |
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l******2
发帖数: 18 | 7 二手交易风险自负！请自行验证是否合法和一手卡！:
我想卖的物品:
GradSave $50 gift card 529 plan issued by LivingSocial
A good education is priceless –- but the cost of tuition is hardly that.
Give a child the ultimate gift for the future with this deal from GradSave,
an online college savings registry that's been featured in The New York
Times.
• a $50 GradSave gift card to help start or boost a child's college
savings
• The gift card can be easily redeemed and linked with any nationwide
tax-free 529 savings plan,... 阅读全帖 |
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l******2
发帖数: 18 | 8 二手交易风险自负！请自行验证是否合法和一手卡！:
我想卖的物品:
GradSave $50 gift card 529 plan issued by LivingSocial
A good education is priceless –- but the cost of tuition is hardly that.
Give a child the ultimate gift for the future with this deal from GradSave,
an online college savings registry that's been featured in The New York
Times.
• a $50 GradSave gift card to help start or boost a child's college
savings
• The gift card can be easily redeemed and linked with any nationwide
tax-free 529 savings plan,... 阅读全帖 |
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d***e
发帖数: 1215 | 9 Female roommate wanted to share an apartment in Fort Lee. You will share the
apartment with my niece, who is a clean, quiet and easy going female
student. 13 min walk from free Columbia shuttle bus, which is less than
20min ride to medical center. 15min walk to Washington bridge. Nice area.
Close to shopping (5 min walk to Hmart). NYC bus right in front of door. It
is on the second floor of a five story building. The bedroom is about 165
square feet (11 x 15). $600 a month ($650 month 1-6, $550 ... 阅读全帖 |
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h****y
发帖数: 72 | 10 Female roommate wanted to share an apartment in Fort Lee. You will share the
apartment with my niece, who is a quiet and easy going female student.10min
walk to columbia shuttle stop. 15min walk to Washington bridge. Bus stop
right in front of
door to NYC. Very nice and convienent area. Close to shopping (5 min walk
to
Hmart). It is on the second floor of a five story building. The bedroom is
about 165 square feet (11 x 15). $600 a month ($650 for month 1-12, free
rent for month 13). All utili... 阅读全帖 |
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r*******4
发帖数: 41 | 11 my niece wants to transfer to US in year 2011, she currently is a freshman
at a decent college at China. her plan is like what you already achieved,
transfer to US college after two years study at a Chinese college. so she needs apply in a couple of months. I am wondering whether you have any advice regarding transfer application which
you can kindly share with us? thanks a lot. |
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l***h
发帖数: 9308 | 12 现在钻空子的例子很多啊，类似的还有
* My 25 year old niece had $10,000 of outstanding credit card debt.
Recently, she told the bank she couldn’t pay. She is not unemployed so the
‘hardship’ is all relative. Nevertheless, the bank offered her a
concession which she refused. They offered another concession, she refused
again. Finally, they told her if she paid $150/month for 2 years (total of
only $3600 with no interest), they would call it paid in full! She accepted
in a heartbeat. It is less than a month late |
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B********4
发帖数: 7156 | 13 我身边就有两个例子。一个是坐我对面的一个本地小伙子，３０出头。第一次买房子。
他跟我们说搬家时候爸爸妈妈和姐姐姐夫都跑去帮忙，还帮他把后院土地平整，打桩做
篱笆。这还不算什么，聊天中我才知道，他在买房子前一直住在父母家。我当时很惊奇
，不是说西方人都很独立嘛？我这同事可工作了６／７年了。他说他大学和毕业后一直
住父母家，之间有女朋友搬出去同居过两年，分手后又搬回到父母家。我问他要交房租
吗？他很奇怪我的问题，反问我你们中国人住父母家要交房租？我说我们中国人不交，
但我一直听说西方人是要交的。他大笑，说那是父母经济上有困难，或着不够nice,但
他的父母对他很nice，所以不用交房租。不过他有时会买些food回家。看来连伙食费也
不用交。
还有就是今天，一个同事拿了堆照片来，说是他cousin在我们城市买了房子，因为他们
女儿今年要到我们这来上大学了，毕业后再卖了。他大赞着是好投资。照片上是两老还
有我同事在粉刷墙壁。可是没有这个大学生女儿的身影。我问我同事，他说他niece因
为大学还没开学还在老家呆着。可这毕竟是她要住的呀，老爹老妈出了钱还不算，还要
开长途车来出力，连uncle都出 |
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n**********b
发帖数: 253 | 14 India went back to hometown when they have the niece/nephew married. |
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d******7
发帖数: 2 | 15 My niece is just 15 years old and is in middle school in central China. Two
weeks ago, she told her parents that she fell to the gorund several times at
school. She couldn't feel any strength in her right foot. Her parents took
her to see doctors and they had her to do CT and NMR scan. The CT results
showed that there are some unusual in JINGUI (sorry my computer cann't type
Chinese character). But the NMR results is OK. Is there anyone here who can
drop some suggestions or ideas as to her condi |
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g*****r
发帖数: 95 | 16 My 3-year old niece (in China) has experienced repeated symptoms of faint
and losing consciousness within 1 month. She has been very healthy until
the first indicent, although she did have some fever before, she never
fainted.
The first incident occurred about two-three weeks ago, when she had a fever.
All of a sudden, she fainted and became unconsciousness while she was
lying in her bed. A doctor instructed my parents to push somewhere under
her nose to wake her up and to lay her on her sid |
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i******4
发帖数: 72 | 17 I am really sorry for you niece.
My cousin has the same type of tumor (颅咽管瘤 Craniopharyngiomas are
dysontogenic tumors with benign histology and malignant behavior). The
symptoms presented when she was 24 years old. The bad thing about the "
benign" tumor is the high rate of recurrence.
She had the operation by the best surgeon at Tiantan Hosptial in Beijing,
but it came back 4.5 years later. Now her situation is worse than the first
time.
My aunt worries about her a looot. She asked me to sear... 阅读全帖 |
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i******4
发帖数: 72 | 18 I am really sorry for you niece.
My cousin has the same type of tumor (颅咽管瘤 Craniopharyngiomas are
dysontogenic tumors with benign histology and malignant behavior). The
symptoms presented when she was 24 years old. The bad thing about the "
benign" tumor is the high rate of recurrence.
She had the operation by the best surgeon at Tiantan Hosptial in Beijing,
but it came back 4.5 years later. Now her situation is worse than the first
time.
My aunt worries about her a looot. She asked me to sear... 阅读全帖 |
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j********d
发帖数: 157 | 19 Thank you all for the replies.
Virtual CC # sounds a way to go. Can one virtual CC# be used repeatly
withinn
a few weeks?
I don't like the way how my niece handle the applications, like pay a lot to
the agency to do it (and the agency is still asking for cc to pay the
applications fees), instead doing applications herself. I am worrying if
she can't handle the applications herself, how can she be independent enough
to be successful studying in an US school. Anyway, I am a helper here,
trying t... 阅读全帖 |
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l****i
发帖数: 473 | 20 给这种大额的gift不光不能deduct，还可能要另交gift tax.
Example 3. You gave $25,000 to your 25 year-old daughter. The first $14,
000 of your gift is not subject to the gift tax because of the annual
exclusion. The remaining $11,000 is a taxable gift. As explained later under
Applying the applicable credit to gift tax, you may not have to pay the
gift tax on the remaining $11,000. However, you do have to file a gift tax
return.
但是也有办法的。
Gift Splitting:
Example. Harold and his wife, Helen, agreed to split the g... 阅读全帖 |
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e***a
发帖数: 1982 | 21 仨孩子四个父母公婆四个兄弟姐妹七八个nephew niece。。。还是可以做到的。。。 |
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g*****y
发帖数: 349 | 22 兄弟姐妹nephew niece们都不搞吗？都同意由你一个人来搞？ |
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发帖数: 1 | 23 父母是算的啊。
Who's covered?
The cardholder, plus Spouse or Domestic Partner and their children,
including adopted children or step-children; legal guardians or wards;
siblings or siblings-in-law; parents or parents-in-law; grandparents or
grandchildren; aunts or uncles; nieces or nephews on or before the trip
departure date. |
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s*****g
发帖数: 2140 | 24 Your parents will be taking care of your niece, not you. If they believe
they can handle her, there is nothing for you to worry about. Also, since
your parents are bringing her here with her parents' consent, you don't have
much responsibility. |
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J******t
发帖数: 1945 | 25 【 以下文字转载自 Reunion 讨论区 】
发信人: Jessicat (smiley cat), 信区: Reunion
标 题: 姑妈2010.3.30.北京B2一签过(附材料清单)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Mar 31 23:57:34 2010, 美东)
姑妈约的下午两点的签证，但是人特别多，都有人坐在地下等。等待过程中，注意到一
个韩国男拒签了很多人。
等了两个小时，姑妈遇到的是一个四十多岁的胖胖的美国男签证官。第一个问题是：你
去美国做什么？
姑妈答：看侄女和女婿，顺便旅游。他们刚买了房子，想请我去看看。这是我侄女写给
你的信。
签证官看了信，又问了以下问题：
你侄女是你什么人？
你退休前做什么工作？
然后就说：你通过了！整个过程也就一分钟。
祝大家的亲人都顺利签过，早日团聚！
List of Documents / 材料清单
1. Documents from Inviter (Niece) / 邀请人的材料清单:
1.1. Letter to Visa Officer from Inviter / 写给签证官的信;
1.2. Invit |
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a*****r
发帖数: 1539 | 26 I'm not being mean, but I'll be concerned.
My niece was a chubby baby when she was little, now she's only 10 and
already 60kg. |
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i*******k
发帖数: 720 | 27 宝宝怎么会被咬呢？在户外玩？一般tick会附在皮肤上吸血，要用力才拿下来。
如果是tick,还是问医生，可能为了预防，吃一段抗生素。我niece被咬过，好像是吃了
一段抗生素的。得lyme disease可不好。 |
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i*******y
发帖数: 149 | 28 bless. please check your email. My niece got the same when she was 8-month.
do not worry. |
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s****i
发帖数: 243 | 29 Stokke is not safe! We tested it out at buybuybaby with my baby niece, very
easy to tip over. We finally choose uppababy vista, which is the most stable
and functional, it also has high seating like stokke and orbit baby.
Don't like bugaboo, the basket is comparatively small and the seat is small
too, and you can't fold it with the seat. |
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f******e
发帖数: 921 | 30 I do not know, my mom told me, my niece like drinking milk very much. |
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a*****9
发帖数: 1315 | 31 she went back to China on Oct21st , my nieces are so happy with these
formula.
good luck to you ! |
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l**g
发帖数: 2859 | 32 朋友转过来的，不管是真是假，小心点没有坏处。看来，不和陌生人说话是王道。。。
When politeness could kill!
Police Warning
I'm passing this along! People are REALLY crazy! If you are female, take
heed! If you are male and have a significant female in your life who you
care about, whether it's your wife, your girlfriend, your daughter, your
sister, your niece, your cousin, your next door neighbor; whomever pass this
along! Always, "Better safe than sorry!"
A man came over and offered his services as a painter to a female putting
gas i... 阅读全帖 |
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b*********s
发帖数: 501 | 33 一直为要不要二宝纠结，不要的主要原因是怕大宝受的关注变少。话说我家大宝是真的
好孩子，听话讲道理。他爸和我都爱死了他。当妈的我自己从小就想当独生子女，就是
因为小时候家里有了老二后我就被送给奶奶家带，从此得到父母的关注少很多。我妈也
因此和我不那么亲。她觉得老二和她亲，因为是一手带大的。我不想让同样的事情发生
在我家娃身上。不想要的其他原因还包括双职工，没有人帮忙（再次印证了我妈对我很
漠然，她在国内觉得我十岁的niece需要照顾，不觉得我做月子什么的需要帮忙）等等。
如果说要的原因，是害怕大宝以后想要sbiling。而我们也有点私心就是想要个女儿。
生大宝的时候已经超高龄，现在更是了。我们决定听老天安排，不特意造人。如果有了
就要，要宠两个，如果没有就算啦，变成专宠大宝。报这样的方针过了一个月，结果没
想到今天早上该来的peiord没有来。看到家里有上次生大宝用的 equate pregnancy
test，报着不浪费的原则，竟然看到了浅浅的线。也不知道这过期一年多的试纸还可信
不？ 打算今天去买个不过期的，后天再测。
如果怀孕了，还请宝宝版上的美妈们祝福我，宝宝能顺利在妈妈肚子里带... 阅读全帖 |
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b***k
发帖数: 2829 | 34 看了几位的回复， 感觉舒服点。 我也不是没有和我姐谈过。 我觉得她根本没有把这
个当成一件事。 我将来有了孩子， 一定要从小就管教好， 不当虎爸， 但最基本的礼
貌和好的待人接物的教养是要有的。
不好意思把称呼弄错了。 ：） 我总是说NIECE之类的， 把中国传统的文化都忘了，
汗颜。。。 |
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a********n
发帖数: 844 | 35 I bought the same item for my niece. But her ped said it contained sth else
that is not good for her age (13 month now). So maybe she need to wait for
one more year. |
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J*****i
发帖数: 2622 | 36 what. have you showed him this post?
this is YOUR home. your hubby and you make collaborative decisions TOGETHER
not just what he wants.
its not that you dont welcome his niece. its just that the timing couldnt be
worse. |
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d*******y
发帖数: 349 | 37 You are not over-defensive. Uncle cannot really 管教 teenager niece. |
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p******s
发帖数: 50 | 38 My niece has this disease. She didn't diagnose it until she was 3 months old
. She was always having diarrhea after she was a few days old. And she kept
being sick because we didn't know she had this disease, we were in china, we
don't have this screening. When she was finally diagnosed, she was almost
gone. The liver was damaged, the brain also, and she was only 4 pound when
she was 3 month old, while she was born with 7.5 lb. After she got recovered
, she was OK as long as she stop eating thin... 阅读全帖 |
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F****n
发帖数: 746 | 39 Ding!!!
What LZ need to do is just not contact anyone from her family. The she would
have a much happier life.
I found she complained at this board twice, and "wo ai wo jia" in wenxuecity
.com twice too.
If LZ can't completely ignore all those so-called father, mother, brother or
niece, she will behave like "Qiang Ling Shao" all her life. |
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M****a
发帖数: 11261 | 40 这就气半天啊，我当初和我娘说是个小丫头的时候我娘语句里满满的失望，叹叹气说“
女儿也好，女儿也好”，然后后面足足一个月的时间，每次打电话都问我，你们确定是
女孩，会不会看错啊，我每次都说，你就别想啦，肯定没错儿了（我做了羊穿的）。不
过我从来没觉得我妈重男轻女，我有三个niece，她每个都疼得不得了，也是因为有三
个granddaughter了，想要个外孙的感觉也是能理解的。我娃出来以后，我婆婆也对我
家娃说，让妈妈再给你生个小弟弟，我也没觉得有什么不对的。我和我老公的外婆都是
极度重男轻女的，我觉得我妈多少也会有点，但是从来都没表现出来，对我们还有对孙
女外孙女都宠得很。
多。 |
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r***d
发帖数: 318 | 41 要报税，最近在做这个RESEARCH，觉得这片帖子讲的比较清楚，跟大家分享下。
转自洛杉矶华人资讯网
美篇-父母探亲报税税务筹划:从申请税号ITIN，让父母成为你的dependent
美国父母探亲报税省税方法, 如何为父母申请税号
友情提示：
1)单身的话，要等到能够使用resident alien 的身份报税的时候才可以享受这一好处
。
已婚的话，只要夫妻中有一个人是使用resident alien的身份报税的，那么，无论是自
己的父母还是岳父母都可以享受这一好处。
如果夫妻两个都是学生身份的时候五年内是不行的（学生身份五年以上，按照常住民的
身份报税的可以），适合工作了拿到H１签证的人员(按照常住民的身份报税的)，接父
母过来的时候，可以享受到这个退税条款。
2) 在安排探亲的过程中，也要事先征求父母的意见，如果父母在国内仍然有工作，或
者健康原因，亲朋关系等，不愿意在美国久留的，也不要因为区区一千多美元的退税而
勉为其难。要尊重长辈的意见。 如果父母本来就无妨停留时间长短的，那么逗留满１
８３天可以多的一千多美元的退税，可为上策。
3)对于符合条件的朋友，父母来探亲可以带来上千元... 阅读全帖 |
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s*******y
发帖数: 2977 | 42 I plan to bypass daycare, wait till baby's 3 and go to pre-school directly.
My mom: first 10 months;
My dad: 11-15 months;
China (my parents+2yr old niece): 16-18 or 21 months (I visit her every 3
months for 2-3 weeks);
then see if my mom/dad can come back again, if not, I'll quite job for a
year to take care of her. |
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M****a
发帖数: 11261 | 43 我觉得营养均衡的话，这个百分比不重要。成年以后的身材和小时候关系不大，如果小
时候喂得太胖的话倒是要担心长大以后也会肥胖。我有三个niece，其中两个小时候都
非常瘦，现在都是teenager了，身体很好，长得也挺高的。 |
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d****w
发帖数: 1367 | 44 my niece is the exact symptom. she did the surgery in bj tongren around 10
yrs. it looks very natural. the process took several weeks. I heard it is
little by little . she told me no pain |
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m**c
发帖数: 7299 | 45 【 以下文字转载自 Joke 讨论区 】
发信人: Nehalem (Nehalem), 信区: Joke
标 题: LGBT要求小学允许异装癖男子用女厕所 (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Feb 28 13:37:08 2013, 美东)
发信人: gjq (不好啦,咕咚掉到井里啦), 信区: Military
标 题: LGBT要求小学允许异装癖男子用女厕所 (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Feb 28 13:34:41 2013, 美东)
发信人: gjq (不好啦,咕咚掉到井里啦), 信区: SanFrancisco
标 题: LGBT要求小学允许异装癖男子用女厕所
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Feb 28 13:34:29 2013, 美东)
(CNN) -- A Colorado school's ruling over a transgender child has sparked
questions that could affect schools all over the country.
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S**W
发帖数: 93 | 46 这种朋友还是要珍惜的,其实，我还真是羡慕你。我生孩子的时候，我父母亲，大姐一
家都在，且我大姐家离我的医院坐上地铁加上走路顶多也就二三十分钟的路程。。。只
有我妈给我送了一次红糖水和给一碗猪肝汤。。。我是剖腹产，其后在医院除了我先生
陪着我，就再也没有人来过。。直到我快出院，我姐姐带着孩子来看看我的宝宝，什么
也没有带空着手。就这我还要谢谢，因为是冬天。。然后我先生还要送我的niece和姐
姐去车站。。。。这还是我的家人呢，所以我觉得跟你有这样一个闺蜜真的是很幸福的
。。。。
我姐姐生孩子我可是全程陪着，几天几夜没有睡觉，我姐夫可是呼呼大睡且人都不来医
院的正常上下班，直到快生的时候才来，还是来睡觉的。我姐都不怪他，我当时在医院
24小时陪护，还让当时的男友上班请假来给我姐送饭送汤。。。所以, ＬＺ你真的应该
珍惜这样的好友。。 要是我是你，我一定会不介意这些的。如果真的介意就找个时间
真诚的直接说出来，既然是好友还是直接说出来比较好，但是语气一定要好。。。
人生中有一个这么好的朋友真的很重要。。。可惜我的都在国内。。。 |
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s**********h
发帖数: 436 | 47 "我妈没带过小侄子，... 她自己都说过来给我
帮忙几个月是很大的人情。"
"我两个孩子出生，我妈没来帮过一天。"
Are you sure your mom can "help"? I think you'd have to take care of 3 kids
at the same time. Since your kids are younger and probably take more time
and attention, you mom might even think you mistreat your nephew.
It's a challenging change of environment for your nephew too. Not only that,
your mom is not such a familiar person for him either because she never
took care of him before. With unfamiliar environment, unfamiliar people, and
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 48 If you are US citizen already, adopt your niece and she will be able to come
to the US. |
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f****t
发帖数: 1770 | 49 I persuaded my sister-in-law that sending my niece to here for high school
is a bad idea.
I just told her that the girl may get pregnant and addict to drug here since
the cultures are very different.
She gave up right away. I do think going to university is much better than
going to high school. |
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s*********1
发帖数: 91 | 50 It's a way of changing your niece's life if he can come here.
A close friend of mine was a bottom 5% student in Asia. She had very good
experience since she came to this country and made achievements she never
imagined in Asia. She believes difference in education system is the major
reason to help her a lot and she ended up becoming a business school
professor at a liberal arts collage. |
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