y*****g
发帖数: 1822 | 1 来自主题: LeisureTime版 - 夏娃之歌 自比利时诗人作品集 Charles Van Lerberghe " 夏娃之歌 " (1904) 的第一首, 描写
神创做伊甸园和夏娃的经过：
C'est le premier matin du monde,
Comme une fleur confuse exhalée de la nuit,
Au souffle nouveau qui se lève des ondes,
Un jardin bleu s'épanouit.
Tout s'y confond encore et tout s'y mêle,
Frissons de feuilles, chants d'oiseaux,
Glissements d'ailes,
Sources qui sourdent, voix des airs, voix des eaux,
Murmure immense,
Et qui pourtant est du silence.
Ouvrant à la clarté ses doux et vagues yeu... 阅读全帖 |
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b*s
发帖数: 82482 | 2 居然找到了：
这个Surowiecki老是写经济专栏的……
http://www.newyorker.com/arts/critics/books/2010/10/11/101011cr
Later
What does procrastination tell us about ourselves?
by James Surowiecki October 11, 2010
Procrastination interests philosophers because of its underlying
irrationality.
Some years ago, the economist George Akerlof found himself faced with a
simple task: mailing a box of clothes from India, where he was living, to
the United States. The clothes belonged to his friend and colleague Joseph
Stiglitz, w... 阅读全帖 |
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s**********y
发帖数: 8135 | 3 纽约客：拖延症告诉我们什么？
若干年前，美国经济学家乔治·阿克洛夫（George Akerlof）碰到了一个简单的任
务：将一箱衣服从他所居住的印度邮递至美国。这些衣服是他的一个朋友兼同事来看过
他之后落下的，所以阿克洛夫急着想将它们把它送回去。但是有一个问题：印度的官僚
体系和阿克洛夫自己称作“我在这些事情上的无能”使之成为一件麻烦事——确实，他
估计这将会占去一整个工作日的时间。于是他一周又一周地推迟处理这件事情。这样一
直持续了八个月之久，直到阿克洛夫自己都快要回国了他才解决了这个问题：另外一个
朋友恰好也要寄一些东西回美国，于是阿克洛夫得以将斯蒂格利茨（Stiglitz）的衣服
连带着一同捎回去。考虑到洲际邮件的不稳定性，阿克洛夫很有可能比斯蒂格利茨的衬
衫提早到达美国。
这个故事有一点让人感到安慰：就连诺贝尔经济学奖得主都会拖延！很多人生活中都
充满着一大堆未完成的任务，或大或小，噬咬着我们的良心。但阿克洛夫将这再熟悉不
过的体验看成是一个谜。他真心想把衣服寄回给他的朋友，但是，就像他在1991年的论
文《拖延和顺从》（Procrastination and Obe... 阅读全帖 |
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b*s
发帖数: 82482 | 4 我也懒得详细说哈金了，给你贴个review吧
John Updike写的
Books
Nan, American Man
A new novel by a Chinese émigré.
by John Updike December 3, 2007
Ha Jin
Ha Jin
A critic cannot but be impressed by the courage and intellect of the Chinese
-American writer Ha Jin. Born in 1956 of parents who were both military
doctors, he volunteered for the People’s Liberation Army at the age of
fourteen and served five and a half years, near the northeast border with
Russia. He began to take a keen interest in reading in his late te... 阅读全帖 |
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wh
发帖数: 141625 | 5 来自主题: LeisureTime版 - 见到任璧莲 那你还挺有共鸣。你觉得缺陷是什么？我记不清细节，只记得故事挺拖，也不觉得语言
好。bos说语言好，还拉出john updike——又是他——作证。我把updike赞哈金的文章
贴在下面。我后来又看了他的war trash，觉得挺迎合西方政治的。
发信人: bos (Bart), 信区: LeisureTime
标 题: Re: 中日作家“刺刀见红”争夺本届诺贝尔文学奖
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Oct 5 15:39:58 2012, 美东)
我也懒得详细说哈金了，给你贴个review吧
John Updike写的
Books
Nan, American Man
A new novel by a Chinese émigré.
by John Updike December 3, 2007
Ha Jin
Ha Jin
A critic cannot but be impressed by the courage and intellect of the Chinese
-American writer Ha Jin. Born in 1956 of parents w... 阅读全帖 |
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a*********7
发帖数: 30080 | 6 前两天看贴的时候想起来的，歌名都不记得了，今天有空又去找了出来，听了很多遍，
还是特别好听。
其实这歌的主题跟版上最近的热点有关：关于告别狂热放荡的青春，蜕变为一个安静而
无趣的二叔
发信人: airdragon77 (仍然自由自我永远高唱我歌), 信区: LeisureTime
标 题: Re: 写给女儿的歌
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu May 16 09:59:18 2013, 美东)
确实好听。
有些影视里的歌曲是很棒，之前看过一爱情片叫什么John，片子很烂，男主当兵后，女
主为了照顾一个得了绝症的朋友，决定嫁给他，于是写信分手。。。不过有两首歌好听
，paper weight, 和little house?
还有个美剧，名字忘了，说某电器店sales收到朋友email,点开后被强灌巨量信息，从
此变成了活动情报局数据库——而且是唯一的，原版已被毁。情报局因此派了个美女特
工来保护他，同时用他脑中资料破案。
某集讲到，美女有父，大骗子，来见美女，好象还想作案之类的。最后男主好象掩护他
走了，片尾曲应该是个民谣，巨有味道，我后来也特地搜出歌名下载来听。不过一时想
不... 阅读全帖 |
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b*s
发帖数: 82482 | 7 找个说的透彻一点的吧。morality其实也是生物性，生存必须而已：
The Evolution of Morality
Dr. C. George Boeree
Morality begins with biology, and specifically with the instincts we have
evolved over eons to aid in our survival and reproduction. For human beings,
there are three of these instincts:
One is based on kin selection, and it tells us that we should care for our
closest relatives, especially our children. After all, caring for our
relatives increases the likelihood of their survival and reproduction, which
in turn... 阅读全帖 |
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b*s
发帖数: 82482 | 8 找个说的透彻一点的吧。morality其实也是生物性，生存必须而已：
The Evolution of Morality
Dr. C. George Boeree
Morality begins with biology, and specifically with the instincts we have
evolved over eons to aid in our survival and reproduction. For human beings,
there are three of these instincts:
One is based on kin selection, and it tells us that we should care for our
closest relatives, especially our children. After all, caring for our
relatives increases the likelihood of their survival and reproduction, which
in turn... 阅读全帖 |
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M*****e
发帖数: 11621 | 9 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
volontaire (volontaire) 于 (Sun Dec 22 11:47:31 2013, 美东) 提到:
说它经典是因为，曹雪芹在红楼梦里说，情产生的过程，“既悦其色，复恋其情”。这
是比较自然的，人本来就是动物，人最先感知的也是一个人生物特征，生物特征的相互
吸引，带来了情感和肉体的交流，然后是各种社会经济现实，决定了最终的关系走向，
李瓶儿和西门庆是情，欲，钱，交织的关系，这种关系也是最真实的男女关系
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charmed (仙境别红尘) 于 (Sun Dec 22 11:55:55 2013, 美东) 提到:
情，欲，钱，交织的关系，的确是最真实的男女关系，不过我就读不进金瓶梅，它太不
风花雪月了，不适合YY。。。
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volontaire (volontaire) 于 (Sun Dec 22 11:59:0... 阅读全帖 |
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x*****i
发帖数: 1329 | 10 【 以下文字转载自 Parenting 讨论区 】
发信人: xinzhai (abao), 信区: Parenting
标 题: 每个人都可以变恶魔？斯坦福监狱实验的真实启示录 zz
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Oct 26 12:34:11 2015, 美东)
相信人性向善；相信“性相近也,习相远也“。。。
**
每个人都可以变恶魔？斯坦福监狱实验的真实启示录
1971年8月17日的早晨，帕罗奥多（Palo Alto）警方拜访了九位年轻人。在邻里瞩目之
下，九人因违反刑法第211条和第459条（武装抢劫及入室盗窃），被捕，被搜查，被拷
上手铐，被塞进一辆警车车厢。车队将他们带至帕罗奥多警局，在那里立案，录指纹，
羁押，蒙眼。最终，他们被移交到斯坦福县监狱（Stanford County Prison）——暨斯
坦福大学心理学系。
他们是社会心理学史上最具争议的研究之一——斯坦福监狱实验的志愿参与者 。
这项研究的对象为中产阶级出身的大学生，他们的家庭背景、身体和精神健康病史，以
及社会行为等方面事先都进行过问卷调查，结果均显示“正常”；实验中，他们通过扔
硬币被随机分... 阅读全帖 |
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x*****i
发帖数: 1329 | 11 【 以下文字转载自 Parenting 讨论区 】
发信人: xinzhai (abao), 信区: Parenting
标 题: 每个人都可以变恶魔？斯坦福监狱实验的真实启示录 zz
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Oct 26 12:34:11 2015, 美东)
相信人性向善；相信“性相近也,习相远也“。。。
**
每个人都可以变恶魔？斯坦福监狱实验的真实启示录
1971年8月17日的早晨，帕罗奥多（Palo Alto）警方拜访了九位年轻人。在邻里瞩目之
下，九人因违反刑法第211条和第459条（武装抢劫及入室盗窃），被捕，被搜查，被拷
上手铐，被塞进一辆警车车厢。车队将他们带至帕罗奥多警局，在那里立案，录指纹，
羁押，蒙眼。最终，他们被移交到斯坦福县监狱（Stanford County Prison）——暨斯
坦福大学心理学系。
他们是社会心理学史上最具争议的研究之一——斯坦福监狱实验的志愿参与者 。
这项研究的对象为中产阶级出身的大学生，他们的家庭背景、身体和精神健康病史，以
及社会行为等方面事先都进行过问卷调查，结果均显示“正常”；实验中，他们通过扔
硬币被随机分... 阅读全帖 |
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k**l
发帖数: 2966 | 12 Marvin 看着可爱，但没人受得了
这是Arthur在Magrathea看了两个太阳同时日落后跟Marvin的对话
``Night's falling,'' he said. ``Look robot, the stars are coming out.''
From the heart of a dark nebula it is possible to see very few stars, and
only very faintly, but they were there to be seen.
The robot obediently looked at them, then looked back.
``I know,'' he said. ``Wretched isn't it?''
``But that sunset! I've never seen anything like it in my wildest dreams ...
the two suns! It was like mountains of fire boiling into space.''
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k*******e
发帖数: 11147 | 13 谢谢哈！算是长毛吧，我给他的定位就是family dog，obedience我自己训，
protection没打算训。。 |
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h*****l
发帖数: 145 | 14 In inter-class relationship, it is always hard to differentiate true love
from sympathy. Of course, it didn't matter for fans of Cinderella story,
because they all found what they are looking for in a "Ideal" relationship.
Girls found a white knight from upper class to save them from their real
life misery. Boys found a pretty and obedient girl who will worship them as
god even if they are only WSN. |
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S*********g
发帖数: 24893 | 15 http://www.prisoners.com/relcrime.html
宗教对犯罪率的影响
更加信仰基督的地方有更多的社会弊病和犯罪。这是格雷戈里。保罗在学术杂志《宗教
与社会》上发表的初步结论，这个杂志是内布拉斯加州一所教会学校的学报。
http://moses.creighton.edu/JRS/2005/2005-11.html
研究表明，基督教统治的美国南部和中西部地区，社会弊端和犯罪更严重，谋杀，性病
，死亡率更高。这项研究还表明，美国的犯罪率和基督徒比例，比其他发达世界国家都
高得多。
无法回避的现实是，基督教的教条更合适一个病态的社会。宗教狂热分子和极端主义比
毒品危害更大。
理性的人认识到基督教神话的荒谬可怜，而基督徒，尤其是福音派，或原教旨主义者，
不过是一些伪君子，用宗教作为武器来贬低他人。
格雷戈里。保罗的研究首次量化了基督教教义产生的社会效果。不只是基督教，一切狂
热的邪教都可能会有类似的邪恶效果。
当然，天主教会花了几百年压迫陷入贫困和苦难的老百姓。穆斯林有同样的呼吁
：暴力，复仇，排斥和压迫。
理智的人会奇怪宗教神话的诞生。
在美国，宗教=残酷。
Cr... 阅读全帖 |
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A***6
发帖数: 243 | 16 Chinese education is on obedience, while American education is on attitude.
In case you do not know, many Chinese fail interview in USA because of
attitude. It you are not eager to get to work, if you do not like the work,
you are unlikely to be hired. People are taught that since half of your
waking life is working time, if you do not like your work you are wasting
your life.
Either get another job or learn to like your job, and stop complaining. |
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m**********n
发帖数: 27535 | 17 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: kuyu (furnace king), 信区: Military
标 题: 一個論壇里白人對亞洲女人（中國）的看法zz
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Apr 15 13:31:03 2012, 美东)
文章涉及到很多侮辱中國女性的話 請各位hold住
这是我刚才在另外一个论坛上无意中看到的，虽然留言者是在美国，但是说的内容，好像
在我们身边也经常能看到。当然了，也不能说一竿子打翻一船人，但是还是觉得应该转来
给各位MM们看一下，希望以后选择配偶的时候能慎重一点，并且自重一些。
前几天纯属无聊，去看朋友在facebook上加入的群体，有一个叫"asian girls who
love
white guys"，因好奇进去看看，其中有一个帖子叫“Why do Asian chix hate
themselv
es??”，想看看这年头的傻逼都写些什么狗屎东西，所以又进去看了：
Semms like they wanna erase every trace of chinese/ vietnamese heritage.
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E*******e
发帖数: 1309 | 18 转帖，大家有的放矢
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~zz分界线
前几天纯属无聊，去看朋友在facebook上加入的群体，有一个叫"asian girls who
love white guys"，因好奇进去看看，其中有一个帖子叫“Why do Asian chix hate
themselves??”，想看看这年头的傻逼都写些什么狗屎东西，所以又进去看了：
Semms like they wanna erase every trace of chinese/ vietnamese heritage.
I barly see any china girls saying proudly: I'm Chinese! You do not have to
feel embarrassed by William Hung, cause he's tha best ya dig?
No matter what, ur still a chink. NOT WHITE! Yea ur American okay, so am I.
B... 阅读全帖 |
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c*********p
发帖数: 3217 | 19 【 以下文字转载自 gardening 讨论区 】
发信人: cannotsleep (cannotsleep), 信区: gardening
标 题: 看ＧＯＯＧＬＥ把这些花翻译的。
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Jun 29 23:30:45 2012, 美东)
大家帮我更正更正。有一个算一个。。。有些看着实在荒谬。谢谢。
另外按照这里看，Chives 韭菜
Garlic Chives 大蒜韭菜 但是我记得版面上有说过这两个，正好相
反。我想要韭菜的，就要了两盆Garlic Chives . 是GOOGLE错了吧？
Perennials (Sun) 多年生植物（星期日）
Agastache 藿香
Lime Agastache 石灰藿香
Bachelors Button 单身汉按钮
Bee balm 蜜蜂唇膏
Bellflower (white) 桔梗（白色）
Clu... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 3 | 20 It's a tightrope the Chinese government would rather not walk, with the
sensitive 10th anniversary of Tiananmen Square just gone by. Falun Gong,
however, is pressing its own issues with communist leaders. The sect, a
popular quasi-religious movement gaining followers worldwide, desires
official recognition and respect. This has precipitated a power struggle
that has tensions rising.
After being caught off guard by the emerging movement's 25 April 1999 ten-
thousand-plus-member sit-in — a silent ... 阅读全帖 |
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h*****h
发帖数: 1392 | 21 此地无银。如果你到了这个境界，就说明你完了。完了是中性词，说明你“放下了”，
放下对relationship的执着了；同时又说明你差不多了，死心了。死心是好事也不是好
事，全看怎么理解。我觉得太监有其幸福的部分，无欲则刚，大实话。每当我看到新闻
里哪个男人又因为女人栽了，或者生活中哪个男的跟在女人屁股后头求爱求欢的没出息
样儿，看到成人论坛上60岁的女人都围着一帮苍蝇，我就为我们男人感到难过，心想还
不如切了算了，落个清静。这是大实话。
所以从无欲则刚、无欲则乐角度说，我应该祝贺你。
而另一方面，没有找伴的那种欲望的推动，relationship就更加无解了。我觉得这样不
能说是好事。我在工作中，以及在宗教团体里面接触过一些长期独身的华人女性，很多
有心理上的问题。比如偏激、暴躁、小心眼儿、个别狠毒。我个人觉得这还是挺危险的
，不是对别人危险，是对自己危险，谁想变成那样的人呢？我的建议是：吃好睡好锻炼
好，保持身心健康。其中锻炼好，是我们经常懈怠而极端重要的。你哪怕每天在gym跑
15分钟，也是好的，最好30分钟以上，心跳保持130以上至少。你处在身心健康状态，
无论有无姻缘，都是好的... 阅读全帖 |
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t****3
发帖数: 6964 | 22 转自人人，可能是老贴了，鉴于最近外F话题比较热所以拿出来供参考
前几天纯属无聊，去看朋友在facebook上加入的群体，有一个叫"asian girls who
love white guys"，因好奇进去看看，其中有一个帖子叫“Why do Asian chix hate
themselves??”，想看看这年头的傻逼都写些什么狗屎东西，所以又进去看了：
Semms like they wanna erase every trace of chinese/ vietnamese heritage.
I barly see any china girls saying proudly: I'm Chinese! You do not have to
feel embarrassed by William Hung, cause he's tha best ya dig?
No matter what, ur still a chink. NOT WHITE! Yea ur American okay, so am I.
But ur still a chink, no matter u... 阅读全帖 |
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h********g
发帖数: 496 | 23 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: fuckthrust (...), 信区: Military
标 题: （轉）一個論壇里白人對亞洲女人（中國）的看法 PS：文章涉及到 (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Jun 2 16:42:47 2013, 美东)
发信人: tx1223 (低调WSN), 信区: WaterWorld
标 题: （轉）一個論壇里白人對亞洲女人（中國）的看法 PS：文章涉及到很多侮辱中國女性的話 請各位hold住
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Jun 2 00:38:27 2013, 美东)
转自人人，可能是老贴了，鉴于最近外F话题比较热所以拿出来供参考
前几天纯属无聊，去看朋友在facebook上加入的群体，有一个叫"asian girls who
love white guys"，因好奇进去看看，其中有一个帖子叫“Why do Asian chix hate
themselves??”，想看看这年头的傻逼都写些什么狗屎东西，所以又进去看了：
Semms like they wanna erase eve... 阅读全帖 |
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l****n
发帖数: 89 | 24 57. Asian women are the lowest and most pathetic race of women in the world
because they are so willing to sellout their race, culture and country and
are such self haters of their race and men. I find it absolutely hilarious.
No other race of women in the world is like this, NONE. And that's why us
white men actually laugh behind their backs when they are busy sucking our
cocks like whores and wiping our asses whenever we tell them to while we
dangle green cards and 1 dollar bills above their h... 阅读全帖 |
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t******n
发帖数: 2939 | 25 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
hualuogeng (hlg) 于 (Mon Jun 3 09:59:35 2013, 美东) 提到:
发信人: fuckthrust (...), 信区: Military
标 题: （轉）一個論壇里白人對亞洲女人（中國）的看法 PS：文章涉及到 (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Jun 2 16:42:47 2013, 美东)
发信人: tx1223 (低调WSN), 信区: WaterWorld
标 题: （轉）一個論壇里白人對亞洲女人（中國）的看法 PS：文章涉及到很多侮辱中國女性的話 請各位hold住
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Jun 2 00:38:27 2013, 美东)
转自人人，可能是老贴了，鉴于最近外F话题比较热所以拿出来供参考
前几天纯属无聊，去看朋友在facebook上加入的群体，有一个叫"asian girls who
love white guys"，因好奇进去看看，其中有一个帖子叫“Why do Asian chix hate... 阅读全帖 |
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G*********s
发帖数: 6786 | 26 Later that day around 9pm+, you opened the refrigerator and the oyster sauce
bottle came off the side shelf, fell on the floor and broke and
caused a big mess on the floor. You asked me to help you to clean it up, I
refused to help you and I told you have to clean it up yourself because if I
come to help you, I will be the one cleaning the whole mess by myself. You
got really really mad and angry that I just lay on the futon and refused to
get up to help you clean up the mess.
After you ... 阅读全帖 |
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G****e
发帖数: 11198 | 27 The Darker Side Of God
If you ask Christians to describe their quasi-chosen god of worship,
you’ll often hear such descriptors as “wonderful” and “loving.” This
choice of selective designation seems commonplace within the Christian
community. In fact, most churches ignore the Old Testament all together so
that the members feel comfortable propagating this view. Fueled by such
blatant omission, this lengthy chapter will fill the void by offering a look
at the volume of horrendous acts perfo... 阅读全帖 |
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h*d
发帖数: 19309 | 28 http://www.state.gov/outofdate/bgn/mongolia/195235.htm
Outer Mongolia was a Chinese province (1691-1911), an autonomous state under
Russian protection (1912-19), and again a Chinese province (1919-21). As
Manchu authority in China waned, and as Russia and Japan confronted each
other, Russia gave arms and diplomatic support to nationalists among the
Mongol religious leaders and nobles. The Mongols accepted Russian aid and
proclaimed their independence of Chinese rule in 1911, shortly after a
succ... 阅读全帖 |
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S*******1
发帖数: 1860 | 29 因为altar boy都是小男孩。小孩子都是不能自卫，不懂得发生的是什么，所以事情比
较容易隐藏着。成年妇女就不一样了，丑闻马上会爆发的危险很大，神父就会失去自己
的一切了。所以不会去碰成年妇女。
神父也都是人，也都是有人的七情六欲的。他们既然是人，都会有limitations。即便
他们非常努力，偶尔有些人会lose the batter。做一个catholic father 他们放弃了
非常多。他们要take vows of Poverty, Chasity, and Obedience。我有时候觉得
asking too much。除了信仰，他们几乎一无所有。他们voluntarily选择这样的
priesthood可以说明他们的初衷都是好的，只是有些人有时候输给了自己的
limitations。
丑闻总是传得快，传得多。更何况确实给受害人很大的伤害了。但你如果看看比例，那
么多的神父，犯事的毕竟是少数。即便这样这种事情还是应该想办法杜绝。
Roman Catholic Church现在ordain一个神父都是经过非常严格的筛选。各种心理测试
和观察。有同性恋倾向的不会被通过。
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t*******h
发帖数: 2744 | 30 The United States of Basic Bitches: A Map and Field Guide
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America can consider itself #blessed that it has a word like "bro"— three
letters that convey to most people a specific image about a specific
regionally varietal typ... 阅读全帖 |
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j*******7
发帖数: 6300 | 31 【 以下文字转载自 TrustInJesus 讨论区 】
发信人: jmsma2007 (Sreenivas), 信区: TrustInJesus
标 题: Why Mormons Are Not Christians
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri May 29 14:03:40 2015, 美东)
Mormons Are Not Christians Because the Mormon Jesus Is Not the Christian
Christ
I am one of three Jim Wallace’s in my family. My father and son bear the
same name, and all three of us are police officers. I often say that we are
the “George Foreman’s” of law enforcement; we’re not very creative when
it comes to names. If someone asked you, t... 阅读全帖 |
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h*d
发帖数: 19309 | 32 The Scout Prayer
Almighty and everlasting God,
By whose grace thy servants are enabled to fight
The good fight of faith and ever prove victorious;
We humbly beseech thee so to inspire us
That we may yield our hearts to thine obedience
And exercise our wills on thy behalf.
Help us to think wisely,
To speak rightly,
To resolve bravely,
To act kindly,
To live purely.
Bless us in body and soul
And make us a blessing to our comrades.
Whether at home or abroad
May we ever seek the extension of thy kin... 阅读全帖 |
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c*****g
发帖数: 21627 | 33 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: cccpwx (騽，雙羽四足), 信区: Military
标 题: Proud to be an Asian whore!
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sat Jan 2 02:30:50 2016, 美东)
牛肉姐应该很喜欢这篇文章
http://ihateasianmen.wordpress.com/
I have never been happier in my entire life than the moment I was freed from
my chink husband, never been happier, than the moment when I can finally be
who I really want to be.
My chink husband had oppressed me for all those years, trying to make me
into something that I was not, that he desired, and he never... 阅读全帖 |
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x***n
发帖数: 10764 | 34 什么的反证？从上和从众？
从上你可以查查milgram experiments，关于obedience的经典实验…至于从众，很多关
于group behaviour的实验和理论，东西方都有，据我所知很少有实证证明文化差异…
不过我的信息也可能过时了… |
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x***n
发帖数: 10764 | 35 conformity, obedience都是比较常见用来label中国人和中国文化的，还有个
collectivism～这个是研究得最多最系统的吧？好像很多数据都质疑了最早的概念模型
，包括meta analysis…后来有些人在这个框架上做的修改倒是很好玩… |
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e***e
发帖数: 3872 | 37 讚‘“obedience”和“persuasion”之间， 研究表明这种方式在亲密关系里非常容易
被对方“internalize”’！
如果這種機制可以同Rene Girard的模仿慾望或者神經科學中所謂mirror neuron合起來
解釋的話，那真是很有意思的現象了。我覺得生活中常常看到disobedience和
unconvincing的組合，但反例並不同樣常見。 |
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R*****o
发帖数: 14902 | 38 she's sweet and obedient. |
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r****m
发帖数: 1264 | 40 They have their belief, these poor Tibet people, that
Providence sends down always an Incarnation of Himself into
every generation.
At bottom some belief in a kind of pope! At bottom still
better, a belief that there is a Greatest Man; that he is
discoverable; that, once discovered, we ought to treat him
with an obedience which knows no bounds.
This is the truth of Grand Lamaism;
the "discoverability" is the only error here.
Thomas Carlyle (1795-1881), Scottish essayist, historian. On
Heroes, He |
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s******y
发帖数: 28562 | 41 Va. Beach man in spanking case is denied bond
http://hamptonroads.com/2011/05/va-beach-man-accused-spanking-c
The three young women first became involved with a Beach restaurateur now
facing sexual assault and abduction charges because he promised them college
scholarships, room and board and weekly allowances, they testified at a
preliminary hearing in General District Court on Thursday.
But the so-called Spencer Scholarship Program that 54-year-old Henry Allen
Fitzsimmons offered them required... 阅读全帖 |
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