m***x
发帖数: 788 | 1 Why Battered Women Just Don't Leave?
http://www.gacircleofhope.org/why_not_just_leave.htm
Many people not involved with an abusive partner say that if their mates
ever harmed them they would leave. Many battered victims remember the same
resolve. Why do they stay? Why might they go back? Why do some
permanently separate from abusers?
There are serious factors that weigh on a battered womans decision to
leave. This is the man she loves, or has loved. He may be the father of
her c... 阅读全帖 |
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k******d
发帖数: 1636 | 2 一次差点上当，一次被放了鸽子。
有点怕了
i am very interested in taking over your lease...i start xxx Unv this
january i just got out of the military and need a place asap...i have a dog
she is a service dog as well and very obedient and protective..my number is
1111111111 please text me before you call i rarely answer unkown numbers...
thank you. |
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G**7
发帖数: 391 | 3 Be obedient at first. Leave a good impression. Look for chances in another
group. You don't know what might happen if you ask you current boss now--
fired, bad impression.... |
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S***7
发帖数: 657 | 4 原文copy在这里：
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Everything you wanted to know about your noisy neighbors.
My neighbors are so noisy, are they breaking the law?
It's a good bet that your neighbors are in fact breaking the law. In almost
every community, there are laws and ordinances that prohibit excessive,
unnecessary and unreasonable levels of noise. Most of the time, these laws
are enforced by the police. If you are curious about the laws in your area,
you should look them up.
There are a nu... 阅读全帖 |
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d*w
发帖数: 384 | 5 I am refraining from replying on this board. But seeing you are trying to be a doctor yourself, I must say a few words.
You need to know yourself how to be a good patient or family of patient. If it means being blindly rebellious or obedient to you, then it will be very hard for you to work with patients or colleagues.
It doesn't appear to me you have learned the very basics in medical school, not only the basic knowledge, but also the way to learn and apply your knowledge.
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m*********7
发帖数: 5207 | 6 不听他指挥?
-- Your mom is not a nanny. Ask your LG how much he is willing to pay your
mom if he wants her to be completely obedient. |
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s*********s
发帖数: 70 | 7 唉，总是挑骨头，感冒大疫苗会死人？你问医生他也不敢这么说。
ANDY
Dear Thinktwice,
My son, Andy, was born June 16. He was healthy and full term. He had his
first shot on August 18. He started screaming right away and continued to
cry. He screamed and cried for the next few days, except when he fell into a
deep sleep. Also, when he was awake, he now had a glassy, odd look in his
eyes, as though he was looking right past us. He just wasn't right.
I took him to the Emergency Room where I was told he was having 'a bad day.'
I ask... 阅读全帖 |
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e*********a
发帖数: 36 | 8 We've been thinking about having another child but now decided to stop at
one. I'd like to share my thoughts about this. I am not discouraging people
from having more children, neither am I critizing any group. Again, I am
just sharing. People are so different.
My son just turned 2. He is an obedient, predictable and quite child. It's
easy taking care of him. I am a stay at home mom. So people have been
suggesting me to have a second child as early as possible. Yes, it is a good
time and about t |
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s******n
发帖数: 2279 | 9 http://www.miller-mccune.com/culture-society/asian-american-parenting-and-academic-success-26053/
By Kathy Seal
Why do so many Asian-American kids do so well in school?
Researchers are zeroing in on one important reason: the unique style of
Asian-American parenting.
A visit to the University of California’s most selective campuses shows how
very well Asian-American kids do academically: While Asian Americans
constituted 14 percent of the state population in 2008, this fall they ... 阅读全帖 |
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c**i
发帖数: 6973 | 10 I post it in hti sboard, because there was a month or two ago about whether
mother's surname had a place in a child's name.
(1) Bill Powell, An American Dad on Raising a Tiger Daughter. Time, Jan 20,
2011.
http://www.time.com/time/world
/article/0,8599,2043296,00.html
(Abby Cui-Powell)
Note:
(a) Bill Powell. Time
http://china.blogs.time.com/author/billpowell721/
("Bill Powell is a senior writer for TIME in Shanghai. Prior to current his
post, he was Chief International correspondent for Fortune ... 阅读全帖 |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 11 What if after reading books, your "brainwashed" child figures out that he/
she was brainwashed before???
For example, milk contains growth hormone which might cause problems to a
child's health; one needs some calories to survive; cookies taste good; food
stored in refridgerator might have passed its expiration day; a naughty kid
might have a better chance to be an astronaut than an obedient one;
language used in a child's dream is the language a child feels most
comfortable to use without eithe... 阅读全帖 |
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y****i
发帖数: 2108 | 12 a. The driver of a vehicle which is stopped at a clearly marked stop line,
but if none, before entering the crosswalk on the near side of the
intersection, or, if none then at the point nearest the intersecting roadway
where the driver has a view of approaching traffic on the intersecting
roadway before entering the intersection in obedience to a steady red signal
may make a right turn, but shall yield the right-of-way to pedestrians and
other traffic proceeding as directed by the signal at the... 阅读全帖 |
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y***j
发帖数: 11235 | 13 其实有一点很重要就是不要被孩子激怒，如果做不到，永远不要在生气的时候管教孩子
。这点我一直都是很同意，但是真的很难完全的做到。
我前面已经说了妈妈的脾气比较急，尤其生老二妊娠反应，那阵子对孩子却是很凶，我
劝过几次加上过了妊娠反应一后，就比较好了。但是孩子的个性其实在那以前，不到两
岁以前就能看出来了。现在老婆已经非常温柔，基本上对孩子基本上是忍着，然后拿我
撒气。我觉得耐心应该是在average以上的。我是非常非常少跟人发火的人，工作朋友
都觉得我是那种怎么欺负都不会生气的那种成年男屌丝的性格。有时候也会被这个孩子
弄得发火。
我觉得性格塑造肯定是和家长有关，但是家长本身很难改变的情况下，借助些外力来教
育孩子也是应该的。
“磨磨性子”想法错误了，展开说说？
军事化管理的搞法错误的？展开说说？
我现在总是觉得我父母小时候对我的管教过于轻松，缺乏一些obedience的训练另外对
某一些习惯坚持方面的训练。我有些朋友，会让我有孩子长大称他们这样就好的感觉。
而这些朋友很小就有很多着被非常严格教育的经历。想给女儿相关的一些训练，但是自
己本来就是比较随和不太会做严父的角色，而且自己的恒心... 阅读全帖 |
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J*******p
发帖数: 1129 | 14 从 Dr Sear 那儿看来的。我觉得让孩子能专心地听父母说话真的挺难的。正在学习中
，愿意和各位分享。
25 Ways to Talk So Children Will Listen
A major part of discipline is learning how to talk with children. The way
you talk to your child teaches him how to talk to others. Here are some
talking tips we have learned with our children:
1. Connect Before You Direct
Before giving your child directions, squat to your child's eye level and
engage your child in eye-to-eye contact to get his attention. Teach him how
to focus: "Mary, I need your eyes."... 阅读全帖 |
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e***y
发帖数: 148 | 15 One thing to be careful: notice the words that the grandparents communicate
with your daughter. They might say words like:
"Behave, or your parents will not love you as much as your younger brother/
sister."
"Your younger brother/sister is very obedient, why you can not be as good as
him/her?"
"You should modestly let your brother/sister always have priority."
It is always useful to tell the young girl again and again that she is still
loved by all, and she will be loved no matter what.
Second, ... 阅读全帖 |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 16 Like father, like son. :) I have found that a lot of behavior traits are
genetically related, including but not limited to: 1) preference for food; 2
) the way we walk or sleep, the way we wink or "fold" big toes; 3) the
obedience level towards authority, etc. It seems that there should not be a
big problem for your boy in terms of speech ability. Be patient. Watch him
grow and speak. |
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J*******p
发帖数: 1129 | 17
很有见地！
你把缺点打了引号，是不是觉得个性上的缺点不能简单地全算缺点？我觉得吧，有些一
般被认为是短处的个性，在一定的情境下反而成了长处。反之亦然。
抄一段书，"Letting Alone as a Means of Child Training", 和你说的“让岁月静静
流淌”好象是一个意思哈。
The neglect of child training is a great evil, but there is a danger of
overdoing in the line of child training. Overdoing in the training of a
child may be even a greater evil.
The trouble could be that a parent made too many direct issues with the
child on questions of authority and obedience, and he provoked conflicts
which might have been wis... 阅读全帖 |
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s*********d
发帖数: 912 | 18 谁说的,这些是官方说法认同的.美国人对authority, networking是公然推崇的. 对权
威和obedience的否定只有在学术界才成为共识.对于不能让对方难堪下不来台, 这个也
是放在台面上说的. 这些东西在一般教人们与人打交道的书里都是公开提倡的.
对于中国文化,如果父母真的很推崇很欣赏,潜移默化对孩子的影响就可以很可观.记得
以前有个妈妈带孩子去看'牡丹亭', 妈妈自己喜欢的话,就容易传给孩子.你要是觉得'
秦砖汉瓦,美呀!'(这话是谁说的,说谁的来着?)对孩子的影响就会在那里.
要是你自己就不喜欢,那就把普世的, 你喜欢的东西传给孩子好了,既然是普世的,中国
人当然也是有一份的. |
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d****g
发帖数: 7460 | 19 http://preschooler.thebump.com/can-overly-critical-mother-affec
many children with critical parents struggle to be perfect, obedient and
self-controlled, but inside they never feel like they measure up.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kenneth-barish-phd/the-most-commo
Persistent criticism, however, is destructive, often deeply destructive, to
our relationships with our children, and a "balance," or equal ratio, of
praise and criticism has been shown to be unhealthy, both in marriage and in
parent-... 阅读全帖 |
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n****m
发帖数: 1283 | 20 In short, under the name of family, he treats you different than others
expecting that you should be obedient.
You are the maid/slave. He is the master.
Blunt truth hurts. |
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s***l
发帖数: 2236 | 21 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
kclskcls (kclskcls) 于 提到:
学校教的数学被数学家批评不是数学， 语文被语言家批评不是学语言 ，SOCIAL,
history被批评是 biased， 教育被教育学家批评摧残人性， 我还没看到批评其他学科
的书。 High stake standardized test批评最厉害， 指责迫使老师只教考试内容，
不考试的就不教。 现在是COMMON CORE， 不知道又被批评什么样。 有没有道理，个人
见地不一样， 我觉得这些批评家讲的有些道理。
该如何教, 个人有个人的教法, 各有好坏，我不做评论. 但我对的成功的教育很明确.
1. 智力成功 比较客观， 比如好的SAT的成绩 ,竞赛获奖
2. 精神成功 比较主观， 比如活的开心. 除了Golden Rule外, 个人的定义差异很大.
从有人开始哲学家就争这个问题。 我的标准只要自己觉得开心就好 。
至于HOMESCHOOL， 还是去学校 ，或是别的方法，我没异议。只要教育达到这个目标，
我定义教育就成功了。拿这把尺去... 阅读全帖 |
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w*********o
发帖数: 3030 | 22 You think my posting in English instead Chinese is a show of obedience and
your angry posts in Chinese is a show of self respect? It's the contents
that really tells. And your angry posts sounded more like self-pity to me. |
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k****r
发帖数: 851 | 23 完全不宅,最好是24小时养在外面的一个孩子. 如果可以出去玩的话,他是不要看电视的
.问题是我们下了班,做完菜都很累了,他9点半到10点才睡,除去吃饭有三个多小时,没人
有精力可以Intensive的陪他玩那么长. 大概我带出去大半小时,或陪puzzle, 老公陪大
半小时,playdoh,火车桌,打篮球, 看电视半小时,其他时间,我们希望他能自己玩玩,我
们在旁边passive的陪着,人家就不乐意了. 三岁多点的娃,我们这样期待不过分吧.
我娃是一个非常demanding的娃, 出个门都能提10个要求,大家出门要按一定次序,有人
没按他的次序必须重来,garage door必须交给他开关,我出门衣服他要帮挑,睡衣睡裤也
要挑.人家娃睡前要求妈妈讲一个故事,妈妈可以读书的.我娃什么书都不爱听,就是要让
我命题作文:
讲一个小朋友死掉的故事
讲一个小朋友死不掉的故事.
讲一个小朋友吵架的故事.
讲一个哭了又不哭的故事.
我每天都要在保证趣味性的同时加点教育的东西在里面,绞尽脑汁啊!
最令人嫉妒的是那种天使娃的父母,娃娃从来就一说就听,没有这么许多怪要求,还能学
点中文什么的.
说到最后,... 阅读全帖 |
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w*********o
发帖数: 3030 | 24 Regardless of being liberal or conservative, do you prefer your child to be
a leader, independent, or follower? Is the expectation going to be different
for a son or a daughter? Life would be much simpler for independent or
followers.
From what I can see around me, it feels like Chinese parents somehow are
guiding their daughters to be leaders (more freedom to develop) and their
sons to be an independent or follower (obedient sons). |
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x*****i
发帖数: 1329 | 25 相信人性向善；相信“性相近也,习相远也“。。。
**
每个人都可以变恶魔？斯坦福监狱实验的真实启示录
1971年8月17日的早晨，帕罗奥多（Palo Alto）警方拜访了九位年轻人。在邻里瞩目之
下，九人因违反刑法第211条和第459条（武装抢劫及入室盗窃），被捕，被搜查，被拷
上手铐，被塞进一辆警车车厢。车队将他们带至帕罗奥多警局，在那里立案，录指纹，
羁押，蒙眼。最终，他们被移交到斯坦福县监狱（Stanford County Prison）——暨斯
坦福大学心理学系。
他们是社会心理学史上最具争议的研究之一——斯坦福监狱实验的志愿参与者 。
这项研究的对象为中产阶级出身的大学生，他们的家庭背景、身体和精神健康病史，以
及社会行为等方面事先都进行过问卷调查，结果均显示“正常”；实验中，他们通过扔
硬币被随机分为囚犯和看守。根据实验进展，研究最初的二十四小时内，在几乎没有得
到指令的情况下，看守们便开始对囚犯进行肉体和心理上的虐待。囚犯变得逆来顺受，
丧失自我感，没有只言片语的反抗。实验中出现的行为如此极端，导致本计划持续两周
的实验，在仅仅六天之后便被终止。
电影《斯坦福监狱实验》中... 阅读全帖 |
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d****g
发帖数: 7460 | 26 mmmmm... 大过节的，刚吃了buffet,比较撑。。
然后了，LP就说起了她看的关于二战的小说。说当年德国人要登记每个人的头发颜色，
金发之内也分程度，越金越好。最好是白金。眼睛要越蓝越好。身体长度要登记，那里
的长度也要登
。。
然后我就纳闷了。德国人咋那么自我良好的，觉得自己比犹太人高级，也比英国人法国
人高级。不理解啊？没觉得德国人格外英俊啊？
去差了下，这个答案靠点谱。
https://www.quora.com/Why-are-Germans-superior-to-others
“Prussian virtues, like austerity, discipline, industriousness, modesty,
punctuality, obedience, honesty, cleanliness, directness, make for a very
efficient society, far less individualistic than the Anglo-Saxons but also
far less frivilous and temp... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****e
发帖数: 2447 | 27 我也想建议同样的事情，参考童子军背诵守则。
a boy scout is trustworthy, loyal, helpful, friendly, courteous, kind,
obedient, cheerful, thrifty, brave, clean, and reverent.一个字一点头。 |
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h*****m
发帖数: 1034 | 28
obedient
妈宝还是叛逆娃，是可以培养出来的吗？我说的是青春期这个阶段。
过了青春期激素水平恢复正常水平以后，可以更加理性地从利益角度思考了，或许可以。
但那时也不能再“宝”啊“娃”啊的叫了不是？ |
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x*********s
发帖数: 5554 | 29 我订阅了psi-k的找工作广告，今天看到一个调侃比较有意思～
An announcement has been added in the "PSI-K" site at PSI-K http://cselnx9.dl.ac.uk:8080/portal
Subject: postdoc position
Category: Job
From: juttar ogal
Date: 09-Sep-2011 17:52
Message:
I am desperately searching for eager victims - postdocs or PhD students -
mine or other supervisors' - to make my workhorses and to plunder ideas from
. I am a dirty Hun who seethes from jealousy out of every pore. I cannot do
research myself because I'm narrow-minded, rigid-brai... 阅读全帖 |
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n****g
发帖数: 14743 | 31 中央宣传部原副部长、中央网信办原主任鲁炜被”双开”
严重违反政治纪律和政治规矩
severely violate the Party’s political discipline and rules
阳奉阴违、欺骗中央
While appearing to be obedient, but covertly refuse to implement Party’s
decisions and policies in practice
目无规矩、肆意妄为、妄议中央
being defiant of rules, acting wantonly and issuing groundless criticism of
the CPC decisions and policies
干扰中央巡视……公器私用，不择手段为个人造势
obstruct the central authority’s discipline inspections, abuse power and
public resources for personal purposes and unscrupulously seek p... 阅读全帖 |
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f********e
发帖数: 2194 | 32 花了些时间写的，觉得还能拿得出手吧！
贡献出来,希望大家能bless我爸妈顺利拿到签证！
老头老太年纪大了,千里迢迢跑北京不容易啊！
这是二签,再不过爸妈估计会特别失望的...
Dear U.S. Embassy Visa Officer,
We are writing joyfully to invite our parents - ***(father) and ***(mother)
to visit us. We wish this letter could be of some help to our parents’
interview with you as they do not understand English.
Our parents love travelling and have visited many countries in Europe and
Southeast Asia including Germany, France, Belgium, Austria, Thailand,
Singapore, etc. However, they have... 阅读全帖 |
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f********e
发帖数: 2194 | 33 签过了，谢谢大家的祝福，信没用上。
以下是签证官的问题：
1.你们去过美国吗？没去
2.你女儿是以什么身份去的美国？
3.你女儿回来过吗？回来过
3.有照片吗？有，递照片
4.你们还在职吗？一个在职
5.看看你女儿的收入？给工资单和银行证明
祝大家父母都顺利签过！
======================================================================
花了些时间写的，觉得还能拿得出手吧！
贡献出来,希望大家能bless我爸妈顺利拿到签证！
老头老太年纪大了,千里迢迢跑北京不容易啊！
这是二签,再不过爸妈估计会特别失望的...
Dear U.S. Embassy Visa Officer,
We are writing joyfully to invite our parents - ***(father) and ***(mother)
to visit us. We wish this letter could be of some help to our parents’
interview with you as they d... 阅读全帖 |
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D******e
发帖数: 11265 | 34 【 以下文字转载自 WaterWorld 讨论区 】
发信人: tx1223 (低调WSN), 信区: WaterWorld
标 题: （轉）一個論壇里白人對亞洲女人（中國）的看法 PS：文章涉及到很多侮辱中國女性的話 請各位hold住
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Jun 2 00:38:27 2013, 美东)
转自人人，可能是老贴了，鉴于最近外F话题比较热所以拿出来供参考
前几天纯属无聊，去看朋友在facebook上加入的群体，有一个叫"asian girls who
love white guys"，因好奇进去看看，其中有一个帖子叫“Why do Asian chix hate
themselves??”，想看看这年头的傻逼都写些什么狗屎东西，所以又进去看了：
Semms like they wanna erase every trace of chinese/ vietnamese heritage.
I barly see any china girls saying proudly: I'm Chinese! You do not have to
feel ... 阅读全帖 |
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X****i
发帖数: 1877 | 35
You can turn them into your obedient servants on a regular basis.
Once they start bear raids or short squeezes, you can exploit them to your
advantage, and at their expense.
It is quite easy, really, unless you get scared by them, and/or fail to
allocate and reserve your buying power properly.
Taming the MMs is an art, but not difficult. |
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X****i
发帖数: 1877 | 36
在股市提钱如探囊取物 is exactly how I feel too.
The biggest obstacle or resistance for most sheeple is really MENTAL and/or
PSYCHOLOGICAL.
The financial media conditions the public to do exactly the wrong thing from
Day 1, just like a human master conditions a baby elephant from birth to
obediently do the master's bidding for life.
Slavery and exploitation can take many forms, some invisible. |
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发帖数: 5449 | 37 以道德规范的强制执行为基础的共济会，深度控制了美国的权力机构。道德规范和团结
组合在一起，可以产生如此强大的组织。
Freemasons have a set of basic principles that they all live by. Masonic
lodge members promise never to bring anything offensive or defensive into
the lodge with them — both weapons and words. The object of the lodge is to
create a place where those divisions are left outside, so Masons can engage
in activities that unite them instead of separating them:
A moral code: Freemasons believe in honor and that a man has a
responsibility to ... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1 | 38 我看床铺的故事会发酵的越来越粉红
对床铺上过无数女人的事实坚定不移
有种的清教徒不会让白宫变成妓院 white coitus house for Trump
Based on Biblical portrayals of Adam and Eve, Puritans believed that
marriage was rooted in procreation, love, and, most importantly, salvation.[
33]Husbands were the spiritual heads of the household, while women were
to demonstrate religious piety and obedience under male authority.[34]
Furthermore, marriage represented not only the relationship between husband
and wife, but also the relationship between spouses and ... 阅读全帖 |
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b********9
发帖数: 1061 | 39 1. you still need to do TB test as long as you havent done it for the last
six months.
2. as the yellow brochure showed,you have to do whatever the doc lets you do
, otherwise, they wont sign...
be obedient.. |
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p********9
发帖数: 37 | 40 To tangerine612 :
That is why we filed lawsuit againt DOS & CIS. If issued 28.3% x 7% x 140000
visa numbers to us in 2008 and 2009, our cut-off date should be in 2005 now
. DOS intentionally moved ROW cut-off aggressively to make sure they get
bigger chunk of visa numbers at the cost of EB3C. As a result many of us
were laid off and lost status while waiting. They don't care about us since
we are so quiet, obedient, even coward, like no other ethnic group. That is
why there is such law as "Chine |
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M********4
发帖数: 1272 | 41 lol, nice see to a moron irritated:)
You are free to continue to insult both English and Chinese with your
Chinglish: i don't give a rat ass how an idiot reacts to my comments ...
just repeat: you simply don't deserve to be in US of A with your inability
to express in one single language. you are no better than the illegal
Mexican kid unwilling to learn English as well as wasting public funds. Even
a fat arsed nigger on the street deserves more than you do, as the language
he speaks is pure Eng... 阅读全帖 |
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q****3
发帖数: 2223 | 42 【明報專訊】旺角清場時，岑敖暉再次登上國際傳媒。五六個全副武裝孔武有力的警方
精銳部隊，合力把已舉起雙手的岑敖暉制服。岑敖暉堅毅不屈的眼神，與那批兇神惡煞
的警員成強烈對比，美國《華盛頓郵報》配以標題「The battle for Hong Kong's
future, captured in one powerful image」，說明了一切。
在學生與警察之間，外媒選擇了站在學生一方，只可惜，不少香港人並非如此。當殺紅
了眼的警察拿着警棍狂揮亂舞之時，身繫藍絲的大聲叫好，「忍你好耐，終於可忘情兇
狠痛痛快快地打」，對雨傘邉右焉鷧捑氲模瑒t對警察的暴行選擇性失明，就是如此，
社會把崇尚暴力的惡魔釋放出來了。
擁有一支崇尚暴力的警隊，社會會變成怎麼樣？可看看最近的美國。
美國紐約市大陪審團周三（12月3日）決定不起訴今年7月「箍頸」制服手無寸鐵黑人小
販致其死亡的白人警察，引發千計示威者堵塞多處地標及街道抗議。這是繼一周前密蘇
里州大陪審團決定不起訴槍殺黑人青年布朗的白人警察後，又一爭議裁決。
期待市民對警權絕對服從
這其實只是近年連串警察濫用武力的其中部分案例，事件除引來美國式「佔領... 阅读全帖 |
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q****3
发帖数: 2223 | 43 【明報專訊】旺角清場時，岑敖暉再次登上國際傳媒。五六個全副武裝孔武有力的警方
精銳部隊，合力把已舉起雙手的岑敖暉制服。岑敖暉堅毅不屈的眼神，與那批兇神惡煞
的警員成強烈對比，美國《華盛頓郵報》配以標題「The battle for Hong Kong's
future, captured in one powerful image」，說明了一切。
在學生與警察之間，外媒選擇了站在學生一方，只可惜，不少香港人並非如此。當殺紅
了眼的警察拿着警棍狂揮亂舞之時，身繫藍絲的大聲叫好，「忍你好耐，終於可忘情兇
狠痛痛快快地打」，對雨傘邉右焉鷧捑氲模瑒t對警察的暴行選擇性失明，就是如此，
社會把崇尚暴力的惡魔釋放出來了。
擁有一支崇尚暴力的警隊，社會會變成怎麼樣？可看看最近的美國。
美國紐約市大陪審團周三（12月3日）決定不起訴今年7月「箍頸」制服手無寸鐵黑人小
販致其死亡的白人警察，引發千計示威者堵塞多處地標及街道抗議。這是繼一周前密蘇
里州大陪審團決定不起訴槍殺黑人青年布朗的白人警察後，又一爭議裁決。
期待市民對警權絕對服從
這其實只是近年連串警察濫用武力的其中部分案例，事件除引來美國式「佔領... 阅读全帖 |
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s****t
发帖数: 17096 | 44 好了，我上网做了一番调查。。
最后得出的结论是，右拐yield sign只yield oncoming traffic，原话：
IF the left-turner is already in the intersection, that right-turning
traffic must yield IF there is a yield sign.
也就是说left-turner无论如何是要yield 右拐，yield这个牌子是不负责让开车的人去
判断相反方向是什么信号灯（否则就设置stop sign或者红灯），而是注意是否自己右
拐的那一刻安全。
直行绿灯左拐是一定要让行，这里和全国交规是一致的
至于GA为什么经常会有左拐的人一直认为自己有优先权，有人说是driver lesson
badly taught，还有GA长的居民说最近十年GA出现越来越多右拐让直行的现象，所以（
原话）"more left turners assuming the right turners will yield, so they go
very quickly!"
GA state code在这里... 阅读全帖 |
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S*********g
发帖数: 24893 | 45 http://www.prisoners.com/relcrime.html
宗教对犯罪率的影响
更加信仰基督的地方有更多的社会弊病和犯罪。这是格雷戈里。保罗在学术杂志《宗教
与社会》上发表的初步结论，这个杂志是内布拉斯加州一所教会学校的学报。
http://moses.creighton.edu/JRS/2005/2005-11.html
研究表明，基督教统治的美国南部和中西部地区，社会弊端和犯罪更严重，谋杀，性病
，死亡率更高。这项研究还表明，美国的犯罪率和基督徒比例，比其他发达世界国家都
高得多。
无法回避的现实是，基督教的教条更合适一个病态的社会。宗教狂热分子和极端主义比
毒品危害更大。
理性的人认识到基督教神话的荒谬可怜，而基督徒，尤其是福音派，或原教旨主义者，
不过是一些伪君子，用宗教作为武器来贬低他人。
格雷戈里。保罗的研究首次量化了基督教教义产生的社会效果。不只是基督教，一切狂
热的邪教都可能会有类似的邪恶效果。
当然，天主教会花了几百年压迫陷入贫困和苦难的老百姓。穆斯林有同样的呼吁
：暴力，复仇，排斥和压迫。
理智的人会奇怪宗教神话的诞生。
在美国，宗教=残酷。
Cr... 阅读全帖 |
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m*******e
发帖数: 1569 | 46 感觉上你不太适合养狗，真的要training的话petsmart那种puppy school没撒大用处，
干脆找个breeder去boarding一个月，1000-1500basic obedience都能学会。 |
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c******n
发帖数: 5697 | 47 http://www.scpr.org/news/2013/11/09/40291/asian-americans-prote
The punchline came when he interviewed the Asian-American child. He was
making fun of the infantile mentality of jingoistic American pundits and
sadly, way too many Americans. Too bad too many Americans (and Chinese) are
too stupid to see it. He wasn't demeaning Chinese, he was demeaning
stupidity, bigotry, blind obedience to stupid, self-serving politicians. In
other words, if you're offended, you're the butt of the joke. NOW you c... 阅读全帖 |
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p********3
发帖数: 5750 | 49 嗯，这个也在试， 有点掌握不到火候。我看有的资料说要盯着狗直到它移开目光为止
，可是这个没有影响我要吼几次她才听口令。 |
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c******r
发帖数: 3778 | 50 小狗狗比你还了解你，知道你色厉内荏，表示很淡定，哈哈哈 |
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