Y*******n 发帖数: 4646 | 1 lZ mm, you have every right to be angry. personally I thiknk you husband is
a wuss , can't protect his wife and kids from a lousy bitch. yes people, I
said bitch, she deserves a worse name!
you did not hurt her, u apologized and moved your car, she has no loss what
so ever but she is a fucking bitch that jsut want to give you hard time.
typically some whtie trash loser that can't have her own life together so
she get it out on you!
you gonna take that shit? how much shit is enough for "weak as... 阅读全帖 |
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p********a 发帖数: 6437 | 2 my daughter did this since 1 yr
no problem
u overreact
human is smartest creature, won't die of these things. |
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s****h 发帖数: 717 | 3 emotional roller coaster呀, 还好虚惊一场,摸摸 :) 觉得美国医生经常overreact
,先往严重了说吓吓你...一生病真是觉得什么都没有身体好重要啊,可一好了立刻又
去追逐功名利禄了,没办法,人的本性啊 |
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c*******u 发帖数: 12899 | 4 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
yugon (扫地大婶) 于 (Tue Jul 24 23:29:18 2012, 美东) 提到:
可能早上上班之前他被老婆扁了一顿,心情不好
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niuma2009 (niuniu) 于 (Tue Jul 24 23:37:16 2012, 美东) 提到:
WSN一个,消消气!!
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DarkMatterER (小黑大妈) 于 (Tue Jul 24 23:52:30 2012, 美东) 提到:
太ws了,让我想起了大华门口的法轮功大爷大妈。
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crystal87 (水晶妈) 于 (Tue Jul 24 23:56:00 2012, 美东) 提到:
臭老男人!
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d******r 发帖数: 1247 | 5 you are overreacting.I didn't mean that. |
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z***w 发帖数: 3277 | 6 我也觉得你们overreact了
不过谁都是在学着当父母,都怕一个不当心孩子给教坏了,养成坏毛病
没事的,拍拍 |
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y*******g 发帖数: 17 | 7 我今早也查了两次,都是negative,回家到现在又有两次水样液体流出的情况,又打电
话给OB,OB好像很不耐烦,她强调不是water broke 而是discharge。。。然后勉强约
了今天下午4.15的appointment。也不知道是不是自己overreact了。 |
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z*****e 发帖数: 1442 | 8 绝对没有overreact。支持你这种情况就是要让ob检查。羊水破了是有一定时间一定要
生的,better safe than sorry。 |
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y***n 发帖数: 11261 | 9 overreact比较好,这个事儿不能马虎,你坚持要检查吧 |
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s********y 发帖数: 4047 | 11 我用Dr. Alice Lau在法拉盛
Address: 42-65 Kissena Blvd, Flushing, NY 11355
Phone:(718) 353-2300
大概快60的一老太,很精明能干的样子。唯一不好就是她太easygoing了,啥都不在乎
,觉得做父母的总是overreact~,提倡顺其自然。。有时候会比较凶~哈哈,但是如果
有问题她还是会比较有耐性的。
不过扎针她肯定很有经验,每次抽血打针她也都亲自来,没见过有任何差错~30年经验
不是白给的。 |
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i******s 发帖数: 925 | 12 7个月的时候我发现一条腿上3条纹,一条腿上2条纹。昨天去医
生那儿9个月检查,我告诉儿医腿纹的事情
,他扳着腿检查了一下,说没有听见咔嚓的声音,但又说一般出生4/5个月,咔嚓声汇
消失。建议去做x-ray,我担心对女儿不好,他又推荐ultra sound。
现在犹豫要不要折腾。女儿刚刚会爬,还只是刚从匍匐前进往两腿支撑过渡。女儿是瘦
宝宝,体重只有5%,身
高50%。还不会站。
怕overreact 但又怕耽误了。想听听大家的意见。谢谢了先。 |
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l*****r 发帖数: 7130 | 13 一路看下来doubao确实没有恶意,扇风啥的很明显是句玩笑话。实话实说的觉得你们夫
妻俩overreact了。 |
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T*****u 发帖数: 3257 | 14 itsds和superstring是夫妻吗?
我也觉得overreact了,好像一说到甲板斑竹就戳到了他们痛处,不知道为什么。 |
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f****y 发帖数: 2612 | 15 嘻嘻,不好意思地说,我爹当年就是这么干的,虽然其实我也没被bully,但是他老人
家因为小时候有被bully的经历,有点overreact,但是事后我也没被嘲笑
的意见,学校里欺负人的孩子不会因为你说NO,STOP就停,找学校也没什么用.前两条就是
个JOKE,叫停就指望那种孩子停了,这么听话就不欺负人了.以暴制暴倒不一定,但起码得
让欺负人的孩子知道如果他不改,他自己也会是同样下场.如果采取LZ的办法,或者是等
着孩子接着挨欺负,或者是转到特别好的学校,我家孩子小学时在一所很好的学校还遇到
过这样的问题呢,当时孩子经常受一个阿三的大孩子欺负,我替孩子出的头.虽然后来那
个阿三经常嘲笑孩子没本事找家长,但再也不敢欺负孩: 子了.现在孩子上大学了,高中
时我还经常问孩子,有人欺负吗,如果挨欺负跟我说.说这么多就是以一个过来人的身份
告诉有些家长, 不要太天真了. |
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w********9 发帖数: 8613 | 16 http://www.kidsgrowth.com/resources/articledetail.cfm?id=244
Biting Must Never Be Permitted
We teach children not to hurt others. Youngsters must therefore learn that
hitting, slapping, pinching, scratching, biting, shoving, knocking down and
hair pulling are totally unacceptable. Of all these childhood behaviors,
however, biting seems to cause parents the most problems. Horrified teachers
and day care providers occasionally overreact and harshly punish the biter,
the parents of the biter are em... 阅读全帖 |
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s*y 发帖数: 18644 | 18 我觉得楼主是有点overreacted了,滑梯撞到一下很正常,你娃如果没哭,根本就不是
什么事,人家父母没反应我觉得也算正常,当然如果你娃被撞哭了,他们是应该至少跟
你道个谦的。不过另外那个妈妈后来那么大声的说人家mean,也很没教养,不是什么善
茬。 |
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l*****s 发帖数: 127 | 19 我觉得有点overreact了吧。如果老师一次不好就换学校,那不就是逃避么。应该积极
解决这个问题。首先要确定你看见的是一次事件还是她总是这样。是一个老师这样还是
两个老师都这样。你的孩子应该表达能力很强了,可以每天问问她感觉怎么样。妈妈看
到的未必是真的,至少可能不全面。我们宝宝前天回家不开心说XX老师没给他拍照,给
XXX拍照了。今天回家就说XX老师给他拍照了。
如果这个老师老是冷落你孩子,可以找老师单独谈谈,再问问其他(如果有的话)中国
家长看有没有同样的情况。最不济就是找校长谈。我们daycare就有一个老师是被家长
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x*******g 发帖数: 1363 | 20 Black is a insulting word, because it is based on the color. However you can
call then African American. I don't know other than Chinese, what other
words can be referred to us?
I think you overreacted. My daughter ran into the similar case when she was
G-K. She felt bad because she is different than others (others are all
American, you know). Now she will tease back like yeah, that is why we are
smart:-) |
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g******t 发帖数: 230 | 21 读了MM的所有回帖,觉得你针对platinum的回帖有点overreact。BBS本来就是灌水聊天
的地方,不恶意骂人就行了,指望所有人发的帖子都是认真负责,可以当模板照着做怎
么可能。platinum说的是一家之言,代表她自己的经历看法而已。
至于你说platinum是self denial,我觉得这顶帽子太大了。相反,我觉得她活得很真
诚,忠于自己的内心。她更像个一根筋的人,在很多所谓的“正常人”眼里比较另类。
我喜欢网上的platinum,生活中有这样的人我会和她做朋友。 |
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s****t 发帖数: 17096 | 22 overreacting
not good for kid |
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q**********g 发帖数: 62 | 24 我有点粘孩子,爱亲他。这会造成他长不大吗?孩子晚我一年来美,之后学生生活比
较苦,又孤单没玩伴,我总是心存歉疚,所以我对孩子比较在意,总是满足他所有要求
,关注太多。但不是所有妈妈都这样吗?
他说burger的事,是2年前,不是现在。我当时问他问什么这么说,他说just want
say something funny, 而且,他不认为burger不好。我和他一顿讲,不可以这样说话
,很多人可能不喜欢这样的话,后来他就没再当我的面说这样的话。学校举手的事,正
好老师讲到古代文明中国段,所以他觉得自己有很好的point要说给全班听,可惜老师
没让。
他在家基本说英文,我们中文。新学区算是好区,公立学校,我本来满怀希望,没想
到会这样。学校说他unpredictable,怕他危害别的学生,我接受不了这个说法。现在基
本一有事,就是他错,我觉得学校有点overreact. 这个学校中国孩子很少,这个年级6
个,在6个班级,而孩子们没有中国人互相帮的想法,他们好像不愿这样。我会再找医
生评价一下,不管学校的评价是怎样的。我也想过转学,学期中也不行,还有好几个月
呢。
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i*****k 发帖数: 2576 | 25 学校老师的印象病已经这样了,孩子很可怜。
你举的那个例子那个女生指责他的行为,换了他说肯定要被当作错的。
要是我就和老师好好解释一下,然后委婉的表达老师和其他同学对他的行为如何刺激了
他,希望老师以后对他耐心些帮助他适应。如果老师不高兴,最差不过现在这个结果了
,还能再差到哪里去呢。最后可能就转学了。
现在基本一有事,就是他错,我觉得学校有点overreact. 这个学校中国孩子很少,这
个年级6
个,在6个班级,而孩子们没有中国人互相帮的想法,他们好像不愿这样。我会再找医
生评价一下,不管学校的评价是怎样的。我也想过转学,学期中也不行,还有好几个月
呢。
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s**i 发帖数: 4448 | 26 嗯,我可能急躁了。看他歪着脑袋在算,有点儿沉不住气了。提建议其实就是在说my
way is better than yours...
我已经不记的我们多大背的口诀表了。有一回飞机上看见一个印度孩子在背乘法口诀,
他父母在旁边坐着监督。印象很深。总觉着孩子将来要和很多很用功聪明的孩子们竞争。
感觉是父母的焦虑吧,怕自己没做够耽误了孩子。
我拿捏不准的就是,是不是他没有能力take constructive criticism, 一味回避批评
,只做自己有把握的事。
将来有大挫折来了,不会处理。
总觉着责任重大。也许我们倆都overreact了。 |
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l****r 发帖数: 637 | 27 太大惊小怪了。
If many Chinese's view, all dogs are bad dogs, will tear human to pieces.
For this particular case, it could be an accident. The dog found an
opportunity, and went out of house. If this thing happens many times, you
need to be concerned and start complaining.
BTW, golden, lab, they are all qualified as large breed dogs. They are quite
different than pit and rott.
You and your mom overreacted. |
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o**********e 发帖数: 18403 | 28 Jimmy Kimmel Kids table show. We shouldn't overreact 啦。
做这:
1. boycott ABC, Jimmy Kimmel (not so funny any how), Disney parent
2. sue the pants off Jimmy Kimmel/ABC. Our kids are traumatized by
watching the Kids table, which seemed somewhat educational until it turned
very scary.
3. get some lawyer to the kids who were recorded on his "comedy" show.
Who wants to grow up being alternatively called "mini-Hitler"? Who wants
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r******g 发帖数: 691 | 31 no, it is very legitimate.
Those who call us as overreacting please see how Jewish people fired many TV
personalities for some message. Remember Helen Thomas, sitting in the first
row of White House press conference for 40 years. got fired at age of 90
simply for something off-record against Israel.
Don't be naive.
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c**********N 发帖数: 1273 | 32 实在是不能理解说楼主overreact 的家长,人家都拿飞机戳你家孩子脑门了,拉你家孩
子衣服了,已经有肢体接触了,明显地在挑衅了,还不冲上去保护自己孩子,反而为行
为恶劣的孩子开脱,两岁的孩子面对比他高大的七八岁孩子,无论体力还是智力都不太
可能胜出,你让孩子自己应对,你不教孩子怎么对付bully他的人,难道他自己就会了
吗?好多时候我们大人认为孩子不在乎,其实你从孩子的角度想想,好玩的玩具誰都想
玩,被戳到了肯定不会高兴就是了,都是最本能的反应,但他最后为什么选择了放弃面
对?是因他认为对手太强大,斗起来没有胜算。就算他真的不在乎,但这也不是别人可
以隨便欺负的理由
to
firm
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c*****t 发帖数: 330 | 33 上次那家幼儿园也有墨西哥人,好像没这么冷漠和严格。所以没有多想。
我想让大家看看,还有三个月就有蒙校的位子了,要不要现在换还是忍三个月。儿子几
个月内换好几
个幼儿园是不是不好。
还有,是我overreact了吗? |
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d****g 发帖数: 7460 | 34 Mm.. so i overreacted? I should just "let it go" i assume..
no |
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l*****r 发帖数: 7130 | 35 clip down真不是啥大事,我们这边一天里clip down三次或者特别严重的,才变成
parent contact,也就是说,其它clip down家长完全可以不知道。
上K的小孩,一开始管不住自己很常见,lz表overreact。 |
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s*********2 发帖数: 115 | 36 I write it 3 months ago. I DIDN'T POST IT OUT.
i CAN'T HOLD , i AM BLUE.
再次紧急求助!(很受伤,慎入)
不知放哪儿让我感觉舒服点儿,借人气暂且放这儿吧。
孩子被带走3个多月,从冬天到夏天。。。他们都是无辜的天真活波可爱的孩子。没用
的妈妈不是那种只生不养,no responsibility 的妈妈,而是双方家人没有人能帮忙,
自己又太爱孩子,总想让这些孩子有个体面的生活,自己天资不足,又不能同时handle
很多事,压力太大,一时判断失误,做了件现在想来是件stupid的事情,(其实孩子进
家里,妈妈粗心,心急立马去学校找,5 minutes回家发现孩子,在警察到学校之前, 警
察作了记录这事结束了)2小时后DCF带走了所有的孩子(第二次)。
请那些天赋很强,上帝又赐予您多方面能力的人能够出谋划策,Bring kids back to
home。能感觉孩子们在精神上像我一样在崩溃的边缘,我已3次因心脏问题进emergency
room 。相信每一位做妈妈的都会像我一样,心也跟着碎了。。。我不敢想象我的孩子
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o**********e 发帖数: 18403 | 37 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: onetiemyshoe (onetiemyshoe), 信区: Military
标 题: 回答CHINESE:1-2-3
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Oct 1 20:20:40 2015, 美东)
1. Teach how to descalate situation :
Do not overreact when a kid makes racist remarks.
Do not overreach by intervening for your child, you are
taking a valuable opportunity for your child to learn
an important lesson.
let kids be kids. tell your child to prepare 3 calm/funny
come backs to the common slurs, schoolyard taunts.
fight and flight response are... 阅读全帖 |
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o**********e 发帖数: 18403 | 38 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: onetiemyshoe (onetiemyshoe), 信区: Military
标 题: 回答CHINESE:1-2-3
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Oct 1 20:20:40 2015, 美东)
1. Teach how to descalate situation :
Do not overreact when a kid makes racist remarks.
Do not overreach by intervening for your child, you are
taking a valuable opportunity for your child to learn
an important lesson.
let kids be kids. tell your child to prepare 3 calm/funny
come backs to the common slurs, schoolyard taunts.
fight and flight response are... 阅读全帖 |
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c**l 发帖数: 9003 | 39 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: onetiemyshoe (onetiemyshoe), 信区: Military
标 题: 回答CHINESE1-2-3: Win Respect
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Oct 1 20:20:40 2015, 美东)
1. Teach how to descalate situation :
Do not overreact when a kid makes racist remarks.
Do not overreach by intervening for your child, you are
taking a valuable opportunity for your child to learn
an important lesson.
let kids be kids. tell your child to prepare 3 calm/funny
come backs to the common slurs, schoolyard taunts.
fight and flight ... 阅读全帖 |
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d****g 发帖数: 7460 | 40 Pay no attention to the class clown. Jokers, or class clowns, devote their
time and energy to providing comic relief for the classroom. When you are in
the mood for the class clown’s antics, their jokes are hilarious; when you
are not in the mood, their attempts and humor can drive you mad.
Since class clowns thrive on the reaction of their “crowd,” the best way
to
ignore a joker is to have no physical or verbal reaction to their jokes.
Class clowns aim to please and are highly sensitive to crit... 阅读全帖 |
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d****g 发帖数: 7460 | 41 'I accepted my fate'
The first woman told police that "light kissing" quickly escalated to
forceful touching as she told Cook to stop.
She told police that before she knew it, he had pinned her to the bed,
removed her clothes and forced himself on her.
When it became clear he would not relent, "I accepted my fate," she told
police. "I realized he was bigger and stronger. I thought maybe I could wait
this out and then get away." When she stopped fighting he "took it as
permission," she told the o... 阅读全帖 |
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a*****e 发帖数: 4577 | 44 那孩子看发帖风格,
就是典型的zhuangbility
不用overreact
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u******s 发帖数: 3876 | 45 You are overreacted.
今天碰到一个怪事,不吐不快。看看到底我做得好还是反应过激了。
一个月前,我联系了国内某研究院。他们把我的材料转到其中的一个顾问研究员那里。
碰巧这哥们和我现在的领导以前有过接触。于是,他给我领导写邮件,说我在申请国内
的工作,要了解我的情况,等等。
我老板一直对我都很好。收到邮件后,他马上找我,告诉我如果要离开的话提前告诉他
们,要找个合适的人来填补我的位置并不容易。其实,我跟国内刚接触,才互相发了两
次邮件。根本谈不上要去那里。我也知道在国内要得到好位置很难,而且肯定需要漫长
的沟通。而且我在这边刚刚得到一点小小的提升。我是想着边走边看边谈。
我很惊讶,该研究员收到我的材料(我的材料上没有写明我老板的任何信息)没跟我打招
呼竟然直接跟我老板联系。我觉得这让我有点难为情了,因为我老板刚刚给了我续合同
,在他眼里我就又马上想着要走。我也觉得我们才仅仅开始谈,还远远没有到要推荐信
的地步。到那一步,双方觉得合适,我会让我老板给他们发的。因此,我给该研究员直
接打电话,说了这个问题。他认为他做的没有任何不妥。这完全是他能做的。他说他以
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p*******8 发帖数: 67 | 47 Hey there,
I just submited the I160 for my parents, then I realized that I may make a
mistake in the "history of empolyment" section. I think it only requires to
provide the past five years of employment. My parents has been retired since
1997, but I still filled out all the blanks for theirs previous employment.
Is this really big of deal? or I am overreacting here. This form certainally
drives me nuts!!!!
thank you very much |
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E***X 发帖数: 885 | 48 Before the IBM ER, big players were betting the downside of market which
implied bad ER for IBM.
赌ER,赔在IBM上了。我觉得STREET overreact了。别的也没赌。 |
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b*****2 发帖数: 651 | 49 Not that bad is good if you look at current market sentiment. I think its
just overreacting to everything. |
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