P*****a
发帖数: 5209 | 1 Like they always say waifuck here, waifuck there, what kind of people are
they?
are they really people?? |
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d********8
发帖数: 167 | 2 "Send troops to liberate the Chinese people," reads another petition, this
one with more than 3,500 signatures.
Part protest, part entreaty, petitioning has deep roots in China, a country
where courts are seen as beyond the reach of ordinary people or beholden to
officials. Many seek redress for land seizures, factory layoffs, or medical
and police disputes.
But doing so in China can be a risky affair, often leading to detention in
secret facilities dubbed black jails.
One called for the United ... 阅读全帖 |
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p*******n
发帖数: 52 | 3 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: peopleman (pacific), 信区: Military
标 题: 我刚在白宫 we the people上发了一个petition, 求大家帮忙签名，多谢了
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri May 17 14:35:02 2013, 美东)
I just started a petition on the White House petitions site, We the
People. Will you sign it?
http://wh.gov/SjJw |
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F******t
发帖数: 948 | 4 Jamie Foxx Jokes About Killing ‘All the White People’ in His New Movie
Noel Sheppard, Newsbusters, December 10, 2012
Two weeks ago, Oscar-winning actor Jamie Foxx made national headlines when
he called President Obama “Our lord and savior.”
While hosting NBC’s Saturday Night Live this weekend, Foxx joked about how
in his new film “Django Unchained,” “I kill all the white people in the
movie. How great is that?” |
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c*****g
发帖数: 21627 | 5 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: umutata (Pupa), 信区: Military
标 题: 自恨心理鉴别与纠正指南 How to identify self-hating people
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Apr 29 20:10:53 2014, 美东)
自恨心理鉴别与纠正指南 How to identify self-hating people and help them
--- 初级篇（进阶篇，提高篇待续）
相信广大华人同胞都有一个共识，那就是：华人与其他种族虽有肤色，语言，文化上的
差别，但在人性，道德，尊严，能力，品格上，并无高下之分。这道理虽然简单朴素，
不言自明，然而有些人要么不承认这一原则，要么虽然口头承认但内心不以为然，以至
于在潜意识里认为华人在某种程度上比外族尤其是白人低劣，并且在言谈举止中流露出
来。这种意识就叫自恨心理，相应的行为就叫自恨行为。
自恨心理的表现形式千差万别，在此就一一进行列举，并剖析其背后的心理。
1. "哇塞，金发碧眼好帅啊！"
这类人认为，只有长得像白人才... 阅读全帖 |
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H********g
发帖数: 43926 | 6 kdice.com
It is like dice war, but with people.
For new players:
You may often see people saying: flag red, flag blue, flag teal, etc. That means "I surrender, please do not attack me". Then the other guy can chose to accept(often) or not(rarely). Making no response is regarded noobish. On the lower right there is a check box, that is the real flag, meaning you are willing to accept the Nth position.
You may find this game to be quite "political".
Have fun. |
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N*****m
发帖数: 42603 | 7 http://www.newyorker.com/online/blogs/borowitzreport/2013/06/us
aware-of-irony-in-accusing-snowden-of-spying.html
WASHINGTON (The Borowitz Report)—The United States government charged form
er intelligence analyst Edward Snowden with spying on Friday, apparently una
ware that in doing so it had created a situation dripping with irony.
At a press conference to discuss the accusations, an N.S.A. spokesman surpri
sed observers by announcing the spying charges against Mr. Snowden with a to
tally stra... 阅读全帖 |
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G**Y
发帖数: 33224 | 8 Costco: 1-year supply of food for 4 people (emergency food supply), $3,499
after $500 off, free shipping!
LOL
- $0.12 Cents per Serving, up to 25 years shelf life
- Comprehensive food supply for up to 12 months for 4 people
- Shipment arrives on a pallet that is black-wrapped for security and
privacy
- Pallet contains 63 separate boxes
- All freeze dried foods have a shelf life of up to 25 years
Grains:
42 Hard White Winter Wheat (25 year shelf life) (Country of Origin: USA)
36 White Rice (25 ye... 阅读全帖 |
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b*****2
发帖数: 11103 | 9 【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: gemini2012 (双子AB), 信区: USANews
标 题: Hillary: People Under FBI Investigation Should Lose Constitutional Rights
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Jun 14 14:06:07 2016, 美东)
Clinton shouldn’t be allowed to run for president. Obviously.
“If the FBI is watching you for suspected terrorist links,” Hillary
Clinton said today in her supposedly apolitical speech, “you shouldn’t be
able to just go buy a gun.”
If we’re going to do this, let’s be consistent.
If the FBI is conducting a crimina... 阅读全帖 |
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x********e
发帖数: 35261 | 10 【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: shinymoon (ShinyMoon), 信区: USANews
标 题: Transgender people who killed themselves
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Nov 11 16:12:40 2016, 美东)
刚从学校gay club看来的
Transgender people who killed themselves due to Trump being President:
Chasity Rose - 19, sister, friend. Heart of gold. With hands of steel.
Talented; she could sing anything. Artistic; she could draw anything.
Murdered by the Donald Trump movement.
Kyla Reeves - 13, Transgender girl with a trans brother. Felt it was
necessa... 阅读全帖 |
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w**********5
发帖数: 1741 | 11 "I think people like me for my tennis."
库娃：“我觉得大家是因为我的球技才喜欢我的。”
"I am beautiful, famous and gorgeous. I could have any man in the world."
库娃：“我美貌和名气并存，所有男人都是我的囊中之物。”
"You don't think people would go on about my looks if I was No. 500 in the
world instead of No. 12, do you?Anyway, as I keep telling everyone, you can'
t blame me for looking like this on purpose."
库娃：“我现在可是世界第12，难道你们觉得如果我排世界500位还会有人关注我吗？
没关系，我早就说过了，长得美不是我的错。”
"I'm glad you're doing this story on us and not on the WNBA. We're so muc... 阅读全帖 |
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A**k
发帖数: 1978 | 12 Even Kienning people have emigrated to Singapore, although the number is
much smaller compared to other Min peoples. Anyway, Kienning is a nice place. |
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A****0
发帖数: 12393 | 13 判断是每一个人思维能动，你不判断，你没有价值取向，你就不是人么。
其实我觉得西方文化里这个you don't want to judge people, 是他们
堂而皇之的虚伪方法论，实际上是说，you don't want to openly state your
judgement on people.
实际上，you judge and you are. |
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h******r
发帖数: 148 | 14 Not everybody needs psycho-analysis. Actually most people don't.
This board has to be people oriented & truthful. It will focus on the real
mental state of our Chinese overseas: We are supposed to be sincere, serious,
and honest.
Why does anybody dare to reveal his/her mental state on this board? It can
only because we will consult with each other as sincere friends. Any personal
attack and rude post will be removed. |
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e******e
发帖数: 1 | 15 Could people on the board recommend some books about dealing with difficult
people? Such as a non-cooperative colleague who always tries to embarrass you,
or a classmate who degraces you in public? need some smart ways to fight back
. |
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r******s
发帖数: 2155 | 16 http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=how+to+deal+with+difficult+people&btnG=
Google+Search
Some of them are pretty good. There is also a popular book:
Author Brinkman, Rick
Title How to deal with difficult people : video workbook / Rick Brinkma
n and Rich Kirschner
Publish info Boulder, CO : CareerTrack Publications, c1992
There are videos too.
good luck! And come back and tell us how it worked.
you,
back |
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w****r
发帖数: 17566 | 17 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
everhere (又见炊烟) 于 (Tue Jul 26 01:52:11 2005) 提到:
Could people on the board recommend some books about dealing with difficult
people? Such as a non-cooperative colleague who always tries to embarrass you,
or a classmate who degraces you in public? need some smart ways to fight back
.
☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
adimple (恒河砂) 于 (Tue Jul 26 10:46:14 2005) 提到:
Many self-helping books related to relationships discuss this, it is all about |
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c**r
发帖数: 10001 | 18 本文摘自The Feeling Good Handbook by David Burns.
In the previous chapters, we've talked about changing your thoughts and
attitudes when you feel upset. You can also do a great deal to brighten your
moods by becoming more productive and involved with life. However, many
people procrastinate and become immobilized when they feel anxious or
depressed. In this chapter you will discover why you procrastinate. In the
next chapter, I provide a unique program that has helped many people put an
end to the |
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c**r
发帖数: 10001 | 19 本文摘自The Feeling Good Handbook by David Burns, Chapter 9.
2. The mastery model.
People who procrastinate often have an unrealistic view of how a productive
person really functions. You may assume that successful people always feel
confident and easily achieve their goals without having to endure
frustration, self-doubt, and failure. This "mastery model" of success is
quite unrealistic. Achieving personal goals is stressful. You will usually
have to overcome numerous obstacles and setbacks along t |
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c**r
发帖数: 10001 | 20 本文摘自The Feeling Good Handbook by David Burns, Chapter 9.
3. The fear of failure.
Although we often think people who procrastinate as "lazy" and "
irresponsible", the real problem is sometimes just the opposite－success may
be overly important to you. Rather then risk failure, you may do nothing at
all.
People with the fear of failure often based their self-esteem on their
accomplishments. If you fail at your work, you may feel that you are a
failure as a human being. This makes it too dangerous t |
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c**r
发帖数: 10001 | 21 本文摘自The Feeling Good Handbook by David Burns, Chapter 9.
8. Unassertiveness
Many people procrastinate because they are unassertive and agree to do
things they don't really want to do. You may give in to unreasonable demands
from others because you think you should be nice. You may think you should
meet everybody else's expectations and base too much of your self-esteem on
what other people think of you. You may be terrified of disapproval or
criticism. You may be afraid to say no and run the ris |
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c**r
发帖数: 10001 | 22 本文摘自The Feeling Good Handbook by David Burns, Chapter 9.
9. Coercion sensitivity.
You may procrastinate because you feel that people are acting bossy and
making unreasonable demands on you. You may be stubborn and refuse to do
what they ask as a way of rebelling. Other people may find this behavior
annoying and act even pushier. This leads to a power struggle, because no
one wants to give in.
Your procrastination may be an indirect way of expressing your annoyance
with the person who's nagging y |
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o*****e
发帖数: 435 | 23 【 以下文字转载自 Belief 讨论区,原文如下 】
发信人: offside (您又越位啦！), 信区: Belief
标 题: The Stupidity of People
发信站: The unknown SPACE (Wed Dec 11 16:40:43 2002) WWW-POST
The stupidity of people comes from their having an answer to everything. The
wisdom of the novel comes from having a question for everything.
Milan Kundera |
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a********e
发帖数: 547 | 24 I want to type in Chinese. but this computer does not allow me. So I have to
write in English. Hopefully I can convey my thoughts clearly.
Today I am reading a book on service innovation. it says in a goodscentric
view, the ownership of goods is a goal in itself. I suddenly realized that
up until now, the ownership of money is my primary goal, rather than the
enjoyment that money can bring to me. I save money instinctively, a habit
caused by the poor and harsh life I experienced in the past. For... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****a
发帖数: 38403 | 25 “People possessing the functions that religion provides are likely to adopt
atheism, people lacking these very functions (e.g., the poor, the helpless)
are likely to adopt theism,”
确实很少会看到对生活满意的人会跑去信基督教，信基督教的不是经过什么挫折，就是
贪心作怪，想要绿卡想要工作想要多赚钱什么什么的 |
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c**s
发帖数: 732 | 26 虽然俺去不成，帮你转一个
【 以下文字转载自 SanFrancisco 讨论区 】
发信人: freeben (freeben), 信区: SanFrancisco
标 题: Two more people to Lake Tahoe for Christmas!
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Dec 19 19:16:09 2007)
Hi guys, we need two more people to join our trip to Lake Tahoe this
Christmas. The detail of this trip is below.
If you are interested, please let me know. my cell: 510-910-1787
It will be a lot of fun!:-)
Schedule:
22nd~26th Dec. We will drive to Lake Tahoe this coming Sat., and stay there
for 4 nights. We'll come back i |
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z****g
发帖数: 41 | 27 1) Just got message from my family, ZHongXin in Chengdu still offers no serv
ice for visa application, I guess most people here already know this, but ju
st post this in case of need.
2) For people whose passport may expire in viewable future, u may renew it o
r replace it with a new one during this stay back to Chengdu, which is my ca
se. And my mother told me that it just takes 1 hour to do that, for more inf
ormation, visit this :http://www.gaj.chengdu.gov.cn/bszn/bszn/bszn.htm
ok, hopefully |
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K****D
发帖数: 30533 | 28 Which of the following statement could not be the possible
reason for the fact below?
A. The BMY counting system has bugs.
B. The blocking incident irratated a great number of hackers
who found ways to sneak into the system.
C. People in CERNET can still log on BMY.
D. The blocking scheme is only effective to very limited number
of users.
E. Many people inside school feared that they were also blocked,
so they logged on to see. |
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i***r
发帖数: 6012 | 29 今天新来才几个月的小蜜跑来和我说，打印纸又没啦，她说肯定是CLEANING PEOPLE拿
的，我和她解释我们这纸用的很快，INTERVIEW一个SUBJECT就要用到一本文件夹，每天
RA要复印很多,他说她知道啊，不过也不会用那么快，上次圣诞节放假回来她发现没纸
了，然后她说：
The copier paper has been mysteriously disappearing. It is now going to be
kept in the over head cubicle next to XX and XX (my name)’s desk.
我觉得没人会偷纸，肯定是用得快她觉得不正常，CLEANING PEOPLE又不知道我们把纸
移地方了放柜子里了，真是冤啊，想想地位低的人有时候很可怜，啥坏事都落到他们头
上了。 |
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A*******8
发帖数: 1453 | 30 I am outside an apple store in a mall. at least 200 people are waiting in
line to buy the ipads . apple store staff even sell snacks to people from a
cart. |
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A*******8
发帖数: 1453 | 31 I am outside an apple store in a mall. at least 200 people are waiting in
line to buy the ipads . apple store staff even sell snacks to people from a
cart. |
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s******g
发帖数: 654 | 32 In my firm, most senior tax managers and directors don't know how to do FAS
109/ASC 740. They don't even know how to read an audit report correctly.
They are mostly tax attorneys or MST people.
Audit managers are even worse. They claim tax department will handle it, so
they don't need to learn. lol
To provide an accurate tax provision service needs to take a lot of time to
read financials and communicate with the clients. Unfortunately, I have seen
too many messed-up tax provision in this firm. ... 阅读全帖 |
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a*****5
发帖数: 168 | 33 I don't have an English name, and people call my Chinese name. Everyone
feels good. It's essential to have people known my real name.
As a graduate student, what the hell for to use an English name? Unless a
graduate will never publish or give presentations, or he/she prefers to
print his/her publications with his/her respective English name as well. :P |
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c***x
发帖数: 1169 | 34 RT.
Now we got 5 people in group, do notes twice per week, we were thinking to
have two more people, thus will be able to review the notes three times a
week.
Add cmuwang on your skepe and see you every 8:30 pm Tuesday and Friday. |
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e****0
发帖数: 678 | 35 觉得有必要单开一帖，闭关之前不得不说啊！
###################################
建议lz改一下TITLE， FAILURERS 改为2012 COURAGEOUS MATCH GROUP.
people who did not match are not failurers!
We all are human, and it is normal to get frustrated after such a big loss
especially we have been through a lot. I believe that we all will stand up
again with our heads held high and tails up because we are all strong tigers.
Maybe it will not happen right away because we have to mourn our loss,
yet it will happen soon and I AM SURE THAT WE... 阅读全帖 |
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c**r
发帖数: 10001 | 36 【 以下文字转载自 PsychoAnalysis 讨论区 】
发信人: cher (曙光是你的双手), 信区: PsychoAnalysis
标 题: Why People Procrastinate - 书摘 (序）
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Nov 14 00:30:21 2007), 转信
从今天起，给自己一个比较长期的project, 把<>（By
David Burns)的第九章“Why People Procrastinate”和第十章"A Prescription For
Procrastinators"陆续敲上来，献给想要改变自己延迁现状的朋友们，（以及发包子非
常大方的英明版头们！）
先说说这本书吧，很不错的书，对我自己帮助很大，不过我觉得最好的部分其实是第一
部分"You can change the way you feel"，分析十种distorted thinking, 以及
untwist它们的各种方法。说句题外话，因为各种原因而受抑郁或焦虑情绪严重困扰的
朋友，可以去看看这本书的第一部分 |
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c**r
发帖数: 10001 | 37 【 以下文字转载自 PsychoAnalysis 讨论区 】
发信人: cher (曙光是你的双手), 信区: PsychoAnalysis
标 题: Why People Procrastinate - 书摘（0）
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Nov 14 00:56:02 2007), 转信
本文摘自The Feeling Good Handbook by David Burns.
In the previous chapters, we've talked about changing your thoughts and
attitudes when you feel upset. You can also do a great deal to brighten your
moods by becoming more productive and involved with life. However, many
people procrastinate and become immobilized when they feel anxious or
depre |
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c**r
发帖数: 10001 | 38 【 以下文字转载自 PsychoAnalysis 讨论区 】
发信人: cher (曙光是你的双手), 信区: PsychoAnalysis
标 题: Why People Procrastinate - 书摘（7）
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Nov 26 23:48:54 2007), 转信
本文摘自The Feeling Good Handbook by David Burns, Chapter 9.
7. Passive aggressiveness.
People who procrastinate are often afraid to express negative feelings
openly and directly. You may avoid conflicts and deny that you're upset
because you think it's not "nice" to be angry. Your true feelings may come
oozing out indirectly. You may fail to ret |
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c**r
发帖数: 10001 | 39 【 以下文字转载自 PsychoAnalysis 讨论区 】
发信人: cher (曙光是你的双手), 信区: PsychoAnalysis
标 题: Why People Procrastinate - 书摘（8）
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Nov 26 23:54:41 2007), 转信
本文摘自The Feeling Good Handbook by David Burns, Chapter 9.
8. Unassertiveness
Many people procrastinate because they are unassertive and agree to do
things they don't really want to do. You may give in to unreasonable demands
from others because you think you should be nice. You may think you should
meet everybody else's expectations and base t |
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c**r
发帖数: 10001 | 40 【 以下文字转载自 PsychoAnalysis 讨论区 】
发信人: cher (曙光是你的双手), 信区: PsychoAnalysis
标 题: Why People Procrastinate - 书摘 (完)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Nov 28 00:47:53 2007), 转信
第九章Why people procrastinate共分11节, 已经全部贴在版上了.
第0节是通过十个问题来帮你分析你的procrastinate的可能原因, 后面的1-10节
分别对应了这十个问题.
有时候, 你可能一边觉得自己很应该很应该作某件事情, 一边却因为某种原因迟迟
无法让自己开始去作而觉得痛苦迷茫. 这个时候, 你可以看看第0节, 找找哪几个
原因是你当前procrastinate的因素, 然后根据对应章节看看, 也许能得到一些启发.
下面会陆续贴这本书的第十章A Prescription for Procrastinators, 也希望你在第
九章的帮助下找到自己procrastinate的原因后, 能运用第十章里的小练习来主动的
帮助自己走出当前的困境. |
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