l*****7
发帖数: 8463 | 1 男大哥大爷要 Farck哦霸
http://www.argusleader.com/story/news/politics/2014/06/24/sd-re
S.D. Republicans reach to impeach
David Montgomery, 6:27 a.m. CDT June 24, 2014
obama
President Barack Obama on April 28, 2014.(Photo: Associated Press)
131 CONNECTTWEETLINKEDIN 23 COMMENTEMAILMORE
In America's polarized political climate, it's not surprising South Dakota
Republicans made a big wave with their call Saturday to impeach President
Obama.
Some conservatives see Obama as not merely a bad leader but illegit... 阅读全帖 |
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S*******l
发帖数: 4637 | 2 nothing_to_lose ：这带鱼是不是正在做中国梦呢？[疑问]
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@李昂杜父鱼 ：能在海洋馆里看到活着的带鱼是一件幸福的事情~ 日本人把带鱼类
叫做 "タチウオ", 汉字可以写成 "立魚" 。带鱼在水中不游动时通常是保持 "竖立"
的，所以叫 "立鱼" 还是很有道理的~ #葛西臨海水族園#
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用户5317472253
用户5317472253 ：【巧洗带鱼】带鱼身上的腥味和油腻较大，用清水很难洗净，
可把带鱼先放在碱水中泡一下，再用清水洗，就会很容易洗净，而且无腥味。
赞| 转发| 收藏| 评论 今天19:18 来自微博 weibo.com
治愈五毛
治愈五毛 ：口吐莲花一带鱼----可惜出水就死了//@飚叔钢笔画47:梦兄佳作
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@梦晨伤 微博达人：青鳞岂是池中物！~
收起|查看大图|向左转|向右转
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r******g
发帖数: 691 | 3 "Blown Away"
Dry lightning cracks across the skies
Those storm clouds gather in her eyes
Her daddy was a mean old mister
Mama was an angel in the ground
The weather man called for a twister
She prayed blow it down
There's not enough rain in Oklahoma
To wash the sins out of that house
There's not enough wind in Oklahoma
To rip the nails out of the past
[Chorus:]
Shatter every window 'til it's all blown away,
Every brick, every board, every slamming door blown away
'Til there's nothing left standi... 阅读全帖 |
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W*****B
发帖数: 4796 | 4 Paris Hilton's Brother Arrested For Violent Plane Outburst
Gossip Cop
Gossip Cop
By Daniel Gates
1 hr ago
Paris Hilton's Brother Arrested For Violent Plane Outburst © @
conradhilton/Instagram Paris Hilton's Brother Arrested For Violent Plane
Outburst
Conrad Hilton, younger brother of Paris Hilton, has been arrested in
connection with a violent outburst on an airplane. During a flight from
London to Los Angeles last July, Hilton allegedly went crazy and began
threatening flight attendants an... 阅读全帖 |
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b********n
发帖数: 38600 | 5 THE BIRD-FEEDER
I bought a bird feeder. I hung it on my back porch and filled it with seed.
What a beauty of a bird feeder it was, I reflected as I filled it lovingly
with seed. First came the chickadees and then within a week we had hundreds
of birds taking advantage of the continuous flow of free and easily
accessible food.
But then the birds started building nests in the boards of the patio, above
the table, and next to the barbecue.
Then came the poop. It was everywhere: on the patio tile, t... 阅读全帖 |
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a****h
发帖数: 6153 | 6 Artemy (Leonid Gromov), professor of Scientific Atheism at the Leningrad
State University, is visiting his brother in a small town neighboring
Leninsk. There he meets Valery (Leonid Bichevin), a young man who is dating
his niece and has come to take her to a party. On the way back from Leninsk
to Leningrad Artemy's car breaks down and he goes into an isolated farmhouse
to get help. Artemy gets to talking with the farmhouse owner, Alexey (
Aleksei Serebryakov). The two drink together homemade alc... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1 | 7 http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-asia-china-38793011
Visitor mauled to death by tiger in Ningbo zoo in China
1 hour ago
From the section China
CHINA NEWS SERVICE
Image caption
Police dispatched a special forces unit to the Youngor zoo on Sunday
A man has been mauled to death by a tiger after he entered its enclosure at
a zoo in eastern China.
The tiger was then shot dead by a special forces unit from the local police,
in the Sunday incident at the Youngor Zoo in the city of Ningbo.
The man, who h... 阅读全帖 |
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C*I
发帖数: 4736 | 8 Why United Was Legally Wrong to Deplane David Dao
Jens David Ohlin,Newsweek 3 hours ago
This article first appeared on the Dorf on Law site.
On Sunday, United Airlines passenger David Dao was forcibly removed from
his United Airlines flight when he refused to relinquish his seat. The
police officers who removed him from the seat, then dragged him down the
aisle of the airplane. Videos of the incident show a visibly injured and
bloodied Dao screaming.
Videos also show a clearly injured Dao retu... 阅读全帖 |
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t*****9
发帖数: 10416 | 9 革命最没性价比，自己小命比啥都重要哈 ～～吃馒头又快又好
The Fire
kitchen, pushing down kids, clowns and old ladies in a mad panic to escape.
He runs out the door and leaves everyone behind.>
George attempting to explain his cowardly actions from the back of the
ambulance at the party.
GEORGE (voice is hoarse from screaming): I...was trying to lead the way. We
needed a leader! Someone to lead the way to safety.
ROBIN: But you yelled "get out of my way... 阅读全帖 |
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t**x
发帖数: 20965 | 11 随便给你找个证据
https://nypost.com/2014/02/23/film-details-teens-struggles-in-state-
detention-in-payoff-scandal/
Corrupt ‘Kids for Cash’ judge ruined more than 2,000 lives
By Larry Getlen
February 23, 2014 | 1:41am
Modal Trigger
Sandy Fonzo of Wilkes-Barre screams at former Judge Mark Ciavarella saying
that he was responsible for her son's suicide on the steps of the federal
courthouse in Scranton in 2011.
Sandy Fonzo of Wilkes-Barre screams at former Judge Mark Ciavarella saying
that he was responsib... 阅读全帖 |
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s******r
发帖数: 5309 | 12 California professor, writer of confidential Brett Kavanaugh letter, speaks
out about her allegation of sexual assault
Kavanaugh denies making unwanted sexual advances as an adult
Judge Brett M. Kavanaugh denied committing sexual or physical harassment as
an adult when asked by Sen. Mazie Hirono (D-Hawaii) on Sept. 5. (JM Rieger /
The Washington Post)
By Emma Brown
September 16 at 3:36 PM
Earlier this summer, Christine Blasey Ford wrote a confidential letter to a
senior Democratic lawmaker alleg... 阅读全帖 |
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w********9
发帖数: 8613 | 13
你没有注意到没有报警吗？严重多了。
你再看前面那个和这个经典案例
https://exploringyourmind.com/kitty-genovese-girl-screamed-nobody-helped/
Kitty Genovese was 28 years old when one day she was coming back from work
and a man came up and stabbed her several times in the back. Then he
sexually assaulted her and stole 49 dollars from her. It was dawn on March
13, 1964. According to the New York Times, at least 38 neighbors heard her
screams over the half hour period…but no one did anything. |
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b********n
发帖数: 38600 | 14 Nothing but the same tactics of a desperate Trump. He gets in trouble then
screams wildly in all directions threatening everyone and everything....
just like a 3 year old tossing a tantrum.
Trump has ZERO power to control US investors because he has falling on his
face with his stupid trade war. The Chinese have not flinched off the Oct
1st deadline. They see a sinking loser con man that is now enveloped in
impeachment. It is the Hitler in his bunker idea... "I will take everyone
down with me." ... 阅读全帖 |
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b********n
发帖数: 38600 | 15 Nothing but the same tactics of a desperate Trump. He gets in trouble then
screams wildly in all directions threatening everyone and everything....
just like a 3 year old tossing a tantrum.
Trump has ZERO power to control US investors because he has falling on his
face with his stupid trade war. The Chinese have not flinched off the Oct
1st deadline. They see a sinking loser con man that is now enveloped in
impeachment. It is the Hitler in his bunker idea... "I will take everyone
down with me." ... 阅读全帖 |
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L*****d
发帖数: 5093 | 16 first they scream they don't need help cause they are trying to cover up
then they scream we're not helping by keeping their sick people out of our
country |
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M1
发帖数: 2038 | 17 “This is why there’s coronavirus!”: Asian woman spat on, assaulted in
Manhattan hate crime
By THOMAS TRACY
NEW YORK DAILY NEWS |
MAR 17, 2020 | 1:15 PM
A CDC billboard reminds people to cover coughs or sneezes with tissues and
throw them away outside the Port Authority in Midtown Manhattan.
A CDC billboard reminds people to cover coughs or sneezes with tissues and
throw them away outside the Port Authority in Midtown Manhattan.(Luiz C.
Ribeiro/for New York Daily News)
An Asian woman walking in M... 阅读全帖 |
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b********n
发帖数: 38600 | 18 What Happens To The Conservative Realignment If Trump Is Defeated?
https://www.theamericanconservative.com/articles/what-president-sanders-
could-do-to-the-right/
First, all conservative will screaming DEBT, DEBT, DEBT!!!! They will be on
Fox News screaming it! So all conservatives will care.
Otherwise, Trump even reelected
1) The big disappointment on Trump's Presidency goals is no new Big steel
mills are being built. I am not exactly why that is. So I don't see how
tariffs are working here. (l... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 19 By Robert Oscar Lopez
As Mike Bates at NewsBusters points out, gay-themed news stories have
reached an absurd prominence lately. He was flummoxed by the amount of time
devoted by Don Lemon (CNN) to same-sex marriages in New York:
Lemon devoted most of the hour-long program to stories of men marrying men
and women marrying women. Less than ten minutes were spent on a potential
debt ceiling deal in Washington. The Norwegian tragedy warranted about four
minutes of air time.
It has been almost a ... 阅读全帖 |
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z****0
发帖数: 3942 | 20 Some comments after this news.
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my 3 yr old niece, told my mom 38 yrs ago, if she didnt buy her the candy at
the check out she would scream...my mother told her go ahead and I will
spank your #$%$....she didnt get the candy!! She didnt scream either!!
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If what Mitt says is true, maybe the solution is to elect a Congress that is
willing to work. Otherwise, we are just treating ... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****7
发帖数: 8463 | 21 Speeding his car into the crowd after surveying the Venice beach leisurely
scene
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/08/04/venice-beach-crash-vid
Venice Beach Crash Video Shows Accident That Killed 1, Injured 11
By TAMI ABDOLLAH and ANDREW DALTON 08/04/13 02:20 PM ET EDT AP
LOS ANGELES — Police arrested a man on suspicion of murder after a driver
plowed into crowds at the Venice Beach boardwalk, a seemingly intentional
hit-and-run that killed an Italian woman on her honeymoon and injured 11
othe... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 22 Union Organizer Pretends to be Anti-Union Protester to Push Union Goals
December 10, 2013 by Warner Todd Huston
It turns out that the viral video depicting an uncaring, screaming “Google
” employee that was attacking innocent union organizers in San Francisco
ended up being a union organizer attempting to make a scene, gin up emotion
in favor of unions and make Google employees look like elitist jerks who
hate poor people. Yes, this guy turns out to be a liar.
Unions have been protesting the pr... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 23 ‘The Hijab is Hot!’ Pathetic NYC Morons Line Up to Take Selfies in a Hijab
by Jammie via Jammie Wearing Fools
This is sad on so many levels.
The hijab is hot!
That’s the message two Upper West Side artists want to spread by
encouraging women around the city to put on the veil and snap a selfie.
“Women who wear a hijab by choice are in complete control of their
sexuality,” says Saks Afridi, who started the #DamnILookGood campaign with
project partner Qinza Najm. “Here in New York, it’... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 24 A 21-year-old college student began screaming in pain as she was tasered
during what she claims was an illegal search by Border Patrol officers.
Jessica Cooke, a criminal justice student at SUNY Canton near New York's
border with Canada, was pulled over by agents and detained while they
brought a canine unit to search her car.
She captured the incident on her cell phone and said a male officer 'pushed
me back into the side of my car and I pushed back, it was a shoving match
before he threw me to... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1 | 25 Sunday at a campaign event in East Los Angeles former President Bill Clinton
’s speech was interrupted by a screaming group of Bernie Sanders supporters
. Once Clinton regained control of the room, according to Fox News’s Fin
Gomez, Clinton responded, “If I were them, I’d be screaming too because
they know they will be toast by election day.” |
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A**d
发帖数: 13310 | 26 就领头直播He Will not Divide Us那假犹太人
‘He will not divide us,’ has been the loud, relentless anti-Trump message
all year from Hollywood star Shia LaBeouf.
It began on January 20th, the day of Donald Trump’s inauguration, when
LaBeouf launched a livestream project.
He summed up the purpose of the exercise with these simple words: ‘We’re
anti-division.’
然后酒驾被抓时候如下发言
First he tells a white officer: ‘F*** you b****. Hey, when you go home to
your wife, what do you tell her at night? You know she watches po... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 27 Austin Hero Pulls Gun On Rapist
Posted at 10:00 am on November 15, 2017 by Tom Knighton
A lot of people don’t take their guns with them when they’re doing certain
things, particularly on a run. After all, even a lightweight pistol is
going to cause issues with your everyday running shorts, and no one wants to
wear a fanny pack, especially one loaded down with a firearm, right?
Well, Josh Williams of Austin, Texas didn’t worry about any of that.
Eventually, anyway, and at least one area resident ... 阅读全帖 |
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b********n
发帖数: 38600 | 28 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: beijingren (to thine own self be true), 信区: Military
标 题: 小黄人外F关键时刻挺身而出保护白人丈夫， “Leave My Husband Alone!”
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Jun 26 19:38:59 2018, 美东)
“Leave My Husband Alone!” Mitch McConnell’s Wife Screams as Angry
Protesters
https://www.thegatewaypundit.com/2018/06/leave-my-husband-alone-mitch-
mcconnells-wife-screams-as-angry-protesters-surround-mitch-mcconnells-
vehicle-video/ |
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i****k
发帖数: 4085 | 29 Beat officers pull man from car in SE side crash that kills 2, hurts 3
The white BMW was headed west on 100th Street and had just crossed the bridg
e when its driver apparently lost control and it began sliding sideways into
eastbound lanes, then collided with a Ford Taurus that was headed east, pol
ice said.
The two people killed were a man, 32, believed to have been driving the BMW,
and his front-seat passenger, a woman about age 27, authorities said. The d
river was declared dead at Northwest... 阅读全帖 |
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g********d
发帖数: 19244 | 30 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
felixcat (快成业余律师了) 于 (Mon Jul 15 17:46:05 2013, 美东) 提到:
这张照片，粗略看上去只有一个亮点。其实一共有两个两点，看谁眼尖。
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rucer (rucer) 于 (Mon Jul 15 17:49:00 2013, 美东) 提到:
This spot is on sale for Commercial
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harry0723 (Harry) 于 (Mon Jul 15 17:54:35 2013, 美东) 提到:
迪拜的车？
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aoyougen (彪哥粉丝) 于 (Mon Jul 15 17:57:19 2013, 美东) 提到:
右边是啥车？怎么排气管是那样的呢？啥好处？
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g********d
发帖数: 19244 | 31 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
JVZanetti (i喷) 于 (Sat Jan 18 16:59:02 2014, 美东) 提到:
最近物色目标，借tesla比较火也考察了下，驾驶了20多迈，P85+整体中规中矩但没啥
惊艳，驾驶感觉硬要说可能和汽油车中的lexus有点像，个人感觉。本人姑且将P85+定
位为中高档轿跑，和其它几个目标进行比较。没有考虑60kw，感觉和其它同级汽油车差
距更远，也就比volt、leaf稍微好些，完全不会想花70k开这车。。。汽油车这边也没
把panamera放进来，原因是驾驶感觉差距太大，价格也有差距，消费群不一样
虽然把电动车和汽油车比不太合适，但作为普通消费者功利地把开起来爽和成本作为主
要指标也无可厚非。
补充一下没有把tesla的tax credit作为优势因为下面出现的车都是目前或者短期内有
望实现10k off msrp的，所以算打个平手吧。也没考虑各种option因为在不比较
panamera的情况下，tesla和其它几款汽油车要加的option价格差不多
同价位比较，选了rs7... 阅读全帖 |
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p***u
发帖数: 408 | 32 转自：http://www.oilburners.net/forums/showthread.php?58624-How-to-get-blacklisted-from-Walmart
My wife insisted that I accompany her on her trips to Walmart.
Unfortunately, like most men, I found shopping boring and preferred to get
in and get out. Equally unfortunate, my wife is like most women - she loves
to browse.
Yesterday my dear wife received the following letter from the local Walmart:
Dear Mrs Hunt
Over the past six months, your husband has caused quite a commotion in our
store. We cannot... 阅读全帖 |
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P******l
发帖数: 1648 | 33 do some google you will get much better answers.
google "set limitation to stop yelling"
==practise, Initiate such a talk, be firm after giving such a warning==
"I think we’ve been yelling and shouting too much, and it’s just not
helpful. I want to work on not doing that anymore. And if you start yelling,
I'm going to turn around and walk away, and I'm not going to talk to you
for 15 minutes. "
Read more: http://www.empoweringparents.com/how-to-stop-a-screaming-match-with-your-screaming-child.... 阅读全帖 |
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o*******g
发帖数: 1300 | 34 以为我们发大财的我给你们看看内部的讨论
We presold 300 sets at $xxx per set after
we received over 80 confirmed orders of 5 (over 400 sets) through the US
Mint. To date we received at least 20 cancellations (100 sets) from the
Mint....Does this effect my locked deal to deliver 300 sets....NO WAY...I
started buying on the aftermarket the second I saw order cancellations as
I know a deal is a deal and I would never back out. If the mint would
have released more sets and they went much lower in the market my buyer
w... 阅读全帖 |
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y*****2
发帖数: 863 | 35 【 以下文字转载自 Joke 讨论区 】
发信人: sgrastar (Theodore), 信区: Joke
标 题: Applying for a job
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Oct 17 23:46:27 2010, 美东)
1. A man applied for a job as an industrial spy. Together with several other
applicants, he was given a
sealed envelope and told to take it to the fourth floor. As soon as the man
was alone, he stepped into an
empty hallway and opened the envelope. Inside, a message read: "You're our
kind of person. Report to the
fifth floor Personnel Office."
2. Employer to applicant: "... 阅读全帖 |
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M**********n
发帖数: 4964 | 36 "会有大量的老中烙印毅然放弃美国的高薪洋房报效祖国"
这个不会发生，不会大量主动回去，除非政策改变被逼迫回去，比如工作签证机会大量
减少，逼迫那些公司多雇美国本土人。这么多人挤着想出来不是没理由的。
我一直觉得美国经济没真正好起来，这可能也是为什么很多人选择打着反
establishment旗帜的trump，现在看来Michael Moore之前一直说trump会赢。还有就是
股市，差不多又是泡沫破灭的时候了，一个周期一个周期的，每几年一次，这种靠印钱
解决问题的办法，都是虚假的经济恢复，都不是本质上解决办法。问题是泡沫破了之后
，政府会采取什么措施，要是真像trump之前说的，可能他对华尔街砸钱救市的意愿不
高，二是家底也不行，再大规模经济刺激，只会把国债推向新高。
两三天了，我都还有点upset，不敢相信trump那么争议性的人都当选，一直希望GOP能
推出一个decent的nonimee，我还是觉得最初只有两三个candidate的话，trump不会胜
出。trump说了那么多极端的言语，还有十月份那个video，居然最终还是当选。当年
Howard Dean一声scream，大... 阅读全帖 |
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y********o
发帖数: 64 | 37 Sorry for not able to type chinese in the office.
my baby has the same situation couple weeks ago. She had 湿疹 not on her
face, but her neck (front & back). We tested almost all the non激素
moistures and found something very interesting:
California baby only works for her face and she likes it.
Aquaphor only works for her chest/front when the 湿疹 is very severe. We
changed back to California baby when she gets better, because she had baby
acnes later and always screaming when we put it on - aquaphor... 阅读全帖 |
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x*l
发帖数: 178 | 38 还没有生，看了一些母乳喂养的书，做了些笔记摘要，和大家分享。
Signs of a Good Latch
• Baby’s lips curled outward and firmly applied to your breast.
• If you pull slightly on your baby’s lower lip while he is
suckling, you should see that his tongue is curled up on each side and
cupped around your breast, forming a trough to the back of his mouth. A
large area of his tongue should be in direct contact with the underside of
your breast, massaging it in a wavelike motion that brings the milk into his
mouth with... 阅读全帖 |
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c*******u
发帖数: 12899 | 39 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
susanhuhu (巧克力盒子) 于 (Sat Oct 23 11:04:35 2010, 美东) 提到:
用了可立松一段时间了，宝宝的脸是真好看呀，可是一停又不行了。都断断续续用了20
天了，不敢一直用啦。记得这个版上有妈妈说过什么不含激素的药膏，可是精华区又没
找到那个帖子。大家能帮忙分享一下信息么？或者有什么好的中药方子呢？
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recoco (Teddybaobao) 于 (Sat Oct 23 11:14:44 2010, 美东) 提到:
Aquaphor Healing Ointment，一天抹10次
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susanhuhu (巧克力盒子) 于 (Sat Oct 23 11:25:46 2010, 美东) 提到:
我现在也是抹这个，不过没有10次那么多，能把红点点消下去么？
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g******t
发帖数: 230 | 40 两篇对照着看，一个让人笑，一个让人笑着叹气。
50 reasons to have a baby:
1. Eating for two.
2. Maternity jeans.
3. Baby kicks.
4. The fun of being able to say "I'm not expecting" when asked how far
along you are.
5. Justified naps.
6. Not worrying about birth control.
7. Hearing the heartbeat for the first time.
8. Parking in "Expectant Mother" parking spaces.
9. Boobs!
10. Not having to suck in your gut.
11. The fact that nobody picks a fight with the pregnant woman.
12. Having an excu... 阅读全帖 |
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y**********1
发帖数: 5 | 41 没见楼主说出什么原则性冲突，好像也就是做饭做饭做饭，让你的眼泪流干了。当然劳
工也确实不体贴。 是不是因为抑郁，所以无形放大了劳工的缺点。
男的么，有上进心，人品好，遇到大事有担当，基本上就不要想着离婚了。 女的么，
能自立，能有自己的生活圈子，心气平和能够教养子女，我觉得就差不多了。 生活上
的琐事，做饭阿，洗衣阿，打扫卫生阿，能请人则请人，能外包就外包。时间节省下来
，带孩子去游乐园，逛书店，自己健身，逛街，别老把心思盯劳工身上。 老觉得楼主
的精神不是很独立，所以心思都围着劳工转，说不准你老公还不知道你在这儿抑郁呢。
另外你都生病了，你老公知道么？你scream 了么？你scream a lot 了么？你得跟他谈
阿，跟他说，跟他掉眼泪阿。 我能说女的眼泪掉也很有学问么？
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a****l
发帖数: 6431 | 42 hahaha, exactly what I was going to say
我家的小妞, 烧起来的东西不吃，准备好的东西不吃，多着呢。我早就搞得没脾气了。
今天早上我家3岁小妞说，中午饭我要带酸奶。我说好好好。当她的面, 给她放包里。
她说你在烧什么？ 我说妈妈给你烧面条, 带中午饭。她马上崩溃了，泪水涟涟的说“
我不要！我要带酸奶”。我说我给你带酸奶了呀，酸奶和面条都带。
继续崩溃，“不要！我不要！我只要酸奶”
忍着烦，装好午饭，坐下来。问她
“妈妈是不是已经给你装酸奶了？”
“是”
"那你为什么要哭？"
"因为我不喜欢 yelled or shouted"
"妈妈有没有yelled or shouted at you？"
"没有"
"那你为什么还要哭"
"I don't like being yelled or shouted or screamed"
" but mama didn't yelled or shouted or screamed at you"
继续 JJWW-ing
烦吧。
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 43 In bookstores: You'd better not allow the kids shout or sing.
In community's public library: It's probably Okay to let the kids have a
little fun if most customers are families instead of students or if very few
are reading and studying.
In Walmarts or McDonald: As long as the kid is not screaming to the top of
his or her voice, you don't need to remind the little one that he or she
should lower his or her voice.
In theme parks such as Disney's World: Scream with your kids to the top of
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G*********r
发帖数: 538 | 44 Two Choices
At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves children with learning
disabilities, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that
would never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school
and its dedicated staff, he offered a question:
'When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does,
is done with perfection.
Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do.He cannot
understand things as other children do.
Where is the nat... 阅读全帖 |
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l*******e
发帖数: 3566 | 46 这是因为vocalization的发育，12-18月之间，会出现screaming。孩子对自己的声音能
够控制，且在恰当的social contexts里面运用。
另，18个月，也逐渐出现temper tantrum，这个可能是家长常说的t2，需要引导。
针对你的问题，这不是性格的改变，而是孩子的vocalization and social/emotional
development的正常现象。
家长要耐心，能够figure out孩子需要什么。尖叫的时候不满足要求，停止尖叫的时候
满足要求。
又另外，孩子还不会说话的话，可能教一些babay sign language，减少孩子在沟通上
的挫折。如果他会sign language，就可以要求他：use your language, stop
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j*******a
发帖数: 5283 | 47 "但是根据观察经验，我认为，如果安静，个
我还指望蒙校能让我那天生活泼好动的娃安静下来呢。这么说蒙校只是锦上添花而非雪
中送炭了？
我们去参观过附近一个蒙校，被院长一句“Our environment is like in fine dining
..unlike in McDonald's, where people scream with joy when they see a friend
coming." 一口呛住，落荒而逃。我喜欢我儿子看见朋友的时候scream with joy，不
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 48 Make sure he has no access to the car key.
One incident:
A friend of mine has a daughter (elder) and a son. The boy was spoiled. He
got whatever he wanted and he loved sitting on the driver's seat. One day
in their garage, the boy and the girl were inside the Van and the mom went
upstairs to get something. Then she heard a scream and a BANG! She looked
out of the window and saw her Nissan Van crashed her cross-street neighbor's
fence!
The car key was left in the car and the boy somehow put it... 阅读全帖 |
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l******n
发帖数: 412 | 49 我儿子今年4岁，从2岁半开始就在一个蒙校，一开始在toddler班挺好的，但是从去年
秋季升到preschool班就遇到了不少问题。蒙校的规矩较多，比较structured，儿子经
常被老师纠正行为，一旦出现这样情况，大部分时候他就变得沉默，坐在他喜欢的老师
旁边，不参与其他小朋友做的活动，极端的情况就scream，甚至去踢纠正他的老师。如
果一天中没有被批评，他心情就还好，正常的活动都参加，也挺快乐。他在学校和其他
小朋友互动挺好，朋友挺多的，大家也喜欢和他玩。我们目前的感觉就是正常情况下他
表现挺好，但是一旦遇到老师指出错误，就出问题，就不happy，就不参与。
他出现这种情况我们也不是很意外，在家里我们早就发现他是一个strong-willed的孩
子，自己有主见，固执，很多时候不听大人的话，一旦被拒绝被批评，就scream，大哭
。所以我们不确定他在学校出现的问题是因为学校program太structure，rule太多还是
本身性格造成的，也许两方面都有。
目前我们在考虑要不要转到一个不是那么structured的学校去，但是又担心如果把他转
到宽松一点的学校去，会不会放任他... 阅读全帖 |
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D*V
发帖数: 564 | 50 请有经验的爸爸妈妈给支支招
家有烈娃伤不起.
妈妈和同事一起吃饭聊天的时候, 经常能听到同事的孩子们各种努力学习, 听话懂事的
故事. 每到
这个时候, 妈妈就只能默默的把心里的羡慕, 嫉妒和午饭吃的印度大饼一起咽下去了.
妈妈对为为的期望只有一个, 就是永远快乐. 如果非要加个时间限制, 那就是, 每一分
钟都快乐.
为为是一个聪明的孩子. 可是为为又是一个非常strong-willed 的孩子. 刚战战兢兢的
过完了terrible two和horrible three, 没有任何喘息机会, 妈妈又开始了和四岁的为
为的power struggles.
妈妈是一个problem solving skill很差的伪工程师, 任何事情都希望像以前读大学的
时候做的习题集一样有标准答案. 无答案可寻的情况下, 妈妈只好自己总结实战密笈.
渐渐的, 妈妈发现, 苦思苦想后, 似乎也能找出一个办法, 而且不停总结也会有更好的
解决方案.
而在这过程中, 为为和妈妈一起长大了.
实战 1: winter season的最后一堂足球课上, 在为为准备goal的时候coach把球带走.
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