p*******s
发帖数: 369 | 1 刚刚交了485，就被通知要被relo到新泽西。从我住的地方要两个小时的车程。孩子们
都已上了中学，有熟悉的环境，要好的朋友，我也有自己的工作，都不愿搬家，所以只
好两地分居。有时候生活也会很无奈，感觉等绿卡期间就像是被资本家剥削的现代奴隶。
期待着做自己主人的那一天！ |
S*******r
发帖数: 11017 | |
i****d
发帖数: 724 | 3 "我也有自己的工作，都不愿搬家"
-- this is purely B.S., it's your problem, not about green card.
隶。
【在 p*******s 的大作中提到】
: 刚刚交了485，就被通知要被relo到新泽西。从我住的地方要两个小时的车程。孩子们
: 都已上了中学，有熟悉的环境，要好的朋友，我也有自己的工作，都不愿搬家，所以只
: 好两地分居。有时候生活也会很无奈，感觉等绿卡期间就像是被资本家剥削的现代奴隶。
: 期待着做自己主人的那一天！
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p*******s
发帖数: 369 | 4
I got H1B. So what are you going to do in this situation. Quit your job and
do the green card process from the very beginning?
【在 i****d 的大作中提到】
: "我也有自己的工作，都不愿搬家"
: -- this is purely B.S., it's your problem, not about green card.
:
: 隶。
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a***x
发帖数: 26368 | 5 485交了干什么用的？
and
【在 p*******s 的大作中提到】
:
: I got H1B. So what are you going to do in this situation. Quit your job and
: do the green card process from the very beginning?
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H**E
发帖数: 620 | 6 BSO submitted 485 BEFORE relo...
imagine if this happened before you submite your 485..
you should feel lucky instead of sad |
i****d
发帖数: 724 | 7 You said this, and I quote: "孩子们都已上了中学，有熟悉的环境，要好的朋友，
我也有自己的工作，都不愿搬家，所以只好两地分居。"
I tell you again: this is purely B.S.
and
【在 p*******s 的大作中提到】
:
: I got H1B. So what are you going to do in this situation. Quit your job and
: do the green card process from the very beginning?
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p*******s
发帖数: 369 | |
i******t
发帖数: 11048 | 9 牛屎
【在 p*******s 的大作中提到】
: 弱若问一下，啥是B.S.
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r**********d
发帖数: 510 | 10 totally aglee. it is only 2 hours drive.
My wife would happy if she had a job 2 hours away and if we had a house.
【在 H**E 的大作中提到】
: BSO submitted 485 BEFORE relo...
: imagine if this happened before you submite your 485..
: you should feel lucky instead of sad
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p*******s
发帖数: 369 | 11 你丫从小牛屎吃多了吧，从这都能闻到你的口臭。姑姑我今天心情不好，少在这招惹我
，不会讲话就shut up.
【在 i******t 的大作中提到】
: 牛屎
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d*******p
发帖数: 2525 | 12 2个小时commute又不是什么大问题，就是同一个城市，1个多小时commute的也是大有人
在，两地分居是你们自己的问题，和绿卡无关 |
S*******r
发帖数: 11017 | 13 楼主骂人不对啊。人家只是帮你回答一下你自己提出的问题。
你自己选择上来发帖就要做好被人DIANG的准备。很多同学比你们家境况煎熬多了。 |
y****2
发帖数: 258 | 14 Why you guys are so mean to her? Waiting for GC makes people unhappy and
mean. Try to relax and be friendly pls. RUN\\\\ |
f*******r
发帖数: 2029 | 15
Not sure why you are rude to him since he just kindly answered your
question
"what's B.S.". BTW, he is not the guy saying your situation is B.S.
【在 p*******s 的大作中提到】
: 你丫从小牛屎吃多了吧，从这都能闻到你的口臭。姑姑我今天心情不好，少在这招惹我
: ，不会讲话就shut up.
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S*******r
发帖数: 11017 | 16 I agree people should be nice to each other.
But if she is entitled to get upset about the problem she is complaining
about, shouldn't many others with much more serious issues in GC process be
allowed to be "so mean"?
【在 y****2 的大作中提到】
: Why you guys are so mean to her? Waiting for GC makes people unhappy and
: mean. Try to relax and be friendly pls. RUN\\\\
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a***x
发帖数: 26368 | 17 as u said, waiting for gc makes ppl mean
【在 y****2 的大作中提到】
: Why you guys are so mean to her? Waiting for GC makes people unhappy and
: mean. Try to relax and be friendly pls. RUN\\\\
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e*******r
发帖数: 1433 | 18 倒霉的，躺着也中枪呀
【在 f*******r 的大作中提到】
:
: Not sure why you are rude to him since he just kindly answered your
: question
: "what's B.S.". BTW, he is not the guy saying your situation is B.S.
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p*******s
发帖数: 369 | 19 My husband commutes 5 minutes now and will change to 4 hours everyday, that'
s a huge change to the family. I can't stands that he stays 4 hours
everyday on highway and persists he should live around the area during the
week days.
he can change his job if we have green card now. actually, his prior boss
called him and told him that there is vacancy in his dept, but was declined
because of the green card issue. when you have waited for long and begin to
see the rising sun, no one wants to go through the process again if he/she
has any other option.
I am trying to express my dissatisfaction of us' immigration policy. it is
a free country, but the new immigrants will not have freedom until they were
given the little piece of paper. we, other than waiting for the 10th of
each month, can't do anything about it. it is the life we chose to live,
but it should be changed..... |
a***x
发帖数: 26368 | 20 485交上去是干什么的？
that'
declined
to
she
is
were
【在 p*******s 的大作中提到】
: My husband commutes 5 minutes now and will change to 4 hours everyday, that'
: s a huge change to the family. I can't stands that he stays 4 hours
: everyday on highway and persists he should live around the area during the
: week days.
: he can change his job if we have green card now. actually, his prior boss
: called him and told him that there is vacancy in his dept, but was declined
: because of the green card issue. when you have waited for long and begin to
: see the rising sun, no one wants to go through the process again if he/she
: has any other option.
: I am trying to express my dissatisfaction of us' immigration policy. it is
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S*******r
发帖数: 11017 | 21 Your husband can go back to his prior boss after 180 days. If he really
wants to hire back your husband, ask him if he can wait for half a year.
Even if this opening is no longer available then, your husband can always
find another job as long as it's same or similar after 180 days.
八胖 is right this time. The whole purpose of I-485/EAD/AP is to free up
people like you. So please stop complaining about losing a 5 min commute,
which is unheard of in my city and most other major US cities, for 180
days.
Also I think you owe Intelbot an apology.
that'
declined
to
she
is
【在 p*******s 的大作中提到】
: My husband commutes 5 minutes now and will change to 4 hours everyday, that'
: s a huge change to the family. I can't stands that he stays 4 hours
: everyday on highway and persists he should live around the area during the
: week days.
: he can change his job if we have green card now. actually, his prior boss
: called him and told him that there is vacancy in his dept, but was declined
: because of the green card issue. when you have waited for long and begin to
: see the rising sun, no one wants to go through the process again if he/she
: has any other option.
: I am trying to express my dissatisfaction of us' immigration policy. it is
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z*p
发帖数: 95 | 22 Totally understand!
I think lots of ppl here don't have child or have younger kids. They don't
know the problem of balance parent's work and time for their kids.
especially they already have many friends in school.
2 hrs is ok. Can rent a apt at local weekay and go back to home at weekend. |
i******t
发帖数: 11048 | 23 大姐
你写这么多也不给我道个歉
that'
declined
to
she
is
【在 p*******s 的大作中提到】
: My husband commutes 5 minutes now and will change to 4 hours everyday, that'
: s a huge change to the family. I can't stands that he stays 4 hours
: everyday on highway and persists he should live around the area during the
: week days.
: he can change his job if we have green card now. actually, his prior boss
: called him and told him that there is vacancy in his dept, but was declined
: because of the green card issue. when you have waited for long and begin to
: see the rising sun, no one wants to go through the process again if he/she
: has any other option.
: I am trying to express my dissatisfaction of us' immigration policy. it is
|
S*******r
发帖数: 11017 | 24 人家一边养娃一边工作
鸭梨山大
不是我等乳臭未干的毛头小青年可以理解的
【在 i******t 的大作中提到】
: 大姐
: 你写这么多也不给我道个歉
:
: that'
: declined
: to
: she
: is
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i********n
发帖数: 338 | 25 难怪你要被人说了，
你应该发贴说你非常幸运的交了485 before relo,
而不是抱怨这2小时的commute，
比你情况差的人多很多很多很多，
你太不知足了。 |
i****d
发帖数: 724 | 26 她的问题不是他老公relocation.
她的问题是她自己不愿意随着他老公搬家，还要把孩子和自己的工作拿出来说事，按理
她拿到EAD后是能够相对容易地换工作的。
她更本就不应该有fraustration，人神公怒的是她一自己的一切为家庭的重心，一切都
要按照她个人的利益为出发点，不行了就怒了，还怪绿卡！
还有那个烂英语，也是因为绿卡的缘故？
【在 i********n 的大作中提到】
: 难怪你要被人说了，
: 你应该发贴说你非常幸运的交了485 before relo,
: 而不是抱怨这2小时的commute，
: 比你情况差的人多很多很多很多，
: 你太不知足了。
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S*******r
发帖数: 11017 | 27 呵呵 先不要指责嘛
我现在有点怀疑这位大姐可能还不知道交了485后有EAD这档子事
AC21的180天条款可能就更不清楚了
【在 i****d 的大作中提到】
: 她的问题不是他老公relocation.
: 她的问题是她自己不愿意随着他老公搬家，还要把孩子和自己的工作拿出来说事，按理
: 她拿到EAD后是能够相对容易地换工作的。
: 她更本就不应该有fraustration，人神公怒的是她一自己的一切为家庭的重心，一切都
: 要按照她个人的利益为出发点，不行了就怒了，还怪绿卡！
: 还有那个烂英语，也是因为绿卡的缘故？
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w*****g
发帖数: 3922 | 28 我看了这句话，也就不感到有什么可怜的了：we, other than waiting for the 10th
of each month, can't do anything about it. it is the life we chose to live,
but it should be changed.....
that'
declined
to
she
is
【在 p*******s 的大作中提到】
: My husband commutes 5 minutes now and will change to 4 hours everyday, that'
: s a huge change to the family. I can't stands that he stays 4 hours
: everyday on highway and persists he should live around the area during the
: week days.
: he can change his job if we have green card now. actually, his prior boss
: called him and told him that there is vacancy in his dept, but was declined
: because of the green card issue. when you have waited for long and begin to
: see the rising sun, no one wants to go through the process again if he/she
: has any other option.
: I am trying to express my dissatisfaction of us' immigration policy. it is
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S*******r
发帖数: 11017 | 29 卫青你不厚道啊
人家娃都上中学了
怎么说也四十冒尖了
不能要求人家还和热血青年一样去奋力打拼啊
10th
live,
【在 w*****g 的大作中提到】
: 我看了这句话，也就不感到有什么可怜的了：we, other than waiting for the 10th
: of each month, can't do anything about it. it is the life we chose to live,
: but it should be changed.....
:
: that'
: declined
: to
: she
: is
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i********n
发帖数: 338 | 30 世界上有的人就是不知足，
有的07年大潮的人，拿着EAD和AP，回国不知道多方便，
还在抱怨自己等了多少年才拿卡，
可知道没有AP，回国签证耗时耗力，有多痛苦啊，
父母年纪大了，身体又不好，想回家看他们，签证还要预约，
签证材料要准备，签证有时还不知道过不过得了，那样的心情像谁去说呢？
只是觉得想念家人，想和家人在一起的时候有不能实现真是很痛苦。
所以幸运的人要知足，知足常乐。 |
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a***x
发帖数: 26368 | 31 不敢回国还赖这赖那。你看俺，check都4回了，还不是照回。
【在 i********n 的大作中提到】
: 世界上有的人就是不知足，
: 有的07年大潮的人，拿着EAD和AP，回国不知道多方便，
: 还在抱怨自己等了多少年才拿卡，
: 可知道没有AP，回国签证耗时耗力，有多痛苦啊，
: 父母年纪大了，身体又不好，想回家看他们，签证还要预约，
: 签证材料要准备，签证有时还不知道过不过得了，那样的心情像谁去说呢？
: 只是觉得想念家人，想和家人在一起的时候有不能实现真是很痛苦。
: 所以幸运的人要知足，知足常乐。
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w*****g
发帖数: 3922 | 32 呵呵，没有那么高的要求。但逆来顺受的人处于社会的最底层，是最自然的现象。四十
岁的人更应该看清这一点。
【在 S*******r 的大作中提到】
: 卫青你不厚道啊
: 人家娃都上中学了
: 怎么说也四十冒尖了
: 不能要求人家还和热血青年一样去奋力打拼啊
:
: 10th
: live,
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i********n
发帖数: 338 | 33 不是不敢回国，而且很不方便，
没有AP，你能随时想回就回吗？
签证得约吧？
你特别喜欢说风凉话，被check4次，不烦吗，
还回美国，到底谁赖在这里？ |
c***T
发帖数: 4990 | 34 US is a free country?
R u kidding?
Or you just believe it so blindly that you will be "free" after "greened"?
that'
declined
to
she
is
【在 p*******s 的大作中提到】
: My husband commutes 5 minutes now and will change to 4 hours everyday, that'
: s a huge change to the family. I can't stands that he stays 4 hours
: everyday on highway and persists he should live around the area during the
: week days.
: he can change his job if we have green card now. actually, his prior boss
: called him and told him that there is vacancy in his dept, but was declined
: because of the green card issue. when you have waited for long and begin to
: see the rising sun, no one wants to go through the process again if he/she
: has any other option.
: I am trying to express my dissatisfaction of us' immigration policy. it is
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a***x
发帖数: 26368 | 35 俺不烦，你烦了吗？
【在 i********n 的大作中提到】
: 不是不敢回国，而且很不方便，
: 没有AP，你能随时想回就回吗？
: 签证得约吧？
: 你特别喜欢说风凉话，被check4次，不烦吗，
: 还回美国，到底谁赖在这里？
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p*******s
发帖数: 369 | 36 刚刚又看了一下前面的贴,好像是骂错人了吔,姐在这给你道歉了哈. 那个骂贴是给那个
牛屎人的.不过今天心情好多了,想想半年也不是那么九,实在不行就辞职在家呗.所以也
就原谅他了.
【在 i******t 的大作中提到】
: 大姐
: 你写这么多也不给我道个歉
:
: that'
: declined
: to
: she
: is
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f****D
发帖数: 4745 | 37 这么大岁数了，还跟个小孩似的
网上的话就是个P，听过就算了，还真当真 |
p*******s
发帖数: 369 | 38 本来心里就委屈,日子过得好好的,被要求去另一个城市去上班,连叫板的勇气都没有.谁
让咱要靠资本家半绿卡呢.到这来诉诉苦,还被哪个垃圾牛屎骂,自然不爽吗.匆忙之中发
现骂错了人.有错就改,麻留地赶紧道歉.对了,那垃圾人骂了老人家我,还没道歉哪!
【在 f****D 的大作中提到】
: 这么大岁数了，还跟个小孩似的
: 网上的话就是个P，听过就算了，还真当真
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v**m
发帖数: 706 | |
