b****1 发帖数: 6 | 1 Many women can tell the story of a friend or relative who looked at her and said, "If you really wanted to be
married, you'd be married." The comment can sometimes slap like a wet towel, in part because it is true and
in part because of its implicit message: You could have compromised, perhaps settled, and been among the
married. And so, the logic follows, you have no one to blame but yourself.
But these women have fought for years to be themselves--self-reliant, successful, clever, funny, willf |
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