a****1
发帖数: 306 | 1 比如老是约你吃饭看电影出去玩什么的,年少的时候以为这就算是追求你了,来这里以后
才发现不少男生只是想骗你上床或占点便宜之类的。
在没有表白的情况下，有什么招可以分辨人家是要向serious relationship发展，还是
只想玩玩而已？要是后者就不奉陪了 |
c******r
发帖数: 889 | 2 Some guys would say anything sweet to get into your pants.
What you need is to be firm, don't let him get physical too quickly. If a
guy is truly falling for you, he will respect you and be patient.Because he
doesn't want to risk losing you if he act too hastily or misled you about
his intention.
Also, don't let him read your mind like an open book. Whatever feeling you
have for him, don't let out too quickly. Hold it. A little encouragement
every now and then. This would drive a guy who truly |
I********e
发帖数: 6130 | 3 this was not written by you...
he
【在 c******r 的大作中提到】
: Some guys would say anything sweet to get into your pants.
: What you need is to be firm, don't let him get physical too quickly. If a
: guy is truly falling for you, he will respect you and be patient.Because he
: doesn't want to risk losing you if he act too hastily or misled you about
: his intention.
: Also, don't let him read your mind like an open book. Whatever feeling you
: have for him, don't let out too quickly. Hold it. A little encouragement
: every now and then. This would drive a guy who truly
|
c******r
发帖数: 889 | 4 Why do you say so?
【在 I********e 的大作中提到】
: this was not written by you...
:
: he
|
I********e
发帖数: 6130 | 5 Well, was it? :)
【在 c******r 的大作中提到】
: Why do you say so?
|
c******r
发帖数: 889 | 6 Of course.
My finger tips are still burning. |
c******r
发帖数: 889 | 7 why is it hard to believe? |
I********e
发帖数: 6130 | 8 well, I read the first few sentences and they sound so generic...it seems
like you just copied it off from some dating advice site.
【在 c******r 的大作中提到】
: why is it hard to believe?
|
|
c******r
发帖数: 889 | 9 Well, I guess wise minds speak alike....hahaha
Seriously, these came from my own life experience, not generic. I guess
human relationships are all similar at the fundamental level.
But everyone dreams about the click at the first moment kind passion, no
reservation, no hold back, no tricks...just two people enjoy their true
selves.
Reality is far from ideal, that's why you need some skill, shield to protect
your fragile heart. Don't put it out there in plain sight, because there
are predators, s |
m**y
发帖数: 191 | 10 This kind of process just let some guys know your tricks and then hate you
more. Too much drama. Be sincere and have a beautiful mind, which will get
you a nice man you want.
he
【在 c******r 的大作中提到】
: Some guys would say anything sweet to get into your pants.
: What you need is to be firm, don't let him get physical too quickly. If a
: guy is truly falling for you, he will respect you and be patient.Because he
: doesn't want to risk losing you if he act too hastily or misled you about
: his intention.
: Also, don't let him read your mind like an open book. Whatever feeling you
: have for him, don't let out too quickly. Hold it. A little encouragement
: every now and then. This would drive a guy who truly
|
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p*****e
发帖数: 16417 | 11 试试看他愿不愿意陪你做一些无聊的事情，比如陪你逛街一天，你却什么都不买。
【在 a****1 的大作中提到】
: 比如老是约你吃饭看电影出去玩什么的,年少的时候以为这就算是追求你了,来这里以后
: 才发现不少男生只是想骗你上床或占点便宜之类的。
: 在没有表白的情况下，有什么招可以分辨人家是要向serious relationship发展，还是
: 只想玩玩而已？要是后者就不奉陪了
|
l*****y
发帖数: 317 | 12 Interesting...not a bad idea. If I got to love a girl, I would be more than
happy just to stay with her for one whole day...
【在 p*****e 的大作中提到】
: 试试看他愿不愿意陪你做一些无聊的事情，比如陪你逛街一天，你却什么都不买。
|
a********6
发帖数: 14468 | 13 你是谁？
【在 a****1 的大作中提到】
: 比如老是约你吃饭看电影出去玩什么的,年少的时候以为这就算是追求你了,来这里以后
: 才发现不少男生只是想骗你上床或占点便宜之类的。
: 在没有表白的情况下，有什么招可以分辨人家是要向serious relationship发展，还是
: 只想玩玩而已？要是后者就不奉陪了
|
M*********n
发帖数: 506 | 14
protect
你男的女的？
【在 c******r 的大作中提到】
: Well, I guess wise minds speak alike....hahaha
: Seriously, these came from my own life experience, not generic. I guess
: human relationships are all similar at the fundamental level.
: But everyone dreams about the click at the first moment kind passion, no
: reservation, no hold back, no tricks...just two people enjoy their true
: selves.
: Reality is far from ideal, that's why you need some skill, shield to protect
: your fragile heart. Don't put it out there in plain sight, because there
: are predators, s
|
M*********n
发帖数: 506 | 15
They have to play tricks, welcome to the world.
【在 m**y 的大作中提到】
: This kind of process just let some guys know your tricks and then hate you
: more. Too much drama. Be sincere and have a beautiful mind, which will get
: you a nice man you want.
:
: he
|
I********e
发帖数: 6130 | 16 I guess I've been fortunate - I never played games when I dated and never
dated guys who wanted to play games with me. The reason I broke up with guys
I dated before was always due to other factors (like incompatible
personality). But every single one has been sincere about the relationship.
So personally I wouldn't suggest people to do what you said but that's just
me.
protect
【在 c******r 的大作中提到】
: Well, I guess wise minds speak alike....hahaha
: Seriously, these came from my own life experience, not generic. I guess
: human relationships are all similar at the fundamental level.
: But everyone dreams about the click at the first moment kind passion, no
: reservation, no hold back, no tricks...just two people enjoy their true
: selves.
: Reality is far from ideal, that's why you need some skill, shield to protect
: your fragile heart. Don't put it out there in plain sight, because there
: are predators, s
|
m**y
发帖数: 191 | 17 So do you like to play yourself with these tricks?
【在 M*********n 的大作中提到】
:
: They have to play tricks, welcome to the world.
|
s****3
发帖数: 1291 | 18 恩，你说的很好呢
he
【在 c******r 的大作中提到】
: Some guys would say anything sweet to get into your pants.
: What you need is to be firm, don't let him get physical too quickly. If a
: guy is truly falling for you, he will respect you and be patient.Because he
: doesn't want to risk losing you if he act too hastily or misled you about
: his intention.
: Also, don't let him read your mind like an open book. Whatever feeling you
: have for him, don't let out too quickly. Hold it. A little encouragement
: every now and then. This would drive a guy who truly
|
t********h
发帖数: 1881 | 19 most likely 想玩玩而已, maybe wrong, but most cases
【在 a****1 的大作中提到】
: 比如老是约你吃饭看电影出去玩什么的,年少的时候以为这就算是追求你了,来这里以后
: 才发现不少男生只是想骗你上床或占点便宜之类的。
: 在没有表白的情况下，有什么招可以分辨人家是要向serious relationship发展，还是
: 只想玩玩而已？要是后者就不奉陪了
|
Q****r
发帖数: 7340 | 20 其实男人把很瞧不起很快上床的女生
凡是上床快的女生都不用serious交往了，反正来的容易
【在 a****1 的大作中提到】
: 比如老是约你吃饭看电影出去玩什么的,年少的时候以为这就算是追求你了,来这里以后
: 才发现不少男生只是想骗你上床或占点便宜之类的。
: 在没有表白的情况下，有什么招可以分辨人家是要向serious relationship发展，还是
: 只想玩玩而已？要是后者就不奉陪了
|
|
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c**********g
发帖数: 433 | 21 You seem to consider yourself smarter than the guy, and you are in control
the whole time. However, if you are dealing with a sincere but smart man,
he may not have the patience for this BS. It's too much tactics and very
little real love.
My advice is much simpler: Just think it through and be ready to take
consequences when you drop your pants. Other than that, be sincere and enjoy
it. There are still many good guys out there. Fact is, many of them are
abused by women.
he
【在 c******r 的大作中提到】
: Some guys would say anything sweet to get into your pants.
: What you need is to be firm, don't let him get physical too quickly. If a
: guy is truly falling for you, he will respect you and be patient.Because he
: doesn't want to risk losing you if he act too hastily or misled you about
: his intention.
: Also, don't let him read your mind like an open book. Whatever feeling you
: have for him, don't let out too quickly. Hold it. A little encouragement
: every now and then. This would drive a guy who truly
|
M*********n
发帖数: 506 | 22
Don't like, but have to deal with it. They are vulnerable and have to protect themselves.
【在 m**y 的大作中提到】
: So do you like to play yourself with these tricks?
|
m**y
发帖数: 191 | 23 Understand. Hope you carefully deal with them with your sincere boundaries.
protect themselves.
【在 M*********n 的大作中提到】
:
: Don't like, but have to deal with it. They are vulnerable and have to protect themselves.
|
s*******7
发帖数: 2880 | 24 well said!!!
the process really sounds like a psychological game. it seems the one first
let out of true feeling would end up be a loser.
if she really has feeling for him, it is kinda hard to remain calm/be
mysterious in front of him, she might be nervous, want to know him more and
really care about him (giving love is just a nature overflow). It is said
women in love usually have ZERO IQ.
Sure, being a little mysterious would intrigue/motivate the man, the hunter,
to chase after you or read yo
【在 c******r 的大作中提到】
: Some guys would say anything sweet to get into your pants.
: What you need is to be firm, don't let him get physical too quickly. If a
: guy is truly falling for you, he will respect you and be patient.Because he
: doesn't want to risk losing you if he act too hastily or misled you about
: his intention.
: Also, don't let him read your mind like an open book. Whatever feeling you
: have for him, don't let out too quickly. Hold it. A little encouragement
: every now and then. This would drive a guy who truly
|
m****m
发帖数: 395 | 25 True. If a girl can play that game skillfully. That girl is not that with
pure love anymore. She must have much experience and to certain extent, be a
bad girl. Or she has other objects than love.
A real girl in deep love with a man is tend to be very silly. She wants to
see him everyday, wants to tell him about herself. She can even change her
bad temper and outlook. Sometimes girls' love is somewhat selfish. That's
why girls need skills. But since wonmen tend to love with soul, they still
will
【在 s*******7 的大作中提到】
: well said!!!
: the process really sounds like a psychological game. it seems the one first
: let out of true feeling would end up be a loser.
: if she really has feeling for him, it is kinda hard to remain calm/be
: mysterious in front of him, she might be nervous, want to know him more and
: really care about him (giving love is just a nature overflow). It is said
: women in love usually have ZERO IQ.
: Sure, being a little mysterious would intrigue/motivate the man, the hunter,
: to chase after you or read yo
|
m**y
发帖数: 191 | 26 Who is the loser eventually?
The one to let out of true feeling? The way I see it, the one who is always
be protective lose himself/herself.
first
and
hunter,
【在 s*******7 的大作中提到】
: well said!!!
: the process really sounds like a psychological game. it seems the one first
: let out of true feeling would end up be a loser.
: if she really has feeling for him, it is kinda hard to remain calm/be
: mysterious in front of him, she might be nervous, want to know him more and
: really care about him (giving love is just a nature overflow). It is said
: women in love usually have ZERO IQ.
: Sure, being a little mysterious would intrigue/motivate the man, the hunter,
: to chase after you or read yo
|
t**o
发帖数: 1858 | 27 以前有个男同学说，男人为你花钱花时间也都可以只是玩玩，真心喜欢一个人，是对她
负责任。至于如何才算负责任，每个人大概需要自己体会吧。
【在 a****1 的大作中提到】
: 比如老是约你吃饭看电影出去玩什么的,年少的时候以为这就算是追求你了,来这里以后
: 才发现不少男生只是想骗你上床或占点便宜之类的。
: 在没有表白的情况下，有什么招可以分辨人家是要向serious relationship发展，还是
: 只想玩玩而已？要是后者就不奉陪了
|
s*******7
发帖数: 2880 | 28 sorry for the wording.
regarding the game, usually the result is win/lose. usually someone has to
take the initiative, someone has to lose something in order to gain
something.
sure, the one who is always be protective lose himself/herself.
maybe just be yourself and careful are the 'best' choices.
always
【在 m**y 的大作中提到】
: Who is the loser eventually?
: The one to let out of true feeling? The way I see it, the one who is always
: be protective lose himself/herself.
:
: first
: and
: hunter,
|
P******0
发帖数: 9787 | 29 you can't tell. bottom line you have to make sure it's all worth it.
【在 a****1 的大作中提到】
: 比如老是约你吃饭看电影出去玩什么的,年少的时候以为这就算是追求你了,来这里以后
: 才发现不少男生只是想骗你上床或占点便宜之类的。
: 在没有表白的情况下，有什么招可以分辨人家是要向serious relationship发展，还是
: 只想玩玩而已？要是后者就不奉陪了
|
s********a
发帖数: 1100 | 30 Nope, what he said is very useful according true experience.
【在 m**y 的大作中提到】
: This kind of process just let some guys know your tricks and then hate you
: more. Too much drama. Be sincere and have a beautiful mind, which will get
: you a nice man you want.
:
: he
|
|
|
r**********9
发帖数: 19633 | 31 只要不上床不就完了吗？他想请你吃饭就吃呗
还有，如果他把你介绍给亲朋好友就可能是认真的 |
L*********m
发帖数: 234 | 32 date得时候不要考虑这么多吧，just be yourself. 计算得失我觉得没有意义。就算一
开始真心未必以后时，一开始半真心后来也可能变真心。relationship是一个很复杂的
事情，取决于
女人本身的魅力和实力，是一个拉力战，而不是单单上床不上床这么简单。
我觉得大多数男人并不是纯粹的花花公子，刚跟你在一起的时候是处于试探阶段的，这
个时候他不想承诺很多。上床与否并不时重点，而是相处了一段时间以后你有没有令他
着迷的地方，美貌，性格举止，自身能力甚至家世，都count。
【在 a****1 的大作中提到】
: 比如老是约你吃饭看电影出去玩什么的,年少的时候以为这就算是追求你了,来这里以后
: 才发现不少男生只是想骗你上床或占点便宜之类的。
: 在没有表白的情况下，有什么招可以分辨人家是要向serious relationship发展，还是
: 只想玩玩而已？要是后者就不奉陪了
|
p*********l
发帖数: 26270 | 33 我觉得，男女一开始，就是化学反应，长久不长久要看两人相处如何，一见种晴容易，
一见就许下一生的承诺很难，所以不能太患得患失，如果你自己都不能品尝到两情相悦
的美好，那么又如何让对方觉得你就是给他三颗痣的那个人呢？
另外，我同意commoner的说法，保持神秘感新鲜感让对方揣摩来揣摩去经历感情的点滴
起伏，是让对方越陷越深的有效手段，他发现不付出就得不到你，才会不断付出，感情
也就不断加深。 |
c*******t
发帖数: 953 | 34 对方是穷人就要他多出钱，对方是忙人就要他多出时间。富人的钱，穷人的时间都不算
是付出的。
如果不用付出就可以买到货，你说那货价值多少？不愿付出的就是只想玩玩的。 |
L*********m
发帖数: 234 | 35 看了这么多痴男怨女
发现有一条规律很重要
就是人本身的quality,无论男人女人
date和自己quality相当的人，serious relationship可能性很大
反之，玩弄的可能性很大
【在 a****1 的大作中提到】
: 比如老是约你吃饭看电影出去玩什么的,年少的时候以为这就算是追求你了,来这里以后
: 才发现不少男生只是想骗你上床或占点便宜之类的。
: 在没有表白的情况下，有什么招可以分辨人家是要向serious relationship发展，还是
: 只想玩玩而已？要是后者就不奉陪了
|
t******y
发帖数: 748 | 36 Hahaha... do't mislead by fairy stories. love can change. but the way how a
man choose his wife doesn't change much.
A Serious Man means he is considering live with you and marry you when he is
approaching. especially after several deep talking.
if you want to know if your man is serious or not. Just see how comfortable
he would like to see your parents, and how comfortable he or she would like
you to see his parents.
loop in family is the essential step to any serious relationship you are
looki |
e********l
发帖数: 1225 | 37 这个其实很容易看出来的，看不出来的绝大多数的情况下是因为你喜欢上他了 |
b******p
发帖数: 1401 | 38 great comments.
u seem very experienced:)
he
【在 c******r 的大作中提到】
: Some guys would say anything sweet to get into your pants.
: What you need is to be firm, don't let him get physical too quickly. If a
: guy is truly falling for you, he will respect you and be patient.Because he
: doesn't want to risk losing you if he act too hastily or misled you about
: his intention.
: Also, don't let him read your mind like an open book. Whatever feeling you
: have for him, don't let out too quickly. Hold it. A little encouragement
: every now and then. This would drive a guy who truly
|
b*****i
发帖数: 849 | 39 操逼戴套不？
【在 a****1 的大作中提到】
: 比如老是约你吃饭看电影出去玩什么的,年少的时候以为这就算是追求你了,来这里以后
: 才发现不少男生只是想骗你上床或占点便宜之类的。
: 在没有表白的情况下，有什么招可以分辨人家是要向serious relationship发展，还是
: 只想玩玩而已？要是后者就不奉陪了
|
f*****m
发帖数: 30 | 40 约你是对你有好感，想进一步增进相互了解。男的干嘛那么快喜欢上你不喜欢上别人。 |
|
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b********h
发帖数: 7210 | 41 跟他提结婚，订日子，见家长，发消息，买房子，买家具。
【在 a****1 的大作中提到】
: 比如老是约你吃饭看电影出去玩什么的,年少的时候以为这就算是追求你了,来这里以后
: 才发现不少男生只是想骗你上床或占点便宜之类的。
: 在没有表白的情况下，有什么招可以分辨人家是要向serious relationship发展，还是
: 只想玩玩而已？要是后者就不奉陪了
|
m******g
发帖数: 66 | 42 那是戴套serious，还是不带套serious？
【在 b*****i 的大作中提到】
: 操逼戴套不？
|
s*******r
发帖数: 3429 | 43 那岂不累死？
【在 p*********l 的大作中提到】
: 我觉得，男女一开始，就是化学反应，长久不长久要看两人相处如何，一见种晴容易，
: 一见就许下一生的承诺很难，所以不能太患得患失，如果你自己都不能品尝到两情相悦
: 的美好，那么又如何让对方觉得你就是给他三颗痣的那个人呢？
: 另外，我同意commoner的说法，保持神秘感新鲜感让对方揣摩来揣摩去经历感情的点滴
: 起伏，是让对方越陷越深的有效手段，他发现不付出就得不到你，才会不断付出，感情
: 也就不断加深。
|
d*****s
发帖数: 363 | 44 另外，我同意commoner的说法，保持神秘感新鲜感让对方揣摩来揣摩去经历感情的点滴
起伏，是让对方越陷越深的有效手段，他发现不付出就得不到你，才会不断付出，感情
也就不断加深。他发现不付出就得不到你，才会不断付出，感情: 也就不断加深。。。。
真是一个可笑的逻辑。 天下女生又不是你一个。
对这样虚伪不爽快的，不管付出没有付出过，都要趁早分掉，还谈何加深。只是加深厌
恶感罢了。
还有什么叫付出，两人本该平等相处，而不是要一方去为你付出。你要把想别人付出，
价格定低点还
有可能出手，定高了就没有人要了。为什么还期望别人对你感情越来越深呢。
真是荒唐啊。
【在 p*********l 的大作中提到】
: 我觉得，男女一开始，就是化学反应，长久不长久要看两人相处如何，一见种晴容易，
: 一见就许下一生的承诺很难，所以不能太患得患失，如果你自己都不能品尝到两情相悦
: 的美好，那么又如何让对方觉得你就是给他三颗痣的那个人呢？
: 另外，我同意commoner的说法，保持神秘感新鲜感让对方揣摩来揣摩去经历感情的点滴
: 起伏，是让对方越陷越深的有效手段，他发现不付出就得不到你，才会不断付出，感情
: 也就不断加深。
|
d*****s
发帖数: 363 | 45 同意。那些故作姿态的女人还烦人的，最后没有什么好结果也应该。
you
get
【在 m**y 的大作中提到】
: This kind of process just let some guys know your tricks and then hate you
: more. Too much drama. Be sincere and have a beautiful mind, which will get
: you a nice man you want.
:
: he
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d*****s
发帖数: 363 | 46 commoner说的是Learn,而不是付出。这两者有很大不同。
。。
【在 d*****s 的大作中提到】
: 另外，我同意commoner的说法，保持神秘感新鲜感让对方揣摩来揣摩去经历感情的点滴
: 起伏，是让对方越陷越深的有效手段，他发现不付出就得不到你，才会不断付出，感情
: 也就不断加深。他发现不付出就得不到你，才会不断付出，感情: 也就不断加深。。。。
: 真是一个可笑的逻辑。 天下女生又不是你一个。
: 对这样虚伪不爽快的，不管付出没有付出过，都要趁早分掉，还谈何加深。只是加深厌
: 恶感罢了。
: 还有什么叫付出，两人本该平等相处，而不是要一方去为你付出。你要把想别人付出，
: 价格定低点还
: 有可能出手，定高了就没有人要了。为什么还期望别人对你感情越来越深呢。
: 真是荒唐啊。
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p**e
发帖数: 6317 | 47 你说的挺对的
喜欢彼此真诚平等相待，不喜欢攻于心计
。。
【在 d*****s 的大作中提到】
: 另外，我同意commoner的说法，保持神秘感新鲜感让对方揣摩来揣摩去经历感情的点滴
: 起伏，是让对方越陷越深的有效手段，他发现不付出就得不到你，才会不断付出，感情
: 也就不断加深。他发现不付出就得不到你，才会不断付出，感情: 也就不断加深。。。。
: 真是一个可笑的逻辑。 天下女生又不是你一个。
: 对这样虚伪不爽快的，不管付出没有付出过，都要趁早分掉，还谈何加深。只是加深厌
: 恶感罢了。
: 还有什么叫付出，两人本该平等相处，而不是要一方去为你付出。你要把想别人付出，
: 价格定低点还
: 有可能出手，定高了就没有人要了。为什么还期望别人对你感情越来越深呢。
: 真是荒唐啊。
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d*****s
发帖数: 363 | 48 谢谢。
真诚的人才能得到真诚的人喜欢，
玩心计的人最后玩自己，最起码在感情婚姻领域基本如此。
【在 p**e 的大作中提到】
: 你说的挺对的
: 喜欢彼此真诚平等相待，不喜欢攻于心计
:
: 。。
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R*******1
发帖数: 134 | 49 that is hard. I think loss is part of life. Sometimes you lose your heart,
sometimes you lose your soul, and sometimes, you lose your body, or even
life.
good man are hard to find. Even you find the one, would you think such
people are so stupid, that they treat you so nicely so long, in the
environment nowadays?
【在 a****1 的大作中提到】
: 比如老是约你吃饭看电影出去玩什么的,年少的时候以为这就算是追求你了,来这里以后
: 才发现不少男生只是想骗你上床或占点便宜之类的。
: 在没有表白的情况下，有什么招可以分辨人家是要向serious relationship发展，还是
: 只想玩玩而已？要是后者就不奉陪了
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a*****0
发帖数: 6788 | 50 不用费心了，都是想玩玩你的。 你不也想玩么。大家一起玩，其乐无穷。 |
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R*******0
发帖数: 1866 | 51 我觉得最有效的方法就是跟他明说。
【在 a****1 的大作中提到】
: 比如老是约你吃饭看电影出去玩什么的,年少的时候以为这就算是追求你了,来这里以后
: 才发现不少男生只是想骗你上床或占点便宜之类的。
: 在没有表白的情况下，有什么招可以分辨人家是要向serious relationship发展，还是
: 只想玩玩而已？要是后者就不奉陪了
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D*****8
发帖数: 209 | 52 明说上了床就要负责任，看他还敢上不？
哈哈。。 |
P*******i
发帖数: 10965 | 53 有的人心里素质很强大的。
明说上了床就要负责任，看他还敢上不？
哈哈。。
【在 D*****8 的大作中提到】
: 明说上了床就要负责任，看他还敢上不？
: 哈哈。。
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P****D
发帖数: 11146 | 54 这太危言耸听了。一个女人跟一个男人上了床之后发现他只是想玩玩，当然会郁闷，但
是女方得脆弱到什么地步才能因为这就又lose heart又lose soul……大家都take it
easy不好吗？
【在 R*******1 的大作中提到】
: that is hard. I think loss is part of life. Sometimes you lose your heart,
: sometimes you lose your soul, and sometimes, you lose your body, or even
: life.
: good man are hard to find. Even you find the one, would you think such
: people are so stupid, that they treat you so nicely so long, in the
: environment nowadays?
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P****D
发帖数: 11146 | 55 这句我很同意。世界上做任何事都有风险，都可能得不到自己最想要的后果。买股票也
得先想清楚了，然后根据自己能承受的可能最大损失来规划自己的投资策略。谈恋爱、
上床，也是完全一样的道理。
【在 c**********g 的大作中提到】
: You seem to consider yourself smarter than the guy, and you are in control
: the whole time. However, if you are dealing with a sincere but smart man,
: he may not have the patience for this BS. It's too much tactics and very
: little real love.
: My advice is much simpler: Just think it through and be ready to take
: consequences when you drop your pants. Other than that, be sincere and enjoy
: it. There are still many good guys out there. Fact is, many of them are
: abused by women.
:
: he
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j******t
发帖数: 846 | 56 看他是不是常常谈及你们的生活计划，构想和你共同的未来。
【在 a****1 的大作中提到】
: 比如老是约你吃饭看电影出去玩什么的,年少的时候以为这就算是追求你了,来这里以后
: 才发现不少男生只是想骗你上床或占点便宜之类的。
: 在没有表白的情况下，有什么招可以分辨人家是要向serious relationship发展，还是
: 只想玩玩而已？要是后者就不奉陪了
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S****9
发帖数: 8108 | |
s*****g
发帖数: 352 | 58 举手！
【在 S****9 的大作中提到】
: 有谁跟我一样讨厌这个题目？
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s***o
发帖数: 272 | 59 累不累啊
he
【在 c******r 的大作中提到】
: Some guys would say anything sweet to get into your pants.
: What you need is to be firm, don't let him get physical too quickly. If a
: guy is truly falling for you, he will respect you and be patient.Because he
: doesn't want to risk losing you if he act too hastily or misled you about
: his intention.
: Also, don't let him read your mind like an open book. Whatever feeling you
: have for him, don't let out too quickly. Hold it. A little encouragement
: every now and then. This would drive a guy who truly
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j*******e
发帖数: 4663 | 60 此方法结果多半是淘汰掉真感情或者有自尊的男生，留下些死缠烂打的。
更可悲的是，死缠烂打的不但只是觉得这样好玩，不是因为喜欢那个女生，而且以后会
处于报复心理更容易劈腿。
he
【在 c******r 的大作中提到】
: Some guys would say anything sweet to get into your pants.
: What you need is to be firm, don't let him get physical too quickly. If a
: guy is truly falling for you, he will respect you and be patient.Because he
: doesn't want to risk losing you if he act too hastily or misled you about
: his intention.
: Also, don't let him read your mind like an open book. Whatever feeling you
: have for him, don't let out too quickly. Hold it. A little encouragement
: every now and then. This would drive a guy who truly
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w****6
发帖数: 359 | 61 LZ要做好心理准备
男生喜欢你还是玩玩你是要看如何‘下床’的
不管喜欢你还是玩玩你，之前的表现都是相同，想和你‘上床’的
这个‘床’是道具，你绕不开的 |
m**y
发帖数: 191 | 62 Very interesting. I've never thought in this way. Agree.
【在 w****6 的大作中提到】
: LZ要做好心理准备
: 男生喜欢你还是玩玩你是要看如何‘下床’的
: 不管喜欢你还是玩玩你，之前的表现都是相同，想和你‘上床’的
: 这个‘床’是道具，你绕不开的
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G*****n
发帖数: 3863 | 63 Re.
而且一个男人如果没有自尊，说明人品非常不好，因为连自尊都可以出卖的人，还有什
么不可以出卖的？简直就不是个男人。
【在 j*******e 的大作中提到】
: 此方法结果多半是淘汰掉真感情或者有自尊的男生，留下些死缠烂打的。
: 更可悲的是，死缠烂打的不但只是觉得这样好玩，不是因为喜欢那个女生，而且以后会
: 处于报复心理更容易劈腿。
:
: he
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