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发帖数: 773 | 1 【 以下文字转载自 Dreamer 讨论区 】
发信人: Dreamer (不要问我从哪里来), 信区: Dreamer
标 题: how to handle office bully?
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri May 13 14:40:40 2011, 美东)
since came to US, I stuck at one place and have been working for >2 yrs. and
this is the first time I got angry for work.
A coworker of mine is leaving for vocation next week and she's a clinical
study coordinator. It's kind of funny that my boss wanna me to cover for her
, coz I know nothing about those studies and I am leaving in weeks.
Anyway, I am a "good-good" lady, so this week, I have been staying with her
and shadowing her to familiar with the protocol and all trivial things. It's
ok that she's lazy and stupid, and I have been polite and patient all the
time, though she kept humiliate me all the time, and ask me to do this and
that like I am her secretary.
The first day with her, I could not eat lunch till 3:00pm, although cafe is
in the same building, and we had a lot of short breaks to buy food, plus I
offered to buy lunch for her many time. Finally she asked me to take diet
burger and diet soda for her. Wo Kao, u r on diet doesen't mean everybody
should do the same! the 2nd day, I took lunch with me. and the 3rd day,
while she should be there to take care of an intake patient, she left for
lunch without notice. and I had to make arrangement for the patient while I
had no idea of what's going on. The 4th day, she asked me to help her with
with the data entry work, which she should finished long time ago. while I
asked her to check if I did it right, she said, I cannot talk to you now,
coz I am hungry and I am leaving for lunch....
Should I be angry? I really don't know what kind of right she has to bully
me. But I don't wanna make it ugly, so when she left for her lunch, I went
to our manager and told her that I did not feel well and asked for half day
leave.
I don't know if I am too sensitive or irritated, not feeling right anyway. | A*******s
发帖数: 9638 | 2 Patpat.
You are leaving, right? Just another a few weeks.
Keep it in mind: after you leave, you may still need references from ur
previous work place. If this coworker happens to be the person who picks up
the phone call, u know what is going to happen...
Try to make friends, not enemies.
my 2 cents. |
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