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Sibling rivalry: Parents do have a favorite child, usually the first born
Published: 12 Apr 2016 | 15:32 GMT
Reuters
Siblings who have long suspected they weren’t their parents' favorite
child now have scientific evidence to back up their fears.
A University of California study of 768 parents found 70 percent of mothers
and 74 percent of fathers admitted they had one child they preferred.
Though parents didn’t specify which child made the top of their list,
scientists believe the oldest children got the most love, according to 384
of the families studied.
The research, published in the Journal of Family Psychology, found that
younger siblings admitted feeling a bias from their parents in favor of the
first born.
Leading the report, Professor Katherine Conger said she was “surprised” by
her team’s findings, leading all non-first-born children to mumble under
their breath “Surprised? She must be the oldest in her family”.
“Our hypothesis was that older, earlier-born children would be more
affected by perceptions of differential treatment due to their status as the
older child in the family,” she told Quartz.
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Despite the study, the youngest is often depicted as the favorite in popular
culture.
Who can forget the famous rivalry between siblings from cult film Ferris
Bueller’s Day Off, all because one child was favored over the other. | a**********u 发帖数: 28450 | | X*******G 发帖数: 14887 | | r*****3 发帖数: 6442 | | z*****s 发帖数: 289 | 5 父母绝对是更爱老大。
我家四个,我最小,我爸妈对我就是溺爱,要啥给啥,当猪养。对我没有任何要求。
对我大哥才是真的严要求,高期望。那个爱和溺爱不一样,是一种平等的爱。
有时我非常的吃醋
【在 r*****3 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 老大肯定没有小的受宠
| b*******t 发帖数: 4756 | 6 肯定
因为父母很多经验都是老大身上得来的,挨打的是老大,老小们就不会挨打了。父母是
欠老大的。 | r**********g 发帖数: 22734 | 7 比如你三十岁生老大,活到八十,跟老大是五十年的交情。
三十五生老二,跟他只有四十五年交情。
交情深,当然更爱点。
【在 r*****3 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 老大肯定没有小的受宠
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