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发帖数: 90 | 1 发现很多外F都是家境不错的城市孔雀女。
而像樊胜美这种愚孝，无限制补贴娘家父母和兄弟的凤凰女，倒是很少外F。
是老外不愿意娶樊胜美这种愚孝的凤凰女，还是凤凰女不愿意嫁老外呢？ | n*****c
发帖数: 90 | 2 看看这个老外吐槽他的中国前妻：
她把她的父母和兄弟看得比自己的白人老公要重要。
她婚后总是没日没夜打工、补贴娘家父母和兄弟、拿到公民后把父母兄弟都移民美国，
与老外离婚又与表亲结婚，他说娶中国老婆如同进陷阱。
与现在倒贴老外的外F女来说，这个女人嫁老外的方式简直是民族英雄。
https://www.henrymakow.com/my_chinese_wife_set_a_trap.html
My Chinese Wife Set a Trap!
March 6, 2010
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"Chinese women were so approachable and didn't appear to hate men. [They are
shockingly] sweet and feminine."
(Wholesome Refuge in China--Another View)
COMPLETELY UNTRUE!!! COMPLETELY UNTRUE!!!
Chinese women are only so because, in the initial stages,
they want to trap you; later properly married they put the screws on you.
I am Max. I was teaching English in China. I was attracted by the
advertisements calling to teach English in China, and for exotic locales and
adventure. I got that alright. Now back home in the US, I am completely
pissed off and unhappy. I honestly wished to God I had not gone to China and
tangled with Chinese women. They are the most cunning and manipulative in
the world. I am now left with a whole hole in my life; and a great sense of
having been used and abandoned.
Like Tom I initially thought I found heaven. Indeed, I fell head over heels
with my Chinese wife, one of my students at English class. She was so sweet
and nice. After marriage, things changed ever so slightly but surely. She
became ever so unhappy with my job as English tutor. She said it was 'a job
with no future'. She said it was 'a low class job' with little pay and gave
her no 'face'. She egged me to go home to the US telling me how wonderful
life would be there.
Besotted with my 'sweet' wife, I became more and more uncomfortable in China
when even her parents and relatives became 'cooler' towards me, just after
a half year of marriage. I decided to go back to US with my wife, moving to
San Francisco thinking she would be happy there, many Chinese.
Indeed in the first year back I thought I found heaven. My wife immediately
started to get to know the local Chinese community and started working in
the Chinese restaurant, starting as dishwasher and moving on to assistant
cook, keeping long hours. Her earnings were not much; how much can you get
from a Chinese restaurant? But she was happy and did not have much
complaints. She insisted though to get her 'green card' as spouse of an
American citizen; and I was proud of her to do so, thinking that this proved
her commitment to me and my country. Little did I know.
My 'sweet' wife got her US citizenship and things changed from thereon,
overnight and never looked back until she left me.
After she got her citizenship papers, my wife asked me, demanded me to get
her parents and relatives over, to sponsor them. I told her I cannot get her
parents over as I was not earning enough; what are they going to live on?
At this she laughed and said that 'in China men took care of the family and
wives hold on to what they earn'.
She would not give what she earned, she laughed at my job and earnings
saying that most Chinese think Americans are 'well off', 'Now she really
knows this is not true. I was the example.' This really hurt me bad. She
then nagged me to sponsor her brother and family over; he is a computer
technician.
To keep the family peace, hoping things will go back to the good old sweet
days I agreed. I went through hell and high water to get them over. She, my
wife, was ecstatic to see her brother and family. But things did not really
change. She worked long hours, scarcely gave me time and mixed even more
with her brother's family.
She kept egging me on to get her parents and a cousin over. She kept on
saying my job and earnings were 'a disgrace'. I could not even help her take
care of her parents. I was 'indeed a great disappointment'. She kept on
being cold to me and spent little time with me. I was not able to get her
parents over; but I did manage to sponsor her cousin. This was my greatest
mistake.
It turned out that he was not her cousin after all. He was a smooth looking
young man with a computer science degree. Six months after her 'cousin' came
over; my wife just quietly left the flat. I came back one evening and all
her clothes and things were cleared out, clean. I searched hell and high
water for her, I could not find her. Six months later, I received papers
from a lawyer in Chinatown for divorce. It turned out that her 'cousin' is
now her partner. The last I heard of her is that her parents are now over
here. Her 'cousin' and her brother had got them over.
"Chinese women were so approachable and didn't appear to hate men. [They are
shockingly] sweet and feminine."
This is COMPLETELY UNTRUE. They are only so because they want something from
you. They want to get 'a green card' to a Western country, and they want to
get their parents and relatives over to have the good life here, also to
sponge of welfare and the pension. I have seen this many times from many
friends. Same experience. Once they get the green card the will leave us '
hairy gweilos'. They think we are rich; once they realise we are not, they
change overnight. They look down on you.
The best ladies my friends tell me are Filipinos. They are more westernised
and they are actually prettier. They are warmer, have more 'heart'. They
really love Americans. Many of my friends are turning off the East Asians -
Chinese, Koreans, Japanese. They are too rich now. They look down on you.
Filipinos and South East Asians like Laotians are better. Particularly
FILIPINOS. They know American culture better; and they love us. They have
more 'heart'. | n*****c
发帖数: 90 | 3 感觉老外比华人对这种无限制补贴娘家父母和兄弟的凤凰女还要敬而远之。
外F后还补贴娘家的华人女性，最终都是离婚了；
而嫁华人老公还补贴娘家的，婚姻还能维持下去 | n*****c
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