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发帖数: 4796 | 1 是一个什么腺体里喷射出来的。问题是怎么可能会喷射这么大量呢？
This Is What Comes Out When a Woman Ejaculates
Everything you want to know about the elusive squirt.
It was, and remains, one of the most spectacular things I’d ever witnessed.
A dozen women, my then-partner among them, shooting arcs of liquid the air
from from their genitals for the very first time, in unison. What had begun
90 minutes earlier as a fairly granular anatomy lesson in a Brooklyn
townhouse had seamlessly morphed into something resembling the fountain show
at the Bellagio.
Though intensely focused on my partner’s sudden apparent ability to “
squirt”—as female ejacuation is commonly known—I was very much aware that
the other new squirters in the room seemed to be expressing the same two
things as she was: an unbridled release of pent up emotion and utter
incredulity at their body’s ability to do something completely new and
almost magical.
Up until this moment, I harbored serious doubts that the well-muscled man
wearing colorful briefs and the hairstyle of a Lenape warrior could guide
this diverse group of women and their partners to opening the floodgates for
the first time, much less at the same time. Indeed, I showed up feeling
fairly certain that there were people who could squirt and people who could
not squirt and that it broke down in a ratio similar to those who are right-
and left-handed.
What’s more, over a 15-year career writing mostly about sex and sexuality,
I’d read plenty of scientific papers which concluded that female
ejaculation is definitely a thing and a number insisting that it was
definitely not a thing. A couple of others argued that it was a thing but
not the thing you might think it is if Pornhub is where you’re getting your
information. There was still more research that looked at where it came
from, what the ejaculate was comprised of and how prevalent it was. As we
were permitted entry into the townhouse, all of these nuanced conclusions
literature had me resigned to going home unmoved and dry.
I left that space—Kenneth Play’s Squirting “PlayLab”—over two years ago
, a firm and pleasantly damp believer in the idea that most women have the
capacity to squirt. I have witnessed it many times since. But while
squirting has become a very popular subgenre in porn and a ton of gear to
both facilitate and manage sexual play that results in a puddle is readily
available on Amazon, the scientific literature, at first blush, is as
inconclusive as ever.
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The main issue is around how female ejaculation—which has been written
about for millennia in both the Eastern and Western world—is defined. Some
papers conclude that the expulsion of cupfuls of clear liquid often depicted
in porn and which necessitates the changing of sheets is chiefly urine. The
term female ejaculate, they argue, should be narrowed to refer only to much
smaller volumes of a milky white liquid that may also be expressed from the
urethra.
Before becoming a sexologist, sex counselor, and sex educator, Anita Hoffer
was a professor of Urology at Brigham and Women's Hospital. She confirms
that virtually all of the ejaculate I’ve seen fly the the air had moments
before been contained in a bladder explaining that there’s no other place
for it to come from.
Studies have suggested that what is thought of as “true” female ejaculate
springs from the Skene’s glands. These glands, which run alongside the
urethra, are often called the female prostate because like the male version,
they produce prostate-specific antigen (PSA) and prostatic acid phosphatase
(PAP). “It’s important to realize that the Skene’s glands are very small
and there is no way they can create 150, or even 30 ml of female ejaculate
all by themselves,” Hoffer says.
A French study set about looking at where the massive amounts of liquid you
might see at the Squirting PlayLab or in adult films such as ‘Squirt Squad,
’ ‘Liquid Lesbians,’ and ‘White Water Shafting’ comes from. Researchers
recruited seven self-professed super soakers whose gushes coincided with
orgasm and asked them to provide a urine sample. The women then underwent an
ultrasound to confirm that their bladders were empty. The seven then did
whatever it took to make it rain. Some made it happen solo, others had their
partners lend a hand.
Before the women experienced la petite mort, a second ultrasound was
performed and at the point of orgasm the loosed fluid was collected in a bag
and a third and final exam was performed. The second thing the researchers
discovered was that that bladders of the women had completely re-filled
prior to them letting it all go. The third thing they found was that while
two of the seven volunteers’ urine samples were identical to the fluid they
expelled at orgasm, the other five women had a small amount of PSA present
in their squirt which was not present in their initial urine sample. The
scientists' first conclusion was probably that they are doing nothing to
dispel Americans’ ideas about what being a French academic is actually
like on a day-to-day basis.
Hoffer explains that as urine passes through the urethra during sexual
stimulation it picks up the secretions of the neighboring Skene’s glands on
its way out. Play says that while some of the people in his classes put out
a small amount of white fluid, most spray out a much larger volume of clear
liquid. He thinks that while a few of his thousands of coachees are
expelling only “true” ejaculate or only pee, most squirters—as a
tentative consensus within the scientific community suggests—most are
producing a cocktail of both: a little from column A and a lot from column B
.
“I found that whatever this stuff is made of isn’t really that important
to anyone who's experienced it,” Play says, adding that it’s quite
common for new squirters to cry, laugh, or scream when letting go. He thinks
that feelings of shame or being worried about being normal or just making a
wet patch when you masturbate leads to clench when they feel an involuntary
urge to pee during sex play. “While teaching technique and the ergonomics
of facilitating an ejaculation to the partner is important, it’s more
important to help the squirter to open up physically and emotionally when
the feeling of needing to pee begins to manifest.”
“Women report that ejaculation may accompany sexual arousal but that it may
also occur during sexual activity without being simultaneous with orgasm,”
Hoffer says; she once performed a “informal” survey on 160 women’s
perception of G-spot stimulation which is often associated to female
ejaculation. She found that roughly half of them didn’t care for it at all.
“Everyone is different.”
Hoffer remarks that an entire industry has grown around the G-spot and the
female ejaculation it can provoke, referring to toys, books, other gear and,
I suppose squirting workshops like the ones Play offers in the flesh and
online. She says that the ability to squirt has become a marker sexual
success for some women and that men too will “gauge their sexual prowess by
the size of the wet spot on the sheets after sexual activity.”
“This is unfortunate and based on emulation of the male model where
ejaculation is associated with pleasure,” she says, “and can leave both
partners feeling unnecessarily unsuccessful if the female doesn’t respond
in this particular way.”
Of course, even if a woman doesn’t or can’t squirt doesn’t mean she isn’
t great at sex and isn’t thoroughly enjoying it. Indeed, even though the
partner who gushed at the PlayLab was wowed by her ability to squirt, she
dissuaded me from putting undue effort into provoking it again.
“Nah, I’m good,” she’d chirp, when I offered to put what I’d learned in
my role as the facilitator into action. According to one intriguing study
however, my former squeeze may have been something of an outlier. The survey
, published in the British Journal of Urology found that 78.8 percent of
women who squirt found that it enriched their sex lives. Their partners were
even more enthused when things got wet and wild—fully 90 percent of them
were super into it. Provided that my partners are enthused about opening the
floodgates, I’m super into it too.
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