r***e
发帖数: 2670 | 1 【 以下文字转载自 Family 讨论区 】
发信人: renee (酸奶 is back!), 信区: Family
标 题: 给陌生人的孩子做监护人？
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Dec 16 17:00:35 2013, 美东)
婆婆昨天打电话来告知她的一个朋友的小孩要来美国念高中。对于我们来说完全是陌生
人，完全不认识。说是只需要留给学校我们的联系方式，告诉学校我们是孩子的监护人
。他们还说小孩很乖，只要不犯法什么的我们不会有麻烦。婆婆没有让我们答应，让我
们了解清楚后决定。
我觉得没有那么简单的说，各位给说一下究竟是不是那么简单？
万分感谢！ | d**********r
发帖数: 24123 | 2 不是那么简单。很麻烦。举个例子小孩在学校bully别人你要负责被别人找麻烦，在学
校被人bully你也要负责去找学校麻烦。
国内的更本不了解这边的情况，以为就和国内一样。什么都不用管。 | M******2
发帖数: 952 | 3 “婆婆昨天打电话来告知她的一个朋友的小孩要来美国念高中”
”婆婆没有让我们答应，让我们了解清楚后决定。“
这是同一个婆婆么。。。。。。。。。。。。。
给你台阶了还不拒绝。。。。
Duties of a Guardian of the Person
Before you decide to become a guardian, ask yourself these questions:
Do you want legal responsibility for the child?
You will have the same legal responsibilities as a parent, including
responsibility for intentional damages the child may cause or for negligent
supervision of the child. As guardian, you must also manage the child's
finances, keep careful records, give the court reports and ask the court for
permission to handle certain financial matters.
How will the guardianship affect you and your family?
You will be like the child's parent. This can affect your relationship with
other family members. Think about your time, energy, and health to decide if
you want to be, or can be, a guardian.
Do you have enough money?
The child may get income from social security, public assistance, child
support from the parents, or an inheritance from a deceased parent. But
child support does not always arrive, even if it is ordered by the court,
and the money you get for the minor may not be enough. You may have to spend
your own money to raise the child.
Will there be problems with the child's relatives?
If the child's parents are alive, will they support you as guardian, or will
they be angry with you and try to interfere? Some parents may fight the
guardianship, or the court may say that they can have regular visitation.
Rights and responsibilities of guardians
As guardian of the person, you will have these responsibilities:
You decide where the child lives. If you move, you must tell the court in
writing right away. If you want to move out of California, you have to get
the court's permission.
You decide where the child goes to school. You must stay involved in the
child's education, and help the child get any special services, like
tutoring, that he or she needs.
You must take care of the child's medical and dental needs, making sure he
or she gets proper care. In most cases, you can also make decisions about
any medical treatment the child needs.
You must get the child counseling or other mental health services if the
child needs them. But you cannot place the child in a mental health
institution without a court order unless the child agrees.
At least once a year, you will turn in a status report to the court. You
must also meet with any court investigators or social workers sent by the
court and come to court when the court tells you to. The court can also
order you to take on other duties or can place special conditions on you as
guardian, if needed.
Also:
In most cases, guardians, like parents, are responsible for harm or damages
the child causes, including graffiti or getting in a car accident. Like a
parent, a guardian is responsible for the intentional acts of the minor, and
also for negligent supervision of the minor or the negligent entrustment of
a motor vehicle (giving the child access to a car when he or she is
unlicensed or otherwise not capable of handling the responsibility).
You cannot let the child live with his or her parents or anyone else. The
child must live with you unless the judge says otherwise. You can let the
child stay with other people for visits or short periods of time without a
court order, as long as the child continues to primarily live with you, the
guardian.
The parents may be able to visit and see their child, but you (or the court)
decide when and how often. The parents may get custody of their child back
in the future if the court decides that the child no longer needs to have a
guardian.
You will have the right to make these decisions affecting the child:
You may give the child permission to apply for a driver's license. Or you
may choose to not give him or her permission.
If you let the child apply for a license, you must also get car insurance
for the child.
If the child has an accident while driving your car, you may be responsible
for any damages caused by the accident.
You may give the child permission to enlist in the military.
If the child enters into active duty with the armed forces, the guardianship
will end. California law will consider the child to be an adult (
emancipated).
Both you and the court must give permission for the child to get married.
If the child gets married, the guardianship will end. California law will
consider the child to be an adult (emancipated).
Help for guardians
If, as guardian of the child, you need help, there may be resources to help
you:
Financial help
You may be able to get child support from the parents or help from the
government, like TANF (Temporary Aid to Needy Families), CalWorks, social
security, Department of Veterans Affairs, or Indian Child Welfare Act
benefits. | m*f
发帖数: 8162 | 4 没那么简单， 让他娘搬过来， 并且读住校私立
【在 r***e 的大作中提到】
: 【 以下文字转载自 Family 讨论区 】
: 发信人: renee (酸奶 is back!), 信区: Family
: 标 题: 给陌生人的孩子做监护人？
: 发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Dec 16 17:00:35 2013, 美东)
: 婆婆昨天打电话来告知她的一个朋友的小孩要来美国念高中。对于我们来说完全是陌生
: 人，完全不认识。说是只需要留给学校我们的联系方式，告诉学校我们是孩子的监护人
: 。他们还说小孩很乖，只要不犯法什么的我们不会有麻烦。婆婆没有让我们答应，让我
: 们了解清楚后决定。
: 我觉得没有那么简单的说，各位给说一下究竟是不是那么简单？
: 万分感谢！
| i****0
发帖数: 116 | | h****s
发帖数: 16779 | 6 嗯，要么就走领养程序，不过估计办下来小孩大学都毕业了。
【在 i****0 的大作中提到】
: 千万使不得！
| l******a
发帖数: 16364 | 7 直接据了。
【在 r***e 的大作中提到】
: 【 以下文字转载自 Family 讨论区 】
: 发信人: renee (酸奶 is back!), 信区: Family
: 标 题: 给陌生人的孩子做监护人？
: 发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Dec 16 17:00:35 2013, 美东)
: 婆婆昨天打电话来告知她的一个朋友的小孩要来美国念高中。对于我们来说完全是陌生
: 人，完全不认识。说是只需要留给学校我们的联系方式，告诉学校我们是孩子的监护人
: 。他们还说小孩很乖，只要不犯法什么的我们不会有麻烦。婆婆没有让我们答应，让我
: 们了解清楚后决定。
: 我觉得没有那么简单的说，各位给说一下究竟是不是那么简单？
: 万分感谢！
| d******n
发帖数: 12850 | 8 领养了就能避免前面说的代监护人的麻烦吗？疑惑ing
【在 h****s 的大作中提到】
: 嗯，要么就走领养程序，不过估计办下来小孩大学都毕业了。
| h****s
发帖数: 16779 | 9 领养之后小孩算你的了，想怎么管怎么管，至少法律支持你。
领养了就能避免前面说的代监护人的麻烦吗？疑惑ing
【在 d******n 的大作中提到】
: 领养了就能避免前面说的代监护人的麻烦吗？疑惑ing
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