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发帖数: 1858 | 1 Advice for the family
1. helping the firstborn feel some sense of control and reassurance
-- **(想给大宝换床换房间的妈妈们注意了)让大宝在二宝来之前几个月就换好，让
他在二宝来之后还是睡同样的环境。这样二宝来之后他不会有被DISPLACED的感觉
-- maintain his daily routine
-- maintain his world as constant and conforting
-- Allow the older child to make decisions, such as "which socks would
you like to wear today?"
-- ** When both child have needs at the same time, parents should attend
to the OLDER child FIRST. Because the older sibling is questioning |
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