M********t
发帖数: 354 | 1 This is the message this nice girl sent to me after my first post. I
understand exactly why she feel hurt after i have such short contact with
you.
你好，我看到你在鹊桥上写的关于ChoiceNO 1的文章。我想share我的经历。
我自三年前来美国和exbf（在北京）分手后，对exbf感情还在，再加上对婚姻没有
ready，所以我当时不能给别人我的爱，就错过了一些人，再后来家里出事了，我就休
学了一年，今年8月份刚刚来，对家庭的责任感和年龄的关系，特别是对父母的责任，
我自今年10月份开始找husband，我也上鹊桥，看到choiceno1，征婚，我觉得离的比较
近，就给他发email，只聊了很少，他要到XXXXX(i blocked this to respect this
girl's privacy, this is the city name she is living)出差，让我和他meet，我看
他在
鹊桥上的征友很真诚，又自己真的想找人结婚，就算试试吧，（我以前从没相过亲，所
以也不知道该怎么看人），我不会开车，就让我的美国好朋友XXXXX(her friend's
name)带我去，需要2个小
时drive，（我是真的想结婚了）。当时他也没给我他的电话号码，而我给了他我的，
害怕路上有什么耽误，就给他我的电话，在我和XXXXX(her friend's name)去XXXXXX(
her city name)的途中由于迷路而比
约好的时间晚了。我比约定时间晚到了，我一见面就给他道歉，这是人之常理，可是他
却批评我和XXXXX(her friend)晚到了，我无所谓，主要是我的好朋友XXXX(her friend
)开车，我怕XXXX(her friend)难受，后来
当着XXXXX(her friend)的面批评我的英语差，实际上他的口语也不好。他长的难看，
老（我的朋友
XXXX也说），学历也不是名牌大学，所有的都和鹊桥征友信息不同，我当时的感觉就是
比欺骗了，非常大的欺骗。然后他问我学历，我说国内top，我问他，他说的和征友信
息完全不符，他听到我是国内top，然后又狂赞我，真可怕。我尽量显示友好的待人接
物，如果我立刻走，怕伤害到他，就和XXXXX和他多呆了一会，实际上只是XXXX和他
talk
，最后，真的是觉得很和他在一块再多呆一会，会觉得越来越恶心，就和XXXX走了，回
到家里，我就哭了。我的人生经历过很多很多的折磨，可是被人欺骗还是相当不好受。
这就是我人生的第一次相亲，给我很多的教训，寻找husband有一定的压力，也比较难
，但是真的不能太着急，要好好的了解一个人。
最后，希望我们都能够碰到great guy，早日找到属于我们彼此的幸福 |
z*******g
发帖数: 416 | 2 I did not see anything wrong here.
【在 M********t 的大作中提到】
: This is the message this nice girl sent to me after my first post. I
: understand exactly why she feel hurt after i have such short contact with
: you.
: 你好，我看到你在鹊桥上写的关于ChoiceNO 1的文章。我想share我的经历。
: 我自三年前来美国和exbf（在北京）分手后，对exbf感情还在，再加上对婚姻没有
: ready，所以我当时不能给别人我的爱，就错过了一些人，再后来家里出事了，我就休
: 学了一年，今年8月份刚刚来，对家庭的责任感和年龄的关系，特别是对父母的责任，
: 我自今年10月份开始找husband，我也上鹊桥，看到choiceno1，征婚，我觉得离的比较
: 近，就给他发email，只聊了很少，他要到XXXXX(i blocked this to respect this
: girl's privacy, this is the city name she is living)出差，让我和他meet，我看
|
Y**********n
发帖数: 3853 | 3 以此来看， 中国人的恋爱观十分的有问题。 导致互相揭短
谁来定义一下"great guy" |
z*******g
发帖数: 416 | 4 It is your problem when you were not prepared to be disappointed when you meet somebody in person through piebridge.
From my experience, most people exaggerate here. But I usually paid the meal unless the lady insisted not to, treated her with respect because respect is mutual. When I feel I have interest in knowing her more, I usually ask if I can give her a hug before my leave. When not I say goodbye to her as a normal friend.
【在 M********t 的大作中提到】
: This is the message this nice girl sent to me after my first post. I
: understand exactly why she feel hurt after i have such short contact with
: you.
: 你好，我看到你在鹊桥上写的关于ChoiceNO 1的文章。我想share我的经历。
: 我自三年前来美国和exbf（在北京）分手后，对exbf感情还在，再加上对婚姻没有
: ready，所以我当时不能给别人我的爱，就错过了一些人，再后来家里出事了，我就休
: 学了一年，今年8月份刚刚来，对家庭的责任感和年龄的关系，特别是对父母的责任，
: 我自今年10月份开始找husband，我也上鹊桥，看到choiceno1，征婚，我觉得离的比较
: 近，就给他发email，只聊了很少，他要到XXXXX(i blocked this to respect this
: girl's privacy, this is the city name she is living)出差，让我和他meet，我看
|
r**********9
发帖数: 19633 | 5
关键字：他长的难看。。。。。
【在 z*******g 的大作中提到】
: I did not see anything wrong here.
|
Y**********n
发帖数: 3853 | 6 天才， 蓉蓉
【在 r**********9 的大作中提到】
:
: 关键字：他长的难看。。。。。
|
n******e
发帖数: 1171 | 7 打算见面的还骗，真有病。
相信it这次没骗到什么吧，但是感情受骗于是挺影响身心健康的。
但这类sb屡次骗人总会骗到人。
鹊桥的人生观都不正确，这些sb2流子没人说，真是无语。
meet somebody in person through piebridge.
meal unless the lady insisted not to, treated her with respect because
respect is mutual. When I feel I have interest in knowing her more, I
usually ask if I can give her a hug b
【在 z*******g 的大作中提到】
: It is your problem when you were not prepared to be disappointed when you meet somebody in person through piebridge.
: From my experience, most people exaggerate here. But I usually paid the meal unless the lady insisted not to, treated her with respect because respect is mutual. When I feel I have interest in knowing her more, I usually ask if I can give her a hug before my leave. When not I say goodbye to her as a normal friend.
|
s****x
发帖数: 683 | 8 以后长个心眼， too good to be true 直接pass
【在 n******e 的大作中提到】
: 打算见面的还骗，真有病。
: 相信it这次没骗到什么吧，但是感情受骗于是挺影响身心健康的。
: 但这类sb屡次骗人总会骗到人。
: 鹊桥的人生观都不正确，这些sb2流子没人说，真是无语。
:
: meet somebody in person through piebridge.
: meal unless the lady insisted not to, treated her with respect because
: respect is mutual. When I feel I have interest in knowing her more, I
: usually ask if I can give her a hug b
|
n******e
发帖数: 1171 | 9 天下2b，sb的人多了，连个正常社会都没有。
其实要当正常人很简单。
2b，sb非要搞得自己人生经历与众不同。
【在 s****x 的大作中提到】
: 以后长个心眼， too good to be true 直接pass
|
M********t
发帖数: 354 | 10 He said that he graduated from Duke University over the phone, then changed
to one of Ivy collaege Univesity. Then, couple days later, changed to
University of texas. He even forgot what he has told other people. My God.
His old looking does not bother me, but his behavior and philosophy toward
the life have not earned the respect from me for sure.
【在 n******e 的大作中提到】
: 打算见面的还骗，真有病。
: 相信it这次没骗到什么吧，但是感情受骗于是挺影响身心健康的。
: 但这类sb屡次骗人总会骗到人。
: 鹊桥的人生观都不正确，这些sb2流子没人说，真是无语。
:
: meet somebody in person through piebridge.
: meal unless the lady insisted not to, treated her with respect because
: respect is mutual. When I feel I have interest in knowing her more, I
: usually ask if I can give her a hug b
|
|
|
n******e
发帖数: 1171 | 11 人家婚了，出来掉小姑娘，还会要behavior or philosophy
你ji不择食
changed
【在 M********t 的大作中提到】
: He said that he graduated from Duke University over the phone, then changed
: to one of Ivy collaege Univesity. Then, couple days later, changed to
: University of texas. He even forgot what he has told other people. My God.
: His old looking does not bother me, but his behavior and philosophy toward
: the life have not earned the respect from me for sure.
|
M********t
发帖数: 354 | 12 exactly right. 看见已婚男还出来骗 ------this is the point for the whole
story
【在 n******e 的大作中提到】
: 打算见面的还骗，真有病。
: 相信it这次没骗到什么吧，但是感情受骗于是挺影响身心健康的。
: 但这类sb屡次骗人总会骗到人。
: 鹊桥的人生观都不正确，这些sb2流子没人说，真是无语。
:
: meet somebody in person through piebridge.
: meal unless the lady insisted not to, treated her with respect because
: respect is mutual. When I feel I have interest in knowing her more, I
: usually ask if I can give her a hug b
|
M********t
发帖数: 354 | 13 and short 1.71cm if he does not lie
【在 Y**********n 的大作中提到】
: 天才， 蓉蓉
|
z*******g
发帖数: 416 | 14 You deserve it: do not have a good taste, too desperate,and fussy.
changed
【在 M********t 的大作中提到】
: He said that he graduated from Duke University over the phone, then changed
: to one of Ivy collaege Univesity. Then, couple days later, changed to
: University of texas. He even forgot what he has told other people. My God.
: His old looking does not bother me, but his behavior and philosophy toward
: the life have not earned the respect from me for sure.
|
w*******n
发帖数: 4188 | 15 这女孩还是太小不成熟,这么点事就哭了? 没太多损失啊,算叫学费了.
【在 M********t 的大作中提到】
: This is the message this nice girl sent to me after my first post. I
: understand exactly why she feel hurt after i have such short contact with
: you.
: 你好，我看到你在鹊桥上写的关于ChoiceNO 1的文章。我想share我的经历。
: 我自三年前来美国和exbf（在北京）分手后，对exbf感情还在，再加上对婚姻没有
: ready，所以我当时不能给别人我的爱，就错过了一些人，再后来家里出事了，我就休
: 学了一年，今年8月份刚刚来，对家庭的责任感和年龄的关系，特别是对父母的责任，
: 我自今年10月份开始找husband，我也上鹊桥，看到choiceno1，征婚，我觉得离的比较
: 近，就给他发email，只聊了很少，他要到XXXXX(i blocked this to respect this
: girl's privacy, this is the city name she is living)出差，让我和他meet，我看
|
a*******z
发帖数: 65 | 16 what is fussy ?
【在 z*******g 的大作中提到】
: You deserve it: do not have a good taste, too desperate,and fussy.
:
: changed
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z*******g
发帖数: 416 | 17 fussy means you bother with trivial things. for medstudent, once she found
the guy is not one she is looking for, just put it behind and move on. why
waste time whining?
【在 a*******z 的大作中提到】
: what is fussy ?
|
