z*******g 发帖数: 416 | 1 对大多数应征者来说,这些信息非常重要,何况大家都是网络里的ID,不存在泄露真实
身份和隐私的可能,想不明白为什么还要隐瞒,除了蓄意CHEAT。历史是没有办法改变
的。生过孩子的,身体和心理变化很大,POSITIVE和NEGATIVE都有有,这东西早晚要揭
穿,浪费你和大家的时间/精力/财力甚至感情。
当然,我绝不歧视婚史或生育史的ID,只是对这种现象观察。 |
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S*****0 发帖数: 538 | 3 Does the baby really matter? If you love her, you would love whatever she
has. And, you can help her to raise the baby.
I don't really care about that.
【在 z*******g 的大作中提到】 : 对大多数应征者来说,这些信息非常重要,何况大家都是网络里的ID,不存在泄露真实 : 身份和隐私的可能,想不明白为什么还要隐瞒,除了蓄意CHEAT。历史是没有办法改变 : 的。生过孩子的,身体和心理变化很大,POSITIVE和NEGATIVE都有有,这东西早晚要揭 : 穿,浪费你和大家的时间/精力/财力甚至感情。 : 当然,我绝不歧视婚史或生育史的ID,只是对这种现象观察。
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z*******g 发帖数: 416 | 4 Does the age matter? If you love her, you would love whatever she has.
Does the personalities matter? If you love her, you would love whatever she
has.
Does the disability matters? If you love her, you would love whatever she
has.
Does the health matters? If you love her, you would love whatever she has.
Does the gender matters? If you love ta, you would love whatever ta has.
Does the crap matters? If you love it, you would love whatever it has.
...
So stone10, you should marry a crap, a real c
【在 S*****0 的大作中提到】 : Does the baby really matter? If you love her, you would love whatever she : has. And, you can help her to raise the baby. : I don't really care about that.
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f*********e 发帖数: 3037 | 5 有孩子的女人=crap?
she
【在 z*******g 的大作中提到】 : Does the age matter? If you love her, you would love whatever she has. : Does the personalities matter? If you love her, you would love whatever she : has. : Does the disability matters? If you love her, you would love whatever she : has. : Does the health matters? If you love her, you would love whatever she has. : Does the gender matters? If you love ta, you would love whatever ta has. : Does the crap matters? If you love it, you would love whatever it has. : ... : So stone10, you should marry a crap, a real c
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z*******g 发帖数: 416 | 6 It has nothing to do with the baby, nor the hormone/surgical/medical changes
to the nipples, female genital, tummy, uterus... or other physiological or
emotional impacts from child-bearing, it has everything to do with the fact
that she conceals the history of marriage and/or child-bearing.
【在 S*****0 的大作中提到】 : Does the baby really matter? If you love her, you would love whatever she : has. And, you can help her to raise the baby. : I don't really care about that.
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z*******g 发帖数: 416 | 7 Where did you find the allegation? Women who cheat or intend to cheat are
craps. Actually, both men and women who cheated or intend to cheat are craps.
【在 f*********e 的大作中提到】 : 有孩子的女人=crap? : : she
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S*****0 发帖数: 538 | 8 You are picking up a product from the store, not love, simply because the
love is not for sale.
If you think about these things, you don't love her.
she
【在 z*******g 的大作中提到】 : Does the age matter? If you love her, you would love whatever she has. : Does the personalities matter? If you love her, you would love whatever she : has. : Does the disability matters? If you love her, you would love whatever she : has. : Does the health matters? If you love her, you would love whatever she has. : Does the gender matters? If you love ta, you would love whatever ta has. : Does the crap matters? If you love it, you would love whatever it has. : ... : So stone10, you should marry a crap, a real c
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I*D 发帖数: 40035 | 9 你应该把这话转达给以蓉荣,丢丢等为代表的广大女id们。
【在 S*****0 的大作中提到】 : You are picking up a product from the store, not love, simply because the : love is not for sale. : If you think about these things, you don't love her. : : she
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z****i 发帖数: 19707 | 10 假如你征婚,就应该实事求告诉大家,不能有隐瞒.隐瞒就是说谎和欺骗. 接不接受是应
征者的想法.应征者也许接受,也许不接受,那是他人的权利.请不要混淆.这里还谈不上
爱与不爱那层.
【在 S*****0 的大作中提到】 : Does the baby really matter? If you love her, you would love whatever she : has. And, you can help her to raise the baby. : I don't really care about that.
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f*********e 发帖数: 3037 | 11 How can she conceal an alive human baby if you go on a date with her.
LD不靠谱。
changes
or
fact
【在 z*******g 的大作中提到】 : It has nothing to do with the baby, nor the hormone/surgical/medical changes : to the nipples, female genital, tummy, uterus... or other physiological or : emotional impacts from child-bearing, it has everything to do with the fact : that she conceals the history of marriage and/or child-bearing.
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g****z 发帖数: 822 | 12 所以说,征婚这件事不靠谱,没有爱哪来的婚姻?
在这里成功的必然有让人一见钟情的一面。
石头是好男人,懂感情。给广大女同胞推荐一下。
【在 z****i 的大作中提到】 : 假如你征婚,就应该实事求告诉大家,不能有隐瞒.隐瞒就是说谎和欺骗. 接不接受是应 : 征者的想法.应征者也许接受,也许不接受,那是他人的权利.请不要混淆.这里还谈不上 : 爱与不爱那层.
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f*********e 发帖数: 3037 | 13 公开的帖子很难什么都disclose。
只要她私下聊天的时候提早说好不是什么问题吧。
【在 z****i 的大作中提到】 : 假如你征婚,就应该实事求告诉大家,不能有隐瞒.隐瞒就是说谎和欺骗. 接不接受是应 : 征者的想法.应征者也许接受,也许不接受,那是他人的权利.请不要混淆.这里还谈不上 : 爱与不爱那层.
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I*D 发帖数: 40035 | 14 也许他就是说说而已,真正轮到他,还不知道会怎样呢?不然的话你们先date一下看看
他介意否?
【在 g****z 的大作中提到】 : 所以说,征婚这件事不靠谱,没有爱哪来的婚姻? : 在这里成功的必然有让人一见钟情的一面。 : 石头是好男人,懂感情。给广大女同胞推荐一下。
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j****e 发帖数: 12067 | 15 agree
【在 z****i 的大作中提到】 : 假如你征婚,就应该实事求告诉大家,不能有隐瞒.隐瞒就是说谎和欺骗. 接不接受是应 : 征者的想法.应征者也许接受,也许不接受,那是他人的权利.请不要混淆.这里还谈不上 : 爱与不爱那层.
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S*****0 发帖数: 538 | 16 How do you know the needs from everyone else? Impossible.
Have enough information out there, if interested, you can ask for more.
【在 z****i 的大作中提到】 : 假如你征婚,就应该实事求告诉大家,不能有隐瞒.隐瞒就是说谎和欺骗. 接不接受是应 : 征者的想法.应征者也许接受,也许不接受,那是他人的权利.请不要混淆.这里还谈不上 : 爱与不爱那层.
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z****i 发帖数: 19707 | 17 顶!
【在 I*D 的大作中提到】 : 也许他就是说说而已,真正轮到他,还不知道会怎样呢?不然的话你们先date一下看看 : 他介意否?
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g****z 发帖数: 822 | 18 你讲话好难听。。。
我的征婚贴想必你也看过,也知道我的心情处境和理想对象。
我从来不觉得离婚有孩子低人一等。你也不必这么草率拉郎配。
【在 I*D 的大作中提到】 : 也许他就是说说而已,真正轮到他,还不知道会怎样呢?不然的话你们先date一下看看 : 他介意否?
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S*****0 发帖数: 538 | 19 I can tell you right now, I don't care if she has a baby or not, as long as
she is the match for me.
【在 I*D 的大作中提到】 : 也许他就是说说而已,真正轮到他,还不知道会怎样呢?不然的话你们先date一下看看 : 他介意否?
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z****i 发帖数: 19707 | 20 什么叫做谈恋爱?
谈就是1)要告诉对方自己的情况,工作学习和生活.2)了解对方的工作,学习和生活.
感兴趣可以进行接触,不感兴趣就再见.
【在 S*****0 的大作中提到】 : How do you know the needs from everyone else? Impossible. : Have enough information out there, if interested, you can ask for more.
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g****z 发帖数: 822 | 21 那不就是要谈吗?谁指望凭一张帖子讨个老婆或者嫁个老公呢? |
i*****n 发帖数: 3168 | 22 这个挺好的,不要外发过的,但不介意有小孩儿的,你还是本版第一个这样的
【在 S*****0 的大作中提到】 : Does the baby really matter? If you love her, you would love whatever she : has. And, you can help her to raise the baby. : I don't really care about that.
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S*****0 发帖数: 538 | 23 Then you care more about the job and education than your personal feelings.
This definitely is not called love.
If you really love her, do you care if she does not have a job? I don't thik
so. Most of my co-workers' wifes are full-time house-wifes, and they are
happy. And I like this too.
【在 z****i 的大作中提到】 : 什么叫做谈恋爱? : 谈就是1)要告诉对方自己的情况,工作学习和生活.2)了解对方的工作,学习和生活. : 感兴趣可以进行接触,不感兴趣就再见.
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S*****0 发帖数: 538 | 24 No, no 外发. I am conservative. I don't do the things that I don't
understand.
【在 i*****n 的大作中提到】 : 这个挺好的,不要外发过的,但不介意有小孩儿的,你还是本版第一个这样的
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z*******g 发帖数: 416 | 25 If you do not know a real she, how can you love her?
Even a fart need some substance and time to make, not mention a relationship
between a man and woman.
【在 S*****0 的大作中提到】 : You are picking up a product from the store, not love, simply because the : love is not for sale. : If you think about these things, you don't love her. : : she
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j****e 发帖数: 12067 | 26 care不care是一回事,说不说实话是另一回事,不要偷换概念
.
thik
【在 S*****0 的大作中提到】 : Then you care more about the job and education than your personal feelings. : This definitely is not called love. : If you really love her, do you care if she does not have a job? I don't thik : so. Most of my co-workers' wifes are full-time house-wifes, and they are : happy. And I like this too.
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i*****n 发帖数: 3168 | 27 要不是处女的话,你也不知道一个女的是不是外发过。
要找处女的话,也不是那么好找,就算找到了,也不知道是不是补过。要是是补过的,
也不知道是不是外发过。
所以人生好无奈啊——
【在 S*****0 的大作中提到】 : No, no 外发. I am conservative. I don't do the things that I don't : understand.
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z****i 发帖数: 19707 | 28 我不知道你是否看懂我的话,理解我的意思?
请你再琢磨一下,假如你没有理解,我可以仔细告诉你我的想法
.
thik
【在 S*****0 的大作中提到】 : Then you care more about the job and education than your personal feelings. : This definitely is not called love. : If you really love her, do you care if she does not have a job? I don't thik : so. Most of my co-workers' wifes are full-time house-wifes, and they are : happy. And I like this too.
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z*******g 发帖数: 416 | 29 If you conceal your marriage/child-bearing history, how can you expect love
from an applicant? You cannot even reap respect and trust!
【在 g****z 的大作中提到】 : 所以说,征婚这件事不靠谱,没有爱哪来的婚姻? : 在这里成功的必然有让人一见钟情的一面。 : 石头是好男人,懂感情。给广大女同胞推荐一下。
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z****i 发帖数: 19707 | 30 同意!
【在 j****e 的大作中提到】 : care不care是一回事,说不说实话是另一回事,不要偷换概念 : : . : thik
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m**********e 发帖数: 12525 | 31 中国是骗子大国,大到宪法第一条,小到路边扶起一个倒地的老太太,啥都是靠骗
这样一个国家出来的人,你还能指望什么?你看看上面那些不以为然的回贴就知道了,
又没骗你钱,这些小骗对咱祖国同胞来说,真的不算什么
【在 z*******g 的大作中提到】 : 对大多数应征者来说,这些信息非常重要,何况大家都是网络里的ID,不存在泄露真实 : 身份和隐私的可能,想不明白为什么还要隐瞒,除了蓄意CHEAT。历史是没有办法改变 : 的。生过孩子的,身体和心理变化很大,POSITIVE和NEGATIVE都有有,这东西早晚要揭 : 穿,浪费你和大家的时间/精力/财力甚至感情。 : 当然,我绝不歧视婚史或生育史的ID,只是对这种现象观察。
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I*D 发帖数: 40035 | 32 大家在争论之前最好澄清一下。理论上讲,当一个人爱上一个人是不会介意他/她的任
何事情,包括,婚史,生育史等等。这点石头说的没错。但问题是网上征婚就该事先说
明,因为婚史,生育史,宗教信仰等问题毕竟和工作,收入,家庭成员等是不一样的。
后者可以慢慢了解,前者必须事先讲明。不然就会有欺骗的嫌疑,这和爱与不爱完全是
风马牛不相及的事儿。
.
thik
【在 S*****0 的大作中提到】 : Then you care more about the job and education than your personal feelings. : This definitely is not called love. : If you really love her, do you care if she does not have a job? I don't thik : so. Most of my co-workers' wifes are full-time house-wifes, and they are : happy. And I like this too.
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S*****0 发帖数: 538 | 33 The bottom line here is, there is no requirement for what should be said.
You care about the words, but I care about the personal feelings. This is
the difference. So I don't think it is cheating at all.
【在 j****e 的大作中提到】 : care不care是一回事,说不说实话是另一回事,不要偷换概念 : : . : thik
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z*******g 发帖数: 416 | 34 I guess everybody can say that because you have a condition of "as long as
she is a match for me".
A typical harmless nonsense.
as
【在 S*****0 的大作中提到】 : I can tell you right now, I don't care if she has a baby or not, as long as : she is the match for me.
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z****i 发帖数: 19707 | 35 同意!
【在 I*D 的大作中提到】 : 大家在争论之前最好澄清一下。理论上讲,当一个人爱上一个人是不会介意他/她的任 : 何事情,包括,婚史,生育史等等。这点石头说的没错。但问题是网上征婚就该事先说 : 明,因为婚史,生育史,宗教信仰等问题毕竟和工作,收入,家庭成员等是不一样的。 : 后者可以慢慢了解,前者必须事先讲明。不然就会有欺骗的嫌疑,这和爱与不爱完全是 : 风马牛不相及的事儿。 : : . : thik
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z*******g 发帖数: 416 | 36 Even she is virgin, nobody guarantee she was not reared by foreign dick:)
So Wai-F should include Virginal intercourse, blow job, ass job...anything
with intimate connection with a fucker's genitals.
Just for Stone10's info.
【在 i*****n 的大作中提到】 : 要不是处女的话,你也不知道一个女的是不是外发过。 : 要找处女的话,也不是那么好找,就算找到了,也不知道是不是补过。要是是补过的, : 也不知道是不是外发过。 : 所以人生好无奈啊——
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g****z 发帖数: 822 | 37 我如果要隐瞒,今天就不会讲。
我注重的是婚姻关系,孩子不在身边的生活和在身边的是不一样的吧?
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S*****0 发帖数: 538 | 38 You are way out of the topic, and your words are not appropriate on the
internet. You are not clean.
I stop here.
【在 z*******g 的大作中提到】 : Even she is virgin, nobody guarantee she was not reared by foreign dick:) : So Wai-F should include Virginal intercourse, blow job, ass job...anything : with intimate connection with a fucker's genitals. : Just for Stone10's info.
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z*******g 发帖数: 416 | 39 Send personal apologies to the applicants. It is irrelevant to those who did
not apply. Thanks.
【在 g****z 的大作中提到】 : 我如果要隐瞒,今天就不会讲。 : 我注重的是婚姻关系,孩子不在身边的生活和在身边的是不一样的吧? : anyway;如果有人觉得我蓄意隐瞒并觉得带来了伤害,我道歉。
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g****z 发帖数: 822 | 40 这个你就不用操心了,我和他们聊天第一句就告诉了我的实情。不明白你这种看客发什
么疯。
did
【在 z*******g 的大作中提到】 : Send personal apologies to the applicants. It is irrelevant to those who did : not apply. Thanks.
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z*******g 发帖数: 416 | 41 操心 is my right, just as you 操心 my 操心 is your right:)
【在 g****z 的大作中提到】 : 这个你就不用操心了,我和他们聊天第一句就告诉了我的实情。不明白你这种看客发什 : 么疯。 : : did
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z*******g 发帖数: 416 | 42 If you did not tell them in the first communication (email or short message)
, I am afraid you wasted most applicants' time and respect.
【在 g****z 的大作中提到】 : 这个你就不用操心了,我和他们聊天第一句就告诉了我的实情。不明白你这种看客发什 : 么疯。 : : did
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d********g 发帖数: 7458 | 43 男的隐瞒的也很多。
能瞒住是人家的本事。
【在 z*******g 的大作中提到】 : 对大多数应征者来说,这些信息非常重要,何况大家都是网络里的ID,不存在泄露真实 : 身份和隐私的可能,想不明白为什么还要隐瞒,除了蓄意CHEAT。历史是没有办法改变 : 的。生过孩子的,身体和心理变化很大,POSITIVE和NEGATIVE都有有,这东西早晚要揭 : 穿,浪费你和大家的时间/精力/财力甚至感情。 : 当然,我绝不歧视婚史或生育史的ID,只是对这种现象观察。
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z*******g 发帖数: 416 | 44 Both are craps. Your capability of holding your poops for years without
releasing them is not something I admire. BTW, it will force its way out
sooner or later. Ask the japs.
【在 d********g 的大作中提到】 : 男的隐瞒的也很多。 : 能瞒住是人家的本事。
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I*D 发帖数: 40035 | 45 我觉得要是找ONS的话,想瞒住还是很容易的。
靠,刚写完觉得不对,我逻辑出问题了,ONS的话就没人介意是否婚过,是否有孩了吧
。我面壁去了。
【在 d********g 的大作中提到】 : 男的隐瞒的也很多。 : 能瞒住是人家的本事。
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A*****t 发帖数: 1594 | 46 我早就觉着你今天逻辑不对,内外不分,敌我不分 要好好学习辩证法
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/Piebridge/32797203.html
【在 I*D 的大作中提到】 : 我觉得要是找ONS的话,想瞒住还是很容易的。 : 靠,刚写完觉得不对,我逻辑出问题了,ONS的话就没人介意是否婚过,是否有孩了吧 : 。我面壁去了。
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g****z 发帖数: 822 | 47 我说的聊天指的就是email。现实中没为婚姻的目的见过谁啦。你这人真讨厌!不想和
你说话了!
message)
【在 z*******g 的大作中提到】 : If you did not tell them in the first communication (email or short message) : , I am afraid you wasted most applicants' time and respect.
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z*******g 发帖数: 416 | 48 Actually the percentage of those who care dramatically reduced if for ONS.
Some still care, especially after they have chance to compare the difference
between those with andthose without child-bearing history.
【在 I*D 的大作中提到】 : 我觉得要是找ONS的话,想瞒住还是很容易的。 : 靠,刚写完觉得不对,我逻辑出问题了,ONS的话就没人介意是否婚过,是否有孩了吧 : 。我面壁去了。
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z*******g 发帖数: 416 | 49 So you informed the prospective applicant on your FIRST communication? Like:
dude: I saw your post and am interested in knowing you..blablabla...
you: thank you. but i was divorced and have a child...
dude:@#&*%$#!!!
(stone10: very good. I like it. when will you have time to meet in person?)
【在 g****z 的大作中提到】 : 我说的聊天指的就是email。现实中没为婚姻的目的见过谁啦。你这人真讨厌!不想和 : 你说话了! : : message)
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r**********9 发帖数: 19633 | 50
看来楼主被骗了
【在 z*******g 的大作中提到】 : 对大多数应征者来说,这些信息非常重要,何况大家都是网络里的ID,不存在泄露真实 : 身份和隐私的可能,想不明白为什么还要隐瞒,除了蓄意CHEAT。历史是没有办法改变 : 的。生过孩子的,身体和心理变化很大,POSITIVE和NEGATIVE都有有,这东西早晚要揭 : 穿,浪费你和大家的时间/精力/财力甚至感情。 : 当然,我绝不歧视婚史或生育史的ID,只是对这种现象观察。
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a*****y 发帖数: 33185 | 51 这里你就得说明你的match的标准是什么?
不然其实仍然是在商店里面挑选商品,只不过标准不包括有没有小孩。
as
【在 S*****0 的大作中提到】 : I can tell you right now, I don't care if she has a baby or not, as long as : she is the match for me.
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S*****0 发帖数: 538 | 52 这个用言语来说就比较困难。 有一天,遇到一个,觉得这就是等了很久的人,差不多
就是这样。
【在 a*****y 的大作中提到】 : 这里你就得说明你的match的标准是什么? : 不然其实仍然是在商店里面挑选商品,只不过标准不包括有没有小孩。 : : as
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a*****y 发帖数: 33185 | 54 as far as i know, people's feeling always has its physical causes, of course
these causes may not be job and education,can be other things
.
thik
【在 S*****0 的大作中提到】 : Then you care more about the job and education than your personal feelings. : This definitely is not called love. : If you really love her, do you care if she does not have a job? I don't thik : so. Most of my co-workers' wifes are full-time house-wifes, and they are : happy. And I like this too.
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a*****y 发帖数: 33185 | 55 有那么困难吗,你把这个人跟之前遇到的那么多人比较一下,为什么单单这个是等了很久的
,而其他人都pass了,很容易就分辨出来了。
【在 S*****0 的大作中提到】 : 这个用言语来说就比较困难。 有一天,遇到一个,觉得这就是等了很久的人,差不多 : 就是这样。
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a*****3 发帖数: 507 | 56 Might be with Husband.
【在 f*********e 的大作中提到】 : How can she conceal an alive human baby if you go on a date with her. : LD不靠谱。 : : changes : or : fact
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a*****3 发帖数: 507 | 57 A question, are you the lady they are blaiming for?
【在 S*****0 的大作中提到】 : The bottom line here is, there is no requirement for what should be said. : You care about the words, but I care about the personal feelings. This is : the difference. So I don't think it is cheating at all.
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f*********e 发帖数: 3037 | 58 Thats a man. Haha
Maybe grace could have handle this better. But as long as she tells in first
2 two dates, i still fail to see what the fuss
is about.
【在 a*****3 的大作中提到】 : A question, are you the lady they are blaiming for?
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A*****e 发帖数: 29772 | 59 女人的虚伪和嫉妒是可怕的,别说外发了,一点小丑事都能给“闺蜜”卖得干干净净
【在 i*****n 的大作中提到】 : 要不是处女的话,你也不知道一个女的是不是外发过。 : 要找处女的话,也不是那么好找,就算找到了,也不知道是不是补过。要是是补过的, : 也不知道是不是外发过。 : 所以人生好无奈啊——
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F******p 发帖数: 2099 | 60 这话太屁了. 口口声声要人家无原则地奉献love,自己却满口谎言.
【在 S*****0 的大作中提到】 : Does the baby really matter? If you love her, you would love whatever she : has. And, you can help her to raise the baby. : I don't really care about that.
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z******i 发帖数: 721 | 61 Even a fart needs a long time of fermentation in the colon.
According to Stone10: if he loves her, it does not matter she is a fart or
not.
the problem is: can he love a fart at the first place? if he love a fart,
then of course it does not matter if she is a fart.
Stone10's logic makes sense only in a toilet.
【在 F******p 的大作中提到】 : 这话太屁了. 口口声声要人家无原则地奉献love,自己却满口谎言.
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