g*******h
发帖数: 7 | 1 我发现越来越没有耐性去做事情。比较烦排队买东西。地铁里边人多了，我宁愿等下一趟
也决不往上挤。凡是大家都抢的东西我绝不去掺和。最近发现没有耐性去哄女孩了，自从
上一次分手之后就再也没有追过女孩子，见一面发几次短信就再也不想继续。是不是有什
么问题。该怎么克服？我郁闷死了。 |
r*******g
发帖数: 1707 | 2 还能等下一班地铁对我来说就已经是很有耐心的表现了
趟
从
什
【在 g*******h 的大作中提到】
: 我发现越来越没有耐性去做事情。比较烦排队买东西。地铁里边人多了，我宁愿等下一趟
: 也决不往上挤。凡是大家都抢的东西我绝不去掺和。最近发现没有耐性去哄女孩了，自从
: 上一次分手之后就再也没有追过女孩子，见一面发几次短信就再也不想继续。是不是有什
: 么问题。该怎么克服？我郁闷死了。
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g*******h
发帖数: 7 | 3 满车厢的人肉，你能忍受阿。我宁愿多等1个小时。
【在 r*******g 的大作中提到】
: 还能等下一班地铁对我来说就已经是很有耐心的表现了
:
: 趟
: 从
: 什
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r*******g
发帖数: 1707 | 4 我最烦等，
等什么我都受不了，
包括等约会。
最痛恨别人不准时
【在 g*******h 的大作中提到】
: 满车厢的人肉，你能忍受阿。我宁愿多等1个小时。
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g*******h
发帖数: 7 | 5 与其跟人肉挤一块儿，我选择走回去或者等下一半
与其排队买东西，我选择不买
。。。
是不是有问题？
【在 r*******g 的大作中提到】
: 我最烦等，
: 等什么我都受不了，
: 包括等约会。
: 最痛恨别人不准时
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x**c
发帖数: 1435 | 6
趟
从
什
maybe work on your tolerance for frustration,but first give your self patience
for being "lazy", being "lazy" is about self-care, you learned to take care
of your self that is important, most chinese are not aware of self-care.
【在 g*******h 的大作中提到】
: 我发现越来越没有耐性去做事情。比较烦排队买东西。地铁里边人多了，我宁愿等下一趟
: 也决不往上挤。凡是大家都抢的东西我绝不去掺和。最近发现没有耐性去哄女孩了，自从
: 上一次分手之后就再也没有追过女孩子，见一面发几次短信就再也不想继续。是不是有什
: 么问题。该怎么克服？我郁闷死了。
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g*******h
发帖数: 7 | 7 你也许是对的，我要是长时间闲着就会觉得浪费时间，心里过意不去，越是忙越觉得充实
。但是如何培养你所说的那种patience,还有这种心理是怎么回事？
patience
【在 x**c 的大作中提到】
:
: 趟
: 从
: 什
: maybe work on your tolerance for frustration,but first give your self patience
: for being "lazy", being "lazy" is about self-care, you learned to take care
: of your self that is important, most chinese are not aware of self-care.
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x**c
发帖数: 1435 | 8
实
That was back to my counseling class we had discussed who is "beer" and who is
"doer". Beers(let it be) refer to people who go with the flow and not to
participate very much. Doers(do it) refer to people who feel on edge if they
have nothing to do. Most people fall on the middle,they work but they also
give themselves break time. Understand you are a human being and human beings
have their limitations, things get out of control sometime but you do not need
to take blame all the time.
【在 g*******h 的大作中提到】
: 你也许是对的，我要是长时间闲着就会觉得浪费时间，心里过意不去，越是忙越觉得充实
: 。但是如何培养你所说的那种patience,还有这种心理是怎么回事？
:
: patience
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g*******h
发帖数: 7 | 9 Many thanks then, hope it work.
is
beings
need
【在 x**c 的大作中提到】
:
: 实
: That was back to my counseling class we had discussed who is "beer" and who is
: "doer". Beers(let it be) refer to people who go with the flow and not to
: participate very much. Doers(do it) refer to people who feel on edge if they
: have nothing to do. Most people fall on the middle,they work but they also
: give themselves break time. Understand you are a human being and human beings
: have their limitations, things get out of control sometime but you do not need
: to take blame all the time.
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