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发信人: lengxi1981 (test), 信区: Military
标 题: 普林女生facebook发言 说得很好
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Nov 11 10:31:37 2016, 美东)
I have been feeling so depressed in the past 48 hours, especially from the
Princeton Chinese community. It's not news that Chinese are pro-Trump this
time, but it's so shocking to see people who harassed or humiliated females/
LGBT/ minority claim they were never sexists/ racist/ xenophobes.
I'm not saying people can't have their own political opinions, but this may
way beyond a president preference. A guy just commented under some twitter
photos where minority people were attached since the election. He said "I'm
not a black or Latino, not a gay, not Muslim, not an illegal immigrant, not
a female, why should I care about them?"
Yea, why?
It's so sad that I can't simply explain why.
Two years ago when I just arrived Princeton, a male Chinese phd who
accomplished his bachelor degree in the U.S., questioned me, "Why do you, a
girl, also came here for a doctoral degree? Do you know anything about the
latest Chanel bag? Shame on you." And other men at the same table laughed. I
have to admit I'm weak; even now, I don't know how to respond.
I'm not 100% straight - more than a handful men at Princeton told me LGBT
were mental disease. They looked so confused: "You are a pretty girl, why do
you want to hang out with gays or lesbians?"
I have had the wish to adopt a Hispanic girl for a while. They are scared by
this idea and tell me no no no don't interact with those people.
Even worse, I was almost raped a few months ago, and a few "friends"
responded oh you know, your fight might hurt that guy's feeling...
...... ......
All of these happened here, our lovely peaceful bubble Princeton. I bet they
, who usually look shy and smile, will never say the above things to a white
lady, or a black/ latino woman, but will and have already to me, and maybe
other Chinese girls.
I write all these down not to show how "political right" I am and how nasty
others are. I just simply can't hold all these negative feelings I have
gathered in the past two years and a half to myself any more. It hurts SO
much when all the attacks are from my own ethnic group, especially when many
of them may explain as "that's all because you are not a good person".
Why should you care?
I don't know. | j*********r
发帖数: 24733 | | C******h
发帖数: 786 | 3 这写的什么玩意儿？这位作者看得懂自己写的这堆东西吗？
[在 lengxi1981 (test) 的大作中提到：]
:I have been feeling so depressed in the past 48 hours, especially from the
:Princeton Chinese community. It's not news that Chinese are pro-Trump
this
:time, but it's so shocking to see people who harassed or humiliated
females/ LGBT/ minority claim they were never sexists/ racist/ xenophobes.
:I'm not saying people can't have their own political opinions, but
this may way beyond a president preference. A guy just commented under some
twitter
:photos where minority people were attached since the election. He said "
;I'm not a black or Latino, not a gay, not Muslim, not an illegal
immigrant, not a female, why should I care about them?"
:Yea, why?
:It's so sad that I can't simply explain why.
:Two years ago when I just arrived Princeton, a male Chinese phd who
:accomplished his bachelor degree in the U.S., questioned me, "Why do
you, a girl, also came here for a doctoral degree? Do you know anything
about the
:latest Chanel bag? Shame on you." And other men at the same table
laughed. I have to admit I'm weak; even now, I don't know how to
respond.
:.......... | m***o
发帖数: 1367 | 4 She is just complaining about a lot of people here on bbs. I must say--
rightfully so. |
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