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c**d
发帖数: 3888
1
这种“为国争光”值得吗?谁会因为这种金牌高看中国一眼?
http://deadspin.com/5931182/chinese-diver-wins-gold-is-finally-
Chinese Diver Wins Gold, Is Finally Told That Her Mother Has Cancer And Her
Grandparents Died A Year Ago
Barry Petchesky
Wu Minxia took gold in the 3m synchronized springboard, and in doing so
became the first woman in history to win three consecutive Olympic golds.
Sustained success like that comes at a price—in Wu's case, a life entirely
devoted to training, cut off from the outside world.
After her gold, Wu's father admitted to the Shanghai Morning Post that he
had been hiding some bad news from her: both her grandparents had died over
a year ago, and her mother had battled breast cancer for eight years.
"Wu called us after her grandmother died, I gritted my teeth and told
her: ‘everything's fine, there aren't any problems','' Wu's father Wu
Jueming told the paper. Wu's parents found such lies were "essential'' to
ensure their daughter could keep focused on her training, the Shanghai Daily
said. "We never talk about family matters with our daughter,'' the father
said.
Wu's life seems to reinforce all our worst stereotypes about the Chinese
Olympic program. Now 26, Wu began attending daily diving camp at six years
old. At 16, she left home to live in a government-sponsored training
facility, where she rarely saw her family, didn't attend school—didn't do
anything but dive, all day, over and over again for this last decade.
Her parents only kept up with her life by following her Weibo account, the
Chinese equivalent of Twitter. Said her father,
"We've known for years that our daughter doesn't belong to us any more."
Her parents even traveled to London to watch her compete at the Olympics,
but either chose not to or weren't allowed to meet her until after she
competed. The extent of their correspondence: a text message to let her know
they had arrived safely.
Her mother's cancer is now in remission, but Wu's story has reportedly
reignited discussion in China over the country's dogged commitment to
athletics, at the expense of all else. But Wu did win her third straight
gold, and China does lead the medal table, so the debate over success vs.
humanity is likely to remain just that—a debate.
G*********s
发帖数: 6786
2
我就不信尼玛共党拿着枪逼她去训练
你情我愿的事情
w**a
发帖数: 4743
3
给你一辈子时间,你能做到在自己擅长的领域全世界最好不?

Her
entirely

【在 c**d 的大作中提到】
: 这种“为国争光”值得吗?谁会因为这种金牌高看中国一眼?
: http://deadspin.com/5931182/chinese-diver-wins-gold-is-finally-
: Chinese Diver Wins Gold, Is Finally Told That Her Mother Has Cancer And Her
: Grandparents Died A Year Ago
: Barry Petchesky
: Wu Minxia took gold in the 3m synchronized springboard, and in doing so
: became the first woman in history to win three consecutive Olympic golds.
: Sustained success like that comes at a price—in Wu's case, a life entirely
: devoted to training, cut off from the outside world.
: After her gold, Wu's father admitted to the Shanghai Morning Post that he

c**d
发帖数: 3888
4
你说的太有道理了。不拿枪逼就当然合理了。又没拿枪逼你吃毒奶粉,住廉价不抗震房
,都是一个愿打一个愿挨

【在 G*********s 的大作中提到】
: 我就不信尼玛共党拿着枪逼她去训练
: 你情我愿的事情

G*********s
发帖数: 6786
5
原来搞体育训练是让运动员吃毒奶粉,住廉价不抗震房
天灭土共啊

【在 c**d 的大作中提到】
: 你说的太有道理了。不拿枪逼就当然合理了。又没拿枪逼你吃毒奶粉,住廉价不抗震房
: ,都是一个愿打一个愿挨

z**c
发帖数: 7595
6
你的思路我有点跟不上,跳跃性太强 :)

【在 G*********s 的大作中提到】
: 我就不信尼玛共党拿着枪逼她去训练
: 你情我愿的事情

w**a
发帖数: 4743
7
嗯。天灭TG.:)

【在 G*********s 的大作中提到】
: 原来搞体育训练是让运动员吃毒奶粉,住廉价不抗震房
: 天灭土共啊

G*********s
发帖数: 6786
8
跳跃跳跃就适应了

【在 z**c 的大作中提到】
: 你的思路我有点跟不上,跳跃性太强 :)
s*******i
发帖数: 712
9
You stupid fuck. This is called disaster control.
No one could stop her beloves from dying, does telling her the true can save
them? If she lost the gold for the family issue, she lost all her hard as
hell efforts too, then she has nothing. A pure tragedy!
Now at least she's a world champ, her career part of life pays off. You
irrational moron. Get some logical thinking! You eat too much fry rice.

Her
entirely

【在 c**d 的大作中提到】
: 这种“为国争光”值得吗?谁会因为这种金牌高看中国一眼?
: http://deadspin.com/5931182/chinese-diver-wins-gold-is-finally-
: Chinese Diver Wins Gold, Is Finally Told That Her Mother Has Cancer And Her
: Grandparents Died A Year Ago
: Barry Petchesky
: Wu Minxia took gold in the 3m synchronized springboard, and in doing so
: became the first woman in history to win three consecutive Olympic golds.
: Sustained success like that comes at a price—in Wu's case, a life entirely
: devoted to training, cut off from the outside world.
: After her gold, Wu's father admitted to the Shanghai Morning Post that he

g****3
发帖数: 1760
10
even i can, it's not worth it.

【在 w**a 的大作中提到】
: 给你一辈子时间,你能做到在自己擅长的领域全世界最好不?
:
: Her
: entirely

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c**d
发帖数: 3888
11
你这种共党强辩法还是省省吧。也没指望能唤醒你这类中毒深的。只是好奇,你是觉得
有义务为党国所做一切狡辩呢,还是你觉得这种事真的不丢人,为国争光?

【在 G*********s 的大作中提到】
: 原来搞体育训练是让运动员吃毒奶粉,住廉价不抗震房
: 天灭土共啊

w**a
发帖数: 4743
12
so follow your heart. Don't judge others.

【在 g****3 的大作中提到】
: even i can, it's not worth it.
G*********s
发帖数: 6786
13
闲着也是闲着,
说实在的吧,
我觉得这种事真的不丢人,
谈不上为国争光,
这些运动员和普通人一样,
他们参加残酷的体育训练,
就和一般人一样寒窗苦读,
都是为了出人头地,
至于结果怎么样,难说,
就像很多人读到博士,但专业差,找不到工作
总的来说是自我意愿在支配

【在 c**d 的大作中提到】
: 你这种共党强辩法还是省省吧。也没指望能唤醒你这类中毒深的。只是好奇,你是觉得
: 有义务为党国所做一切狡辩呢,还是你觉得这种事真的不丢人,为国争光?

c**d
发帖数: 3888
14
In English we use the phrase "damage control." Please get your vocabulary
right.
Whether the athlete should continue training, or would rather be there with
her parents in their dying hours, should be a choice by the athlete. You may
consider getting a medal a "pay off" because you don't have to share her
personal loss. But life is not always about what pays off in the
materialistic, tangible sense. We are human beings, not machines. We have
lost the human touch in this game. That's why we keep nabbing more medals
but no one is respecting us for it.
It's easy for you to ask someone else to sacrifice their family life in
pursuit of a false "national glory" that you can bask in. I wonder how you
would choose had it been your parents. But no matter which way you chose, it
's a decision best made by you.

save

【在 s*******i 的大作中提到】
: You stupid fuck. This is called disaster control.
: No one could stop her beloves from dying, does telling her the true can save
: them? If she lost the gold for the family issue, she lost all her hard as
: hell efforts too, then she has nothing. A pure tragedy!
: Now at least she's a world champ, her career part of life pays off. You
: irrational moron. Get some logical thinking! You eat too much fry rice.
:
: Her
: entirely

G*********s
发帖数: 6786
15
Who told you it is not her own or her family's decision?

with
may

【在 c**d 的大作中提到】
: In English we use the phrase "damage control." Please get your vocabulary
: right.
: Whether the athlete should continue training, or would rather be there with
: her parents in their dying hours, should be a choice by the athlete. You may
: consider getting a medal a "pay off" because you don't have to share her
: personal loss. But life is not always about what pays off in the
: materialistic, tangible sense. We are human beings, not machines. We have
: lost the human touch in this game. That's why we keep nabbing more medals
: but no one is respecting us for it.
: It's easy for you to ask someone else to sacrifice their family life in

w*********l
发帖数: 1337
16
你不高看自然有人高看。

Her
entirely

【在 c**d 的大作中提到】
: 这种“为国争光”值得吗?谁会因为这种金牌高看中国一眼?
: http://deadspin.com/5931182/chinese-diver-wins-gold-is-finally-
: Chinese Diver Wins Gold, Is Finally Told That Her Mother Has Cancer And Her
: Grandparents Died A Year Ago
: Barry Petchesky
: Wu Minxia took gold in the 3m synchronized springboard, and in doing so
: became the first woman in history to win three consecutive Olympic golds.
: Sustained success like that comes at a price—in Wu's case, a life entirely
: devoted to training, cut off from the outside world.
: After her gold, Wu's father admitted to the Shanghai Morning Post that he

k********o
发帖数: 353
17
这跟什么体制有毛线关系啊?别老上纲上线的好么?这是人家家里不说,怕影响她训练
。我一朋友在这留学,他爸妈在他爷爷(或者是外公,忘了)病危的时候也没通知,怕
影响他学习。。。这样的例子举不胜举,这是好多父母想当然认为的结果,跟夺金牌有
一毛钱关系?
d**********g
发帖数: 1146
18
Her parents even traveled to London to watch her compete at the Olympics,
but either chose not to or weren't allowed to meet her until after she
competed.
反正我是不信
v********m
发帖数: 3531
19
奥运到底是“更高更强”还是“重在参与”啊?拿到金牌,这辈子就值了,这不是最基
本的人性吗?还有人为了更低的目标就可以牺牲家庭呢。

Her
entirely

【在 c**d 的大作中提到】
: 这种“为国争光”值得吗?谁会因为这种金牌高看中国一眼?
: http://deadspin.com/5931182/chinese-diver-wins-gold-is-finally-
: Chinese Diver Wins Gold, Is Finally Told That Her Mother Has Cancer And Her
: Grandparents Died A Year Ago
: Barry Petchesky
: Wu Minxia took gold in the 3m synchronized springboard, and in doing so
: became the first woman in history to win three consecutive Olympic golds.
: Sustained success like that comes at a price—in Wu's case, a life entirely
: devoted to training, cut off from the outside world.
: After her gold, Wu's father admitted to the Shanghai Morning Post that he

y*******a
发帖数: 65
20
美分才是真正中毒的傻逼好吧?

【在 c**d 的大作中提到】
: 你这种共党强辩法还是省省吧。也没指望能唤醒你这类中毒深的。只是好奇,你是觉得
: 有义务为党国所做一切狡辩呢,还是你觉得这种事真的不丢人,为国争光?

w****y
发帖数: 1097
21


【在 G*********s 的大作中提到】
: 我就不信尼玛共党拿着枪逼她去训练
: 你情我愿的事情

Y*******i
发帖数: 2299
22
要发帖不要人性

Her
entirely

【在 c**d 的大作中提到】
: 这种“为国争光”值得吗?谁会因为这种金牌高看中国一眼?
: http://deadspin.com/5931182/chinese-diver-wins-gold-is-finally-
: Chinese Diver Wins Gold, Is Finally Told That Her Mother Has Cancer And Her
: Grandparents Died A Year Ago
: Barry Petchesky
: Wu Minxia took gold in the 3m synchronized springboard, and in doing so
: became the first woman in history to win three consecutive Olympic golds.
: Sustained success like that comes at a price—in Wu's case, a life entirely
: devoted to training, cut off from the outside world.
: After her gold, Wu's father admitted to the Shanghai Morning Post that he

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