M********s
发帖数: 24729 | 1 什么时候开始中国人彻底地要钱不要脸了？就差公布银行户头公开往里打钱啦！为什么
总有人起哄架秧子比当事人还身临其境地悲壮悲愤悲摧？全有病！ |
l**s
发帖数: 20567 | 2
Late to the party, didn't see the original post.
Based on public information,the house was purchased in 2013 about $198K; now
worth over $240K (appraisal value) owned by husband & wife. Mr. Pei had a
business registered in his name and used his residency address; doubt if he
filed tax return as Sole Proprietorship or set up a separate entity. The
revenues/sales of the business was less than $20K each year for the last
three years at least.
The house might have mortgage, sell the house may just get about $10-20K,
maximum $40K cash after all the costs; after at least one month. I
understand she wants to keep the house, full of memory; the cost to keep the
house would not be expensive in TX, about $1,000K per month with the
mortgage.
Somebody already calculated that she may get about $2,100/month from social
security, if she plans well, she should have no problem to keep the house.
The living cost in TX is low.
The sudden lose of husband, with two small kids, unknown future, might scare
her to ask for donation; some safety feeling. At least she needs to plan
for funeral, relatives travel cost as the most needed. Based on the business
revenues reported plus the purchase of the house, doubt the family has
emergency fund saved. Even there is life insurance policy purchased, it
takes time for the claiming process. She needs somebody to help her set up a
to-do list and take care of things. If there is a lack of cash, especially
if the husband took care of all the finances, no doubt she will be very
nervous at this time.
There is a local non-profit organization Tzu-Chi foundation, located at 534
W. Belt Line Rd, Richardson, TX 75080; Tel: 972-680-8869. She can contact
them asking for help. It has standard procedure for approval of financial
aid and may be find some local helps as well.
Feel free to transfer this post.
RIP |
l**s
发帖数: 20567 | |
r**********9
发帖数: 19633 | 4 我在huaren上看到捐款的事，没搞清楚，到底是咋回事让大家吵的那么厉害？ |
u*****u
发帖数: 575 | 5 肯定是有的要捐有的不捐呗
【在 r**********9 的大作中提到】
: 我在huaren上看到捐款的事，没搞清楚，到底是咋回事让大家吵的那么厉害？
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r**********9
发帖数: 19633 | 6
是这样，捐款是自愿的啊
【在 u*****u 的大作中提到】
: 肯定是有的要捐有的不捐呗
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G******8
发帖数: 829 | 7 是男的 星期天车祸去世 女的 第二天 就发文捐款
正常当事人还没反应过来呢 哪有心思募捐
【在 r**********9 的大作中提到】
: 我在huaren上看到捐款的事，没搞清楚，到底是咋回事让大家吵的那么厉害？
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s******y
发帖数: 17729 | 8 当时半夜抛出paypall然后被华人大妈强行删除，piapia打脸
【在 G******8 的大作中提到】
: 是男的 星期天车祸去世 女的 第二天 就发文捐款
: 正常当事人还没反应过来呢 哪有心思募捐
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M********s
发帖数: 24729 | 9 裴强四十八，大连人，曾在达拉斯芭蕾舞团跳舞多年，后专门靠参加展销会卖小商品为
业，自报年收入两万美刀，五月三日凌晨四点他从车里弹出被十八轮当场压死，他有太
太、七岁女一岁儿及老妈在家，太太来美四年不工作，全家以低收入家庭姿态享用美国
福利，目前太太正在网上努力学习如何开车，东北同乡会第一时间站出来跟广大中国人
民募捐，相信大家都知道往哪个帐号打钱了吧？太可怜啦！这一家人一辈子的衣食住行
全靠你们啦，信用卡的欠额，二十几万的房子的贷款，两个孩子的藤校，每年两次全家
回国机票费。。。所有的所有，这一次必须捞足，至少也要够撑到成功再嫁嘛！
康妈营销很成功
再来一回又何如
一块两块捐就有
不用劳动就是好 |
D****y
发帖数: 2207 | |
l**s
发帖数: 20567 | 11
【在 G******8 的大作中提到】
: 是男的 星期天车祸去世 女的 第二天 就发文捐款
: 正常当事人还没反应过来呢 哪有心思募捐
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E*******6
发帖数: 163 | 12 这个事件本来遗孀是最先在华人上发帖求助的，大家都同情并且bless了，直到她抛出
paypal账户。但是华人管理员经过康妈事件教训之后，态度很明确。http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1822630
update： 已经短消息和贴主沟通，“论坛不支持在进行不收监督的捐款活动。希望楼
主能理解并去除直接捐款信息。如需要另外提供页面提供热心人咨询。谢谢”
update 2: 鉴于没有收到lz的回复，第一楼相关捐款的paypal信息内容管理员已经编辑
已经去除。希望大家能讨论确定一个更好的方式或者渠道前慎重发布信息。thanks for
understanding
这件事，华人管理员做得好多了。 |
