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我在一个小公司上班,大概共30-40人. 我们组有一个美国长大的墨西哥裔女人,40岁左
右,有关节炎,需要长期服药, 该药物有depression的副作用,所以她必须同时吃anti-
depression的药. 此外她的personality很差, 极度自私和追求控制欲.在我加入公司之
前,她就跟3个员工吵过. 她以前在公司的最好的朋友,现在都不跟她说话.
我们组一共四个人,包括老板. 因为我们周末有小实验要做, 所以这周开组会时我们一
致同意周末轮流加班, 并且决定在每周5商量谁本周加班.
我们今天中午组里一起去吃饭.在车里,老板问起周末大家都有什么活. 因为我这周末的
活最多,所以我就说了我可以这周末来加班.
下午快下班之前,我问墨西哥女人要不要我周末帮她干活,结果她就莫名其妙开始找茬.
质疑这,质疑那的,抱怨老板,还给我发号施令, 我回了她几句,她就更上瘾, 跟我玩文字
游戏,胡搅蛮缠.
我觉得很无聊,她愿意自己干自己的活最好, 所以我就起身离开了, 到了我自己的bench.
结果她后面跟了上来,站在我身旁,继续喋喋不休地争论,
我当时正干着活, She was getting crazy, so I said "I don't want to talk to
you right now".
她继续唠叨和发飙,
I had to say "I don't want to talk to you" for over 10 times, and she still
wouldn't leave me alone.
She goes" You are raising your voice, be carful with that".
I said "I had to raise my voice to let you hear clearly that I didn't want
to talk to you".
Her: You are yelling at me.
Me: No, I didn't.
Her: Yes, you are. raising voice is part of yelling.
这已经是她第三次"发病". 我跟前老板和HR都谈过,但是公司并没有做什么,而且她每次
都狡辩,说她没那样,是我自己emontional and take it personally. 以为事情都是在
我们lab发生的,没有外人,所以我也没有证据.
我以前为了等绿卡,也忍了. 不过现在没有这个担忧了, I think I have to fight
back seriously this time. 而且最可恨的是,她心情不好就找我麻烦,因为I am the
easy target in her eyes.
已经约了跟老板周一谈这个事.I will request for a video camera to be set up in
our lab. Also I will make it clear that I will look for legal assistant if
she does this to me again because what she did is harassment.
还有就是我根本不在乎我现在的这份工作, 我以后会争取做其他领域的工作.不过现在
真的心情太差了, 跟一个psyco在一起上班.
还想听听大家的意见 |
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