w*********h 发帖数: 334 | 1 我们国人一听到麻醉这个字眼, 都有点恐惧, 特别是对小孩子做麻醉, 当家长签一
堆术前协议时, 常常会被一些字眼吓到。家长们觉得麻醉会影响孩子未来的智力发育
和记忆力而且有很高的风险性。而我们做儿童牙科的, 麻醉却是我们一种常用的手段。
在诊所里, 经常有家长会说“医生,给我的孩子动手术可以不上麻醉药吗?我的孩子
很配合,手术的时候你们按住他不让他乱动行吗?”家长的心情我可以理解, 但在多
数情况下, 麻醉还是要用。
其实儿童牙科的麻醉分很多种, 不仅仅是大家想像的送到OR的那种。
先来讲一下麻醉的作用。小儿麻醉最基本的可以说是:睡眠+止痛=麻醉。睡眠对小儿手
术非常重要,因为小儿对于手术会有高度的恐惧感,特别是牙科会用到很多工具, 如
果孩子的蛀牙很多, 要拔,做根管, 作冠, 会时间比较长。如果孩子一直在清醒的
状态, 会对他的心理造成极大的恐惧和伤害, 可能以后都会惧怕看牙, 这是我们不
愿意看到的。同时小孩很难耐受疼痛以及术中因固定姿势而造成的不舒服感觉, 如果
不停挣扎的话, 手术操作中万一造成误差, 我想也没有家长愿意这种事情发生。特别
是如果孩子有很多问题, 年龄幼小的话... 阅读全帖 |
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c*****s 发帖数: 140 | 2 宝宝5个月,睡觉一直问题多多,入睡前需要抱着摇晃半天睡着,夜里醒来4,5遍,有
时塞奶嘴能睡回去,有时就在床上滚来滚去靠吃奶才能睡回去。他爸和我实在是受不了
了,每天都精疲力尽,决定sleep train了。
看了不少精华帖,也买了healthy sleep habits 那本书,只是么有太多时间看只大概
翻过。。。大概的idea有了,还有几个操作的问题请有经验的妈妈指导:
1. 怎么把握好sleepy awake? 是看他困了就放下去?还是先抱着哄会?那抱着哄睡着
了怎么办?
2. 每晚6点多现在洗澡,吃奶,经常吃着就睡着了。然后放下去睡20分钟就醒了,然后
要要8点多才睡。train之后再这样应该不管他,还是抱起等过会困意来了再train?有
什么办法避免他这个点眯小觉吗?
3. 夜里他醒来很多次,train之后应该会减少非饭点醒来吧?我实在熬不住了!如果半
夜不是饿醒的,可以上奶嘴吗,还是不管他?
4. 白天nap的问题,他现在早上和中午能保证 (敲木头),就是下午那个很容易miss
掉。现在是我哄睡着之后放下去的,但他自己睡的话很快20-30分钟就醒了,如果我陪
着,及时塞奶嘴... 阅读全帖 |
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m****t 发帖数: 703 | 3 我家跟casamila的宝宝差不多。。。除了:
1/1030pm的那顿还没断,因为最近搬家倒时差啥的挺乱的,辅食吃的也不规律,所以打
算等安顿下来再断1030pm那次奶;
2/白天的上午、中午和傍晚小睡时间不定,我还在做Eat-Awake-Sleep。
所以她傍晚有小睡的时候,我4-7pm(我家7pm入睡)间喂两次:4pm醒来一次,7pm入睡
前一次。我在想要不要先把4pm那次断掉然后再断1030pm那次呢?
casamila你先断的哪次? |
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s**u 发帖数: 2294 | 4 re 还有baby centre的那个group的置顶贴特别好 包括多大的孩子max awake time 特
别有指导意义,我也后悔看晚了,不然娃一开始打哈欠,我还想多打几个再放下吧;更
不会问一个朋友如果我娃不想nap怎么办的问题,那时候一两个月的娃铁定是总要nap的
。 |
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L*********d 发帖数: 1019 | 5 Watch clock and wake up baby. Keep baby awake by undressher while feeding. |
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g*****y 发帖数: 6325 | 6 我上的breast feeding课上说,如果宝宝吸的时候睡着就上下摇宝宝的胳膊来keep he/
she awake,一直喂到吃饱。 |
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f*****i 发帖数: 3558 | 7 才两周的娃。都说这时候应该睡16-18个小时,可是我娃平均每天只有13-14个小时。她
常常打哈欠,可是就不闭眼睡。唯一能让她睡的办法是胸喂。可是有时候能睡上两个小
时,有时候十几分钟半个小时又醒了。她要不打哈欠也算了。可是醒着的时候哈欠连篇
。这说明她还是困?怎么能帮她睡觉呢?
试过swing,rocker,她似乎都不爱坐。坐不了一会儿就哭。抱着走,她也是wide
awake
从出生第二天就是这样,怎么办? |
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i******7 发帖数: 58 | 8 宝宝4周大了,醒来的时间慢慢多一点了,看到很多姐妹推荐CLT,决定跟着调整一下宝
宝作息,这样至少每天什么时间做什么有个数。但是,实践起来很不容易,感觉总是和
宝宝在作斗争,她要睡的时候不许她睡,她不想睡的时候又要逼她睡。
1. 宝宝经常吃着饭就睡着了,怎么也弄不醒,如果硬是弄醒了,她就拼命哭,然后就
又睡着了。可是睡呢,又睡不好,放上床几分钟就醒了, 然后继续哭,弄的我们头都
大了。
2. CLT书上说宝宝要在很困,但是醒着的时候放上床。我们试了很多次都不行,一放下
不到三秒钟就哭,一定要哄到睡的比较熟才能放下来。这个“put baby down drowsy
but awake"到底现实不现实? |
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n***a 发帖数: 1373 | 9 I think it is better to have your mom stay home and rest. Why make all three
people stay awake overnight? If your mom rest well, she can help better the
next day, your husband can have a break then. Sofa bed in the hospital is
not comfortable.
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d*********8 发帖数: 2192 | 10 来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 腹股沟疝气 http://www.chp.edu/CHP/Inguinal+Hernia+Repair+Surgery
The anesthesia doctor will review your child’s medical information and
decide which kind of sleep medication he or she should get.
If your child is very scared or upset, the doctor may give a special
medication to help him or her relax. This medication is flavored and takes
effect in 10 to 15 minutes.
If you wish, you may go with your child to the room where the surgery will
be done and stay as the sleep medication is given.
Younger children... 阅读全帖 |
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A******x 发帖数: 811 | 11 Some comments, recommendations.
1. About sleep training. My opinion is, same as Dr. Ferber in
child's sleeping problem>, there is no wrong way of sleeping. The key is,
the sleep arrangement in your house has to work for everyone. Everyone.
2. About your day time training. After the baby was awake, you left the baby
cried for 15min before you pick her/him up.
Not sure why you do this, and I don't recall the book recommend this either.
3. Here is some of what the book suggests. Let's s... 阅读全帖 |
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x********a 发帖数: 65 | 12 宝宝差一周就三个月了,目前还需要我抱着摇晃哄睡。有时候哄的迷迷糊糊的就能放上
床睡,大概就是所谓的drowsy but awake的状态吧,但是更多时候是需要哄的睡熟了才
能放下。每次哄睡大概需要20分钟到半小时的样子,可是宝宝已经15磅多了,抱着摇晃
实在吃力啊。我不太舍得让他cry it out,也担心他还太小,即使让他哭,他恐怕也不
明白为什么,所以想请用no cry办法sleep train的美妈们分享下经验。你们用了什么
样的办法,花了多久成功的呢?多谢了!! |
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d**********o 发帖数: 58 | 13 新手爸妈,第一胎,之前也不怎么逛宝宝版本,
宝宝刚出生时候没奶,来宝宝版上搜精华帖,历史贴,看了好多方法方子,一起上了,
不知道那个起作用了,反正现在供求平衡,宝宝也不是大胃王,也不瘦,就average吧
。最近整理娃儿的衣服,好多衣服就穿了一次,有的就穿起来照了个相就束之高阁了,
所以想说说这两个多月来,给宝宝穿衣服的心得。给其他新妈参考。
背景:娃11月初出生,男孩,比较幸运,中西部今年是暖冬,下雪也少于历年average
,到现在这里只下过一次雪,最冷的时候零下12摄氏度13摄氏度,还不是持续的冷,和
以往的天气有些不同,娃出生9lb, 现在2个半月,14lb 半,头围95%(头大的宝宝选
衣服也需要考虑套头的是否好穿进)
家里空调设置68度-72度,空调指示比较低级,温度是靠温度计看的,屋子大小窗户不
一样,温度稍微有差异。
知道预产期之后给娃娃准备秋冬的衣服,主要分2大类,英文名称繁多,有时候同样式
的名称却不同,所以我归结为 上衣裤子连体的,不带裤腿包pp的,上衣裤子分体的,
1. 先说上衣裤子分体的:刚出生时候医院给穿的就类似,医院给穿的只有上衣是系带
样式的,下身就是d... 阅读全帖 |
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s**********h 发帖数: 436 | 14 My son does that. He does it when he's wide awake too. He has lost his hair
due to friction. He's 6 months now. The doctor said it's fine as long as the
baby didn't seem to be in pain. |
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y*******a 发帖数: 218 | 15 写下来,看对别人有点借鉴意义不。完全个例。
宝宝10周左右,感冒很严重,为了让她多睡(她睡着了症状会轻很多,看起来小人舒服
一些),我便抱着胸喂了好几天。本来我的奶严重不够,但小宝生病吃得也不多,那几
天居然就只胸喂就撑过去了。
后来开始给奶瓶,发现她不要奶瓶了,一直往我怀里钻。全家人都吓坏了,我的奶大概
24小时才10oz,这明显不够。老公和我都非常焦虑,开始想办法,勺子也试着在喂,浪
费很多,经常不吞下去,全给吐出来。我开始在网上看有什么办法,买了medela的SNS
,不是太好用。我又买了comotomo的奶瓶,还买了infant feeding tube,准备自制SNS。
老公也很有创意,我胸喂宝宝的时候,就用奶瓶一滴一滴的把奶滴到宝宝的嘴角,这样
宝宝大概会吸进去2/3,浪费1/3。每次都垫着bib喂,喂完奶那张bib就基本全湿了。就
这样我们好歹一天保证宝宝能吃到16oz左右。
comotomo的奶瓶到货后,看起来奶嘴很软的样子,但宝宝还是不吃。晚上宝宝迷糊的时
候,能慢慢接受奶瓶了,白天还是不行。
又过两天,我下决心要改变过来。就把奶全泵出来,再喂宝宝的时候,胸里基本没奶... 阅读全帖 |
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p*******l 发帖数: 67 | 16 I recommend the book healthy sleep habits, happy baby. And according to the
book, the baby won't be able to keep awake for more than 1 - 2 hours. So you
dont really have to set a schedule for the daytime nap but just make sure
the baby goes to sleep when he's tired. And for the evening sleep, make sure
you start a routine. We are trying the same thing. It's not perfect yet but
it's getting there :) My LO (2 month) slept from 9:30 pm to 4am for the
first time last night :D
BTW, our pedi told us n... 阅读全帖 |
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m******t 发帖数: 184 | 17 孩子的的大夫是Tribeca, 他们有一本书叫The Bew Basics
刚看到一个部分是关于训练孩子睡眠的。
简单说
一般是从四个月开始,但他们发现其实从两个月开始更加有效。这时间训练孩子独立睡
眠只需要三天。
晚上喂饱孩子时候把孩子扔床上,然后离开不要再打搅孩子,第二天早上再来看孩子。
孩子大概第一天和第二天会哭的比较厉害,第三天第四天就没事了。
具体文章参见下面。因为我对这便不熟悉,觉得有点夸张。他们说的是否真的这么简单
有效。当然,我逻辑上同意他们的说法,越早训练,孩子依赖性越容易摆脱,有可能事
半功倍。但不知道大家看法如何?
The First Couple of Months
This period is your best opportunity to make your baby a night sleeper. Here
’s how.
After a couple of weeks, anna is sleeping more at night than during the day.
Each waking period ends with a feeding,... 阅读全帖 |
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x******t 发帖数: 3911 | 18 If you put him down after he is asleep, then he would wake up to look for
you at night. But if you put him down while he is awake, then he would go
back to sleep after waking up in the middle of the night. Time for sleep
training. :) |
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c****e 发帖数: 2097 | 19
normal. we don't train the baby, can't stand the crying and weeping.
it improves over time, but does take quite a while. ours is 2 and 4 months.
just try to enjoy the time you can spend with him/her, it's very soon you
won't have this opportunity. ours still want to be held for a bit sometimes,
but can deal with it when laid on bed, she's usually only half awake at
that pt. |
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l**t 发帖数: 321 | 20 That may not be normal, since kids are always energized when they are awake.
They fall into sleep anywhere anytime when they feel tired. |
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w**f 发帖数: 7794 | 21 Sigh, why my daughter never gets tired?
She has to take a nap at noon if she's in daycare.
But if she's at home, she's always alert from morning to 11:00pm.
awake. |
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o******y 发帖数: 743 | 22 Can't join your guys since we're far away from you. Just want to ensure you
that camping with 3.5 years old will be fine. We took our son for the first
time last year while he was 2.5, he was so excited, trying to set up the
tent with us. We did again this year, and he was very comfortable to live
in the tent, cooking with us, etc. Actually, after my husband and I fell
sleep around 9, he was awake for quite a while and want to watch stars (
unfortunately, it was cloudy that night). He slept |
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z*******u 发帖数: 831 | 23 separation anxiety
I think it is OK to comfort him and he won't be spoiled by too much
attention.
It is another story in terms of sleep. If you want to train him to sleep on
his own, you can start by having a routine/schedule for nap and night sleep
time. After two weeks with the routine, then put him down while he is awake.
He will cry at first but soon he will learn to calm down and sleep on his
own. |
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s*****r 发帖数: 1032 | 24 Some kids just don't like taking naps. I vividly remember when I was in
preschool, I was often the only one awake during nap time. Please don't
force your kid. My daughter was having hard time napping in her first
preschool at two and a half. Once we moved her to another preschool which
doesn't require nap, she has not taken a nap since. |
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e*****f 发帖数: 131 | 25 关于小孩睡觉的书有很多,如果多读几本的话,你就会发现说法也各不相同.你也不会严
格的follow 某一本书,而是系统地了解睡觉问题,根据你自己孩子来制定对策。
像LCB书,虽然我欣赏,但是我没严格follow,因为太难,没有从小follow,每个小孩又
不一样。但是这本书里面埋藏了很多有用信息,细心读下去,反复读,你会发现很多有
用的信息。特别是多大的小孩该有大体什么样的作息。
Healthy Sleep Habit, Happy Child,我只读了头几章关与几个月的小孩,特别有用得
着是他强调3个月以下的孩子只能stay awake up to 1`2 个小时,到时候就得哄睡,这
是我的救命草。要学会 read tired signs,打哈欠,不耐烦,两眼无光,发呆,不理
人等等,要立马哄睡,否则overtired就很难哄,会哭。
当然 LCB 里面也提到了。
发信人: ecnanif (ecnanif), 信区: Parenting
标 题: Re: 一定要训练孩子睡觉了
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Feb 27 20:26:56 2011, 美东)
晚上12点才睡... 阅读全帖 |
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I*****M 发帖数: 622 | 26 Re, I always tell my daughter, We are Chinese, so we speak Chinese at home.
But it is really hard to establish a nice Chinese language environment for
her, since she spend most of her awake time at school. Will some Chinese
DVDs help?
popo,water到时候再教也来得及 |
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a**y 发帖数: 381 | 27 I agree that she likes to be with us. the problem is : we got exhausted by her!
All of us got borned at home and her energy has no way to spend
. As a result, my daughter stayed awake until midnight and kept us busy
until then. my husband and i are so exhausted by her in the thanksgiving
long week.we feel so released on Monday, since she fall sleep before 8pm.
she used up her energe in the daycare.
so we need make some change for the Christmas long week! Maybe go to some
warmer place can get mor... 阅读全帖 |
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x*****i 发帖数: 4035 | 28 of course Santa's real :)
my son says the real Santa lives in North Pole, he knows everything and sees
everyone with his glasses. you can't see him if you're awake on Christmas
eve. everybody should be asleep before Santa comes :)
he also says that mall Santas are just make-believe, it would be silly if
you think they are the real Santa :) |
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w*********h 发帖数: 334 | 29 我们国人一听到麻醉这个字眼, 都有点恐惧, 特别是对小孩子做麻醉, 当家长签一
堆术前协议时, 常常会被一些字眼吓到。家长们觉得麻醉会影响孩子未来的智力发育
和记忆力而且有很高的风险性。而我们做儿童牙科的, 麻醉却是我们一种常用的手段。
在诊所里, 经常有家长会说“医生,给我的孩子动手术可以不上麻醉药吗?我的孩子
很配合,手术的时候你们按住他不让他乱动行吗?”家长的心情我可以理解, 但在多
数情况下, 麻醉还是要用。
其实儿童牙科的麻醉分很多种, 不仅仅是大家想像的送到OR的那种。
先来讲一下麻醉的作用。小儿麻醉最基本的可以说是:睡眠+止痛=麻醉。睡眠对小儿手
术非常重要,因为小儿对于手术会有高度的恐惧感,特别是牙科会用到很多工具, 如
果孩子的蛀牙很多, 要拔,做根管, 作冠, 会时间比较长。如果孩子一直在清醒的
状态, 会对他的心理造成极大的恐惧和伤害, 可能以后都会惧怕看牙, 这是我们不
愿意看到的。同时小孩很难耐受疼痛以及术中因固定姿势而造成的不舒服感觉, 如果
不停挣扎的话, 手术操作中万一造成误差, 我想也没有家长愿意这种事情发生。特别
是如果孩子有很多问题, 年龄幼小的话... 阅读全帖 |
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w*********h 发帖数: 334 | 30 我们国人一听到麻醉这个字眼, 都有点恐惧, 特别是对小孩子做麻醉, 当家长签一
堆术前协议时, 常常会被一些字眼吓到。家长们觉得麻醉会影响孩子未来的智力发育
和记忆力而且有很高的风险性。而我们做儿童牙科的, 麻醉却是我们一种常用的手段。
在诊所里, 经常有家长会说“医生,给我的孩子动手术可以不上麻醉药吗?我的孩子
很配合,手术的时候你们按住他不让他乱动行吗?”家长的心情我可以理解, 但在多
数情况下, 麻醉还是要用。
其实儿童牙科的麻醉分很多种, 不仅仅是大家想像的送到OR的那种。
先来讲一下麻醉的作用。小儿麻醉最基本的可以说是:睡眠+止痛=麻醉。睡眠对小儿手
术非常重要,因为小儿对于手术会有高度的恐惧感,特别是牙科会用到很多工具, 如
果孩子的蛀牙很多, 要拔,做根管, 作冠, 会时间比较长。如果孩子一直在清醒的
状态, 会对他的心理造成极大的恐惧和伤害, 可能以后都会惧怕看牙, 这是我们不
愿意看到的。同时小孩很难耐受疼痛以及术中因固定姿势而造成的不舒服感觉, 如果
不停挣扎的话, 手术操作中万一造成误差, 我想也没有家长愿意这种事情发生。特别
是如果孩子有很多问题, 年龄幼小的话... 阅读全帖 |
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u*****a 发帖数: 6276 | 31 The death of Alberta Spruill: Spruill was a 57-year-old Harlem woman who
died in a flawed police raid in 2003. Spruill, a city employee for 29 years,
suffered a fatal heart attack after a dozen Emergency Service Unit officers
threw a flash grenade into her apartment. They had acted on bad information
from an informant that someone was using her apartment to store drugs and
guns.
In 2003, Ousmane Zongo, a newly arrived African immigrant was shot by police
officer Bryan Conroy during another bungl... 阅读全帖 |
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l******n 发帖数: 4276 | 32 你太完美主义了
要不得,要改
初生事物总归有这样那样的问题
现在这事还没结束,法官如何判还没下来
还不是做自我批评总结的时候
你现在的自我总结就是打击士气
行军打仗里面是大大的忌讳
现在还是应该一鼓作气的鼓励大家积极参与进来
make people awake |
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s**********0 发帖数: 311 | 33 我今天买了4个awaking洗发水,也没出ecb,店里的架子上只写了每个6刀,没写20返10
,所以我后来退了。奇怪的是,结帐的时候,价格是4.99而不是6。还浪费了我四张
coupon。 |
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B******y 发帖数: 110 | 34 Neuroscience Post-doc Position Available
Beijing Normal University
Applicants are invited for a postdoctoral position in Dr. Haidong Lu's lab
at Beijing Normal University. Dr. Lu’s lab uses optical imaging,
electrophysiology, and histological methods to study the neural mechanisms
underlying vision in non-human primates. Ongoing research projects include:
1. Anatomical connections among functional architectures in the monkey
visual cortex; 2. Functional roles of the motion sensitive neurons in t... 阅读全帖 |
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m**m 发帖数: 150 | 35 Thanks! I'm glad that at least someone is awake... |
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L****n 发帖数: 12932 | 36 Just sent PM to those night owls. Wrong Link !!!(sorry not quite awake yet)
DELETE the PM sent before 6:30. My mistake
I'll re send the link. |
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N********n 发帖数: 8363 | 37 Shorting the world’s most overvalued asset has got to be the big trade for
2010. I’m talking about 30 year US Treasury bonds.
The relentless whirring of the printing presses is so loud that they keep me
awake at night, even though, according to Mapquest, I live 2,804.08 miles
away. What will be unique with this meltdown is that it will be the first
collapse in history of a bond market in a non-inflationary environment.
It is not soaring consumer prices that will execute the coup de grace on the |
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N********n 发帖数: 8363 | 38 It's bad enough to keep Geithner awake at night, I believe. That's why
this IMF gold sale dead horse trick pops out again just to try anything
and everything to prop up the Dollars for a little longer. |
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z****g 发帖数: 4616 | 39 Now getting tired. I guess only people from the west coast are still awake. |
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c****n 发帖数: 111 | 40 Although I've been trapped in the market so deeply, I don't feel like the
end of the world is coming...too much coffee make me awake, and I have to
wait for the next dawn...
What a crazy market it was yesterday!
Wish everybody luck today! |
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c*******9 发帖数: 6411 | 41 you should run fast in the near future. |
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w******s 发帖数: 16209 | 42 I was awake when I had enough profit on those short. and suddenly turned
into red. my old plan was to AD if it turned bad this morning.
but found better choice is turn around and chased bull and cash back on the
momentum. |
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w******s 发帖数: 16209 | 43 open little es(dec) short at 1118.25 (2 positions), keep me awake of the market
reading.
stop 4 points. |
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S******t 发帖数: 8388 | 44 祝大家保持健康活力.长周末愉快!
Feeling sluggish? A few simple tricks can help you feel more awake.
1. Get an Energy Boost From Trying Something New
Recent research confirms what world travelers and adult-education addicts
already know: New experiences give you a rush. “We’ve known that when
people do something novel, the brain’s reward chemical, dopamine, is
released,” says Gregory Berns, M.D., a neuroscientist at Emory University,
in Atlanta, and the author of Satisfaction: The Science of Finding True
Fulfil... 阅读全帖 |
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g********5 发帖数: 10335 | 45 lol
youging say qunzhong got mad, cunzhang should keep awake haha |
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u****d 发帖数: 23938 | 47 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
ShortCut (总想偷懒) 于 (Fri May 27 12:49:22 2011, 美东) 提到:
祝大家保持健康活力.长周末愉快!
Feeling sluggish? A few simple tricks can help you feel more awake.
1. Get an Energy Boost From Trying Something New
Recent research confirms what world travelers and adult-education addicts
already know: New experiences give you a rush. “We’ve known that when
people do something novel, the brain’s reward chemical, dopamine, is
released,” says Gregory Berns, M.D., a neuroscientist a... 阅读全帖 |
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g********5 发帖数: 10335 | 48 Feeling sluggish? A few simple tricks can help you feel more awake.
1. Get an Energy Boost From Trying Something New
Recent research confirms what world travelers and adult-education addicts
already know: New experiences give you a rush. “We’ve known that when
people do something novel, the brain’s reward chemical, dopamine, is
released,” says Gregory Berns, M.D., a neuroscientist at Emory University,
in Atlanta, and the author of Satisfaction: The Science of Finding True
Fulfillment . But novel... 阅读全帖 |
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s*****r 发帖数: 1745 | 49 happened to me quite a few times in Pre session, probably need a double
shot to keep yourself awake.
COVER |
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l*******4 发帖数: 319 | 50 or sad movie at day time, so that the market won't be too boring when I am
awake. |
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