m*********h
发帖数: 5449 | 1 共济会礼仪真不错，好东西应该学。
Unfortunately, Masonic Etiquette ...or Blue Lodge Etiquette, (as it is
called in the United States) is largely unpublished as well as unspoken,
therefore, up until now, it has been more difficult to learn its rules and
nuances.
You may study ritual work, degree work, floor work and know all Masonry’s
glorious history, Masonic symbols, jewels, etc. but there is very little
written about how to comport yourself so you do not look foolish or be
regarded as disrespectful.
Some are s... 阅读全帖 |
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m*********h
发帖数: 5449 | 2 【 以下文字转载自 Stock 讨论区 】
发信人: marketwatch (市场观察), 信区: Stock
标 题: 共济会礼仪 Masonic Etiquette
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Oct 22 14:45:28 2014, 美东)
共济会礼仪真不错，好东西应该学。
Unfortunately, Masonic Etiquette ...or Blue Lodge Etiquette, (as it is
called in the United States) is largely unpublished as well as unspoken,
therefore, up until now, it has been more difficult to learn its rules and
nuances.
You may study ritual work, degree work, floor work and know all Masonry’s
glorious history, Masonic symbols, jewels, etc. ... 阅读全帖 |
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o*******r
发帖数: 4921 | 3 我居然一个字一个字的读完了。
http://www.psychowyco.com/id74.html
Proper T-Shirt Etiquette
In the running and triathlete community the wearing of race T-Shirts has
become a sign of accomplishment and fashion. Choosing just the right T-Shirt
for that special occasion can be a daunting and difficult task. The
following guidelines have been compiled (in fun), to help the responsible T-
shirt wearer avoid potential embarrassment and/or elevate their perceived
status in their athletic community.
This list was forme... 阅读全帖 |
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K******e
发帖数: 367 | 4 It's kind of really encouraging to see more and more Chinese going to the
gym these days. But I plead you guys to pay a little bit attention to the
gym etiquette. It's kind of disgusting to have a small group of you guys
standing half a foot to my head chatting for half an hour while I try to
finish up my stretching.
It's a stretching area. Not damned your neighborhood park where your parents
lazied out their 'exercises'. If you need to chat go back to your own house
. It's very disgusting when ... 阅读全帖 |
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r*******u
发帖数: 8732 | 5 Thoughts On Movie Etiquette
Matthew Toomey
Over the weekend, I was reading Roger Ebert's column and someone asked an
interesting question. The husband of a reader refuses to go to movies on
thier own. Ebert's comments were "When a movie is really working, we are
always alone, because we are within the reverie it creates. Tell him that
one of the reasons we go to the movies is to leave ourselves behind for two
hours and identify with the characters--so if it's a good movie he won't be
alone for |
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H****r
发帖数: 16240 | 6 Shooting Times上面的文：
http://www.shootingtimes.com/2013/03/19/a-gentlemans-guide-to-o
When’s the last time you went to a public range and had a horrible day—not
because your guns weren’t cooperating, but because well-meaning idiots
offered unsolicited coaching, handled your stuff without asking, asked
questions or “corrected” your form when you were in the middle of shooting
groups, or just plain made a nuisance of themselves? If you’re a regular
at the shooting range, I’ll wager it happens to you... 阅读全帖 |
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M*****8
发帖数: 17722 | 8 High living standard begets etiquette,
OR
High living standard precedes etiquette.
OR
Etiquette comes from comfortable living.
Or
.... many other variations
e.g.
The starving pay no heed to etiquette. |
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t*****3
发帖数: 305 | 9 详见链接
https://goo.gl/elhUF9
NEWS
Student-organized orgy coming soon for U of A community
Jamie Sarkonak Image: Anna Campbell orgy, Sex, sex-positive, U of A 3
Comments Oct 27, 2015
The rumours are true: there’s going to be an orgy for University of Alberta
students..
The location and date of the “sexual mixer” is still tentative, but it
will be held on November 13 at one of three tentative locations. It’s open
to any student of the U of A, as long as they are willing to be screened by
organizers.... 阅读全帖 |
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t***w
发帖数: 165 | 10 First you need to make sure you can make contact and make forward progress
every swing, don't have to be airborne. Also read up a little of
fundamental rules and etiquette.
May I suggest you play with someone who is a seasoned golfer for your first
few rounds.
The reasons are: not only he can help you keep pace, but show you the common
golf etiquette, and show you respect for the rules of golf.
Simply hitting golf balls on course without knowing the rules and etiquette
is not palying golf, it... 阅读全帖 |
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O*******d
发帖数: 20343 | 12 尤其是不要高声评论路上走在前边的女人的大屁股。
25 Manners Every Kid Should Know By Age 9
Helping your child master these simple rules of etiquette will get him
noticed -- for all the right reasons.
By David Lowry, Ph.D.
Your child's rude 'tude isn't always intentional. Sometimes kids just don't
realize it's impolite to interrupt, pick their nose, or loudly observe that
the lady walking in front of them has a large behind. And in the hustle
and bustle of daily life, busy moms and dads don't always have the time
to focu... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 13 New York’s Anti-Manspreading Campaign Cost $76,707
‘Dude…stop the spread’ posters appearing on subways
BY: Elizabeth Harrington
January 16, 2015 5:00 am
The advertising campaign in New York telling men to stop “manspreading”
has cost the city’s taxpayers more than $76,000.
“Dude…Stop the Spread, Please” was the biggest takeaway from the
Metropolitan Transportation Authority’s (MTA) new campaign announced last
month, instructing riders on proper subway etiquette. “Manspreading” is
when a man k... 阅读全帖 |
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O*******d
发帖数: 20343 | 14 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: OverCloud (天马行空), 信区: Military
标 题: 小孩子的风度教育，对大人也适用
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue May 10 22:58:50 2011, 美东)
尤其是不要高声评论路上走在前边的女人的大屁股。
25 Manners Every Kid Should Know By Age 9
Helping your child master these simple rules of etiquette will get him
noticed -- for all the right reasons.
By David Lowry, Ph.D.
Your child's rude 'tude isn't always intentional. Sometimes kids just don't
realize it's impolite to interrupt, pick their nose, or loudly observe that
the lady walking in fr... 阅读全帖 |
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x*****i
发帖数: 4035 | 15 search for etiquette books in your local library, a ton of them out there
keywords: etiquette, manners, children |
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P*O
发帖数: 4324 | 16 来自主题: SanFrancisco版 - 奇了怪了 Tipping Etiquette -- Know the Tipping Policy
Increasingly, higher-end hotels are instituting "no tipping policies" that
include gratuities in the price of the room. Some, particularly resorts, are
charging a daily fee that covers all gratuities.
http://hotels.about.com/od/hotelsecrets/a/tipping-etiquette.htm
How To Tip a Hotel Maid
Mark your tip clearly. Leaving cash or change in the room is not a clear
enough signal, as a hotel maid must be very careful about taking anything
from your room. Enc... 阅读全帖 |
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f*********g
发帖数: 3319 | 17 看到好几个文章询问类似的问题，这是报纸上的文章，希望能让给大家提供一些帮助
How much should you tip? Here's a guide
Tips on tipping as a way of saying "thank you."
By Alexia Elejalde-Ruiz
Chicago Tribune
Tipping is a favorite pastime in America, where nothing says "thank you"
like a few dollar bills. But there is often a moment, after you get your car
washed, or your furniture delivered, or your flat tire changed, when
suddenly a wave of anxiety strikes. Are you supposed to tip? And if so, how
much?
Here's a guide to what's customar... 阅读全帖 |
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l****n
发帖数: 6896 | 18 小老儿混网十几年，以前上网为的是 “讲理”，“说服”，所以跟人吵得不可开交，
刚开始也是挺辛苦的，后来摸索出些上网的 etiquette (pun intended)，所以后来颇
能乐在其中，斗人也逗人。年纪大了，不喜欢吵政治了，所以在这里杀时间。本想轻轻
松松与世无争，但发现这里的特色是很多毒舌，即使一个求安慰、求建议的帖子，都会
被损的 “人无完人，体无完肤”。这是我以前没经历过的，与我混过的一些其它网站
如奇摩、联合报、甚至自由时报等等很不一样。所以我猜我必须重新摸索出在这种网站
生存的 etiquette。
结论是：少创作多灌水。 |
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n**i
发帖数: 17 | 19 新世界雙語學院 (www.nwbi.us) 國際領袖世界认证证书深得廣大中美各界讚揚的青少
年全日中英文精英國際領袖夏令營 (2nd
至8 th 年級), 是按主流各級資优天才加強規划, 活潑，有趣的育教于樂. 2011两期，
每期兩週從 (第一期7/25-8/5; 第二期8月22日至8月26日，每天8：15 PM 至5：30 PM
，全日点心提供， 并有延長時間。引導學生輕松愉快的學得富有創意的英文寫作，實
際參与啟 動領袖与溝通交流。 啟發學生德，智，體，群，學術兼修， 才藝發展并重
， 引領潛能發揮，受益 終身。 口皆碑 。請看中英文网站 www.nwbi.us 课程及青少
年领袖專欄 和他们在学校， 及全国，及國際的成就 (Youth Leadership;
Toastmasters, Gavel Club). （新世界雙語學院精英國際領袖夏令營 8 年级的学生
全部被TJ录取）。
地点在喬治梅森大學 ( GMU) West Building 作為NWBI 全日令營培訓地点陳校長以二
十多年主流教育經驗,。特別為學生設計的主流能培育的中外青少年領袖文教育樂夏令
營，特地聘請M... 阅读全帖 |
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s*******w
发帖数: 210 | 20 能者多劳没错。其实好的etiquette也都是在别人的影响下建立的，所以还是希望大家
多在正面来影响别人。打球的中国人不多，大家在球场上所树立的除了自我以外，还有
一个种族的形象。韩国球友总体的口碑就不够好，我想也未必是每个人都没有
etiquette，但是有一些人破坏了整体的名誉。
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u******a
发帖数: 7843 | 22 Preview的本质是广告吧, 不是观众花钱买的服务. imax电影之前就没有preview.
另外, 有没有打扰别人根本不是theatre etiquette的标准, 看正片的时候吃爆米花也
会打扰人家, 但是大多数人都可以忍住. etiquette是约定俗成的, 观众只要不越线就
行了, 你求婚, prank啥的都没问题. 我认为大多数人觉得玩手机不越线. |
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l**********t
发帖数: 5754 | 23 good point.
Since it is hard to codify/legalize net etiquette in detailed rules with
only negative enforcements, 板主 probably shall try positve enforcements
such as rewarding those nonbelieverID with proper net etiquettes ---
frequent IDs (excluding fake/dup IDs) can vote for a Model ID of the week (
or month / year) competition to elect the model nonbeliever ID - -the
winner will be rewarded with MITBBS$. |
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H******e
发帖数: 4682 | 24 From etiquette's point of view, for a few times, it is OK for the IT male do
not ask for sharing; for long termly, it is fine to politely mention
sharing to the student. For the student, it is best to mention sharing while
it is the 1st time or 2nd time.
If the student is in financial difficulty, that is another issue.
----I got this point of view from an English book <>, which is
popular in USA, author is Emily Post. |
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H******e
发帖数: 4682 | 25 Spend so much time on food/etiquette details, still, 聊天，联络感情是重头戏
。。。
Curious, what kind people can be invited to your home party...
I concern those etiquette/manner issues very much, however, myself having
the comfortable life, that is very important too.... Think that you and I
are from different background, different age... hehe, I think you consider
how other people think about you very much, I think you were born
earlier than 1968.... :)
//run! |
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H******e
发帖数: 4682 | 26 What kind people will pay attention to those etiquette/manner issues? People
care about their public images?
For me, I concern the etiquette/manner issue just because I want to be a
decent person, I do not want to bring trouble/inconvenience to others, I
really do not care what others think about me.... |
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n******7
发帖数: 12463 | 27 谢谢建议
今天看了一个比较scala和clojure的blog也说这个community的问题
The Community
Ok, so Scala gets a 3.5 star rating. I deducted 1 star from Scala because
Martin Odensky doesn’t attend it. I asked how people got in touch with him
and I got comments like “He contacted me on Skype once”, “He uses white
rats as messengers” etc. He’s not involved and interacting with the
community in the same way Rich Hickey (author of Clojure) is and that really
makes all the difference. The last 0.5 star I deducted was because I
act... 阅读全帖 |
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c***s
发帖数: 70028 | 29 罗伯茨紧盯人们的恶行。
4号台新一期《世人的恶行》节目将焦点对准中国城的挤车族。（Kron4新闻截图）
超速驾驶、随地丢垃圾、违规横穿马路……，别以为这些举动都没人看见，可能第二天您就会出现在电视台的报道中。湾区四频道Kron 4 的新闻报道专题《世人的恶行》（People Behaving Badly）这次将焦点对准了旧金山中国城的“挤车族”。
不礼让挤车 无视弱势群体
新一期《世人的恶行》关注的是《公车乘车礼仪》（Bus Boarding Etiquette）。新闻从旧金山市繁华的市场街8X公车进站开始，车门一开，一位带着红色围巾的非裔乘客已经堵在车门口的正中央，堵住了下车乘客的路，不等别人下完，这位身手“矫健”的女乘客已经跨步上车。一位拄着拐杖行动不便的亚裔（疑似华裔）年长女性吃力地下车，门口一班等待上车的人不但堵住去路，而且完全熟视无睹，没有任何人上前帮忙……
镜头转向中国城的士德顿街，8X公车进站，一班华裔等车乘客一拥而上，将车门围个水泄不通，其中两人在车上乘客下车的同时就往上挤。另外一辆车到站，车门一开，一位准备上车的女性乘客弯腰捡东西（疑似票根），挡住了下车乘客的去路。车 |
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s***5
发帖数: 453 | 30 America's most-published etiquette expert, Marjabelle Young Stewart,
recognized Charleston 1995 as the "best-mannered" city in the U.S
但是路边的垃圾，烟头到处都有，学生随手扔垃圾，开车的随手往窗外扔烟头，实在不
敢恭维 |
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W*****e
发帖数: 7759 | 31 据说尤太人开始逃离马尔默...
"We have had a large number of people getting in touch, with a number of
demands for how one should behave. It is a question of etiquette and was
worthy of addressing," Ulrika Mebius at local transport operator Skå
netrafiken, told The Local on Friday.
The transport operator used its regular sponsored article feature in the
local edition of the Metro newspaper to detail the problem and call for
change to improve the comfort and well-being of commuters in the city's
transpor... 阅读全帖 |
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m**********n
发帖数: 27535 | 32 http://www.cnngo.com/explorations/life/worlds-best-tourists-026
8. Chinese
Identifying travel feature: Independent travel is still a rarity for Chinese
vacationers. Most tour in organized groups, being bellowed at by a guide
with a megaphone standing less than a meter away.
Commendable habits: Ready, willing and very able to eat anything you put in
front of them … and appreciate it like a local.
Oh, yes, and money. While tourism is suffering in the global economic
downturn, the Chinese are still... 阅读全帖 |
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G*****7
发帖数: 1759 | 33 i m from Jinan, the biggest "rural village" in Shandong.
i can't speak for the 80s or before. but as far as i can recall, there has
never been such social protocol/etiquette as "men are at the table while
women have to stay in the kitchen."
small to medium scale dinners, for family or business purposes, are usually
hold at a large round table, with male/female guests mix-seated. the seating
order is determined solely by seniority. for instance, my grandma-in-law (
MOTHER of my MOTHER -in-law, th... 阅读全帖 |
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I*a
发帖数: 297 | 34 Etiquette emerges after the fullness of the granary |
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s*********8
发帖数: 901 | 35 A Michigan man whose son died in Iraq has burned the state flag of New
Jersey after New Jersey flew its flags at half-staff in memory of Whitney
Houston last week.
"They're watering down the term of what a true hero is these days," John
Burri told ABC News. "I thought it was offensive to every family's fallen
solider out there, and it cheapens the meaning of lowering the flag."
The 60-year-old's decision to torch the New Jersey flag on his Wyoming, Mich
., patio grill came after New Jersey Gov. ... 阅读全帖 |
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d*b
发帖数: 21830 | 36 那老头跟猴妈一样，都属于吃没吃相的货，不知道上桌吃饭也有 etiquette, 以为上桌
吃饭，用手捞和用筷夹是一会事。
所以中国的基本问题是教养问题，在美国毛轮要游行的话，你汪主席的战友进去骂街，
更大的可能是被条子送进宫 |
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P*******s
发帖数: 254 | 37 The following is provided as a strict set of guidelines which must be
adhered to for all males to ensure they follow the correct procedure when
using public toilets.
There is an etiquette which, until now, has been an unwritten rule that most
men follow, although some seem determined to breach.
Females may read on out of curiosity, although the procedures do not apply
to women's restrooms for they are an alien place with tiny, confusing bins
and queues which baffle even the greatest male scienti... 阅读全帖 |
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b*****l
发帖数: 230 | 38 Please spend some time reading basics of genetics. Most inheritable traits
among Chinese are carried by Chinese men. So to protect Chinese culture and
genes, we have to belittle people like Wendy Deng. Here note that I am not
against intermarriage, but just that no women in the world like Chinese (as
well as Japanese and South Eastern Asian) women who are so shameless to
marry out. Not so among Asian Indians. Yes, people have their choices, but
when your choices affect others, then you have to a... 阅读全帖 |
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C*********l
发帖数: 10248 | 39 【 以下文字转载自 Joke 讨论区 】
发信人: YeYuJiuBuWen (夜雨久不聞), 信区: Joke
标 题: 沒人準備應大紀元之聘麼？－－The Epoch Times Recruitment (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Jul 8 21:35:52 2013, 美东)
发信人: iceeyes (龙眼笑), 信区: JobMarket
标 题: The Epoch Times Recruitment
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Jul 8 21:31:30 2013, 美东)
The Epoch Times Recruitment
With the development of business, we need a large number of elites with
freedom of thought, to promote the freedom of Chinese press, Positions and
requirements are as follows:
1. Website Maintenance 15... 阅读全帖 |
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l1
发帖数: 46 | 41 China tries in vain to keep bellies buttoned up
Beijing has been on a manners kick for the last few years, but on the
hottest summer days, there is no stopping men of all ages and shapes from
rolling up their shirts and exposing their tummies.
Reporting from Beijing — In the sweltering heat of summer, when the
refreshing breezes desert the city, Hu Lianqun absent-mindedly reaches for a
solution: He rolls up his shirt to expose his belly, often fanning himself
with the garment to create his own a... 阅读全帖 |
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w********g
发帖数: 3780 | 42 The earliest example of fork as utensils is from ancient China. Bone forks
were found at a burial site of Qijia culture (2400-1900 BC). They were also
found in Shang Dynasty (1600-1050 BC) burial sites as well as subsequent
dynasties. Chopsticks were invented much later and replaced forks in China
as the main utensil where they were viewed to be more efficient.
First European Fork: The fork was already in use in the royal courts of the
Middle East by the 7th Century. It was a strong wooden stick... 阅读全帖 |
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b********n
发帖数: 38600 | 43 哈哈，第一条就责难老将： 是老将提供了假的信息。
Eamonn Fingleton, Contributor 1 day ago
A further reply to Luddy Harrison:
1. If you dig a little, you will find that in substantial measure the
predictions of China’s collapse are ultimately traceable to the Chinese
themselves, even if most English-speaking commentaries do not quote such
sources directly.
2. As for China’s “enormous need for face,” this might be a factor if
Chinese leaders respected the West. In reality they think of the West
generally and the English-s... 阅读全帖 |
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u*********r
发帖数: 7835 | 44 No. 1 Tokyo
Annual Ridership: 3.1 billion
Shinjuku holds the Guinness World Records title for busiest single station,
with 3.64 million daily passengers streaming in and out of 200 exits. 揘earl
y 10 different lines use Shinjuku station,says Yuki Tanaka, a representati
ve of the Japan National Tourism Organization. 揑t抯 the most complicated tr
ain station in Japan, or perhaps in the world.
No. 2 Seoul
Annual Ridership: 2.5 billion
You might be tempted to visit Seoul simply to hang out underground梘... 阅读全帖 |
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k*****9
发帖数: 516 | 45 “岂无山歌与村笛，呕哑嘲哳难为听。说的就是你们。
没教养就是没教养。咋没人学我笑话我说北京话?
喝汤可以发声，但甩开腮帮子不加掩饰，吃饭吧唧嘴在中国也是没教养”
Re
中国自古都是礼仪(etiquette )之邦. 吃饭不出声写在汉朝的书籍
《仪礼》里面。其他有关礼节的书还有《周礼》，《礼记》。
共产党上台把这些全部当成封建糟迫给批判掉了。LZ可以去看
老祖宗比西人可复杂多多了。共产党制造了一个很大的文化断层。
这个断层让我们対自己的文化历史认识不清，出国后在其他文化
面前很难做到不卑不亢。LZ有点太亢，倒贴的外F女们有太卑。 |
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o**********e
发帖数: 18403 | 47 【 以下文字转载自 ITRelief 俱乐部 】
发信人: onetiemyshoe (onetiemyshoe), 信区: ITRelief
标 题: 中印性格对照：职场防御烙印的方法 (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Nov 24 11:02:15 2014, 美东)
【 以下文字转载自 SanFrancisco 讨论区 】
发信人: onetiemyshoe (onetiemyshoe), 信区: SanFrancisco
标 题: 中印性格对照：职场防御烙印的方法 (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Nov 24 10:58:15 2014, 美东)
发信人: baysky (baysky), 信区: JobHunting
标 题: Re: 大家说说抵抗烙印我们可以做的
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Nov 23 22:10:26 2014, 美东)
转自文学X。作者“JINJIM”
0000 职场防守和印度文化解读
大家好，本人职场遭遇印度人，于是出此文和印度人的防范经验。
大学有三个印度同学，两个没毕业，一人刚考过。他们心态很... 阅读全帖 |
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a*******a
发帖数: 451 | 48 10)Do you know Chinese are so despised?
Chinese despised? Well, every society have their black sheep. We do have
diabolical Chinese individuals who are an absolute disgrace to the human
race. However do bear in mind that when the western led cabal infiltrated
the Ming and Ching dynasties, the world became a western polar control and
dominated propaganda platform. History is written to aggrandize the
victorious colonialists. Human rights were trampled, opium and gunboat
diplomacy won the day. Opi... 阅读全帖 |
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l*y
发帖数: 21010 | 49 【 以下文字转载自 WaterWorld 讨论区 】
发信人: Idy (没有烟抽的日子), 信区: WaterWorld
标 题: 为什么学工科的男生比较“猥琐”(zz)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Apr 1 00:54:03 2015, 美东)
为什么学工科的男生比较“猥琐”
http://www.douban.com/note/208041163/
羊肉烤包子 羊肉烤包子 2012-04-03 07:17:06
注：此为“性行为社会学为什么系列吐槽文”第二弹，第一炮吐槽了同性恋为什么传播
性病速率高（http://www.douban.com/note/206247477/），这次讲一讲为什么工科男特别猥琐。还是那句话：事实归事实，逻辑归逻辑，生气既认输。
首先，再次声明逻辑性的问题：社会学讲统计意义，是以边界较清晰的社会群体为分析
单位，而不是个人。因此我们说工科男猥琐，并不是说每个工科男猥琐（我会提到为什
么在一些女生看来工科男不仅不猥琐反而还很优秀），而是说在统计概率上，工科男性
作为一个独立的社会群体，比其他学科的男性要猥琐。尤其是如今，自称和被称为猥琐... 阅读全帖 |
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r**s
发帖数: 129 | 50 Let's be fair here. I have a gorgeous, adorable Taiwanese girlfriend that I
am willing to spend the rest of my life with. Not because she is Hello Kitty
, submissive, shallow, brain dead and a good fuck. Because she calls herself
a freak (a surprisingly foxy one) , standing out from that essentially
numbed crowd that I call most of Taiwan (excluding the "hen qi guay" lot),
in ways that make most other girls look like total idiots.
就這方面而言，我想講幾句實在話：我有一個台灣女朋友，看起來漂亮又大氣。我很願
意跟她共度下半輩子。我之所以如此，不是因為她對丈夫言... 阅读全帖 |
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