e*******g
发帖数: 18 | 1 警察是真孙子。鉴定完毕。
我要是多看哪个美女两眼，是不是potental sexual harrassment？！ |
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H*********S
发帖数: 22772 | 2 你没有签合同，你依然有权决定买不买，人家是不是换了压缩机跟你无关，最多只算进
一步谈判的筹码。说句玩笑话，你要他去fuxk himself，或者去死，他要真做了你还要
负责不成？
他擅自录音，首先不能作为证据，其次还涉嫌侵犯隐私。
另外，他如果还不断打电话给你，那是harrassment，你有权叫他停止骚扰，否则他犯
法。 |
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s*****c
发帖数: 753 | 3 You are indeed harrassing them. They bought the insurance. Just contact
the insurance company. If insurance company kicks you around, that is the
insurance company's fault and you have to fight with the insurance company.
Did she deny hitting your car to her insurance company? What do you expect
from her? pay you from her own pocket?
Imagine you are in her situation, what will you do? Pay the other party
from your pocket for insurance company? I don't think so. |
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p***n
发帖数: 1987 | 4 I decided to kick those birds' ass tomorrow if they keep harrassing me. |
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N****g
发帖数: 5172 | 5 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
romanholiday (Michael) 于 (Fri Apr 24 20:29:56 2009) 提到:
卖了几个小东西, 催了几次,死活不回, 也不给FB, 东西肯定没问题.
这咋办? 神医一般都怎么催?
多谢了
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tsio (百慕大倒三角) 于 (Fri Apr 24 20:31:03 2009) 提到:
从来不摧
催人家干啥啊？
而且我是买家一付钱就留positive feedback
省事
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unknowns (我怎么有这么多不知道的东西) 于 (Fri Apr 24 20:31:55 2009) 提到:
en. 可以骚扰一次。 不然说你harrass
表招惹它。。。。
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NiuEgg (NiuEgg) 于 (Fri Apr |
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n*********e
发帖数: 2289 | 6 大家鉴别鉴别
Hello, I found your advert on Craigslist and highly eager in buying and
would like to pay in cash.
I am at work at present, so I can't get in touch with you before I get home.
Nonetheless, I use a web site that can save information so you can leave
your cell phone number there.
Firstly i need to tell that I have met number of abnormal people from C-list
and been sexually harrassed and concern for my wellbeing.
So I only ask If you could verify that your safe to meet on this web site http:... 阅读全帖 |
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n*********e
发帖数: 2289 | 7 嗯，多谢
我看 sexually harrassed都出来就觉得诡异 |
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h*****n
发帖数: 924 | 8 I believe most faculty choose this profession for fun, rather than to make
a living, though having no statistics to show it.
Think in this way: if not for fun, why do people ever join the academia?
People live for money, sex, power, and fun. I cannot see the academia
providing the other three more than the private sector or govt (there are
exceptions...business school maybe, or being a mainland "jiao-shou"
who harrasses female students...)
AP's life is tough and sometimes needs "tricks" to survi |
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j****e
发帖数: 58 | 9 谢谢你的回帖
我联系了这个school的dean，我还找了一个美国律师发信给了他。结果dean就把这封信
交给学校的律师和dean of student （就是和我谈话的那个dean）然后得到律师的回信
，没有正面回答我律师的问题。我很失望。美国律师也不知道该怎么办。感觉这一块法
院是不管的。应为没有人违法，好像只是道德上的。律师说可能有点sex harrassment
（那个movie）和discrimination。但是没有很强硬的证据。所以学校根本不怕，而且
学校很有钱，可以请很多律师。
难道真的是绝望了？我感觉是学校就是官官相护，根本不愿意承认他们有任何错。不是
我模糊焦点，而是他们回避焦点。根本不理，完全ignore了。我不知道下面该怎么办：
继续找学校内部的上层领导还是直接找校外的有关机构报告？像我前面说的，学校很有
钱和势力。我不知道该找怎样的机构可以逼迫他们直接回答我的问题，给个说法。
有时候我在想，向我这样的情况可不可以联系中国大使馆的帮助。但是不是有点严重了
。也不是有关政治方面的问题。不知道他们会不会管理有关和学校和争执的事
或者学校有学生校报，可以把我的经历写在... 阅读全帖 |
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j****e
发帖数: 58 | 10 The conversion of dean of students between myself, in which he told me to
take an english course, is insulting. It also indicates he already knew
language barrier is my disadvantage and utilized it to against me.
Additional, the movie "wedding crashers" and professor's in-class analysis of this movie may contain sex harrassment.
That is all I can think so far. Not sure if these are strong and solid arguments though.
to
students,
though. |
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d***a
发帖数: 13752 | 11 You have to forget about those personal feelings when going to a court. It
only blurs the main focus of argument, i.e. failing obligations of advising
students thoroughly about non-standard practice and/or discrimination to international students.
of this movie may contain sex harrassment.
arguments though. |
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j****e
发帖数: 58 | 12 My lawyer is not expert in Education Law but he told me he has dealt with
this univerisity with some issue before. He wrote a letter to them to
request the school answer 4 points:
1) What are the procedures they take to invesitage this issue?
2) How do they think the statement the dean told me about "taking an English
course as the step of moving on" comports their anti-discrimination
policies?
3) The manner in which they communicates writing rules and principles, the
concept of plagiarism and i... 阅读全帖 |
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M*****n
发帖数: 16729 | 14 就是一个小弟弟悲剧以后猛追同组的小妹妹，打电话骚扰小妹妹。
屁大一点事儿。
不过老板也有责任，把小弟弟和小妹妹安排在一个office了。
如果细水长流，久久生情也不是没有可能的。
但是小弟弟被pheromone和testosterone刺激以后，不能控制自己的行为，急了点儿。
其实可以让peoplem来研究一下这个。 |
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a********u
发帖数: 1277 | 15 How to handle this issue then? |
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T******s
发帖数: 372 | 16 的确如此.这个老流氓如果还坚持的话就cross the line了.我刚才建议你给他写email
也是为了留个record，方便你以后Build a case（万一他今后进一步Harrass你的话）
．而且书面的交涉因为更FORMAL,所以对他更有威慑力．不过呢,要say "NO" nicely,呵
呵． |
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s*****c
发帖数: 753 | 17 这显然是harassing. 如果这个maillist是for faculty only， 那就是针对Chinese
faculty （including you）的harrassment。 不然就是针对chinese student and
faculty。
这些news 和系里的事情有一毛钱关系吗？他们转的时候有解释为什么吗? 你们的
maillist会有其他和系里不相关的news吗。
Look at another scenario， 如果有人专门转一些黑人犯罪的新闻，你们学校会怎么
做。
你们学校有关于“hostile working environment” 的training吗？建议你问一下你们
学校的HR。
or read the following PPT:
http://blogs.cornell.edu/flxsbnstaff/files/2014/10/CCECombinedC |
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G***G
发帖数: 16778 | 18 He shaoqiang made a big mistake during his master.
After the school withdrew his fellowship because of the sexual harrassment,
he could have three methods:
1) fighting with school and requiring the recover of his fellowship
2) fighting with court, and waiting for the recover of his fellowship
3) fighting with court, and transferring to another school.
1 is very risky, 2 and 3 are relatively easy.
but unfortually, he chose option 1, which caused his following tragedies.
No matter whether he had d |
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G***G
发帖数: 16778 | 19 don't treat people that meanly.
they just wanted to try to live in the u.s.
if you read carefully, you can find they had no much experience in the u.s.
at that time sexual harrassment happened (later sexual violation).
They are just not that good as you expected, but they are far from 'bad'. |
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d*********n
发帖数: 818 | 20 【 以下文字转载自 Beijing 讨论区 】
发信人: dollyparton (slap the japs, beat the shits.), 信区: Beijing
标 题: Re: 美国年轻人也太那啥了~~
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Jul 29 13:09:24 2010, 美东)
You should be shamed. It is because of the Asian women's slutty and cheap
fame in this society. This dude was looking for free sex.
When you feel "当时我就震惊了！", it shows you have a subtle sense of waif
mentality: i.e. easily flattered by a white dude's rude close-to-sex-
harrassment invitation.
A good reply should be: "Fuck off! I am married". O |
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y********e
发帖数: 8315 | 21 反正不要怕就是了！
你就说Let's settle this issue through the court if you don't want
to negotiate with my insurance company and keep harrassing me |
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l****i
发帖数: 4609 | 22 Sexual harrassment
Sexual abuse
Sexual assult
问了一个朋友，给出的含义不同，刚才google 了一下，还是不一样。
跟我无关啊，我只是要准确的表达一种意思。 |
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i**y
发帖数: 829 | 23 Sexual harrassment 性骚扰
Sexual abuse 性虐待
Sexual assult 性侵害 |
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G***G
发帖数: 16778 | 24 did you encounter sexual harrassment?
有大的party，在一起跳跳舞。回头拿钱买买自己喜欢的东西--包，车，等等。 |
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h*******i
发帖数: 275 | 25 在military 版发了，觉的有些不妥，到family 版上再发一下。
下面是Hyphen Magazine记者Helen Hwang 的邮件, ，她目前正在写一篇以亚裔孩子被
bully 为题的文章，如果有这样的小孩愿意受采访的话，请跟她联系。非常谢谢关注。
STORY PITCH
I’m writing a story about the bullying of Asian-American adolescents In
Philadelphia, Asian American students were regularly targeted with violence
and harrassment in one particular high school. On one day, 26 Asian American
students were sent to the emergency room from being victims of various
assaults throughout the day. To demonstrate that bullying of... 阅读全帖 |
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D********r
发帖数: 522 | 26 Why didn't you call police or the security at your apartment when he knocks
your door at night?
Just say you are harrassed by people knocking at your door at night. |
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p**h
发帖数: 179 | 27 有的时候看看她也很可怜，和子女各种不和谐，只有lg一个人能忍她，如果分开的话她
就要一个人住。
可是如果在一起，她真能让人depress，不知道是我太敏感还是什么，when she is
around, I feel the air isn't pleasant，因为你不知道她什么时候会harrass你一下
。也不是什么大不了的事情，就是她看什么都不顺眼，会来叨你。
已经选择了不怎么理睬她，看着lg很为难的样子，想就那么忍下去。因为一说要分开住
，她就到处打电话哭诉，弄的lg很不是人。不知道该怎么做。。。 |
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s********e
发帖数: 893 | 28 我的一个朋友，因工作关系到外州工作去了，在我们这有个出租的condo。头三个月时
，房客还基本能按时交房租，从6月份开始到现在半年多了，再也不付房租了。我这个
朋友打电话给她从来不接，邮件从来不回。因为这个人以前给过她老爸的联系电话，好
不容易我这个朋友联系到了她老爸，她老爸说她有mental问题，现在在住院治疗。当时
这个人来找房时说了她是single mom，有个14岁的孩子和她一起住。第二个孩子09年出
生几个月就死了。我朋友和她老爸联系了多次，他们一直强调说因为这个人有mental问
题，你找警察，上法庭都没用。更甚的是，有一次这个女的半夜给我朋友发短信，说我
朋友老是给她打电话，harrass her要sue him。现在她的lease已经到期，我朋友都明
说了，你赶快搬走，以前的房租都不要了，结果这个人还在这赖着说要慢慢找其他房子
，找到就搬。我老早就建议我这朋友到court file eviction，由于他在外州，不知道
要不要本人到court，还是online file就行。我这朋友是他们领域内很有名的教授，科
研经费都几百万，半年了被这事搞的焦头烂额。他一直想避免请... 阅读全帖 |
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s***w
发帖数: 521 | 29 some conditions as those drug dealers. etc, and possible s harrassment,
or better conditions? |
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A***6
发帖数: 243 | 30 1 Get a male to go with you and stay outside the room.
2 Sexual harrassment is common problem for small companies, same in China
and USA. The difference is that in USA you have law on your side. You just
need to be prepared and do not give opportunity. But every girl should know
how to handle herself already in a "free" society, where dayrape is high
percentage.
3 Your best defence is be strong and be ready to leave at any time. If you
worry about the job, you may be taken advantage of
4 Some fo... 阅读全帖 |
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G******i
发帖数: 5226 | 31 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
Nefertiti (蹄蹄) 于 (Mon Dec 5 12:00:35 2011, 美东) 提到:
前两天投了个当地小公司,开车1.5小时远.
当时就闭着眼睛发了email,附了简历.
公司第一封回信没有称呼和落款,就问我的项目中有没有用过类似他们公司的产品.
其实我用的程度就相当于我做实验用了试管一样,我觉得完全没什么意义,但还是扯了点
儿,并且问了两个问题.
公司第二封回信照样没有称呼和落款,就说我什么时候方便的就过去,讨论一下我能做什
么,是否会雇我.
我是后来发现这公司就19个员工,而且是个以生产加工为主的,R&D好像不多.email地址
都是普通网站上那种,不是公司的,回信也比较随便.
我是女生,有点儿心里没底.第一个可能的on-site,想好歹积累点儿面试经验,又有点儿
胆小.
还是我多虑了呢?
谢谢大家.
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J********h
发帖数: 93 | 33 因为读来特别气愤，中国人不能再这样被欺负下去，被烙印从IT界逼出。
原帖链接：http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/JobHunting/33177555.html
骚扰事实：
“比如他走过来说，哎，昨天我和其他同事去喝酒，没叫上你，想要补偿你，我带你去吧
，我义正言辞地说如果有其他人在，同事活动，我可以去，但是如果只有你，我不会去
的，我一点笑容没有，只是语气比较平和。那次他灰溜溜地走了。
另外一次，他刚来时，他走过来说，他知道一家意大利饭馆，想增进同事友谊，让我和
他单独去吃。我说不行我有事儿，他说哎呀去吧去吧，围攻了我可能十分钟，我皱着眉
头说真的不行。然后趁他被别人叫走，我赶快收拾东西逃跑了。
我在那次爆发前对那个小印向来没有好脸色的，刚来时他让我带他和其他白人华人同事
一起吃午饭，因为我们经常一块吃午饭，但是他没话说融不入，因为他刚来时就flirt
了我，所以我一直是礼貌保持距离的，但是因为我一直是有礼貌，所以他以为还有机会
？？？或者还是怎样？？不知道。因为我还是很怕把关系弄太僵。没想到后来爆发了，
他还去和manager告状？？manager也不... 阅读全帖 |
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h******k
发帖数: 810 | 34 国内有当医生的亲戚朋友吗？让他们帮忙找个心理医生先电话咨询一下。
公司员工手册关于workplace harrassment的条目好好研究下，按条目收集证据。
病假带薪假没用完的赶快用，专心在家刷题找工作，这种事情开始了就没有回头路。
最后，保持平和心态，不过最后结果如何，不要真把自己气病了。 |
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c****p
发帖数: 6474 | 35 I guess the first one won't harrass you any more once he sees you... |
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b**********5
发帖数: 7881 | 37 很老很丑的女人， 根本就不用担心 sexual harassment。。。
老实说， 真正漂亮的女人， 也不会一天到晚喊sexual harrassment。。。 因为人家
从小就被harass， harass惯了， 什么flattery都不会认为是harassment
最可怕的就是那种 普通姿色的liberal， feminist 的女人。。。 一句话不和她意，
马上和你harassment |
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c********1
发帖数: 5269 | 38 #1 先改进一项
email同事,说要约code review
cc:manager
#2也可反harrass manager
一开会,就说一堆
然后,email manager记录你所说的
再问他,你有什么东西missing
你应该还说什么
如果他经常要读你的email
建议你该说什么,也是要费不少力气
几次之后,就泄气
在email中,看能否找到manager破绽
一找到,就咬着不过,
反击说manager [create hostile working environment]
说你被bullied
如果他来虚的
就装傻,让manager 多麻烦
当然,自己要准备好, 不怕没了工作 |
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b**********5
发帖数: 7881 | 39 google 这个公司的权力现在很大。。 民主党现在基本就是被google这些人控制着。
像什么利用SJW 去捣乱uber， 搞sexual harrassment， 这里把戏， 是左派最常见的
伎俩。。
就像搞fox news一样， bill orielly， 和fox news的那以前的ceo一样， 都是搞这种
虚有的“sexual”指控.
现在的 “sexual harassment”， 已经被左派搞成了一种 “political weapon” |
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l*********o
发帖数: 736 | 40 "get drunk together" 这个是典型的harrassment |
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g*******2
发帖数: 8 | 41 Do NOT work for consulting companies!!! They're all liers and crooks!!
Search for "desi consulting", you'll see 1000+ of people got screwed by
those blood sucking leeches.
They'll force you to sign a contract later, basically signing your life away
serf. If you want to leave, they'll harrass you, suit you for a huge amount
of money, and/or try to screw your visa etc. They are bad people who do
nasty things. Especially be careful about consulting companies in NJ area. |
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g*******2
发帖数: 8 | 42 Do NOT work for consulting companies!!! They're all liers and crooks!!
Search for "desi consulting", you'll see 1000+ of people got screwed by
those blood sucking leeches.
They'll force you to sign a contract later, basically signing your life away
serf. If you want to leave, they'll harrass you, suit you for a huge amount
of money, and/or try to screw your visa etc. They are bad people who do
nasty things. Especially be careful about consulting companies in NJ area. |
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w*******g
发帖数: 9932 | 43 saw a movie once, which is about a couple terrorized by a neighbor who
happens
to be a cop.
It gives me the impression that cop has too much power and if the cop wants
to
harrass you, there is little protection you can get.
So I would definite not want to have this kind of neighbor. |
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v****e
发帖数: 19471 | 44 fixture, unless otherwise agreed in contract. should be all yours. don't be
so nice. tell the previous owner to stop harrassing or you'll call the polic
e. |
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u********w
发帖数: 599 | 45 别怕！你让那个邻居有本事去告打官司。从法律上来讲你这个case属于negligence。你
如果take reasonable care 去防止漏水这个事故，没你的事。换句话说，如果水管的
问题根本不能发现，或以前没出过这种事故，你没有liability。reasonableness是关
键。
从这件事上可见老中当中不分青红皂白没有common sense的人可真多啊。
如果你邻居真的三番五次太过分来麻烦你，那才是criminal harrassment你可以报警。 |
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s********e
发帖数: 893 | 46 我的一个朋友，因工作关系到外州工作去了，在我们这有个出租的condo。头三个月时
，房客还基本能按时交房租，从6月份开始到现在半年多了，再也不付房租了。我这个
朋友打电话给她从来不接，邮件从来不回。因为这个人以前给过她老爸的联系电话，好
不容易我这个朋友联系到了她老爸，她老爸说她有mental问题，现在在住院治疗。当时
这个人来找房时说了她是single mom，有个14岁的孩子和她一起住。第二个孩子09年出
生几个月就死了。我朋友和她老爸联系了多次，他们一直强调说因为这个人有mental问
题，你找警察，上法庭都没用。更甚的是，有一次这个女的半夜给我朋友发短信，说我
朋友老是给她打电话，harrass her要sue him。现在她的lease已经到期，我朋友都明
说了，你赶快搬走，以前的房租都不要了，结果这个人还在这赖着说要慢慢找其他房子
，找到就搬。我老早就建议我这朋友到court file eviction，由于他在外州，不知道
要不要本人到court，还是online file就行。我这朋友是他们领域内很有名的教授，科
研经费都几百万，半年了被这事搞的焦头烂额。他一直想避免请... 阅读全帖 |
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j***k
发帖数: 2719 | 47 Don't think you know it all. People here are friendly. You need to start
beliving in them.
But if you must know the exact tax code, please refer to IRS Publication 519
for the definition of resident alien and non-resident alien, and the
details on your tax status.
in summary:
If you are a resident alien, you must follow the same tax laws as U.S.
citizens. You are taxed on income from all sources, both within and outside
the United States. You will file Form 1040EZ (PDF), Form 1040A (PDF), or
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p****l
发帖数: 3483 | 48 最重要一点是不要让你那邻居的计谋得逞,不要让此过于影响你的心情
至于报警之类,ignore之,反正这也坏不了你什么事
可以去小区meeting,说在查此人是谁,严重影响你的生活和心情,是harrassment,骚扰,
正在收集证据控告此人要求赔偿10K刀等....借此恐吓此人 |
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b******4
发帖数: 70 | 49 之前带我们看过房子 后来我们不要他了
不过还在他的auto mail list里
今日收到其一封邮件 推荐了一些新建房给我们 并说
if you visit a sales center (here or in another new community), the builder
's agent will ask you to "register". Their form will ask if you have an
agent -- if you would write my name that would be great -- it doesn't create
an obligation on you -- it just means that the builder's agent will contact
me for any feedback rather than harrassing you.
这样写他名字的话 岂不是我们买了新房 他就会拿到commission了。。。怎么会像他说
的no obligation呢？ |
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u*********e
发帖数: 9616 | 50 lilykang被人肉也不要紧，人家又没什么见不得人的。倒是这些烂人，怎么没人给人肉
一下呢，好让身边的人提高警惕，别看着人模狗样的。
我觉得这个绝对可以报警了，构成harrassment. |
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