G***G
发帖数: 16778 | 1 I just wanted to know what happened to my neighbor.
He alcoholed/drugged?
domestical harrassment?
got robbered yesterday night?
got murdered yesterday night? |
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j****i
发帖数: 68152 | 2 骚扰日志
1 。
2014年8月21日晚上，在下午11点12分
我的朋友在街道的一边站在15秒， LXXXXXX
出来后她的房子和批评我的朋友停车场那里订购了我
朋友提出他的车。我的朋友没有停他的车在那里，但待机
仅不包括发动机关闭15秒。我的朋友被LXXXX的震撼
不合理的行为。
2. 2014年8月23日下午下午2:45
当我刚到我家在XXXX ， LXXXXXX走近我用很
harrassing字“什么是你的人做你的房子？你不是
应该做的周末任何装修工作。你有没有建筑许可证？
我要报告给建设部门。 “我告诉她，我
工人正在安装硬木地板，不需要建设
允许。然后LXXXX拉着我的84哟父亲的照片，没有任何
权限不明目的。我的父亲感到震惊和害怕。我的父亲
“情感是LXXXX的行为非常损坏。我打电话给911本
不合理的行为。
3. 2014年9月23日上午11点左右
我的父母在我们后院的土地上做的院子里的工作。 LXXXX
叫警察来骚扰我的父母。警察的人来了。我的父母
通过她的行为损害情绪感到受到威胁，骚扰和
horrified.Of原因，我拨打了911报警，第... 阅读全帖 |
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y**i
发帖数: 1050 | 3 打算买房，请问如何查询在哪里查询房子的历史情况以及周边的治安情况
比如有无FLOOD，附近有无SEX HARRASSEMENT,房子的税多少
谢谢
看中一个铁路沿线的，不知道美国人对于铁路沿线是不是很在意，我是在房子的价格明
显比市场低，会不会是铁路沿线的问题，还是有其他问题。不知道铁路沿线的房子是否
好卖
谢谢 |
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l*********e
发帖数: 5385 | 5 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
wishhope (aaabbb) 于 (Fri Mar 1 22:04:24 2013, 美东) 提到:
最近发现，做个全职妈妈也不是一件容易的事情。
首先，别人会认为你不上班，挺轻松的，让人觉得你应该把家里所有的事情都做了，没
有收入了，可能还得受各个方面的气。
然后，自己上了不管是什么学位，似乎几年之内也用不上了，同学朋友什么的都不好意
思联系了。尤其是，国内一般都是双职工，美国这边的中国人也不少。父母亲戚对自己
的评价也一下子不一样了，大意是可能没啥出息了。
再次，交际圈很难建立起来了，因为没有同事了，如果在中国，还有亲戚和同学，在美
国这边，基本就没有了，随着老公的工作换生活的城市，所以，自己一下子没有任何人
脉，对外面的世界也就不知道了。
最后，就是长时间不上班，如何能保持一个快乐自信的心态呢？感觉自己整天会瞎琢磨
，精神状态也不太好啊。
请问，全职妈妈的好心态怎么训练出来的？如果在这种情况下，处理好各个人际关系以
及夫妻关系，和保持快乐自信的状态呢？现在很佩服在家一下子生好几个娃的... 阅读全帖 |
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k***a
发帖数: 271 | 6 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
haidianlu (永远处于冲刺阶段) 于 (Tue May 31 22:52:05 2005) 提到:
my wife was harrassed by a white women today. The women said "why are you
chinese being here? you steal our job. my grandson lost his job! You Chinese,
Go Home!!!". She followed my wife and yelled aloud and lots of people wondered
what happened.
My wife told me on MSN. I asked her to call police when I searched for the
women. I believe I would hit her by car if I really found her.
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 7 Wrong conclusion.
And if I put you initial post and this comment togother, you are implying
that some parents here are either sexually harrassing their children or pushy
parents . . .
Plus what if a daughter's father are too unmanly? |
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S**********b
发帖数: 3142 | 8 难道不是你自己先不对么？
教育别人小孩？那差不多是harrassment？
have
，“Take |
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d**********r
发帖数: 24123 | 9 他说你Harrass 你说他 Racial Discrimination阿。看看谁政治正确。 |
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b****e
发帖数: 1275 | 10 how do you guys keep books? i have a small home-busienss
and was just told by my accountant that i should really
keep good books to avoid being harrassed by IRS. wondering
if there's anyone else here who can share experiences with
me.
lots of chores to do when doing business.. things i never
thought about when i started. sigh.. |
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b******t
发帖数: 1271 | 11 2006年4月，佟接受了25万元年薪的邀约，加盟「SAC Captial」，其主管江平对他说，
要成为一名成功的交易员，必须改掉其暴躁的男性个性，更加心平气和，才能坦然面对
这个市场。江平建议佟服用女性荷尔蒙，称他也是采用同样方式在职场取得成功。
江平曾被「交易员月刊」（Trader Monthly）杂志评为华尔街最高交易量前百名的交易
员。
在佟的诉状中，他指控江平对其进行性骚扰（Sexual Harrassment），包括指导他服用
女性荷尔蒙，教他从黑市购买这些药物，这种做法让他从生理和心理上承受著巨大压力
，他开始穿著女性服装，不能与妻子进行正常的性生活。此外，他与江平之间还有性关
系的存在。
在CNBC的追访中，佟的律师拒绝评论案件，「SAC Captial」及江平则否认了所有的控
罪，他们在声明中表示，SAC对案件做了深入的调查，发现这些指控无中生有，「我们
会尽力辩护，也有信心让法院撤销控诉」。
: 投行很多人都是变态
: 著名事件是拿马克笔捅屁眼的
: 还逼着吃女性荷尔蒙
: 可能女性性格适合投机
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G*******h
发帖数: 836 | 12 Nope. Unless if these hiring managers agree and company policy allow
disclosure. One danger is that once contacts are disclosed, they will be
passed along to many other people in the future. Imagine you be the HM and
keep getting annoying phone calls from vendors. Some people consider that as
harrassment. |
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m*****e
发帖数: 4193 | 13 please read the sexual harrassment act again. |
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U*******B
发帖数: 2547 | 14 why do you want to remove somebody> ? he/she is harrassing you? |
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M*****2
发帖数: 1093 | 15 还婉拒啊？直接说LEAVE ME ALONE， OR I“LL HAVE TO REPORT TO HR FOR
HARRASSEMENT，最好找有证人在的时候。 |
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h****g
发帖数: 37 | 16 Go through your company's policy and do the right thing right now. Most
companies have formal annual harrassment training for managers and employees
since it is required by law. It you were in our company, you can do one of
the two things:
1. Report to HR directly.
2. Talk to your manager and then it becomes his/her responbility to report
to HR or talk with your officemate.
Both HR and your manager are required to handle this case immediately in a
professional manner. They are well trained to d |
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f*****g
发帖数: 15860 | 17 you need to get a formal waiver/forgiveness letter from 管房处 ASAP,
otherwise the collection company will keep harrassing you, and eventually,
it will hurt your credit badly.
don't ask somebody to "forward" your emails to his boss, you need to talk to
his boss directly. those little guys have no authority to waive such a big
ammount for you, and you're relying on such a middle man too much. |
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x****f
发帖数: 15 | 18 你老婆态度不明.我一个熟人,也是有LG,另一个部门的WSN打电话时,有时会说暧昧的话.后来女的就直接开玩笑说,"你知不知道我可以说你harrassment',对方后来马上收敛了.
老中WSN都胆小怕事的,你LP随便吓他不就完了.关键你LP态度不清啊. |
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b**********s
发帖数: 9531 | 19 we recently has training in company. as matter of fact, if someone keeps
talking work-unrelated issue that annoyes other employee, the behavior
itself is harrassment. consult a legal advisor before report this to hr. if
your company is a large company, you simply report to hr, just say this old
guy's behavior annoys you and bothers you for work, the hr should take some
action. |
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l*****t
发帖数: 2019 | 20 我奇怪的是，你们人事部还管performance base的开人。这是都是老板管的。HR那哪一
个不是多一事不如少一事，什么都是风险。
难道黑客有什么类似harrassment的案底，还是你大老板的peer脑到HR里，HR必须要解
决么？ |
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l*****t
发帖数: 2019 | 21 You have two good reasons to decline now. Go for it.
Harrassment in a Big company can happen. My previous direct report was a
victim of harassment her previous company which was a big and well known
company. Before her joining my previous team, her career was almost
completely destroyed. One more thing the bigger the company, the harder to
fight on harassment case. They just know how to deal with it.
了？ |
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c*****a
发帖数: 845 | 22 建议你老板和他们都参加一下harrassment training,这种制造不友好工作气氛的行为
就属于harrassmen的一种，可以收集证据，向有关政府或者社会机构匿名举报。 |
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o*********a
发帖数: 168 | 23 Yes, bullying is an inevitable part at work. Sometimes the best way to deal
with it is to ignore. The more emotions you invest in, the more you get hurt
. Of course, it doesn't mean that you should be totally submissive. Pick
some time when the guy is in good mood and have a discussion with him in the
conference room. Be open about what you are not comfortable with. In most
big companies, managers are supposed to go through the harrassment training
as a standard practice. If an employee explicit... 阅读全帖 |
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b***e
发帖数: 49 | 25 我也是类似情况。我觉得越级酱紫有 hijack /manipulation performance review.我
的跟可气vp直接找我review。都没告诉我老板。我准备就这件事还有其他一些一起file
vp harrassment.
INTERVIEW |
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b***e
发帖数: 49 | 26 我也是类似情况。我觉得越级酱紫有 hijack /manipulation performance review.我
的跟可气vp直接找我review。都没告诉我老板。我准备就这件事还有其他一些一起file
vp harrassment.
INTERVIEW |
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w***t
发帖数: 142 | 27 因为一时忍不住气，骂了人，骂得狠点，被公司调查中，估计结果不会太好。这种情况
是等公司宣布开掉，还是自己主动辞职？主动辞职的话，是不是公司调查就中止，然后
不会有相关record？
急求回复，非常感谢！ |
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w***t
发帖数: 142 | 29 谢谢，现在主要想辞职会不会就不会有record，下个公司做背景调查会不会查到
昨天研究了很久，各种说法都有，现在还不知道怎么办 |
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w***t
发帖数: 142 | 31 是在找工作啊，但是问题是自己先辞职吗，还是等他通知处理结果 |
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G****y
发帖数: 3537 | 32 No, there is no evidence yet. What you gonna say in a lawyer letter? We
suspect you gonna do blah..blah.. which seems "discrimination" ......
O can sue you for harrassment if he gets this kind of lawyer letter. |
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l****r
发帖数: 85 | 33 I think we should stop harrassing Mr. O until May Visa release.
Based on some comments from different groups, we assume that we will be
treated differently than India.
It is just like somebody told you that your indian peer will get a promotion
, and you rush to your boss again and again, and ask him why and want to get
the same promotion as well.
Can we just wait until we see the truth and take next actions??
If I am Mr. O, I will be pissed.
Just my thoughts. |
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p*********i
发帖数: 188 | 34 是非俺不知道， 不过有个律师(看上去也不是one-man-show那种)愿意锲而不舍地免费(暂
时?)打这个官司甚至丢(?unconfirmed)了工作，好像这老哥也不是曹长青说的那样整个一
人渣。
sex harrassment那个案子法律上贺是清白的。 |
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p*********i
发帖数: 188 | 35
个
==> 呵呵， 律师虽然名声不好(现在好像比会计师好些)， 不过大都不会太盲目
=> 抚养权的案子的是非俺不知道。 sex harrassment的案子在结案前贺在法律上都是清
白的， 有问题么? 而且sex 案中好像是贺拒绝了任何有罪/过错的deal， 坚持trial的 |
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a**y
发帖数: 6501 | 36 Check your survey map to see if there's any utility easement on your
property.
It has several venues that you should address.
1) Check your title insurance policy: You got that when you bought the house
. Does it show an easement on the land. If not, then you can file a claim
with the insurance company for the value lost. ESPECIALLY If it was not
disclosed to you at the time of sale.
if there is no easement of record, demand the utility company provide you
proof of their right of access. This is... 阅读全帖 |
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v****e
发帖数: 19471 | 37 I'm talking about this particular post. I know how much laodaye harrassed yo
u and I've supported your actions agaisnt him all along. don't commingle the
se issues. use your brain. |
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c******n
发帖数: 5697 | 38 1. 首先在本版找几个稍微有点钱的，喜欢跟人吵架，特别喜欢骂人的ID， 把他们骂人
暴露隐私的帖子找出来
2. 找个不要钱的律师(contingency fee based),面相特别凶的，写的信也特别凶的那种
3. 让律师serve个subpoena给mitbbs的owner，把骂人的ID的IP address都搞来
的（mitbbs必须给）
4. subpoena IP address的ISP， 把ID的identity搞来
5. file civil lawsuit，罪名online harrassment和stalking，要求赔偿精神损失xx万
6. 让律师不停写信恐吓对方，直到对方同意赔偿为止 |
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z*********n
发帖数: 94654 | 39 告到HR， SEX HARRASSMENT肯定成立了 |
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l*********g
发帖数: 1154 | 40 完了,你有HARRASSMENT 的证据在老板那里了 |
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z*********n
发帖数: 94654 | 41 这种事，公司也不喜欢，一般喜欢汇报sex harrassment啦
告公司啦的人，名声一旦有了，公司都不大喜欢hire，怕麻烦
btw,jose还知道你的车是哪辆？ |
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C**********s
发帖数: 1282 | 42 I think in this case, the harrasser is from outside contracted cleaner and
that shouldn't have any negative image on her. |
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f********l
发帖数: 1473 | 43 赤果果的HARRASSMENT。
报告给HR了。 |
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z*********n
发帖数: 94654 | 44 搜集证据，告他sex harrassment lol |
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p**********u
发帖数: 15479 | 45 不就是人生漫漫路上再多舔一个鸡巴么。。。真是的。所以我说呀，成功如向明平均水
平的女人，都是各项实力出挑的。不论是读书，还是跟男人们混，还是自己的修养，向
明素质教育真心厉害。 |
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p**********u
发帖数: 15479 | 46 兄弟啊，人活着要有底线。先不说阿姨那种档次的人能不能硬起来。人家是来打工赚钱
的，不是来受harrassment的。我虽然因为命运，出身卑微，连个上海人都不是。但是
我毕竟是留美博士，普世观念强。尤其是对各阶层的女人都很尊重。当然了，对女神们
还是夜夜都做梦想上的。 |
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x*******i
发帖数: 24 | 47 这已经是cll的sexual harrassment了。他根本不敢跟白女同事这么做。你就省省吧。
worry. |
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m*******y
发帖数: 14292 | 48 guys, all i want to say is, do not DEPEND on 911 or cops. do you still call
911 when bad thing happens? Of course. but dont get carry away already.
sometimes it s helpful to learn a trick or two. and sometimes you have to
take things in your own hand.
am i saying all cops are bad and this country is fucked up? no. just my
experience share with you. dont have to get defensive.
what happend with the girl Yao last year？ it might just started from verbal
harrassment. things get elavated. all the tim... 阅读全帖 |
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m****s
发帖数: 7397 | 49 2 lou
you come drink, not harrassing 1 lou |
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b********r
发帖数: 7725 | 50 were you on the train that the female conductor threatened passengers to
step in, or she would contact her supervisor for door malfunction?
if so, we were on the same train.
it sucks but i got a very pretty white chick lean on me for the whole trip.
though crowded is no excuse for harrassment, good for her. |
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