S***e
发帖数: 4426 | 1 感情不给那是neglect abuse。
其它那些，父母过啥样儿生活，孩子就跟着过啥样儿生活呗。
难道父母省吃俭用给娃买玩具新衣服啊？ |
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d*******a
发帖数: 385 | 2 neglect abuse? 有立法吗？ 父母有钱也没法律规定一定要给子女出学费啊。父母有钱也不一定给孩子买玩具和新衣服啊。 |
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b******m
发帖数: 12 | 3 Every relationship needs to be maintained. Sounds like you are very proud of
yourself and thinking you are a prize to your hub. You took your husband
for granted and neglected him for almost 4 years. I normally hate cheaters
but in this case, I can see why your husband did it. You chose your degree
over him at the first place. And the other woman obviously loves him more
than you do. If you fail to see that, just kick him to the curb and look for
your happiness elsewhere.
Otherwise, there is st |
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d****g
发帖数: 824 | 4 NPR 报道，中国近10年中国的离婚率已经翻番。有一个80后独生女Cheng表示，我结了
婚的朋友100％不快乐。“Of all my friends who are married, 100 percent are
unhappy。”
China’s ‘Me Generation’ Sends Divorce Rate Soaring
http://www.npr.org/2010/11/09/131200166/china-s-me-generation-sends-divorce-rate-soaring
“We’d known each other three weeks when we went to get a wedding
certificate,” says the woman, who will only give her name as Cheng. “We
were married for six months. We got married in a hurry, and we got divorced
in a hurry. It was like ... 阅读全帖 |
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J***u
发帖数: 51 | 5 Self-Sacrificing Love
What is meant by self-sacrificing love ?
As I have written in one of my articles, love is the most sacred
sentiment of all human feelings and emotions. Love, in its narrow sense,
refers to intimate feelings and relationship between man and woman, but in
broad sense, there is motherly love for children, love for friends, family
members, for the weak and the old, for motherland ,and all in all love for
humanity. When love takes deep root... 阅读全帖 |
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a********e
发帖数: 25 | 6 Sorry I don't have Chinese input on this machine.
I'm from Beijing.
My father works in SINOPEC as a normal engineer, and my mother is a staff in
a college. Their salary is about 1w/month (6k+4k) in total.
I think the life of my family is okay. My parents usually go to "早市" to
buy veges and meats once a week, and go to supermarkets to buy other foods
and living necessities. I beleive they don't spend over 1500rmb on food each
month. Of course they can have free or very cheap lunch at work. But s... 阅读全帖 |
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w****a
发帖数: 827 | 7 我只知道摆事实讲道理的时候，要引用creditable的resource
here is one:
http://scholar.google.com/scholar_case?case=7461627959459429753
Quote 1:
During the parties' brief marriage, they experienced a number of domestic
conflicts, and on one occasion, Terry pleaded guilty to a charge of battery
on Colleen.
Quote 2:
The court found that Colleen had proved by clear and convincing evidence
that Terry had engaged in at least one act of domestic violence against her.
Quote 3: (Conclusion)
Here, Terry moved the district cou... 阅读全帖 |
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k***n
发帖数: 11247 | 8 還說把孩子讓給他，那前夫neglect孩子，讓孩子沒吃沒穿沒人管，也是ok嗎？？？看來男人不僅冷漠無情，還缺根筋，大腦不會轉 |
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h*******a
发帖数: 1372 | 9 第十四天
Love Dare - Day 14
Purposefully neglect an activity you would normally do so you can spend
quality time with your spouse.
为了和配偶有更多高质量的相处时间，有意放弃一项你自己通常会做的活动。
** 相关圣经启示
Ecc 9:9 Enjoy life with your wife, whom you love, all the days of this
meaningless life that God has given you under the sun- all your meaningless
days. For this is your lot in life and in your toilsome labor under the sun.
传道书 9:9 在你一生虚空的年日、就是神赐你在日光之下虚空的年日、当同你所爱的
妻快活度日。因为那是你一生在日光之下劳碌的事上所得的分。 |
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m*****u
发帖数: 328 | 10 Child Abuse and Neglect 大多都是母亲做的。记得Texas一个母亲把亲生的五个孩子
一个个叫到洗澡间溺死吗？ |
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x********e
发帖数: 35261 | 11 给小孩危险的东西算不算abuse？
小孩拿着不安全的东西大人不监视算不算neglect?
小孩被烫伤了不第一时间赶到移开热源，烫伤后不懂基本处理措施，算不算没有
support? |
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k***a
发帖数: 271 | 13 but I have got the offer from department, should I neglect it? |
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s****e
发帖数: 720 | 14 If that is the requirement of the graduate school, you can't neglect it ba. |
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h*******y
发帖数: 864 | 16 Landlord insurance is more expensive than the home owner insurance for a
reason: tenants are more neglect in taking care of properties. Depending on
your policy details, you are running the risk of the insurance company
declining your claim if you don't update it with landlord insurance. |
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K****D
发帖数: 30533 | 17 I think that depends on how many times you contribute leh.
If doing that all the time throughout 30 years, there is no way
that difference can be neglected.
Maybe your example was talking about doing DCA for 1 year, then
hold for 30 years. Then it makes sense.
long- |
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p****4
发帖数: 517 | 18 SOFC, selling too early is not a problem; however, buying too early
definitely is a problem. From time to time, I made the "buying-too-early"
mistakes myself. In retrospect, most of those mistakes were caused by
trusting technical analysis too much and neglecting the market trend. |
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u****e
发帖数: 99 | 19 Neglect that post.
utma is considered child's asset and counted at 20% in fafsa calculation.
You can spend down utma account before college application, but that defeats
the purpose of saving for height education. |
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r****m
发帖数: 1204 | 20 这个直接问airbnb吧， 不过， 即使他们不报告， 你还是有责任包括在你的return里
面， 因为将来万一IRS查出来， penalty could be very severe -
first, it might trigger an IRS audit for all your returns; second, you will
have to pay tax on all the income you neglected to report, plus interest and
penalty, IRS could even bring criminal charges. |
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m****e
发帖数: 139 | 21 typically yes, as the company may need to cosider relocation cost (or if you
are local, how far your commute will be).
if you don't want to use your home address, rent a box from the post office.
it should suffice.
if you don't put in an address, the first thought the HR people will
probably have is: is this guy in China? well, takes time to find out... (
then your resume goes to the "neglect" pile) |
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f**1
发帖数: 29 | 22 seacrystal:
Hi~ I just know your image is a lady, I think would be a beauty,right?
well~ may be sometime the viewpoint of female would be differs from male.
especially who with strong capability but also is a charming creature. When
the people only talking about her attractive appearance,neglected her
capability,and then, she will feel insult? If that work for you, I apologize |
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l*******o
发帖数: 791 | 23 刚放下电话，全是汗。
1. Empty class, what is the size? => 1
2. What the is inside empty class => four default functions
3. Copy ctor vs Assignment operator => one constructs object, the other one
assign object.
4. four classes, A,B,C,D. B and C both inherits A. D inherits B and C. What
is the problem here?
=> dead diamond. duplicate A in D. I said use virtual inheritance to avoid.
5. Anagram problem => sort it and put into the hash table to see it exits
already. If so, neglect it. If there any
way to be f... 阅读全帖 |
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k********a
发帖数: 7225 | 24 跟大家share一个我觉得还不错的thank you letter sample。虽然估计用处不大，但是
我们还是要尽力把每个环节都做得professional吧。
It was very enjoyable to speak with you about the assistant account
executive position at the Smith Agency. The job, as you presented it, seems
to be a very good match for my skills and interests. The creative approach
to account management that you described confirmed my desire to work with
you.
In addition to my enthusiasm, I will bring to the position strong writing
skills, assertiveness and the ability to enco... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****y
发帖数: 90 | 25 大家都是怎样对待ICC的offer啊? Or neglect them?
怎样跟他们讲价? 65k or 70k? 还是一口价 60k
最近为什么full time 比ICC给的还低呢? |
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w*********n
发帖数: 7 | 26 ===Update===
Type: OPT
Center: CSC
Receipt number: WAC159007xxxx
Receive date: 11/24/2014
Approval: 1/28/2015
Card production: 2/17/2015
Card received: 2/24/2015
If asked for expedited: yes
p.s. 1月21日电话request的expedition，不知起到作用否。1月28日之后状态一直显示
your case was approved，而没有任何card production的痕迹。期间给uscis电话无数
，都被告知“请耐心等待30天”之类。无奈2月10日去当地的众议员办公室，人家很痛
快受理了请求，说帮忙问一下。2月12日又给uscis电话，终于让他们意识到approval后
两周没动静不正常，接线员给提交了个service inquiry。然后2月17日终于看到卡
production了，之后就比较常规，网上状态依次变为了card was mailed to me, card
was pi... 阅读全帖 |
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w*********n
发帖数: 7 | 27 ===Update===
Type: OPT
Center: CSC
Receipt number: WAC159007xxxx
Receive date: 11/24/2014
Approval: 1/28/2015
Card production: 2/17/2015
Card received: 2/24/2015
If asked for expedited: yes
p.s. 1月21日电话request的expedition，不知起到作用否。1月28日之后状态一直显示
your case was approved，而没有任何card production的痕迹。期间给uscis电话无数
，都被告知“请耐心等待30天”之类。无奈2月10日去当地的众议员办公室，人家很痛
快受理了请求，说帮忙问一下。2月12日又给uscis电话，终于让他们意识到approval后
两周没动静不正常，接线员给提交了个service inquiry。然后2月17日终于看到卡
production了，之后就比较常规，网上状态依次变为了card was mailed to me, card
was pi... 阅读全帖 |
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o**********e
发帖数: 18403 | 28 遇人不淑。 拍拍。 感谢分享。
跟这个professor再谈谈。 重要的是
问他为什么卡人？ 花花轿子人抬人，
他却媳妇熬成婆，人踩人。 带出来
的学生减价抛售，不是好生意。
以后他工业无恩（比起别人桃李满天下），
自己的项目也找不到人赞助。 就进入
恶性循环，他个人成就终究有限。
重要的是不要跟他发脾气。
很多老中实际上都是
小时候被abuse/neglect过，所以
性情暴虐,有PTSD倾向。
需要有人理解沟通。
你就当你是他心理医生，
渡劫自渡。 |
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a*********a
发帖数: 3656 | 29 let s make an attemp to quantify.
1. go to a start up, 5 year horizon. roughly say you have 90% prob to make
only the salary (say 100k) then loose your job and this could happen anytime
during that 5 years, so add another 10% discount to that. maybe 9% prob to
make 1M, 0.9% prob to make 10M, 0.1% prob to make 100M. but those high
payouts are likely to be in restricted company shares so I d put a 10%
discount on them.
so we have 0.9*100k*0.9*5+0.09*1000k*0.9+0.009*10000k*0.9+0.001*100000k*0.9
=40... 阅读全帖 |
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a*********a
发帖数: 3656 | 30 let s make an attemp to quantify.
1. go to a start up, 5 year horizon. roughly say you have 90% prob to make
only the salary (say 100k) then loose your job and this could happen anytime
during that 5 years, so add another 10% discount to that. maybe 9% prob to
make 1M, 0.9% prob to make 10M, 0.1% prob to make 100M. but those high
payouts are likely to be in restricted company shares so I d put a 10%
discount on them.
so we have 0.9*100k*0.9*5+0.09*1000k*0.9+0.009*10000k*0.9+0.001*100000k*0.9
=40... 阅读全帖 |
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L****t
发帖数: 24 | 33 Good company. They would like to recruit experienced engineers. My resume
was neglected by their HR. |
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b**********5
发帖数: 7881 | 34 【 以下文字转载自 NewYork 讨论区 】
发信人: beefcurtain5 (beefcurtain5), 信区: NewYork
标 题: now the liberals are complaining the fed is too white (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu May 12 13:14:17 2016, 美东)
发信人: beefcurtain5 (beefcurtain5), 信区: Stock
标 题: now the liberals are complaining the fed is too white
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu May 12 13:14:05 2016, 美东)
Democratic presidential front-runner Hillary Clinton said she would support
changes to the top ranks of the Federal Reserve, an issue recently
championed by progressive ... 阅读全帖 |
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R********n
发帖数: 3601 | 35 From Uber employee on Blind app
Last week, I was put on performance project by manager and told me I have 4
weeks. I found out there is no grace period for h1s at Uber. I felt like
that's it, the end! I had to pack up and go back India! Feeling totally
hopeless, I asked for help here!
Surprisingly, God's grace was upon us, so many of you reached out! All good
people! All graceful! Asked for my resume, made introductions to hiring
managers, made internal referrals and what not!
Those of you, neve... 阅读全帖 |
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e*******s
发帖数: 1979 | 36 人家毕竟是IIT 清华的也这么干
From Uber employee on Blind app
Last week, I was put on performance project by manager and told me I have 4
weeks. I found out there is no grace period for h1s at Uber. I felt like
that's it, the end! I had to pack up and go back India! Feeling totally
hopeless, I asked for help here!
Surprisingly, God's grace was upon us, so many of you reached out! All good
people! All graceful! Asked for my resume, made introductions to hiring
managers, made internal referrals and what not!
... 阅读全帖 |
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f**d
发帖数: 1952 | 37 6. Smoky chimney
Here’s another way neglect can kill your family, since chimneys that aren’t
properly cleaned and maintained can catch fire. Creosote, a by-product of wood
burning, can build up in the flue and ignite unless removed, said inspector Hy
Naiditch of Accuspect Home Inspection Services in Chicago.
The fix:
Get your chimney swept and inspected annually; the cost is about $100. (You
can find certified chimney sweeps via the Chimney Safety Institute of America,
link at left under Related |
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C*******d
发帖数: 15836 | 38 Actually there are only about 1% of old center in this country. Unlike you,
I don't dare to neglect their power to buy houses with good Fengshui.
Also, if you feel that non Chinese don't care about some Fengshui, like 路冲
，在坟地，教堂，消防局，学校附近，出门见山，等等，please feel free to do so.
Like somebody said earlier, if you are not in the situation, you can say
whatever you want. But once it is time for you to decide exactly which to
choose for two exactly the same houses, one near burial ground and the other
not |
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C*******d
发帖数: 15836 | 39 I agree with your points here.
But I think most Old Centers are living in either coast. For them, houses
usually are a very big investment for them. In a country like this with so
much mobility, totally neglecting resale and 75%+ of house buyers who would
like to have fireplaces is quite crazy to me.
as |
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j****y
发帖数: 1714 | 40 7 Questions You Must Ask Before Buying a Condo
You've found your dream condo, and you're ready to relax among the mango
trees and swaying date palms. Hold everything. To keep from getting stuck
with a lemon, you've got to do some homework. Here are the seven most
important questions you need to ask before buying a condo.
1. "What's the Beef?"
Take a look at the minutes of the condo association board meetings to see
what the owners have been griping about. If everyone was complaining about
the fa... 阅读全帖 |
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b*a
发帖数: 17670 | 41 TLC = Tender Loving Care
This usually means the house has been neglected and will need repairs.
就是这房子荒废好久了，要大修后才能住人
TLC |
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j***k
发帖数: 2719 | 42 My grandfather's house in Shanghai was built in 1921, my great-grandfather
bought it in 1948. It is an european style villa with a large garden. The
house was largely neglected after 1950, with no scheduled maint. done for
over 60 years!!! The roof is still good, the house is still solid and my
grandpa is still living there. 15 years ago, the govt wanted to take it down
to make way for the new subway line, we fought it in court and the building
was preserved as it is the one of the only 3 northe... 阅读全帖 |
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j***k
发帖数: 2719 | 43 My house was built in 1928, its an older tudor with slate roof. The house is
4 bed, about 2900 sq ft living space, property size is 10000 sq ft.
The houses that were built in the 1920s, if they have not been neglected and have had no termite damage, they are often in superior quality and would last longer
than many of those so-called "new constructions".
The interior was old, so I gut renovated it the whole house, changed all the
windows, new hardwood floors, and all new 3 1/2 baths... It was co... 阅读全帖 |
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j***k
发帖数: 2719 | 44 My house was built in 1928, its an older tudor with slate roof. The house is
4 bed, about 2900 sq ft living space, property size is 10000 sq ft.
The houses that were built in the 1920s, if they have not been neglected and have had no termite damage, they are often in superior quality and would last longer
than many of those so-called "new constructions".
The interior was old, so I gut renovated it the whole house, changed all the
windows, new hardwood floors, and all new 3 1/2 baths... It was co... 阅读全帖 |
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f****i
发帖数: 20252 | 45 you are liable for what you did, including your neglection if any. |
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K**********e
发帖数: 50 | 46 In this case, this piece of land is not a built-able land, so the value of
the land should not be more than 15K in assessed value. But the market
sales price will always be more than this tax value. So the market price of
this plot could be significantly higher than the assessment value.
Also, this piece of land has limited value to current owner, so low that
owner may opt to let it be neglected and wait for best time. But this could
devalue your property if be mismanaged to be an eye sour o... 阅读全帖 |
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k*****a
发帖数: 7389 | 47 if 请amigo洗, they are very neglecting, DON'T! |
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m*f
发帖数: 8162 | 48 mortgage contingency大概是有的，但是律师延误，过了45天的期限而且没有及时向卖
方要求延期之类。一楼写了“合同规定的45天”, 你做agent一看就明白了。
楼主如果实在觉得不爽，直接向纽约的grievance committee投诉律师neglect，如果扣
了律师费，同时向bar association寻求帮助。我怀疑这$800是律师扣掉的费用。。。
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t*****e
发帖数: 15794 | 49 看篇好文
March 21, 2013, 3:15 pm 285 Comments
Addressing Fears About LED Light Bulbs
In my Times column Thursday, I reviewed a new generation of LED light bulbs.
They last 25 times as long as regular bulbs, use maybe one-eighth the
electricity, work with dimmers, turn on instantly to full brightness and
remain cool to the touch. A big drawback has always been cost, but now, I
noted, the prices have fallen.
This column generated a lot of reader e-mail, probably because LED
represents change. And chan... 阅读全帖 |
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t*****e
发帖数: 15794 | 50 pharmD说的对
我朋友靠指认对方吸毒和neglect，
才拿到custody。
不过，离婚的日子真的苦死了。
她最近说，
她再也在家呆不下去了，
不然要疯了。
尽管有保姆，还有很多亲戚帮忙。
楼主这件事还是慎重。 |
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