J******s
发帖数: 7538 | 1 写的挺好的
【 以下文字转载自 Sex 讨论区 】
发信人: mmjjoo10 (L.H.O.O.Q.), 信区: Sex
标 题: Re: 大家谈谈吧，和女人在一起的时候，有哪些困难或疑惑的场景
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Jun 30 04:10:51 2011, 美东)
Woman like water, often flow aimlessly. She likes to be followed, not
contained, to be supported, not lectured, to be guided, not directed. It is
a balance act for man. she enjoys aimlessly flow, yet always wishes a place
come back to, where love is. If all woman wants is love, often love makes
woman miserable.
Through her vagina, man can reach her he... 阅读全帖 |
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wh
发帖数: 141625 | 2 【 以下文字转载自 Poetry 讨论区 】
发信人: wh (wh), 信区: Poetry
标 题: Khajuraho, India: Religious Eroticism
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Jan 3 01:23:02 2013, 美东)
看silverblade写Khajuraho的诗和照片，想起以前贴过的Khajuraho图片和其他相关的
书歌影的零碎感想：
上次说好要贴印度古寺庙Khajuraho的雕塑照片。后来连带又想起来Bernini的富有争议
的St Theresa雕塑，想起来小说《Da Vinci Code》和电影《Eyes Wide Shut》里面的
密教组织涉及eroticism的宗教仪式的镜头，还想起来enigma演唱组最早那盒专辑里的
主打歌曲，也涉及religious eroticism。
先贴Khajuraho——印度中部一寺庙，建于9-12世纪之间，其雕塑以eroticism著称。
画册为《Khajuraho》：Photographs by Raghu Rai, text by Louis Frédéric,
1992, ... 阅读全帖 |
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wh
发帖数: 141625 | 3 看silverblade写Khajuraho的诗和照片，想起以前贴过的Khajuraho图片和其他相关的
书歌影的零碎感想：
上次说好要贴印度古寺庙Khajuraho的雕塑照片。后来连带又想起来Bernini的富有争议
的St Theresa雕塑，想起来小说《Da Vinci Code》和电影《Eyes Wide Shut》里面的
密教组织涉及eroticism的宗教仪式的镜头，还想起来enigma演唱组最早那盒专辑里的
主打歌曲，也涉及religious eroticism。
先贴Khajuraho——印度中部一寺庙，建于9-12世纪之间，其雕塑以eroticism著称。
画册为《Khajuraho》：Photographs by Raghu Rai, text by Louis Frédéric,
1992, London: Laurence King.
作者强调没有pornographic intention。你们看看如何。
1.“Shape”
In India, femininity has always been expressed by fullness of the (
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g*k
发帖数: 92 | 4
masochistic
1 : a sexual perversion characterized by pleasure in being subjected to pain
or humiliation especially by a love object -- compare SADISM
2 : pleasure in being abused or dominated : a taste for suffering
谁能说得清楚?也许这就是爱吧。
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G*******s
发帖数: 4956 | 5 加拉太书5章13-26节，说异端是属于情欲的，与圣灵的果子相对
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弟兄们，你们蒙召，是要得自由。只是不可将你们的自由当作放纵情欲的机会。总要用
爱心互相服事。
You, my brothers, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to
indulge the sinful nature; rather, serve one another in love.
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因为全律法都包在爱人如己这一句话之内了。
The entire law is summed up in a single command: "Love your neighbor as
yourself."
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你们要谨慎。若相咬相吞，只怕要彼此消灭了。
If you keep on biting and devouring each other, watch out or you will be
destroyed by each other.
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我说，你们当顺着圣灵而行，就不放纵肉体的情欲了。
So I say, live by the Spi... 阅读全帖 |
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j*****6
发帖数: 1059 | 6 来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - 圣灵感动？ You misunderstand calvinism when you say this:
I hate calvinists because they believe God created some human just for BBQ
p
urpose. It is an insult to God and human culture.
You can find the correct answer from formal statements, e.g. WSC Westminster
Shorter Catechism
Q. 1. What is the chief end of man?
A. Man’s chief end is to glorify God,[1] and to enjoy him forever.[2]
[1] Psalm 86. Bow down thine ear, O LORD, hear me: for I am poor and needy.
Preserve my soul; for I am holy: O thou my God, ... 阅读全帖 |
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C****i
发帖数: 1776 | 7 Matt 10:37 He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me,
and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me. KJV
Matthew - Matthew 10:37
kjv:He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he
that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.
niv:"Anyone who loves his father or mother more than me is not worthy of me;
anyone who loves his son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me;
amp:He who loves [and [14]takes more pl... 阅读全帖 |
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C****i
发帖数: 1776 | 8 CHAPTER II
Of God, and of the Holy Trinity
I. There is but one only,[25] living, and true God,[26] who is infinite in b
eing and perfection,[27] a most pure spirit,[28] invisible,[29] without body
, parts,[30] or passions;[31] immutable,[32] immense,[33] eternal,[34] incom
prehensible,[35] almighty,[36] most wise,[37] most holy,[38] most free,[39]
most absolute;[40] working all things according to the counsel of his own im
mutable and most righteous will,[41] for his own glory;[42] most loving,[... 阅读全帖 |
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C****i
发帖数: 1776 | 9 CHAPTER V
Of Providence
I. God the great Creator of all things doth uphold,[97] direct, dispose, and
govern all creatures, actions, and things,[98] from the greatest even to th
e least,[99] by his most wise and holy providence,[100] according to his inf
allible foreknowledge,[101] and the free and immutable counsel of his own wi
ll,[102] to the praise of the glory of his wisdom, power, justice, goodness,
and mercy.[103]
II. Although, in relation to the foreknowledge and decree of God, the first
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C****i
发帖数: 1776 | 10 CHAPTER IX
Of Free Will
I. God hath endued the will of man with that natural liberty, that it is nei
ther forced, nor, by any absolute necessity of nature, determined to good, o
r evil.[205]
II. Man, in his state of innocency, had freedom, and power to will and to do
that which was good and well pleasing to God;[206] but yet, mutably, so tha
t he might fall from it.[207]
III. Man, by his fall into a state of sin, hath wholly lost all ability of w
ill to any spiritual good accompanying salvation:... 阅读全帖 |
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D*****r
发帖数: 6791 | 11 A SPEECH OF Mr. JOHN MILTON
For the Liberty of VNLICENC'D PRINTING,
To the PARLAMENT of ENGLAND.
______________________________________________________________
This is true Liberty when free born men
Having to advise the public may speak free,
Which he who can, and will, deserv's high praise,
Who neither can nor will, may hold his peace;
What can be juster in a State then this?
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R*o
发帖数: 3781 | 12 After declaring that God only regenerates an elect few, Palmer exults, "What
a good God!" 19 The Calvinistic elect can say that, but how is God being go
od to those whom, instead of regenerating, He damns to eternal suffering? In
fact, the God of the Bible is not only good to a few but to all:
For thou, Lord, art good, and ready to forgive; and plenteous in mercy unt(
them that call upon thee. (Psalms 86:5)
The hand of our God is upon all them for good that seek him .... (Ezra 8: Je
sus of Nazar... 阅读全帖 |
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R*o
发帖数: 3781 | 13 by Dave Hunt
A Question Not Of Sovereignty But Of Character
This is not to deny that God has the right to damn us all. However, it is no
t true that His justice requires Him to damn the non-elect any more than the
elect. Nor is it rational that God, who is infinite in love and mercy, woul
d allow anyone to be damned whom He could justly deliver.
Many scriptures clearly declare that God sent His Son "to be the Saviour of
the world" (John 4:42; 1 John 4:14) and that Christ on the cross paid the pe... 阅读全帖 |
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C*****e
发帖数: 367 | 14 【 以下文字转载自 Church 俱乐部 】
发信人: CCBible (神同在圣经), 信区: Church
标 题: Glossary to the Westminster Confession
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Apr 24 21:16:33 2012, 美东)
Glossary to the Westminster Confession
Explanations of all archaic and uncommon words, usages, and expressions, in
the order in which they occur.
Title Confession. n. Public statement of religious beliefs.
1.1 Providence. n. Divine care. Manifest. v. Show. Are they. idiom. T
hey are. Unto. prep. With regard to. Sundry. adj. Separate. D... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****a
发帖数: 38403 | 15 怪就怪在Flavius Josephus费了不少笔墨描写Simon of Peraea，Athronges, Menahem
ben Judah, Vespasian,而和作家时间更靠近的耶稣就没啥记录啊，有的那段还是公认
的伪造品
Simon of Peraea
"There was also Simon, who had been a slave of king Herod, but in other
respects a comely person, of a tall and robust body; he was one that was
much superior to others of his order, and had had great things committed to
his care. This man was elevated at the disorderly state of things, and was
so bold as to put a diadem on his head, while a certain number of the p... 阅读全帖 |
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c******i
发帖数: 4091 | 16 割包皮会造成一生的心理创伤和生理隐患，会增加妇科疾病的发病率，会增加艾滋病的
发病率，等等。
How Male Circumcision Harms Women
Ronald Goldman, Ph.D.
Learn about the hidden negative psychological and sexual effects of
circumcision and how these effects harm women in relationships with men.
This article is based on research reports in the medical and psychological
literature.
Marilyn Milos didn't know much about circumcision when she consented to have
her three sons circumcised. She trusted her doctor who told her it did not
hurt and "only to... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****a
发帖数: 38403 | 17 来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - 新名基名言 上帝教我杀人我就会杀
上帝没叫我杀人时，我该爱所有人胜过爱我自己
各位非基，虽然我并不把你们当敌人，但是我会爱你们的
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发信人: JasonYang (Jason), 信区: TrustInJesus
标 题: Re: 有关世间的苦难
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Aug 11 21:53:44 2013, 美东)
从基督教的角度讲，到底什么是Justice？上帝给了以色列人摩西法典，守法的上帝会
保佑他们，凡是违法的上帝都要惩罚。但是上帝在惩罚罪人时并不好受。
Ezekiel 33:11
11Say to them, As I live, declares the Lord God, I have no pleasure in the
death of the wicked, but that the wicked turn from his way and live; turn
back, turn back from your evil ways, for why will y... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****a
发帖数: 38403 | 18 来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - 新名基名言 上帝教我杀人我就会杀
上帝没叫我杀人时，我该爱所有人胜过爱我自己
各位非基，虽然我并不把你们当敌人，但是我会爱你们的
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发信人: JasonYang (Jason), 信区: TrustInJesus
标 题: Re: 有关世间的苦难
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Aug 11 21:53:44 2013, 美东)
从基督教的角度讲，到底什么是Justice？上帝给了以色列人摩西法典，守法的上帝会
保佑他们，凡是违法的上帝都要惩罚。但是上帝在惩罚罪人时并不好受。
Ezekiel 33:11
11Say to them, As I live, declares the Lord God, I have no pleasure in the
death of the wicked, but that the wicked turn from his way and live; turn
back, turn back from your evil ways, for why will y... 阅读全帖 |
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T*****n
发帖数: 2456 | 19 Contraception
Historically, Christians always have condemned contraceptive sex. The two
forms mentioned in the Bible, and sterilization, are
condemned without exception (Gen. 38:9-10, Deut. 23:1). The Fathers of the
Church recognized that in natural law the purpose of sexual intercourse is
procreation; contraceptive sex, which deliberately blocks that natural
purpose, is therefore a violation of natural law.
Every church in Christendom condemned contraception until 1930, whe... 阅读全帖 |
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J*******g
发帖数: 8775 | 20 十九
我童年时可怜地躺在这些风尚的门口，那里是我鏖战的沙场，那里我更怕违犯文法，不
怕因自己犯文字错误而妒忌不犯错误的人。
我的天主，我向你诉说以往种种，并向你忏悔我当时获得赞扬的往事，而当时我的生活
标准便是使那些称道我的人满意，我尚未看出垢污的深渊，“我失足于其中，远远离开
了你的双目”。[38]
在你眼中还有什么人比我更恶劣呢？由于我耽于嬉游，欢喜看戏，看了又急于依样葫芦
去模仿，撒了无数的谎，欺骗伴读的家人，欺骗教师与父母，甚至连那些称道我的人也
讨厌我。我还从父母的伙食间中，从餐桌上偷东西吃，以满足我口腹之欲，或以此收买
其他儿童从事彼此都喜爱的游戏。在游戏中，我甚至挟持了求胜的虚荣心，住往占夺了
欺骗的胜利。但假如我发现别人用此伎俩，那我绝不容忍，便疾言厉色地重重责备，相
反，我若被人发觉而向我交涉时，却宁愿饱以老拳，不肯退让。
这是儿童的天真吗？不是，主，不是，请许我如此说，我的天主。因为就是这一切，从
对伴读家人、老师，对胡桃、弹子、麻雀是如此，进而至于对官长、君主，对黄金、土
地、奴隶也就如此；随着年龄一年一年伸展，一如戒尺之后继之以更重的刑具。
因此谦逊的征象仅存于... 阅读全帖 |
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J*******g
发帖数: 8775 | 21 二十
但是，主、万有最完备最美善的创造者和主持者，我们的天主，即使你要我只是一个儿
童，我也感谢你。因为这时我存在，我有生命，我有感觉，我知道保持自身的完整，这
是我来自你的深沉神秘的纯一性的迹象；我心力控制我全部思想行动，在我微弱的知觉
上，在对琐细事物的意识上，我欣然得到真理。我不愿受欺骗，我有良好的记忆力，我
学会了说话，我感受友谊的抚慰，我逃避痛苦、耻辱、愚昧。这样一个生灵上，哪一点
不是可惊奇、可赞叹的呢？但这一切都是我天主的恩赐，不是我给我自己的；并且这一
切都是良好的，这一切就是我。造我者本身原是美善，也是我的美善，我用我童年的一
切优长来歌颂他。
我的犯罪是由于不从他那里，而独在他所造的事物中、在我本身和其他一切之中，追求
快乐，追求超脱，追求真理，因此我便陷入于痛苦、耻辱和错谬之中。我感谢你、我的
甘饴、我的光荣、我的依赖、我的天主；感谢你的恩赐，并求你为我保持不失。你必定
会保存我，而你所赐与我的一切也将日益向荣；我将和你在一起，因为我的存在就是你
所赐与的。
CHAPTER XIX
31. However, O Lord, to thee most excelle... 阅读全帖 |
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n********n
发帖数: 8336 | 22 What is True Success?
By David J. Stewart | September 2007
"For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose
his own soul?" -Mark 8:36
I recently saw an interview on PBS. Both Bill Gates and Warren Buffet were
being interview by a group of university college students. Two of the
richest men in the world, sitting side-by-side, answering questions about
their success; yet, they are poorer than poor. It was noted on the TV
screen that Bill Gates and his family live in a... 阅读全帖 |
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S**U
发帖数: 7025 | 23 runsun's understanding of the sutta is correct.
When in doubt about Chinese translation, cross-check with English and Pali
text.
AN 9.34
When this was said, Ven. Udayin said to Ven. Sariputta, "But what is the
pleasure here, my friend, where there is nothing felt?"
"Just that is the pleasure here, my friend: where there is nothing felt.
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/an/an09/an09.034.than.html
runsun also attaches Pali fragment, which can't possibly mean‘不受后有’ |
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d**********l
发帖数: 647 | 24 it is rare for us to take on the human form and still rarer to access the
teachings of Buddha. :)
so why not give birth to someone who has some affinity with us in previous
lives and let him or her by nurtured and finally liberated by Buddhism? it
is not easy to practice Buddhism in other realms of existence. of course you
can always choose not to have any children but devote all your time and
energy to all beings in the Dhamar Realm.
know all suffering is impermanent and they will enjoy the bl... 阅读全帖 |
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a**u
发帖数: 8107 | 25 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
SeeU (See you) 于 (Fri Nov 26 21:14:34 2010, 美东) 提到:
感恩节到师姐家吃晚饭（她开玩笑说我去应供），师姐刚从澳洲禅修一月归来，气色极佳，脸色红润，连皱纹都似乎消失了。师姐得了三禅，习性大变，过去狂爱华衣美食呼朋引伴玩耍，话痨一个，是个气场强大的女人，家里几个男人都乖乖听她的。现在只想禅悦为乐，平日闭门谢友
贝虬纾眯兄晃蓿路蟀胨腿耍约赫掌既恿耍バ吹奈恼乱捕簟！刚庑┒际窃銮课野矗静换岽纯炖帧！故闳缡撬
师姐听我说最近不想禅修，想找女友，直呼「Mara 已经在你脑里建立了根据地。你要小心。」「不过 Mara 其实也很好对付，阿含经中 Mara 一旦被识破，就说 "The monk knows me." and disappears.」
「你现在不要急著找女友。把精力放在修禅定，得到禅悦后你就不会想找女友了。维持好的 relationship 或婚姻都是很累的事，两个人要互相迁就。你自己的烦恼都无法断除，LP 还指望你替她排忧解难。两个充满烦恼的凡夫纠缠在一... 阅读全帖 |
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a**u
发帖数: 8107 | 26 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
styleofchina (style) 于 (Mon Nov 29 04:58:27 2010, 美东) 提到:
对这个问题很困惑.
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danieljoyful (danieljoyful) 于 (Mon Nov 29 09:43:09 2010, 美东) 提到:
生一个小孩，用佛法改变他的命运，好好教育成圣贤，去积极地影响社会，不是很好么
？没有好坏，只有智慧和愚痴，慈悲与自私。
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Yisu (yisnotme) 于 (Mon Nov 29 10:40:04 2010, 美东) 提到:
要孩子有养育的苦和乐。 不要孩子也会有没有孩子的苦和乐。所以这不是要不要的问
题。佛也从来没说过人生是痛苦的。佛只说过人生是无常的。 不能接受无常就会产生
苦的感受。所以苦的不是人生， 是人心。
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b**d
发帖数: 7644 | 27 In the past, unskillful behavior was unknown among the human race. As a
result, people lived for an immensely long time — 80,000 years — endowed
with great beauty, wealth, pleasure, and strength. Over the course of time,
though, they began behaving in various unskillful ways. This caused the
human life span gradually to shorten, to the point where it now stands at
100 years, with human beauty, wealth, pleasure, and strength decreasing
proportionately.
出自Cakkavatti Sutta
严重违背历史，地球在5000年前，还没有人类。从化... 阅读全帖 |
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f********4
发帖数: 253 | 28 It is something hard to understand. People say they want to be happy. But,
then, how come they are not interested in being really mindful? It must be
because they think happiness lies somewhere else, like in sense pleasure,
such as in getting what you want, in becoming somebody, in being in control
of some important position, in some pleasurable feeling.
People (you and I) want excitement, something stimulating (intellectually,
for me). Sometimes we want to rest; we get tired of stimulating thin... 阅读全帖 |
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t******g
发帖数: 17520 | 29 对不起LZ， 歪个楼
叨扰
您转贴的reference
是"美国学者华伦氏所翻译为英文的巴利文藏经，顾法严居士汉译"
我想问的是英文原文是不是这段？
如果是， 英文原版似乎没有尊者们问佛陀尊夫女到哪里去了，
佛陀也没有说知道尊夫女回到了天国。
也就是说 一下中文这一段是（谁）硬性加进去的， 请问有什么解释吗？
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人间的第二天，比丘们走进村子，发现那殿堂没人照管，坐垫没舖设，饮水也没有放好
。他们就问道：「尊夫女到哪里去了？」
「尊者们，你们还怎么能见到她？昨天你们各位大德饭毕离去之后，她在傍晚时分
就去世了。」
比丘们听了，那些尚未见道的，想到她的许多好处，忍不住涕泪滂沱。至于那些已
得漏尽的比丘们，也难免深受感动。
早餐之后，他们回到了寺内，就去问佛陀：「世尊，尊夫女旰食夕劳，广造善业，
只为她的丈夫祈求，如今她死了，请问，她在哪里再生？」
「在她丈夫之处再生，比丘们啊！」
「可是，世尊，她并没有在她丈夫那里啊！」
「比丘们啊！她所祈求的不是这个丈夫... 阅读全帖 |
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t******g
发帖数: 17520 | 30 it does bother me a lot!!
All the formal translators association has ethical guidelines
For example
American Translators Association
Code of Ethics and Professional Practice
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1. to convey meaning between
people and cultures faithfully,
accurately, and impartially;
ACCURATELY
add something IS NOT on the original article is NOT accurate!!
In the contents which describe what Buddha said is
"To them the Buddha replied that the life of beings was very brief;
and that befo... 阅读全帖 |
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W**N
发帖数: 1037 | 31 贴几段书里的话：
Is fulfillment always just around the corner or confined to short-lived
pleasures, such as sex, food, drink, drugs, or thrills and excitement?(Page
41).
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Many people use alcohol, drugs, sex, food, work, television, or even
shopping as anesthetics in an unconscious attempt to remove the basic unease
.
(Page 50).
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Already for most humans, the only respite they find from their own minds is
to occasionally revert to a level of consciousness below thought. Everyone
does that every nig... 阅读全帖 |
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W**N
发帖数: 1037 | 32 贴几段书里的话：
Is fulfillment always just around the corner or confined to short-lived
pleasures, such as sex, food, drink, drugs, or thrills and excitement?(Page
41).
－－－
Many people use alcohol, drugs, sex, food, work, television, or even
shopping as anesthetics in an unconscious attempt to remove the basic unease
.
(Page 50).
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Already for most humans, the only respite they find from their own minds is
to occasionally revert to a level of consciousness below thought. Everyone
does that every nig... 阅读全帖 |
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t******g
发帖数: 17520 | 33 转自 莊春江工作站
北傳:雜阿含373經 南傳:相應部12相應63經
雜阿含373經[正聞本536經/佛光本372經](食相應/雜因誦/修多羅)(莊春江標點)
如是我聞：
一時，佛住舍衛國祇樹給孤獨園。
爾時，世尊告諸比丘：
「有四食，資益眾生，令得住世，攝受長養，云何為四？謂：一、麁摶食，二、細
觸食，三、意思食，四、識食。
云何比丘觀察摶食？
譬如：有夫婦二人，唯有一子，愛念將養。欲度曠野嶮道難處，糧食乏盡，飢餓困
極，計無濟理，作是議言：『正有一子，極所愛念，若食其肉，可得度難，莫令在此三
人俱死。』
作是計已，即殺其子，含悲垂淚，強食其肉，得度曠野。
云何，比丘！彼人夫婦共食子肉，寧取其味，貪嗜美樂與不？」
答曰：「不也，世尊！」
復問比丘：
「彼強食其肉，為度曠野嶮道與不？」
答言：「如是，世尊！」
佛告比丘：
「凡食摶食，當如是觀！如是觀者，摶食斷知1；摶食斷知已，於五欲功德貪愛則
斷2；五欲功德貪愛斷者，我不見彼多聞聖弟子於五欲功德上有一結使而不斷者；有一
結繫故，則還生此世。
........
【1】「斷知(SA.373)」，南傳作「遍知」(pariñ... 阅读全帖 |
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s****r
发帖数: 736 | 34
The Necklace
by Guy de Maupassant
She was one of those pretty and charming girls born, as though fate had
blundered over her, into a family of artisans. She had no marriage portion,
no expectations, no means of getting known, understood, loved, and wedded by
a man of wealth and distinction; and she let herself be married off to a
little clerk in the Ministry of Education. Her tastes were simple because
she had never been able to afford any other, but she was as unhappy as
though she had marr... 阅读全帖 |
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c****i
发帖数: 2635 | 35 感觉幸福就是有人照顾自己。。。 爱情就是被照顾后会想着折腾人家。。。
//blushing~```
今天阴差阳错地被一个印度MM拉到佛庙里去了。。。 听着梵音想着菩萨普度众生的宽
宏和金刚怒目的霹雳~``
忽然觉得派克博士的那些拿来搞团队还可以，要是感情生活也这么折腾，直接出家接受
供奉就成了，不需要沐浴人间烟火了~~` :">
ref: 附上一段，供童鞋们修行。。。
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Theories
[edit] Discipline
In The Road Less Traveled,[6] Peck talked of the importance of discipline.
He described four aspects of discipline:
* Delaying gratification: Sacrificing present comfort for future gains.
* Acceptance of responsibility: Accepting respons... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 526 | 36 在mall里闲逛的时候，就是那个紫色的瓶子固执的跳入我的眼帘，下一秒钟，我就被它施
了魔法，无法挪动脚步：Givenchy的新款very irresistible Givenchy。
我喜 欢把自己沉浸在Givenchy的味道中，觉得自己再糟糕的心情都会变好。瓶子的式样
也好，就那么稍稍的扭曲，那么微微的高傲。于是我连电脑桌面都换成了它的宣传画。其
实，以前我曾用过它的红粉佳人，味道也不错。如今，我似乎更偏好这个very
irresistible,那种混合了多种玫瑰花的味道，是那么得让我沉迷。我奢侈的把它撒在我
存在的每个空间，连我的粉色的被子也不放过，只是想让自己如同睡在铺满玫瑰花的温床
。
Lancome 的miracle 和Estee Lauder
的pleasures我也曾用了好久。可是就当我发现Givenchy的那一刻，我忽然意识到miracle
太甜，pleasures太直接，只有Givenchy的才是那么的恰到好处。
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e*****t
发帖数: 1005 | 37 the analogy is okay, but irrelevant.
Maybe you are experienced and can get pleasure f**ing any girl. But ugly is
ugly. you can get your pleasure by f**ing an ugly girl doens't mean she's no
t ugly. it's only because that doesn't bother you. |
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e*****t
发帖数: 1005 | 38 the analogy is okay, but irrelevant.
Maybe you are experienced and can get pleasure f**ing any girl. But ugly is
ugly. you can get your pleasure by f**ing an ugly girl doens't mean she's no
t ugly. it's only because that doesn't bother you. |
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n********k
发帖数: 2818 | 39 As you folks are discussing Cori, I happened to read his autobiography and
find it both interesting and enlightening:)))...BTW, it sounds Richard Axel
is a lot nicer than what I/we have heard...or in another word, his cruelty
is rooted in his obsession with science and indifference to humanity:))); As
well, it is pretty...he noted Cori but left his ex out...pretty human or
not human?
Autobiography
Richard AxelNew York City is my world. I was born in Brooklyn, the first
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n***d
发帖数: 8857 | 40 有个疑问总是挥之不去，问一问诸位行家
有个试验有个开关给小老鼠注射一点dopamine, 小老鼠会一直去动这个开关以得到更多
dopamine. 听说学术界有争论认为dopamine不会产生pleasure,只是产生驱动力，那么
为什么小老鼠就一点pleasure都没有，但是为什么它还一直要更多dopamine呢，是不是
可以理解为驱动力也是一种追求的对象？ |
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d********m
发帖数: 3662 | 41 what I don't understand is, why little piece of shit like you only have
pleasure of shitting people when you cringe behind your computer?
again, give me the address of your basement. you will have the utmost
pleasure to say this in my face. or you just a little pitiful maggot that is
not worth my
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j*k
发帖数: 182 | 42 问题较多，谢谢大家耐心看并给与建议 ：）
问题一：电话面试的结果
这周五一top 30大学的finance prof电话面试了我。 我自我感觉答的还成。面试里我
没有问录
取的机会，倒是他说，committee正在做决定，倒时候告诉我。挂了电话，我给他写了
个thank
you email，内容就是，特别感谢您面试我， It was a great pleasure to talk
to you. 然后他回信说：”It was a pleasure speaking with you as well. You
have compiled a very impressive record in your studies.“---
请问大家，这个是他客气一下，还是说我有比较大的可能被录取？
问题二：想从现在的学校拿master走人
我现在在读PhD，如果有finance phd的offer，那我quit走人。问题是，我们学校
spring和
summer的graduation最晚申请截止日期是3月多。
我不能肯定我之前能拿到finance phd的offer，我甚至觉得，我4月15日之 |
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b****d
发帖数: 240 | 43 Your dear Doc USMedEdu was cursing me the whole day yesterday. Cursed me more after I apologized to him. After I knew he was laid off, I apologized again. Then came something like 'you will never match after you finish your exams'. More mockery about my English. With his follower medical01. Very filthy scum was spit out from their mouths. Then, the Dear Doc bragged: I am so thrilled to know the wife of the ex-boss who fired me left him, I am making 3 times more money. What kind of person... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 38 | 44 Post-IV Thanks Letter: Sample 1-2:
Dear Dr....:
I would like to take this opportunity to thank you for inviting me to
interview for .....residency.
I was very impressed with your program and thoroughly enjoyed my visit. I
found the residents to be friendly and forthright in answering any and all
of my questions.
The informal gathering afterward was an excellent way to obtain information
in a more relaxed setting and
learn about the nontechnical aspects of resident life in (the city).
It is obvio... 阅读全帖 |
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A*G
发帖数: 256 | 45 Child Development Milestone Chart
Age Physical Development Social and Emotional Development Intellectual
Development Language Development
At Birth Lies in fetal position with knees tucked up. Unable to raise head.
Head falls backwards if pulled to sit. Reacts to sudden sound. Closes eye
to bright light. Opens eye when held in an upright position. Bonds with
mother. Smiles at mother. Beginning to develop concepts e.g. becomes aware
of physical sensations such as hunger. Explores using his... 阅读全帖 |
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o**********e
发帖数: 18403 | 46 我写得不好。 有些typo望谅解，注意修改。
=========== Letter for Peers and Colleagues ==========
Dear Colleagues,
Happy Chinese New Year in advance to all of you!
I would like to inform you with great pleasure that
we are organizing a Traditional Chinese New Year Party
on 1/29/2014 to herald the Chinese New Year of the Horse.
We are excited to celebrate our heritage and camaraderie on this
day with lots of joy and laughter.
We look forward to your participation. Please RSVP
to _____________
Time: ______
Locat... 阅读全帖 |
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W**********g
发帖数: 3340 | 47 【 以下文字转载自 Joke 讨论区 】
发信人: pleasure (ice cream lover), 信区: Joke
标 题: Re: 我家宝宝第一个进入北美快男决赛！ (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Apr 26 02:44:32 2010, 美东)
发信人: pleasure (ice cream lover), 信区: Fashion
标 题: Re: 我家宝宝第一个进入北美快男决赛！
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Apr 26 02:43:56 2010, 美东)
支持＋恭喜！
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f********m
发帖数: 8397 | 49 你这是田忌赛马，不公平。
能买起X5, 注重handling的，为什么不买5 wagon? 只有想坐的高的，愿意牺牲
handling的，才应该上X5。就算X5的handling比tauraus wagon好，你也不能说cross
over的handling比wagon好。而且你说的也是“另外好的crossover SUV跟好的wagon”。
其实我不应该说handling, 过弯，这些只是driving pleasure, the so called butt
to brain transitional的一部分。离地高了，driving pleasure就是要降级的。比如legacy
wagon vs. outback, V70 vs. XC70. 不说别的，同样的速度下坐的低就比坐的高感觉快。 |
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发帖数: 8397 | 50 http://www.bmwblog.com/2011/12/21/opposite-lock-my-next-bmw/
I’ll be the first to admit that my opinions, tastes and preferences
represent a minority of the driving community. As a purist that favors
connectedness over comfort and dynamics over, well… efficient dynamics, I
find myself sitting among an ever shrinking crowd of enthusiasts. To borrow
a line from Jack Johnson: “where’d all the good [drivers] go?”
While it’s true that my tastes have softened somewhat, I’d still delete
many luxury fea... 阅读全帖 |
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