j***e
发帖数: 708 | 1 most of my friends (american) say they believe in god, but they seldom or
never go to church and they know they will go to heaven.. not that bad,
right?
很多信教的老美也只是小时候接受的那样的环境，成为INACTIVE的BELIEVER而已。 |
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c******r
发帖数: 723 | 2 I am female, and I did the same thing to my mom when I was young. However,
when I grew up, seldom do these touching things because her complaint
consumed most of my emotion... |
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j***e
发帖数: 708 | 3 i seldom talk about things related to china with firends or colleagues who
were born and raised in america. they never show interests in things outside
US. but i do talk a lot about cultural differences with people who were
born in foreign countries (europe, asia, africa, south america). all these
people don't think they are americans.
do people in your block are mostly foreign born americans? |
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e******e
发帖数: 172 | 4 三岁半小男孩，性格很被动
用Preschool老师的话讲就是“seldom take the initiative"
现在因为工作关系要转学，请问转到蒙校对他的性格发展是有好处还是坏处。
多谢 |
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j***e
发帖数: 708 | 5 i would think it might be gene too. I did not do anything, but my baby slept
through the night starting at 3rd month, seldom woke up during the night |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 6 Well, my wife scolds James most of the time. I seldom do that except saying
"Wo Sha Le NI!" |
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n*********9
发帖数: 954 | 7 I pushed very hard to speak Chinese at Home, and spent time to teach her, it
is useless, she still speak English.
That's every Chinese parents dream "小孩在家 和见到中国人要说中文，去学校和
遇到其他国家人说英文。小孩中文说得很好，在学校 成绩也很好。" The truth is
the dream seldom come true.
Once you have a kid, you will know it. |
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n****m
发帖数: 1283 | 8 Thanks a lot for your warm replies.
I did plan to send her to preschool. However, most of the programs start
from 2 yrs. I have been waiting.
There were not a lot of child care accepting < 2 yrs.
This teacher is nice. She organized birthday parties and I can see that she
has tried her best. The kids there seem free that is why I sent niuniu there
in the beginning.
There are other things starting to merge. I started to think whether it is
too free even wild.
When my nanny was with niuniu, I have ... 阅读全帖 |
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R*********i
发帖数: 7643 | 9 Your daughter is so cute. Will it help to send her to preschool full-time?
At least you couple may feel better. :)
My daughter is almost 4, too. A lot of girls of this age are similar, I
guess.
-We're also struggling with meals b/c I always want her to eat more and don'
t want to cut off her meal time.
-My little one doesn't watch TV - I guess more reading can replace TV?
-And mine comes to my bedroom every morning to take a nap before she gets up
. I haven't done anything to avoid that b/c I e... 阅读全帖 |
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s*****a
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realbug (WA) 于 (Fri May 6 12:25:49 2011, 美东) 提到:
前几天跟ld一块逛街，看见一对母女，女儿大概17-8岁得样子，俩人对话女儿只说英文
，妈妈只说中文，感觉很怪。
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guanshui999 (沃尔玛) 于 (Fri May 6 13:28:21 2011, 美东) 提到:
不怪。
我儿子6岁，就这样。
但凡3岁前上daycare的，家里没有老人的，父母双职工的，大多数这样。
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noopy (Ponyo女牛牛) 于 (Fri May 6 13:39:15 2011, 美东) 提到:
我看到这里的小孩，7-8个，有一个说中文的，其它都是说英文的。
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renayin (Gordon～～) 于 ... 阅读全帖 |
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R*********i
发帖数: 7643 | 11 It happens seldom in my family b/c most of time I take my girl to activities
. If I am not present, my husband will ask a family friend to take our
daughter to the bathroom. |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 12 I think for those worrying parents, an obvious solution is the following:
Swap the duty of gift wrapping and delivering with your friends/neighbors
around the holidays!
Very simple and should be fool-proof if your kids SELDOM visit the other
kids' home/storage.
I should patent this method for BIG gains right away. |
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d*c
发帖数: 306 | 13 My kids are very healthy.
i seldom go see doctor, and never think about this.
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p*******h
发帖数: 184 | 14 A good read from journal today - we need to teach kids to be patient.
When my daughter was 18 months old, my husband and I decided to take her on
a little summer holiday. We picked a coastal town that's a few hours by
train from Paris, where we were living (I'm American, he's British), and
booked a hotel room with a crib. Bean, as we call her, was our only child at
this point, so forgive us for thinking: How hard could it be?
We ate breakfast at the hotel, but we had to eat lunch and dinner at t... 阅读全帖 |
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i******e
发帖数: 1720 | 15 I just want to point out that parents need to be VERY careful with the
strategy such as annuity, oil well investment, etc . They are NOT for
everyone and the financial advisors seldom point out the drawback.
However, there are many "small things" one can do to help. For example, if
parents have custodial accounts under child's name for the child, it should
be converted to 529 with the owner being parents. Since parent's assets
is only accessed at the rate of 5.6% each year while student's ... 阅读全帖 |
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x*******g
发帖数: 1363 | 16 Yes. Agree :你们这样一会儿穿多一会儿穿少最不好了
My kids seldom get sickness(like once in a few years), but if my mom is here
, then they will get a cold much more frequently -- like a couple times in a
season. I think that because '一会儿穿多一会儿穿少'.
Stick with one pattern :-) |
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s******e
发帖数: 1985 | 17 No ba.
boys and girls seldom talk to each other at school, except they are boy/girl
friends. |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 18 2nd grade's writing is just like that: making a long sentence is enough. No
paragraphs!
Maybe you can lure her to read more books. The more one reads, the better
one writes. I am a bad example. I write a lot but seldom read. Therefore,
my writing sucks! |
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d*c
发帖数: 306 | 19 It is an accidental pregnancy, her fourth one is an accidental prehnancy
too.
Their children are fine, have enough food, though they seldom buy new
clothes since they have enough. Kids still go to preschool.
A little envy, though i know that i cannot, two kids already keep me very
busy. |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 20 Not necessarily true.
At least in the one case with which I had personal experience. The boy was
a handsome, big-eyed boy. I always held him during church activities and
played with him by going to anywhere his finger pointing to . . . He never
talked to me, only screamed/made noise when he was about two. He could look
at me in the eye, though at that time.
Later on he was dignosed as autism. When he was around 7, he walked along
the side of the walking lane, never looked you straight in the ... 阅读全帖 |
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d*****1
发帖数: 8 | 21 Sunday in the Park
Bel Kaufman
It was still warm in the late-afternoon sun, and the city noises came
muffled through the trees in the park. She put her book down on the bench,
removed her sunglasses, and sighed contentedly. Morton was reading the
Times Magazine section, one arm flung around her shoulder; their three-year-
old son, Larry, was playing in the sandbox: a faint breeze fanned her hair
softly against her cheek. It was five-thirty of a Sunday afternoon, and the
small playground, tuck... 阅读全帖 |
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t*******f
发帖数: 795 | 22 搞笑?
outside silicon valley, Chinese very seldom earn 200K/year..
forget about bonus because bonus are not guaranteed. |
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a********k
发帖数: 11445 | 23 没关系啦，自家陶醉有幸福感就好。自己开心还能搞笑一下版面气氛.
搞笑? outside silicon valley, Chinese very seldom earn 200K/year..forget
about bonus becau........
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f******e
发帖数: 582 | 24 Anyone knows any website/software that can read English
words/sentences for kids?
Because of my inaccurate pronunciation, I seldom read English to my
son. Therefore, I like to find some website/software.
Thanks. |
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t*******r
发帖数: 22634 | 25 Book is tool. Without tools, jobs likely be harder. But it is not uncommon
that people have plenty of tools but cannot even fix a faucet.
It is much harder to train hands than buy tools. So, be a plumber, not a
toolbox.
I myself seldom read parenting book except when I have a specific problem.
But I read Wikipedia...
[发表自未名空间手机版 - m.mitbbs.com] |
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A***u
发帖数: 3714 | 26 Each of us has many many maps in our head, which can be divided into two
main categories: maps of the way things are, or realities, and maps of the
way things should be, or values. We interpret everything we experience
through these mental maps. We seldom question their accuracy; We're usually
even unaware that we have them. We simply assume that the way we see things
is the way they really are, or the way they should be.
-----摘抄的，不是我自己的
And our attitudes and behaviors grow out of those assumpt... 阅读全帖 |
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l**a
发帖数: 5175 | 27
I can understand those parents, most girls love dancing, most american
parents are very supportive.
I will tell you something real, in my daughter's previous dance studio,
There is an American mother, her daughter starts dancing at 12. mom
doesn't like it very much.
I remember her mom was complaining about it in front of me before, the
mother played piano
And teaches piano herself, the daughter learned piano since very young age.
and played saxophone at school,
She quit piano at that moment,s... 阅读全帖 |
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n****m
发帖数: 1283 | 28 Even in China, people are living in large condo complex and do not have the
opportunities to social with neighbors. Because of safety issue, children
seldom go out to play.
In the US, kids have much more opportunities to go out to play together and
make friends if you are living a community with many Chinese such as Bay
Area and SF.
会。 |
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n****m
发帖数: 1283 | 29 From your description, you are a very considerate and nice person. I noticed
that you seldom mention your husband. However, not a lot of Chinese men in
the US are equally considerate.
Just imagine their bring-up:
1, Chores; they are females' responsibility (his mother)
2, All good things should go to him first
3, it is always other's fault. He is so excellent, he could make it to the
top school.
Did he talk to his parents? Did he assure you that you are his family when
you quit? Did he work othe... 阅读全帖 |
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n****m
发帖数: 1283 | 30 Just my two cents. If you really suspect that it is caused by parasites, you
could try some mild Chinese traditional methods.
Pumpkin seeds, ShiJunZi or xiang fei zi (this is seldom sold in the US).
They are food grade. |
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n****m
发帖数: 1283 | 31 Just my two cents. If you really suspect that it is caused by parasites, you
could try some mild Chinese traditional methods.
Pumpkin seeds, ShiJunZi or xiang fei zi (this is seldom sold in the US).
They are food grade. |
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t***h
发帖数: 2924 | 32 【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: willhung (黄威廉), 信区: USANews
标 题: 黑人学校和黑人世界的真相 - Chris Jackson (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Dec 22 04:08:43 2015, 美东)
发信人: kayaker (霜晨の月), 信区: Military
标 题: 黑人学校和黑人世界的真相 - Chris Jackson
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Dec 21 22:28:09 2015, 美东)
What is it Like to Teach Black Students?
by Christopher Jackson
Until recently I taught at a predominantly black high school in a
southeastern state. The mainstream press gives a hint of what conditions are
like in black schools, ... 阅读全帖 |
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j****w
发帖数: 756 | 33 I seldom post deal there. 79 critisized it. |
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j****w
发帖数: 756 | 34 I seldom post deal there. 79 critisized it. |
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j**y
发帖数: 5059 | 35 有AAA的鸡蛋吗？
只知道B
帮你找了个，包子拿来哈 呵呵
Grading by quality and sizeThe US Department of Agriculture grades eggs by
the interior quality of the egg and the appearance and condition of the egg
shell. Eggs of any quality grade may differ in weight (size).
U.S. Grade AA eggs have whites that are thick and firm; yolks that are high,
round, and practically free from defects; and clean, unbroken shells. Grade
AA and Grade A eggs are best for frying and poaching, where appearance is
important.
U.S. Grade A ... 阅读全帖 |
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c********2
发帖数: 2773 | 36
店里的包包选择是比网上少.
网上一直有sale, sometimes the price might go lower.
It's hard to check the prices in the store.
店里是不是还有额外的20-30%的哭胖啊？NO
I seldom buy 包包 in the store now. I just return 包包 to the store and buy
some accessories when I do the return. |
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L****y
发帖数: 61 | 37 I know a friend he seldom asks help. But whenever you need his help, he
never refuse to do. |
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i******9
发帖数: 325 | 38 Very unreliable.
Bought UGG for about $180, got nothing.
Ebates is much better. Seldom miss any orders. |
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h**z
发帖数: 2013 | 39 Costco seldom have coupons, they usually have item specific coupons, but
none that can apply to whole order, this time is my first time see a $$ off
coupon, I've had costco membership for more than 10 years,
★ 发自iPhone App: ChineseWeb 1.0 |
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s*******1
发帖数: 11216 | 40 A lot of app on my phone. We seldom go, time is money now. Anyway if we buy
big stuff I will install it. Thanks. |
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s******e
发帖数: 353 | 41 What if I only see a few offers?
To ensure the offers you receive are relevant to you, BankAmeriDeals™
offers are based on how you currently shop with your Bank of America credit
and debit card(s). If you seldom use your Bank of America credit or debit
card(s), you may not receive any offers until you start to use your card
more. The more you use your Bank of America credit or debit card, the more
opportunity you will have to receive relevant offers. |
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c*******o
发帖数: 27734 | 42 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
repeating (random) 于 (Tue Jun 23 19:14:13 2009, 美东) 提到:
这个其实是个重要的问题。所谓的性，包含配偶，二奶，情人，小姐，牛郎之类的。
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sa (sa) 于 (Tue Jun 23 19:17:29 2009, 美东) 提到:
maybe guys do. Women seldom do.
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oldguy (老人) 于 (Tue Jun 23 19:24:34 2009, 美东) 提到:
That is probably why not many women want to go back.
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sa (sa) 于 (Tue Jun 23 19:26:15 2009, 美东) 提到:
其 |
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o****3
发帖数: 5100 | 43 Not everybody had trouble with h1B and green card.
Just like when countryside people work in Beijing/Shanghai, they seldom get
a HUKOU. |
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w********d
发帖数: 270 | 44 good one.
That's why when people in China boasted that they were quickly catching up
with USA in high-tech fields, even at the worst time (like 2008/9 financial
crisis), I never gave a shit to this kind of acclaim.
Even in current China Universities, for whatever reasons (e.g. Internet-
based digital libraries or collaborating with oversea scholars), more and
more Chinese scholars can publish so-called first-tier papers these days.
But, in my opinions (in my field, at least), I seldom see schola |
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r******n
发帖数: 2730 | 45 totally agree.
just like, we seldom play tricks with Laowai in china.
politics in the US is scary too. we are just not Niu enough to play in that
politics. |
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t***r
发帖数: 225 | 46 不知道多少理由是您的臆想。Does ABC have problems because they are ABC in US?
I did not see many. My university is a top 15 university with ~25% asia
ugrad, most of them are ABC. I seldom see or hear anything coming up just
because they are ABC.
Many ABC, or hybrid ABC enrolled graduate school, medical school, business
school later on, from what I know, they seems have a bright future. I did
not notice that they were unhappy because they are ABC.
From what I understand and my experience, the education level o |
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b*****9
发帖数: 8922 | 47 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
dabuwawa (dabuwawa) 于 (Mon Aug 2 14:23:13 2010, 美东) 提到:
最近认识一对夫妇，好象是投资移民过来的，男的在美国找了一分工作，工资也不高，
女的就在家呆着，照顾孩子。他们有一个男孩。
女的本来是在国内开饭店的，做的比较大，是连锁的，做了很多很多年了，现在移民来
了美国，女人很不适应，因为不懂英文，只能在家里呆着，经常回国，打理一下店铺，
享受一下国内的阔太太生活。
现在他们发现远地照顾国内的饭店实在太麻烦，于是把饭店卖了，一直留在美国。其实
在美国的收入肯定不及国内饭店的赚头，女人也不适应这里的生活，留在这里纯粹就是
为了儿子，因为儿子曾乞求他们说，不要把我送回中国。
回想一下自己的童年，的确觉得有太多不好的回忆。学业压力大就先不说了，就那历史
，语文和政治，简直就是浪费了我们童年宝贵的时间，什么都是围绕着党的正确领导展
开，一点没有趣味性，还花大把的时间死记硬背，看到美国孩子享受蓝天白云，回想一
下自己的童年，觉得的确是有缺憾的。既然自己没有好... 阅读全帖 |
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a**********t
发帖数: 9684 | 48 I don't think the guys trying to hit on me are players. I just think they
are not my fit. I feel I need someone at least having the same cultural
background to share opinions and understanding. But looking around, I seldom
see decent matches of Caucasian guys and Chinese girls. Most were just
casually dating and didn't end up with marriage. A few who ended up getting
married but definitely not worth any jealous feeling. |
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a***s
发帖数: 5417 | 49 Once, I was upset over something and the mood might be written on my face
since I seldom conceal my feelings. A very good friend of mine (white) told
me that she felt sorry that XXXX said that to me. Obviously she mistaken the
source of my frustration. I asked her: "what?"
She asked back, "You don't know? If you don't know, then I wouldn't tell. It
'll make you more upset. It's better for you to ignore."
I told her, "Please let me know. I would not feel comfortable if XXXX has
bad impression ove... 阅读全帖 |
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c**i
发帖数: 6973 | 50 Originally from Taiwan, I have lived in US for more than a quarter century--
all in the north (Chicago, Mahattan and Boston).
To be frank, I am always pzzled why there are few mosquitoes in American
north. (I seldom visited the south.) Taiwan is subtropical, with plenty of
mosquitoes.
I wonder what is the case in China: is there a difference between China's
north and south?
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