S**I
发帖数: 15689 | 1 sure you can, though it is kind of unethical. |
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g*******g
发帖数: 108 | 2 You have a big case against the Chinese school and the person who gave you
the bad reference. You can sue the school for punitive damage and the person
to retract his statement. Find a lawyer, you will win the case and get some
money(could be a lot of money). He probably will be fired due to his
documented unethical statement.
A company's HR never gave out performance reference, just because cases like
yours. Find a lawyer. Do not get angry, get EVEN.
good luck dude!
offer |
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l********s
发帖数: 395 | 3 I am a senior scientist in a company, joined the company 4months ago
Once I signed on, I was working with this Indian guy who was very hostile to
me since day 1
He has the same title and has being working here for 2 years, but he wanted
to treat me as his inferior or servant
He took credits, and was jealous, and liked to sabotage me on my back
I asked for being the Principle Investigator of a SBIR grant we are writing,
to stand up for myself 1st time
This indian guy settled me to be the PI and h... 阅读全帖 |
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j***n
发帖数: 1471 | 4 你说话第一要新平气和，要有professional manners,摆出对事不对人的姿态；第二要
convincing，据理力争。很多老中在美国工作生活了几十年，英语也就是个够工作用，
日常交谈的水平。想要写点有说服力的东西那是需要相当的功底的，想想国内的语文教
育，从小开始受过那么多读书写作训练，你才能写点有点政治深度的东西你就理解了。
现在他们都心虚道歉了，你有道德制高点了，一边接受道歉，一边赶紧站上去讲些有水
平的
Tolerating unethical behavior breeds poisonous culture, corrodes the
employees' integrity and hurts the company in the long run. Sacrificing our
upholding of professional ethics for a short-term office harmony exposes a
swinging standard and shows weak leadership to the public. |
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n*******n
发帖数: 515 | 5 这几句话nb
你说话第一要新平气和，要有professional manners,摆出对事不对人的姿态；第二要
convincing，据理力争。很多老中在美国工作生活了几十年，英语也就是个够工作用，
日常交谈的水平。想要写点有说服力的东西那是需要相当的功底的，想想国内的语文教
育，从小开始受过那么多读书写作训练，你才能写点有点政治深度的东西你就理解了。
现在他们都心虚道歉了，你有道德制高点了，一边接受道歉，一边赶紧站上去讲些有水
平的
Tolerating unethical behavior breeds poisonous culture, corrodes the
employees' integrity and hurts the company in the long run. Sacrificing our
upholding of professional ethics for a short-term office harmony exposes a
swinging standard and shows weak leadership to the public. |
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j***n
发帖数: 1471 | 6 你说话第一要新平气和，要有professional manners,摆出对事不对人的姿态；第二要
convincing，据理力争。很多老中在美国工作生活了几十年，英语也就是个够工作用，
日常交谈的水平。想要写点有说服力的东西那是需要相当的功底的，想想国内的语文教
育，从小开始受过那么多读书写作训练，你才能写点有点政治深度的东西你就理解了。
现在他们都心虚道歉了，你有道德制高点了，一边接受道歉，一边赶紧站上去讲些有水
平的
Tolerating unethical behavior breeds poisonous culture, corrodes the
employees' integrity and hurts the company in the long run. Sacrificing our
upholding of professional ethics for a short-term office harmony exposes a
swinging standard and shows weak leadership to the public. |
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n*******n
发帖数: 515 | 7 这几句话nb
你说话第一要新平气和，要有professional manners,摆出对事不对人的姿态；第二要
convincing，据理力争。很多老中在美国工作生活了几十年，英语也就是个够工作用，
日常交谈的水平。想要写点有说服力的东西那是需要相当的功底的，想想国内的语文教
育，从小开始受过那么多读书写作训练，你才能写点有点政治深度的东西你就理解了。
现在他们都心虚道歉了，你有道德制高点了，一边接受道歉，一边赶紧站上去讲些有水
平的
Tolerating unethical behavior breeds poisonous culture, corrodes the
employees' integrity and hurts the company in the long run. Sacrificing our
upholding of professional ethics for a short-term office harmony exposes a
swinging standard and shows weak leadership to the public. |
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k*****o
发帖数: 43 | 8 五月份毕业的new grad。三个星期前签了一家公司A，因为感觉manager人很nice，还有
方向对口，就签了（at will employment），现在背景调查以经做完。结果后面又拿了
一个更想去的offer B，让周一前答复。现在决定要不要毁约搞得很痛苦纠结。
在版上考古的出来的结论是唯一后果就是 A以后会blacklist，不知道对不对？ 还有想
请有类似经验的同学指点下具体操作流程, 是应该先签了B然后再毁A对吧？ 需要跟经
理和recruiter都打电话解释道歉吗？
也Google了好久关于renege on a job offer的帖子，美国佬的意见也差不多是:
1. no legal obligation.
2. Unethical, burn bridge.
3. But you need to do what is best for you.
因为B从薪水，地理位置和使用技术上都比A要理想不少，所以才很认真的想毁约。 从
来没工作过，结果第一次就碰到这种烦心事，请板上有经验的大哥大姐指点。 |
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c***z
发帖数: 6348 | 9 Let’s say that an investment bank tried to impose tech-company stack
ranking on its employees, associate level and higher. (Analyst programs are
another matter, not to be discussed here.) Realizing the mutual benefit in
protecting each other, the bankers would find a way to sabotage the process
by giving everyone top ratings, ranking the worst employees highly, or
simply refusing to do the paperwork. And good for them! Far from being
unethical, this is what they should do: collectively work The ... 阅读全帖 |
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T****O
发帖数: 407 | 10 (1) and (2) are unethical.
1st, what and how to cite are at the authors' discretion.
2nd, making specific citation demands to the authors would likely break the
anonymity of peer review. |
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j****a
发帖数: 351 | 11 不认识，附上了resume和所有publication。这个还有进行教育的必要么？
I am very sorry but I do not know you and I cannot recommend you to the INS.
This would be unethical. INS is a serious organization that will verify
your supporting parties. Getting a letter from someone who does not know
would degrade your application immediately. So be careful in getting support
if you are willing to stay in the US.
Good luck. |
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w*******r
发帖数: 2792 | 12 I always believe that it is unethical to use this type of title. |
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i******b
发帖数: 1780 | 13 England, Germany, France, Australia, Japan, Ireland, New Zealand and almost
all western countries have legalized to abolish anchor-baby citizenship in
the past 30 years. Canada has recently realized the serious consequences and
is planning to relinquish anchor baby citizenship in the next couple of
years. US should follow suit and make real immigration reform. The real
immigration reform is to abolish anchor baby citizenship, mandatory E-verify
for employees, secure the border, and restrict baby... 阅读全帖 |
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s*******n
发帖数: 4402 | 14 美国本来是有一些制度在这里阻止HR的unethical行为，但正如你说的，如果替代性太
强那只能凭关系，所以在这一点上中国人提拔中国人（如果不是打着个旗号骗人的话）
是可行的。
就像在国内，稍微好一点的工作都要有关系，那就不是扔简历的问题，是根本不需要看
简历的问题，每个行业都有一定的门槛，比如在国内银行里做系统的工程师，那首先要
学软件的，软件学院的那种，如果只有一个人符合条件，那不要关系，（这是不可能的
），但如果来了很多人都能做同样的工作，那不就是要搞一些其它的潜规则么？
烙印也一样，他们主要抱怨的是这个问题。 |
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c**i
发帖数: 6973 | 15 【 以下文字转载自 Love 讨论区 】
发信人: choi (choi), 信区: Love
标 题: Re: 下决心了！！！我要追求我的老师
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Dec 7 14:46:57 2008)
No mater what you do, wait after the semester is over. It is unethical for a
teacher to date a student, when the former is grading the latter.
发信人: k21 (k2), 信区: Love
标 题: 下决心了！我要追求我的老师！update下
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sat Dec 6 15:08:37 2008)
最近有点无法自拔的喜欢上自己的教授了，她其实挺年轻的，看了她的简历，应该29，
30吧。气质很好，很漂亮。不过和我以前的喜欢的type不同，说真的我也不知道自己为
什么会被她吸引，她有很多小动作都很可爱，像小女生。这样讲自己听上去挺像wsn。
其实我也和我ex分手不久。心理挺失落的，因为一些工作的 |
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b*****t
发帖数: 1276 | 16 You are looking down doctors. who cares 500? It's unethical to do this. |
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b*****t
发帖数: 1276 | 17 if you have a reason to use it, sure go ahead. that's fsa designed for.
what you are looking for is getting the money out without real using it. it'
s cheating! The doctor will not do it, that's why it's unethical.
It's your fault to put too much money in fsa, in fact it's you being greedy
to save tax. |
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Z*********1
发帖数: 627 | 18 配付眼镜也好， 针灸也好, chiropractice也好, 把它花掉是最快最合适的方法.
指望把它拿出来是不可能了. 你说的chiropactioner help you to get money out是不
太可能的,除非他/她脑子进水了. 话虽难听但事实是如此. 让我分析给你听一下你就好
理解了.
这$500 chiropactioner就算脑子进水给你开了收据 (本身非法就不说了), 收据一开给
你报了, 马上这钱就变成他的收入被报到IRS, 算他一年挣$100,000, self-employed,
双份Social Security + Medicare 就是１６．５％， 州税５．３％， 联邦税１６
％， 就是说他一给你收据，下一季度他就得马上为这张开出的收据交$２００税. 剩
下＄３００你怎么分?你＄１５０，他＄１５０， 你觉得你折腾半天就拿回来$１５０
值得吗？你觉得他冒着这么大的危险非法为你开了收据就为了这$150值得吗? 这不是
unethical的问题,这是犯
罪, 你觉得有哪个kind－hearted chiropactioner为了这$１５０去犯这个罪吗？如
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m******a
发帖数: 112 | 19 像BJ,Costco一类的membership，人家店里要求“One additional card is also
provided for a member of your household at no additional charge.”。有些人为
了省点小钱，就跑到BBS上来发帖。这个虽然work，确是absolutely unethical的。希
望版主禁止。
兼回下面的几个帖子：“这又没伤害到别人，为啥要禁止？”如果BJ和Costco不是人开
的你们的话就成立。自己欺骗还到BBS发帖鼓励别人一起骗。国人贪小便宜吃大亏的例
子已经数不胜数，不多说了。 |
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g*******s
发帖数: 2828 | 20 Done? gimme a break. Cohen probably couldn't care less -- almost half of the
fund is his own money and the majority of outside money will be pulled at
the end of the year anyway. SAC would become a family office regardless,
just like Soros/Druckenmiller.
No doubt he got started by trading on tips -- he paid the most commission
and demanded first crack at sell-side reports. This is highly unethical but
wasn't illegal before Reg FD. I highly doubt he himself was involved in any
of the accused case... 阅读全帖 |
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b*********6
发帖数: 129 | 21 【 以下文字转载自 WaterWorld 讨论区 】
发信人: yamazaki (月は私の心を代表している), 信区: WaterWorld
标 题: 好消息，ABC总裁给我发信，承诺组织委员会进行调查 (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Oct 21 12:30:29 2013, 美东)
发信人: yamazaki (月は私の心を代表している), 信区: Military
标 题: 好消息，ABC总裁给我发信，承诺组织委员会进行调查
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Oct 21 12:29:53 2013, 美东)
好消息，ABC总裁给我发信，承诺组织委员会进行调查，必要的话对Jimmy Kimmel进行
停职处理。
我是上周看到军版的号召，就给ABC发信和打电话的，看来ABC对这类涉及种族歧视事情
还是很重视的。
亲爱的yamazaki(我的化名）
非常高兴看到你对ABC电视网络的关注。ABC曾经为种族正义和民权运动而奋斗并以
此为荣。
你谈到Jimmy Kimmel访谈节目的不合适言论，我们对此深表关注。我已经要求伦理
委员会对Jimm... 阅读全帖 |
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R**********n
发帖数: 523 | 22 【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: RichardBiton (Richard), 信区: USANews
标 题: Millions of Broken American Dreams zzz
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Nov 13 16:11:58 2013, 美东)
http://www.weidb.com/voice/index.php?title=Millions_of_Broken_A
Millions of Broken American Dreams -- An Open Letter to the World
November 12, 2013
Dear Fair and Righteous Citizens of the World,
We don't know who you are, but we know you are out there. We are
asking for your urgent help. We have been rendered voiceless, powerles... 阅读全帖 |
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t*******y
发帖数: 2424 | 23 很多first time buyer是需要代理给价格的建议的，我个人觉得一人代表多个offer是
unethical 的，就跟dual agent一样，违反了loyalty原则。因为代理应该是知无不言
的。
当然legally 是可以的，但我个人不做。 |
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g******4
发帖数: 6339 | 24 小弟总是认为, it is ethical to 提供正确的信息，
It is unethical to provide fake info.
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b*x
发帖数: 5456 | 25 你举个例子看看正确的看？
copy paste challenger的不算， 何况copy paste还没credit， copy 完还忘记加权平
均。 这数学系毕业的还不如去吃屎。
唯一个方法正确的是到黑人区买门牌， 涂锅灰冒充老黑考CPS gifted。 结果还是
unethical的。 |
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g******4
发帖数: 6339 | 26
"到中国即使没有多少cash，估计return的概率是0。"
------------------
It is unethical to make negative comments 基于种族，肤色，居住地，国家，地区
, ... |
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t****n
发帖数: 1347 | 27
They won't let you pass the start-line if you are not registered.
Also banditing a race is considered unethical. |
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n***y
发帖数: 15001 | 28 that was totally irresponsible and unethical... |
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z*********n
发帖数: 94654 | 29 嗯，所以一开始人们只是愤慨 unethical behavior
没有违任何法，要蠢就蠢在老莫兄弟们不懂英文不去投票不管meeting说啥
让几个turnout的选民代表了，呵呵
不过现在查出来一些非法的事情，所以上手铐了
有，未经voter approval章垃圾费
有fake board meeting涨工资
有非法给自己loan money等等
所以那几个蛀虫如果不是那么啥留那么多把柄只是给自己高工资你还真没办法
即便如此好多砖家说最后在jury面前定罪也不是那么容易的 |
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l**********g
发帖数: 53 | 31 On the other hand, most people from the mainland have unethical habits in
many daily life activities they do not even know themselves. Awful habits
such as failing to properly maintaining the house, failing to preserve
natural resources, doing to others they do not want others doing to them,
getting shopping cart from supermarket and never return them, discriminating
for no reason and failing to see for yourself. What's so good about people
like you who discriminate for your own individual incid... 阅读全帖 |
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R**********n
发帖数: 523 | 32 http://www.weidb.com/voice/index.php?title=Millions_of_Broken_A
Millions of Broken American Dreams -- An Open Letter to the World
November 12, 2013
Dear Fair and Righteous Citizens of the World,
We don't know who you are, but we know you are out there. We are
asking for your urgent help. We have been rendered voiceless, powerless, and
hopeless by the American mass media and many Americans. The American mass
media have lost journalistic ethics and objectivity and have been blatantly... 阅读全帖 |
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z****n
发帖数: 5870 | 33 【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: RichardBiton (Richard), 信区: USANews
标 题: Millions of Broken American Dreams zzz
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Nov 13 16:11:58 2013, 美东)
http://www.weidb.com/voice/index.php?title=Millions_of_Broken_A
Millions of Broken American Dreams -- An Open Letter to the World
November 12, 2013
Dear Fair and Righteous Citizens of the World,
We don't know who you are, but we know you are out there. We are
asking for your urgent help. We have been rendered voiceless, powerles... 阅读全帖 |
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z***x
发帖数: 9 | 34 If possible, I would like to give them negative 10 stars, since I lost ~$
1000 due to their dishonest conduct/fraud. In short, based on their
estimated price, I took the treatments and paid the corresponding fees, and
also skipped a few proposed treatments due to unacceptable high prices, but
after 3+ years, they informed me I owed them $1200+!
Don’t want to lose your hard-earned money? It may be hundreds to thousands
dollars. It may be now, but also in 3, 5, even 10 years! Don’t want to sit
in ... 阅读全帖 |
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p**********u
发帖数: 15479 | 35 【 以下文字转载自 Automobile 讨论区 】
发信人: HarvardThief (哈佛哥儿), 信区: Automobile
标 题: PNAS：科研发现宝马车主最缺德
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun May 18 05:27:15 2014, 美东)
宝马车主最缺德，seriously
UC Berkeley心理学教授Paul K. Piff研究发现宝马车主最缺德。其研究对象为各个档
次车的车主，观察他们在遇到行人过马路时是否停车让行、all-way stop sign是否按
规则依次通行。结论是越好的车越缺德。研究于2012年发表在著名杂志PNAS：
Higher social class predicts increased unethical behavior
http://www.pnas.org/content/early/2012/02/21/1118373109
其中宝马车主傲居榜首，成为最缺德车主。文献中当然不能显示，但作者曾向nytimes
透露：
"BMW drivers were the worst"
http://wheels.blogs.... 阅读全帖 |
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n***c
发帖数: 1 | 36 找 Fong Joe Hou 律师所做过 real estate attorney, they are unethical, 说一套
做一套，而且态度很不好。 |
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s**********a
发帖数: 51 | 37 ME TOO, I WAS REFERRED BY AILEEN CHEN (KELLER WILLIAMS CHINESE REALTOR
LOCATED IN METUCHEN) TO CONTACT NANCY WANG, SHE IS ABOUT THE SAME UNETHICAL
IN DOING BUSINESS AND WILL RIP-OFF YOUR MONEY AS NANCY WANG, STAY AWAY FROM
THESE TWO OR YOU WILL END UP TO BE A VICTIM LIKE ME. I AM GLAD YOU GUYS
MENTIONED THIS, TOGETHER WE ARE STRONGER. |
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j*****e
发帖数: 81 | 38 其实我写以前犹豫了很久， 因为指控是比较严重的，
也许Nancy Wang已经改好了。
没想到这么快有两个人跟帖说和她最近
有类似经历。 我也算松了一口气， 没写错人。 惯犯了。
Living版的人说利率越高， 她挣的钱越多。 这也是我们当初一直纠结的问题，
是不是错怪了好人，也许她确实没有办法。 我们这些读书出来的人，都太善良了。
我还在文学城看到有人说"Nancy Wang现在卖房贷了, 我当年被她忽悠买的投资全赔了".
看来她是理财顾问出身，忽悠惯了。
UNETHICAL
FROM |
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l*****d
发帖数: 1948 | 39 所以这些agents好不好看广告根本不知道，建议找认识的朋友推荐推荐
UNETHICAL
FROM |
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s**********a
发帖数: 51 | 40 ME TOO, I WAS REFERRED BY AILEEN CHEN (KELLER WILLIAMS CHINESE REALTOR
LOCATED IN METUCHEN) TO CONTACT NANCY WANG, SHE IS ABOUT THE SAME UNETHICAL
IN DOING BUSINESS AND WILL RIP-OFF YOUR MONEY AS NANCY WANG, STAY AWAY FROM
THESE TWO OR YOU WILL END UP TO BE A VICTIM LIKE ME. I AM GLAD YOU GUYS
MENTIONED THIS, TOGETHER WE ARE STRONGER. |
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j*****e
发帖数: 81 | 41 其实我写以前犹豫了很久， 因为指控是比较严重的，
也许Nancy Wang已经改好了。
没想到这么快有两个人跟帖说和她最近
有类似经历。 我也算松了一口气， 没写错人。 惯犯了。
Living版的人说利率越高， 她挣的钱越多。 这也是我们当初一直纠结的问题，
是不是错怪了好人，也许她确实没有办法。 我们这些读书出来的人，都太善良了。
我还在文学城看到有人说"Nancy Wang现在卖房贷了, 我当年被她忽悠买的投资全赔了".
看来她是理财顾问出身，忽悠惯了。
UNETHICAL
FROM |
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l*****d
发帖数: 1948 | 42 所以这些agents好不好看广告根本不知道，建议找认识的朋友推荐推荐
UNETHICAL
FROM |
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S*******h
发帖数: 7021 | 43 【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: Daos (刀丝斋), 信区: USANews
标 题: 看看沃伦·巴菲特的纤巧的税收漏洞 - 巴伦周刊zz
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Oct 3 11:10:41 2016, 美东)
有人无知,说巴菲特不享受税务优惠。看看沃伦·巴菲特的纤巧的税收漏洞 - 巴伦周刊
Warren Buffett's Nifty Tax Loophole - Barron's
http://www.barrons.com/articles/warren-buffetts-nifty-tax-loophole-1428726092
(If you google Warren Buffett's Nifty Tax Loophole - Barron's, you will be
able to read it. If you click the link, it seems to ask you to subscribe.
Let me copy and paste it here for your reference.)
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c********e
发帖数: 6158 | 45 it is not about standard (it is always easy to set up a standard) but about
the whole environment - if everybody only pursue money, unethical events
will always happen... |
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i*****g
发帖数: 2564 | 46 Those agents are probably try to do it off the books - not paying the real
estate company their cut and/or getting the full (buy/sell) commission.
Probably unethical since the owner may be missing out on better price offers
from the market. |
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g******s
发帖数: 3056 | 47 Always to remember to compare prices. One guy named Michael quoted an insane
and laughable price. Now I do not recommend Chinese any more. Unreliable
work and sometime unethical. You get what you paid for. |
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O***n
发帖数: 13127 | 48 if drink too much milk, the kids take too much protein. if fed up, will not
take other stuff. Diet needs to be balanced.
As in the movie "forks over knives, milk is for small baby humans and
animals, why do grown-ups need to drink it? it is unethical, lol |
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O***n
发帖数: 13127 | 49 citation
Do you guarantee that I will win?
Sorry but no. It is both unethical and unwise for an attorney to guarantee
that you will win your case. This is because there can never be certainty
about the outcome of any particular case. If an attorney guarantees you that
he will win your case, run. He is not being honest with you. |
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i********6
发帖数: 4766 | 50 I've reported 99 ranch to SD Health Dept twice already, but, nothing
happened.
You might want to take a video next time if you sees these, or picture of
the rotten product that you just buy, send the video/picture to local news.
That's what I will do, besides not buying at this unethical store as much
as
possible. |
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