i*********8
发帖数: 3229 | 1 忘记了中国孩子即便你在美国出生的在美国升学读书就业远远比其它族裔难多了。 |
z****e
发帖数: 54598 | |
C*****y
发帖数: 510 | 3 true. Books like Amy Chua's will only make things worse! Now, a stronger
reason to reject Chinese kids. It is horrible!
【在 i*********8 的大作中提到】
: 忘记了中国孩子即便你在美国出生的在美国升学读书就业远远比其它族裔难多了。
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z***1
发帖数: 371 | 4 Cosmicy, I think you may have gotten yourself too worked up. Give others the
benefit of the doubt...
You may want to read Chua's reactions to this...
http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/g/a/2011/01/13/apo |
l*****n
发帖数: 1274 | 5 no matter what，一般的老美还是会对中国人指手画脚的，他们什么时候愿意花时间去
了解别人了解别的文化啦。有没有这本书区别不大。 |
l*****n
发帖数: 1274 | 6 我碰到过有白奶奶在我管教孩子的时候站在旁边看，然后说you really should not
have done this blahblah，弄得我很郁闷，当时居然无话可说。后来跟我邻居唠叨，
她说你就应该说it's not your business, stay away,礼貌些就说thank you, bye. |
z***1
发帖数: 371 | 7 If you can't change them, why would you want to subject yourself to mere
ignorance?
Letting go of things we can't change.
【在 l*****n 的大作中提到】
: no matter what，一般的老美还是会对中国人指手画脚的，他们什么时候愿意花时间去
: 了解别人了解别的文化啦。有没有这本书区别不大。
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y****i
发帖数: 12114 | |
V*****8
发帖数: 33122 | 9 she is, last name is "Cai" from Fujian
【在 y****i 的大作中提到】
: 不是说了那个什么chua不是中国人么？
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y****i
发帖数: 12114 | 10 following words are from the link that you provided.
"She points out that while she uses the term "Chinese motherhood" as
shorthand for her neotraditionalist style of parenting, she states early on
that many people of Chinese background don't subscribe to such methods, and
many non-Chinese do. She also asserts that this is meant to be her own
tragicomic story, and not a recipe for others to follow."
if she knows "many people of Chinese background don't subscribe to such
methods", why did she use "Chinese"? to attract eyeballs?
i personally hate to be represented by anyone who claims to be Chinese but
is not.I don't care if his/her grandparent was a descendant of Chinese. by
the way, can Ms. Chua speak Chinese,any kind?
the
【在 z***1 的大作中提到】
: Cosmicy, I think you may have gotten yourself too worked up. Give others the
: benefit of the doubt...
: You may want to read Chua's reactions to this...
: http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/g/a/2011/01/13/apo
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b*********n
发帖数: 2975 | 11 "by the way, can Ms. Chua speak Chinese,any kind?"
may not , 'cause she have to hire maid or her students for speaking chinese
with
her daughter, hehe
following words are from the link that you provided.
"She points out that while she uses the term "Chinese motherhood" as
shorthand for her neotraditionalist style of parenting, she states early on
that many people of Chinese background don't subscribe to such methods, and
many non-Chinese do. She also asserts that this is meant to be her own
tragicomic story, and not a recipe for others to follow."
if she knows "many people of Chinese background don't subscribe to such
methods", why did she use "Chinese"? to attract eyeballs?
i personally hate to be represented by anyone who claims to be Chinese but
is not.I don't care if his/her grandparent was a descendant of Chinese. by
the way, can Ms. Chua speak Chinese,any kind?
the
【在 y****i 的大作中提到】
: following words are from the link that you provided.
: "She points out that while she uses the term "Chinese motherhood" as
: shorthand for her neotraditionalist style of parenting, she states early on
: that many people of Chinese background don't subscribe to such methods, and
: many non-Chinese do. She also asserts that this is meant to be her own
: tragicomic story, and not a recipe for others to follow."
: if she knows "many people of Chinese background don't subscribe to such
: methods", why did she use "Chinese"? to attract eyeballs?
: i personally hate to be represented by anyone who claims to be Chinese but
: is not.I don't care if his/her grandparent was a descendant of Chinese. by
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z***1
发帖数: 371 | 12 No one likes to be stereotyped even sometimes that is a positive stereotype.
But I think you are being overly critical. The article nor the book is
intended to be examined as a legal document. Relax...she may not have an
intent to represent you....of course I can't speak for her as I can't
represent her...but at least I don't want to be critical of someone that I
am not familiar with.
on
and
【在 y****i 的大作中提到】
: following words are from the link that you provided.
: "She points out that while she uses the term "Chinese motherhood" as
: shorthand for her neotraditionalist style of parenting, she states early on
: that many people of Chinese background don't subscribe to such methods, and
: many non-Chinese do. She also asserts that this is meant to be her own
: tragicomic story, and not a recipe for others to follow."
: if she knows "many people of Chinese background don't subscribe to such
: methods", why did she use "Chinese"? to attract eyeballs?
: i personally hate to be represented by anyone who claims to be Chinese but
: is not.I don't care if his/her grandparent was a descendant of Chinese. by
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P***s
发帖数: 11672 | 13 她是没打算代表中国妈妈，她就是想卖书赚钱。
倒霉的是钱也没分上的广大中国妈妈，当了垫脚石。
stereotype.
【在 z***1 的大作中提到】
: No one likes to be stereotyped even sometimes that is a positive stereotype.
: But I think you are being overly critical. The article nor the book is
: intended to be examined as a legal document. Relax...she may not have an
: intent to represent you....of course I can't speak for her as I can't
: represent her...but at least I don't want to be critical of someone that I
: am not familiar with.
:
: on
: and
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z***1
发帖数: 371 | 14 Sorry...you sounded so self-loathing and pathetic.
【在 P***s 的大作中提到】
: 她是没打算代表中国妈妈，她就是想卖书赚钱。
: 倒霉的是钱也没分上的广大中国妈妈，当了垫脚石。
:
: stereotype.
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P***s
发帖数: 11672 | 15 赞你以苦为乐并乐在其中
【在 z***1 的大作中提到】
: Sorry...you sounded so self-loathing and pathetic.
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z***1
发帖数: 371 | 16 And now sounded sarcastic. Hopefully you weren't intended to be what you
were perceived to be.
Good luck.
【在 P***s 的大作中提到】
: 赞你以苦为乐并乐在其中
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P***s
发帖数: 11672 | 17 sigh，你咋总是这么高高在上的圣人一样的呢？
【在 z***1 的大作中提到】
: And now sounded sarcastic. Hopefully you weren't intended to be what you
: were perceived to be.
: Good luck.
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