l****7 发帖数: 975 | 1 第一天,我在得时候娃玩的很高兴。一看到我有一点走的动向就哭,所以我呆了一早上
,然后把他带胡来了。今天他爸去,不知道咋样了。
什么时候能八他一个人方哪里呢? | a****n 发帖数: 8553 | 2 我也在担心这个问题,我在想是趁孩子不注意溜掉还是跟他说好后不管怎么哭闹都走掉
,哪个更合适一点? | d*********t 发帖数: 751 | 3 be sure not to sneak away from the classroom. My teacher told me to say buy
to the kid every time I leave the classroom. It might be helpful to set up a
routine for leaving the room by doing kiss-bye or hug-bye. | c********6 发帖数: 870 | 4 I actually sneaked away the first time I dropped my daughter off. She cried
for a while after she noticed that I left. But then after she started to
play with other kids, she's fine.
My daughter actually adjusted to the daycare very quickly. She only cried
for a long time (about half hour) for the first day. She was happily waving
byebye the second day. The first two days we did half days to ensure her
that we would be back. On the third day, we tried to have her taking a nap
there. The teacher said she cried a bit at nap, but eventually fell asleep
when the teacher held her.
She got sick after the first 3days in daycare, and had to stay at home for a
week before she went back. So we were worried that we might have to deal
with everything once more. However, it did not happen. She was not always
extremely happy for the first 1-2 weeks when being dropped off, but never
cried extensively. The most difficult part for her was to get used to
sleeping w/ other kids, which was another story.
In my opinion, it probably does not matter so much how you leave for the
first several times. The important thing is for her to realize that you will
be back, and of course she has to enjoy the time in the daycare. Also, I
felt playing with the kids in the daycare might not be a good strategy. It
might prolong the time for the kid to get adjusted to the daycare. Just my
two cents. | s*****p 发帖数: 1279 | 5 我倾向于跟她说byebye,即使当时哭,但她慢慢会意识到我已经离开,哭也没有用,如
果老师负责的话用玩具逗一下会比较好,如果我是偷偷溜掉,她以为我还在,整天都会
吵着找我
【在 a****n 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 我也在担心这个问题,我在想是趁孩子不注意溜掉还是跟他说好后不管怎么哭闹都走掉 : ,哪个更合适一点?
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