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发帖数: 177 | 1
or
not
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It is obvious you understand men far better than
most men understand themselves.
But that can give a very insecure feeling to those
men who are already psychologically insecure.
Cocoon is BSing you, but without success, because
you're too intelligent to fall for it.
I find it very refreshing to hear perceptive ideas
and truths coming from smart minds, particularly
women. |
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C***1
发帖数: 2264 | 2 什么情况都是有特例的，绝大部分的情况下，孩子同时和亲身父母有联系是对孩子身心
最好的，当然也有特例，象是家暴，吸毒的父亲/母亲，还是不见对孩子更好。孩子在5
，6个月以后就有记忆，开始认人了，失去父母任何一方会造成孩子insecure,当然，年
纪约小，伤害越小。很小的孩子，也许不记得了，但潜意识上的insecure,还是会在的
。而且，继父母要是真的爱孩子，以孩子为重，就不应该要求孩子不见生父母，多一分
亲身父/母的爱，对孩子不是更好？
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发帖数: 3531 | 3 Tracy McMillan is a TV writer whose credits include Mad Men and The United
States of Tara. Her memoir I Love You and I'm Leaving You Anyway is now
available in paperback from Harper Collins/It Books. She lives in Los
Angeles with her 13-year-old son. Follow her on Twitter.
你没有结婚 排名前10位的原因
1. 你是一个来势汹汹的女人
2。你浅薄。
3. 你是一个荡妇。
4. 你是个骗子。
5. 你自私。
6. 你还不够好。
底线是，婚姻仅仅是一个长期的实践机会，爱好的人，甚至当他们这样做不值得。因为大部分时间，你的凌乱，放屁，通心粉和奶酪吃的人不会做你想要他。但是，你给他反正爱 - 因为你已经决定了你的头脑转变成自己一个人，谁是执业仁慈，深的，良性的，真实的，给予，而最重要的是，接受自己亲爱的自我 - 你会发现，你会... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 189 | 4 来自主题: PsychoAnalysis版 - 活着很痛苦 seems your anxiety might be closely related to your depression. some people
tend to worry/feel insecure/stress out more easily, then it is natural for
them to either avoid social network (for fear of presenting flaws/being
laughed at/being disliked) or get angry easily (because of bottling up too
much). with all insecurity, low self-esteem, self-blame, frustration,
irritability, and such, small changes in life may trigger depression and
make you feel more hopeless and helpless.
psychotherapy hel |
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发帖数: 6523 | 5 Dear mm, yes, "听说PLR中出现的情景都有着很强烈的真实感，所以我很渴望能体验一
次。" I wish you succeed in experiencing that. Brian Weiss has written many
more books other than "many lives, many masters", and you can read those to
know more of similar stories. I wish you succeed in that.
As to dreams, I used to be very interested in Carl Jung (荣格)'s theories
when I read about him, and I recorded my dreams the first thing in the
morning after I woke up for several weeks. Through that experience, I
noticed some patterns in my dre... 阅读全帖 |
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T*******y
发帖数: 6523 | 6 Dear mm, yes, "听说PLR中出现的情景都有着很强烈的真实感，所以我很渴望能体验一
次。" I wish you succeed in experiencing that. Brian Weiss has written many
more books other than "many lives, many masters", and you can read those to
know more of similar stories. I wish you succeed in that.
As to dreams, I used to be very interested in Carl Jung (荣格)'s theories
when I read about him, and I recorded my dreams the first thing in the
morning after I woke up for several weeks. Through that experience, I
noticed some patterns in my dre... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 8775 | 7 这是中译本的一个意译，目的是为了让读者更容易理解圣经。而英文版本没有这样翻译。
但是这个问题是很普遍的问题，google一下就可以看到解释。我这里把NET bible的解
释粘贴过来，希望您能了解的更深入。
God gave Moses a preview of all that would take place in his dealings with
Pharaoh (vv. 21-23). When God said He would harden Pharaoh’s heart (v. 21),
He was not saying that Pharaoh would be unable to choose whether he would
release the Israelites. God made Pharaoh’s heart progressively harder as
the king chose to disobey God’s will (cf. Lev. 26:23-24).
“The hardening of Pharaoh is ascribed to... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 4252 | 8 发信人: ruomu (ruomu), 信区: WaterWorld
标 题: 有关长沙6天建起一座酒店的YouTube评论---看看那些美国人怎么评论我们吧
（很多评论很搞笑），我们在进步，别太着急~我比较好奇如果是美国6天建起酒店，中
国各路人马会如何评价？
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Nov 24 12:17:43 2010, 美东)
这个酒店，事先的设计、打地基、预制件生产肯定不止6天。贴视频也是个标题党，“
第一天”明显是两天，从开始工作到天黑，一共是20个小时。估计是第一天夜里没加班
，和第二天早上连一起了。而且可以注意里面基本上一个昼夜交替是20小时，说明一天
还休息了4个小时。视频里也没说是连续工作或者六天建成。所以全部时间应该是7天到
8天。工作时间是136.5小时。但是能这样建起来还是很令人惊讶的。远大公司还在世博
会上面花了24小时建造了一栋展示楼，那个有24小时连续视频。
下面是Youtube上外国人的部分评价。里面当然有一些是嘲笑中国产品质量低下的。但
是更多的是惊讶。搞笑评论也很多。欧美发达国家因为建筑项目少，所以市场养不起太
多的建筑工人，所... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 8108 | 9 http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/WaterWorld/602567.html
发信人: ruomu (ruomu), 信区: WaterWorld
标 题: 有关长沙6天建起一座酒店的YouTube评论---看看那些美国人怎么评论我们吧
（很多评论很搞笑），我们在进步，别太着急~我比较好奇如果是美国6天建起酒店，中
国各路人马会如何评价？
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Nov 24 12:17:43 2010, 美东)
这个酒店，事先的设计、打地基、预制件生产肯定不止6天。贴视频也是个标题党，“
第一天”明显是两天，从开始工作到天黑，一共是20个小时。估计是第一天夜里没加班
，和第二天早上连一起了。而且可以注意里面基本上一个昼夜交替是20小时，说明一天
还休息了4个小时。视频里也没说是连续工作或者六天建成。所以全部时间应该是7天到
8天。工作时间是136.5小时。但是能这样建起来还是很令人惊讶的。远大公司还在世博
会上面花了24小时建造了一栋展示楼，那个有24小时连续视频。
下面是Youtube上外国人的部分评价。里面当然有一些是嘲笑中国产品... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 141625 | 10 附Amazon的链接与介绍：
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1594205469/ref=s9_simh_bw_p14_
The Triple Package: How Three Unlikely Traits Explain the Rise and Fall of
Cultural Groups in America Hardcover
by Amy Chua (Author) , Jed Rubenfeld (Author)
It may be taboo to say, but some groups in America do better than others.
Mormons have recently risen to astonishing business success. Cubans in Miami
climbed from poverty to prosperity in a generation. Nigerians earn
doctorates at stunningly high rates. Indian a... 阅读全帖 |
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B*****g
发帖数: 34098 | 11 电影
http://www.oracle.com/us/dm/72839-nafm12038626mpp247-oem-193098
电影前的讲座
Gone in 60 Seconds:
An Insecure Database Is an Easy Target
Featuring Mandiant: The information security industry’s leading provider of
incident response and computer forensics solutions and services.
According to leading industry reports, 98% of breached data originates from
database servers and nearly half are compromised in less than a minute. Few
victims are even aware of a breach until they’re notified by a third party... 阅读全帖 |
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e*******o
发帖数: 4654 | 12 王是比一般人强些 毕竟研究过compiler
不过牛的程度还仅限于得自己写blog给别人解释
我最近看过一段话将两种聪明人
intellectual secure vs insecure
王的悲剧自已 insecure |
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c**d
发帖数: 3888 | 13 如果去的法学院不是 Top-14，甚至不是 Top 50，没有很强的 patent 背景，希望你们
能避免弯路。下面的故事读起来像小说，但是我可以告诉你们，非常现实。
http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1905801&forum_id=2#20761498
In a couple short weeks, a new wave of hapless lemmings will crack open the
shrinkwrap on those heinously overpriced casebooks, boot up their laptops
for some heated note-taking, and commence their voyage down the road of
America’s most overrated, miserable, and saturated industry: the practice
of law. A pompous, overpaid professor will sau... 阅读全帖 |
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l********z
发帖数: 810 | 14 It is not only the price I am willing to pay for it, but also how much I can
afford to pay and what predictable result I can get. Match is an insecure
process, the older your are, the more insecure you will feel. |
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v******s
发帖数: 6949 | 15 整天把穷人，富人，挂嘴上的，自己内心insecure。
你要认真，也是insecure. |
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z*******n
发帖数: 1034 | 16 Posted May 28, 2014 by Jordan Crook (@jordanrcrook)
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Confirmed: Snapchat’s Evan Spiegel Is Kind Of An Ass
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I’ve known Evan Spiegel, Snapchat CEO and co-founder, for a while now. We
have had more than half a dozen in-person conversations, far more phone
calls, and even shared twenty minutes together on stage at Disrupt SF. And
try as I might, I’ve had a hard time liking him. Now, after reading emails
sent by Evan Spiegel during his undergrad ... 阅读全帖 |
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i**w
发帖数: 883 | 17 sip_servers.conf
=====================================
[sipgate]
context=incoming
type=peer
host=sipgate.com
username=
secret=
nat=yes
fromdomain=sipgate.com
fromuser=
insecure=invite
canreinvite=no
caninvite=no
disallow=all
allow=ulaw
allow=alaw
allow=g729
dtmfmode=rfc2833
[nonoh]
type=peer
host=sip.nonoh.net
username=
secret=
nat=yes
fromdomain=nonoh.net
fromuser=
insecure=invite
canreinvite=no
caninvite=no
disallow= |
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t***n
发帖数: 546 | 18 鉴于有人要求详细配置，现在把几个配置文件贴出来，欢迎大牛们指正
gtalk.conf***********************
[general]
context=google-in ; Context to dump call into
allowguest=yes
[guest] ; special account for options on guest account
disallow=all
allow=ulaw
context=google-in
[dummy-gtalk]
username=d***[email protected]
disallow=all
allow=ulaw
context=google-in
connection=dummy
[user3-gtalk]
username=u***[email protected]
disallow=all
allow=ulaw
context=google-in
connection=user3
[user1-gtalk]
username=u***[email protected]
disallow=all
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k****t
发帖数: 2288 | 19 装了1.8,也用了google talk，但是也用了sipgate来接sipgate的电话或者是用来打800
电话。但是现在我从sipgate的另外一个号码call这个650XXXXX2的电话得到如下的log
，给人的感觉就是进了outbound的了，好奇怪；看了一下externsion。conf，应该是
come in phone call会自动dial default的呀？
其他的都很正常：从1001往外打电话，接gtalk来的电话，但是没有办法接从sipgate过
来的电话。
== Using SIP RTP CoS mark 5
-- Executing [650XXXXXX2@outbound:1] Set("SIP/SipGate-0000001d", "
CALLERID(dnid)=1650XXXXXX2") in new stack
-- Executing [650XXXXXX2@outbound:2] Goto("SIP/SipGate-0000001d", "
1650XXXXXX2,1") in new stack
-- Goto (o... 阅读全帖 |
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e******o
发帖数: 1160 | 20 用的dockstar，装的archlinux，安装的asterisk 1.8，很是奇怪，打中国电话老是出错
。。。。。
dockstar*CLI> sip show peers
Name/username Host Dyn Force
rport ACL Port Status
1001/1001 192.168.1.138 D N
A 5060 OK (215 ms)
1002 (Unspecified) D N
0 Unmonitored
SipGate/xxx 204.155.28.10 N
5060 OK (24 ms)
nonoh/bbb... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 110 | 21 http://www.nytimes.com/2011/09/03/world/asia/03china.html?_r=1&
BEIJING — Last Jan. 27, an Inner Mongolian rights activist, Govruud
Huuchinhuu, suddenly vanished after leaving a hospital where she had
undergone treatment for cancer. On Feb. 16, the Beijing human-rights lawyer
Tang Jitian vanished after being forcibly taken away by police officers. On
May 30, an ethnic Uighur, Ershidin Israel, vanished after being deported to
China from Kazakhstan as a terrorism suspect. In the next two weeks, th... 阅读全帖 |
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J*V
发帖数: 3150 | 22 A recent survey of over 35, 500 single ladies in China offers some insight
into Chinese women's attitudes towards men and marriage. The survey, which
included questions such as "Why are you still single?" and "What kind of man
do you hope to marry?" shed light on the types of men that single Chinese
women prefer, with some surprising results.
While 51.13 percent of the women surveyed regarded "getting married" as
their goal, they reported that the top three male traits that made them
prefer sing... 阅读全帖 |
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M***O
发帖数: 3718 | 23 http://www.tealeafnation.com/2013/04/why-time-is-running-out-on
In recent years, issues about China’s pension system have repeatedly hit a
public nerve. Among the hot topics consistently reappearing on the front
pages of Chinese papers, the social pension perhaps has the most direct
influence on people’s lives. Yet convoluted procedures and a lack of
transparency make the institution hard to decipher. From time to time,
officials, scholars and citizens have debated whether there is a major
crisi... 阅读全帖 |
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s****e
发帖数: 98 | 24 热热闹闹的一年又将结束，这世间百态都浓缩在一个个或逗趣、或严肃、或无奈的词汇
里。读懂了这些词，也就读懂了，这一年来国人的酸甜苦辣与喜怒哀乐。
事态
让我们不淡定的那些事
【占领华尔街】
今年，从某种意义上来说，真是个好年景。恐怖头目拉登“仙逝”，独裁者相继倒台，
从穆巴拉克到卡扎菲，都没有好下常民主似乎成了一条必然的道路。当然这种民主必然
得是健康的，当它被大财团以及所谓的社会精英所挟持的时候，同样会引来民众的愤懑
之情，所以代表着权势与金钱的华尔街成为了大家泄愤的对象，长期被剪羊毛的人们，
还是爆发了。
【微公益】
微公益除了通过聚集民众的善意，让许多身处困境的人感到温暖，它也是一个社会日趋
成熟的标志。著名学者笑蜀说，“所谓全民公益、微公益，毋宁说是微革命。它的意义
不限于公益层面，更提供了变革社会的新方法、新范式。”
【春运会】
办好奥运会，亚运会、大运会都不算什么，把春运会办好了，才是真牛。每年都有媒体
报道，“今年将不再一票难求！2012年春运又快开始了，希望这个新闻变成事实。
【核危机】
日本福岛核泄漏让全世界心惊胆颤，而中国电力投资集团公司总经理称，我国第三代核
电技术... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 3978 | 25 Recession Generation Opts to Rent Not Buy Houses to Cars
By Caroline Fairchild | Bloomberg – Wed, Aug 8, 2012
The day Michael Anselmo signed a lease on his first apartment in New York
City, he lost his job at Buck Consultants LLC. He spent about 10 months
struggling to pay rent with unemployment benefits. Two years later he's
still hesitant to buy a home or even a road bike.
"Every decision that I have made since I lost my job has been colored by
that insecurity I feel about the future," said An... 阅读全帖 |
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c*******v
发帖数: 2599 | 26 (以下是对欧盟以及关贸总协定设计师,柯耶夫,50年前一点书和讲座的臆想,这节引伸到
他的美国密友strauss的政治影响.因为有感于这些年美国文攻武卫的斗争形式,
抄写一个small talk体.资料都是抄袭左派人员大字报的.这几年
贴大字报的,不少是Yale,Chicago之类学术重镇的很高title的严肃哲学家.可见斗争之
激烈)
前文提到,柯耶夫认定马克思是上帝,Ford是上帝的现世实现.
(这就像黑格尔说拿破仑是世界精神的体现.)
Section 1.可跳过
柯耶夫认为,国与国之间,或者说发达国家和次发达国家之间的关系,也应该福特化.在
1948年一个讲座柯耶夫展示了反向殖民运动的前景.具体来说,法国向次发达国家每年投
资3%,则对两者都有好处.因为这3%培育了次发达地区的市场.地中海地区发达人口和次
发达人口的比例是1:1.因此,建设欧盟是没有问题的.再下一步,就是搞超越国家的社会
组织,为国家消亡做准备.这就是关贸总协定.
在哲学上来讲,如果这步完成.那就是彻底全球消费时代.人们工作创造剩余价值,然后购
买符号,把生活价值交给the Matrix投入再生产.到这一步,历史也... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 518 | 27 https://www.nytimes.com/2015/10/25/opinion/sunday/with-gmo-policies-europe-
turns-against-science.html
With G.M.O. Policies, Europe Turns Against Science
By MARK LYNASOCT. 24, 2015
A cornfield near Roquettes, France, after hundreds of activists uprooted
genetically modified plants to replace them with organic ones in May 2014.
Credit Pascal Pavani/Agence France-Presse — Getty Images
CALL it the “Coalition of the Ignorant.” By the first week of October, 17
European countries — including Austria, ... 阅读全帖 |
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m*****n
发帖数: 5245 | 28
The Geography of Chinese Power
Contents
1. IRRITABLE BORDER SYNDROME
2. CREEPING CONTROL
3. SOUTHERN PROMISES
4. IN THE ARMY
5. GETTING SEA LEGS
6. STRAIGHT TO TAIWAN
7. LIQUID INSECURITIES
Section: Essays
How Far Can Beijing Reach on Land and at Sea?
THE ENGLISH geographer Sir Halford Mackinder ended his famous 1904 article,
"The Geographical Pivot of History," with a disturbing reference to China.
After explaining why Eurasia was the geostrategic fulcrum of world power, h |
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T***0
发帖数: 669 | 29 It is the comments from Economist.
I just did a calculation from this guy. I can't help to post here.
In this post "A research by prominant investment bank showed that 20 million
Indian households has annual income of US$100,000.00. "
20million * 100,000=2trillion
Per wikipedia: INDIAN GDP on 2009 is
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Economy_of_India
$1.250 trillion
Did I miss something here? Which prominent investment bank is this?
CatIndian wrote:
Oct 8th 2010 11:04 GMT
@ Gone_with_wind
Going by... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 7521 | 30 http://www.ptfcn.com/?post=278
TOWARDS the end of 2003 and early in 2004 China’s most senior leaders put
aside the routine of governing 1.3 billion people to spend a couple of
afternoons studying the rise of great powers. You can imagine history’s
grim inventory of war and destruction being laid out before them as they
examined how, from the 15th century, empires and upstarts had often fought
for supremacy. And you can imagine them moving on to the real subject of
their inquiry: whether China wi... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 2599 | 31 【 以下文字转载自 Military2 讨论区 】
发信人: chebyshev (guvest), 信区: Military2
标 题: 和平的敌人:美国黑帮
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Jan 11 01:19:20 2011, 美东)
庆祝J20,特发美国黑帮研究贴。
Leo Strauss被认为是美国neo conservative运动的革命导师.neo cons们被认为主导了
伊拉克战争.他们这帮人，目前自由派认为，就是西奥多罗斯福那句“不喜欢软弱的和平
”的当代回应。他们不是要把美国的自由市场精神推广全球，而是要推广美国的
governor.
今天发现一个女哲学家04年写的反战大字报:如何制造斯图尔斯门徒.
堪称腐女奇文,我特将其改写如下.
具体步骤如下
1.有一天,有个倒霉蛋开始了研究生学习.他目光游移,精神恍惚,无安全感,害怕毕不了
业.
(小布什?)
2.然后他参加了斯图尔斯的课.不久之后,这个hapless,insecure的倒霉蛋,就转变成了
一个充满自信和斗志的战士-----他深信,只有他们这一伙人,才掌握了真理,这些真理都
是不能泄漏的,因为这些... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 8227 | 32 http://online.wsj.com/article/SB1000142405274870411150457605971
跟贴300页，6700条。。。
One recent comment:
"This article hit many Americans' raw nerves, and it would probably be well
to ask why that is. I would suggest that it is because as Americans, we have
become soft. Deep down at least, we know it, and we are quite insecure
about it. It affects the way we raise our children as well as other aspects
of our life and culture, including business and politics." |
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D**S
发帖数: 24887 | 33 This damn tycoon is so insecure about himself that he has manipulated the
reality show Apprentice for 8+ years. Early on his aides were allowed to
appear in the show as judges on the candidates. Then one by one he fired
them. Now guess what? His son and daughter are the sole judges on the show,
besides, of course, himself sitting in the center. This guy is sick, period. |
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D**S
发帖数: 24887 | 34 So what?
Since when did Americans become THIS insecure? |
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l*****n
发帖数: 328 | 35 几个异己认识拿着几朵花在“抗议”，规模比起埃及1/100都不到，也没有暴力行为。
政府出动了多于对方几倍的警力。如果中国真的是一个欣欣向荣蓬勃发展风调雨顺的国
家，你们政府为什么对这些事情如此scared? 是不是insecurity? |
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c********y
发帖数: 33 | 36 很理解为什么大家这么生气，不过更倾向于technicolour，因为很多时候生气只是一种
表面现象，而原因往往是内心的insecurity.大家大可以一笑了之，能够接受嘲讽或者
笑话是更高的境界。 |
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s********n
发帖数: 26222 | 37 政治家很少能逃脱得了老年魔咒，也就是衰老的困扰， 精力不济， 变得多疑， 专权
，独裁， insecurity, paranoia ,不一而足， 从曹操，赵匡胤，朱元璋，到毛泽东都
是如此。 |
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x********v
发帖数: 2535 | 38 Truly Revolting - 12 Year-old And 700 Citizens Arrested While Criminal
Banksters Walk Free
There is something truly revolting to see these New York City cops, with
the smugness and, brashness, and arrogance lay their hands on peaceful
demonstrators exercising their constitutional right of freedom of assembly.
Yes, I understand that the demonstration may be causing some
inconveniences; there may be some traffic delays, and other minor side-
effects. But for the authorities, that's a small price t... 阅读全帖 |
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u***r
发帖数: 4825 | 39 http://www.nytimes.com/2011/12/20/opinion/will-north-korea-beco
Op-Ed Contributor
China’s Newest Province?
By VICTOR CHA
Published: December 19, 2011
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s***q
发帖数: 10585 | 40 我还是同意楼主的
国内在08西藏事件发生之前，一直对西霉有着美妙的幻想
甚至在08事件之后，外Ｆ们依旧舔默多克的pussy
然而西媒，则是从一开始就不遗余力地丑化华人，国内媒体
因为他们的逻辑是：华人都是CCP的间谍；中国的媒体企业 都是“insecure”的 |
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J***M
发帖数: 254 | 41 I agree with you on that China lacks a tradition of open debate about public
policies. That's a huge problem. There are few ways for an ordinary citizen
to voice their opinions and stand up for their own interests. The media
control is too tight. What the officials don't (or don't care to) understand
is that this pressure cooker someday will explode and bring many casualties
with it.
I think the only way out is political reform, not another revelution.
Another revolution will not only sacrifice ... 阅读全帖 |
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