az
发帖数: 16686 | 1 我的律师这么跟我说的：For estate tax purposes, only individuals that are
United States citizens are allowed to claim a marital deduction without
using a Qualified Domestic Operating Trust.
我甚至问了给我卖保险的Agent，他们都不知道这个，不过我选择相信我的律师的话，
我想他比较有经验吧，毕竟是专门做estate的律师。而且我们都彼此信任，所以写成对
方的名字没问题
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M********8
发帖数: 3837 | 2 包括。
夫妇都是美籍，有marital deduction, 可以无上限继承对方的财产，不给税。那些给
国内的父母写成受益人的，有100万的上限，然后他们比如死了，然后转给孩子，那就
要从6万开始打税。
所以不要乱把保险政策的受益人写成不在美国居住的父母，打税很厉害。 |
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M********8
发帖数: 3837 | 3 你的agent相当的不专业。
夫妻之间因为有marital deduction (if both are citizens), 所以任何遗产，包括保
险，都不用纳税。夫妻以外的全部都要纳遗产税。
监护人花钱的限制完全看你的条约怎么写，你可以写得非常松动，也可以写得非常严格
，灵活性非常大。比如你怕你把钱全留给老婆，老婆不给你养父母的话，可以说明遗产
里面每年必须给父母多少的生活费。或者你怕老婆再嫁，亏待你孩子的话，可以说明再
嫁的情况下遗产如何分配，这都看你自己的盘算与律师的功力。 |
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j*****1
发帖数: 1107 | 4 在最近一期costco杂志上看到一本新书， finding your prince in a sea of toads,
广告是这样写的
Ryan, who has spent more than 10 years as a volunteer pre-marital counselor,
along with his wife, felt it was important to pass on the expertise he had
gleaned to a wider audience.
"after talking with so many couples over the years about sex and
relationship, I wanted to share my insight with my three teenage daughters
so they would know more about men and relationships," said Ryan, who lives
with his family in Elkton, VA. "I d... 阅读全帖 |
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j*****1
发帖数: 1107 | 5 在最近一期costco杂志上看到一本新书， finding your prince in a sea of toads,
广告是这样写的
Ryan, who has spent more than 10 years as a volunteer pre-marital counselor,
along with his wife, felt it was important to pass on the expertise he had
gleaned to a wider audience.
"after talking with so many couples over the years about sex and
relationship, I wanted to share my insight with my three teenage daughters
so they would know more about men and relationships," said Ryan, who lives
with his family in Elkton, VA. "I d... 阅读全帖 |
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l******a
发帖数: 16364 | 6 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
rh991 (qq) 于 (Mon Feb 27 11:18:52 2012, 美东) 提到:
女儿15岁了（今年9月16岁）， 10年纪的高中生。 突然告诉我们她和学校里一个男孩
子彼此喜欢， 要求周末一起看电影。 唉， 我们都有点担心。 毕竟还小啊。 但又怕
太压制她， 效果也不好。 女儿在学校里， 成绩都还不错， 也比较popular.
有过来人， 给指点指点吧， 如何处理这事。
感激不尽啊！
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izze (漫步撒哈拉的柔韧猪) 于 (Mon Feb 27 11:24:51 2012, 美东) 提到:
你把他们丢到电影院，电影完了再送回去接回家？
看场电影，还好吧？ //其他的，该教育的都提前教育了吧？:)
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rh991 (qq) 于 (Mon Feb 27 11:40:25 2012, 美东) 提到:
我担心以后还会... 阅读全帖 |
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M***D
发帖数: 249 | 7 Again, please take what I say as suggestions only:
1) Developmental delay:
-I think your friend's daughter did not have speech/language developmental
delay.
-She appears having motor skill problems:
a) Gross motor skill problems: 不会跳绳, 不会拍球, and avoids taking part
in PE classes.
b) Fine motor skill problems: 不会用筷子, 拒绝用笔
c)Toilet training: 小时候祖母只要一把着她“嘘嘘”，她多少总会尿一点出来。
目前她已经接近8周岁了, 有时会偷偷爬到洗手盆上尿尿，甚至尿一半，在洗手盆上转
个方向再尿剩下的一半。 This is quite interesting, did her grandmother 把着她
到洗手盆上尿尿 when she was... 阅读全帖 |
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u*****a
发帖数: 6276 | 8 “No union is more profound than marriage, for it embodies the highest
ideals of love, fidelity, devotion, sacrifice, and family,” he wrote. “In
forming a marital union, two people become something greater than once they
were.”
“It would misunderstand these men and women to say they disrespect the idea
of marriage,” Justice Kennedy said of the couples challenging state bans on
same-sex marriage. “Their plea is that they do respect it, respect it so
deeply that they seek to find its fulfillment f... 阅读全帖 |
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n****y
发帖数: 6260 | 9 http://legal-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/Common-Law+Partne
":Common-Law Marriage
A union of two people not formalized in the customary manner as prescribed
by law but created by an agreement to marry followed by Cohabitation.
A fundamental question in marriage is whether the union is legally
recognized. This question is important because marriage affects property
ownership, rights of survivorship, spousal benefits, and other marital
amenities. With so much at stake, marriage has become a ma... 阅读全帖 |
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w*********o
发帖数: 3030 | 10 Well, you don't need to disclose your race, your age, your marital status,
religious affiliation, etc, etc when you vote, apply for jobs, get married,
have children ... |
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s**u
发帖数: 9035 | 11 发信人: shmu (shmu), 信区: Biology
标 题: UCSF Postdoc Fellowships in Tobacco Control Research
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Oct 18 07:39:49 2011, 美东)
Postdoctoral Fellowships in Tobacco Control Research
The purpose of the fellowship is to attract diverse individuals from a
wide variety of backgrounds in medical, biological, social,
behavioral, and policy sciences to develop a new generation of
academic leaders in tobacco control. Upon completion of training,
fellows will be well positioned to be active partici... 阅读全帖 |
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b***1
发帖数: 668 | 12 当然可以不要加州人。
Please read the following article about Employer Discrimination.
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Employer Discrimination
Discrimination by an employer is a heavily regulated subject, and when hiring an employee there are a host of rules and regulations that an employer can run afoul of at both the federal and state level. Many of these laws apply to businesses with more than fifteen people, but some (such as the Equal Pay Act) apply to virtually all businesses, and generally apply to private as well as g... 阅读全帖 |
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D********r
发帖数: 522 | 13 Speaking of "歧视", you could have been prejudiced for many reasons in China
! It could be because of where you are from, what your are - by gender, by
profession, by skin color, by your marital status, by age, by height, by
salary... you name it.
I don't think there is ever a place that has no prejudice. The only
difference is how you take it. |
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f**********l
发帖数: 1191 | 14 很多人喜欢坐而论道。其实现在internet上东西很多，稍稍google一下就可以发现答案
。在这个网站输入你所在州、家庭年收入、婚姻状况和人口，就可以计算每个payroll
的gross incoming, tax and net pay.
http://www.paycheckmanager.com/free_payroll_calculator.aspx
你的情况，年收入$100k, 已婚，两口人。计算如下：
State: California
Marital status: Married
Pay cycle: bi-weekly, Pay rate: $100k /year
Salary hours: 80 hours
Total gross earning: $3,846.15
Total taxable earning: $3,846.15
Federal Income Tax Withheld: $587.44
Social Security Tax: $161.54
Medicare Tax: $55.77
State Income Tax Withheld: $18... 阅读全帖 |
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s******5
发帖数: 293 | 15 Tips for Filing Form N-400, Application for Naturalization
On February 4, 2014, we published a revised Form N-400, Application for
Naturalization. When you fill out your Form N-400, you must complete every
section and answer every question as completely as you can. Also, please
note that, as of May 5, 2014, we will only accept the Form N-400 that has a
revision date of 9/13/13. The revision date is printed on the lower left
corner of the form.
To help you understand the naturalization process, ... 阅读全帖 |
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s**********n
发帖数: 15 | 17 请问如果申请人配偶已故, DS-157中姓名如何写?
另外DS-156中也要选Marital status, 有下面几个选项, 应该选哪个?
Married, single, widowed, divorced, seperated
还要填配偶姓名, 请问如何填写?
多谢了! |
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c********d
发帖数: 85 | 18 Has anyone gone to a Chinese Consulate in the U.S. to apply for certificate
of marital status (单身声明公证, i.e. single, eligible to marry another
person of another non-U.S. country)?
Besides Chinese passport and the G-1 form, what other coduments are required
? Does the applicant have to prepare/write the declaration himself/herself
for the Consulate to sign?
Advice will be much appreciated!! Thanks!! |
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z***i
发帖数: 141 | 19 大家好，我最近在帮母亲办探亲签证。有硬伤。母亲去年已经退休。父母9年前就已经
离婚。我又是独女。有一处房产。母亲退休金不高（2000元/月）。
我想请问一下，可以隐瞒这个离婚吗？marital status就选married，不选divorced。
求大家意见。。。实在是没办法，我们硬伤太多了。我想也许签证官也查不出来？（他
们会和民政局挂钩吗？）求问前辈们的意见！由衷感激！请轻拍，小妹实在想不出其他
办法，也不知道签证官会怎么抓住这些硬伤。。。
谢谢！！！ |
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q********g
发帖数: 10694 | 20 领着去办美国签证（新）
- pjiang -
美国非移民签证的新申请表格 DS-160 在沈阳领馆试行之后，从下月（2010年3月）开
始，将在全国正式实行。
新的 DS-160 表格取代了以前的 DS-156、DS-157 和 DS-158 等表格，只能在网上填
写。
DS-160 适用于除 K-1/2 (fiancee) 以及 E-1/2 (Treaty Trader) 的所有非移民签证
的申请。
在3月1日之前，申请人可以提交 DS-160 表格，也可以仍使用老的 DS-156 表格。找
不到 DS-157 和 DS-158 表格的，可以去参考本人的博文。
除了在线填表，非移民签证的申请还包括预约签证（购买电话卡）、交纳申请费和签证
面试。详情见另文。
注意事项： 取决于申请人的个人背景，填完表格所需的时间以小时计算。在填完表格
的过程当中，你会需要不时地存盘。当你不是在自己的计算机上（如网吧）操作时，别
忘了自备优盘。
另外，在申请表格填写完毕，在线提交之后，美国国务院会产生一个带条形码的页面，
需要你打印出来。如果不方便打印，可以先存盘不提交。
还有，你需要上传一张 JPG ... 阅读全帖 |
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q********g
发帖数: 10694 | 21 领着去办美国签证（新）
- pjiang -
美国非移民签证的新申请表格 DS-160 在沈阳领馆试行之后，从下月（2010年3月）开
始，将在全国正式实行。
新的 DS-160 表格取代了以前的 DS-156、DS-157 和 DS-158 等表格，只能在网上填
写。
DS-160 适用于除 K-1/2 (fiancee) 以及 E-1/2 (Treaty Trader) 的所有非移民签证
的申请。
在3月1日之前，申请人可以提交 DS-160 表格，也可以仍使用老的 DS-156 表格。找
不到 DS-157 和 DS-158 表格的，可以去参考本人的博文。
除了在线填表，非移民签证的申请还包括预约签证（购买电话卡）、交纳申请费和签证
面试。详情见另文。
注意事项： 取决于申请人的个人背景，填完表格所需的时间以小时计算。在填完表格
的过程当中，你会需要不时地存盘。当你不是在自己的计算机上（如网吧）操作时，别
忘了自备优盘。
另外，在申请表格填写完毕，在线提交之后，美国国务院会产生一个带条形码的页面，
需要你打印出来。如果不方便打印，可以先存盘不提交。
还有，你需要上传一张 JPG ... 阅读全帖 |
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x*x
发帖数: 365 | 22 Marital Status 要选 Widowed 就不会问配偶住址。 |
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k********8
发帖数: 7948 | 25 周末出去吃饱喝足后回家闲着无聊，翻阅了一下历史图片
发现了2000年后的美国和70年代的美国颇有几分相似：
Trends in American Society in
the 1970s
1. Higher Divorce rates
2. Increased Pre-marital Sex
3. Fewer women having children
4. Increase in Couples living together
5. Increased Recognition of Homosexual lifestyle
6. Rise in female-headed households
7. Rise in Drug use
8. Rising crime rates
9. 10 to 15 percent annual inflation rate
10. Increasing costs of energy. Energy Crisis.
11. Growing concern about an environmental crisis
12. Increasing co... 阅读全帖 |
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w**********l
发帖数: 8501 | 26 被141人设为好友，0人设为坏人；最近登录：2011-08-02。 (新邮件)
1.征友信息：冰清玉洁
我诚恳地详细介绍了个人的情况, 并且我能证明我所说的都是事实.朋友您的信任
是我的荣幸. 希望朋友您也能对我真诚相待.
1977年出生于一个飞行员家庭, 童年在山东度过,后来全家回到故乡海南. 家
教严格, 思想传统保守，守身如玉(Virgin)。我从未有过婚前性行为, 未来也不能
接受任何婚前性行为, 这是我的做人原则. 如果您诚心与我交往, 请事先慎重考虑
并且尊重我的做人原则.
上学的时候，专心好好学习。大学期间，分别获得全国(中国)数学模型竞赛和国
际数学模型竞赛的二等奖; 四年级时申请到一所美国州立大学的全额奖学金，毕业
后直接到美国来读数学博士(Pure Math)。但拿到硕士学位(Applied Math) 后，就
开始工作。目前，在纽约曼哈顿金融区(Financial District)一家小银行做分析(
Analyst
)，包括投资人报告(Investor Reporting), 财务分析的工作。业余时间，一直准
备精... 阅读全帖 |
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i**y
发帖数: 829 | 27 http://www.jobinterviewquestions.org/questions/illegal-question
Marital/ Family Status (often alludes to sexual orientation)
The purpose of these “family” inquiries is to explore what some employers
believe is a common source of absenteeism and tardiness. Typically, these
questions are asked only of women making the inquiry clearly unlawful.
However, even if such inquiries are made of both men and women, the
questions may still be suspect. Such information has been used to
discriminate against w... 阅读全帖 |
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p**8
发帖数: 3883 | 28 有小孩，有房贷的朋友，最好要买life insurance.
买了，就希望不要用到。
把保险费就当做给不幸家庭的捐款。
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发信人: MyDora (家有懒猫－家有小宝万事足), 信区: SanDiego
标 题: 看到宝宝版的帖子我也来说说life insurance
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Mar 8 13:46:03 2013, 美东)
这两天看到那个宝宝版的帖子很难过，虽然离开SD好多年了，但是还是感觉似乎就是自
己的邻居家出的事情，心情一直很down。看到大家在讨论life insurance我来说说我的
简单理解吧。本来想回到其他帖子下面，但是觉得还是单独发个帖子比较好。这只是抛
砖引玉，希望大家可以继续讨论
1.有孩子的都应该买life insurance，越早买越便宜，公司的group insurance是不够
的，一是数额比较小，二是万一失业了这个insurance就没有了，年纪大了万一失业了
再想买term life会很贵。
2.life insurance分term和whole life，whole life顾名思义就是能保一生，有点类似
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z*******n
发帖数: 830 | 29 【 以下文字转载自 Money 讨论区 】
发信人: zachanson (时刻关注老猫咪), 信区: Money
标 题: 问一个填表的常识性问题
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Feb 19 21:19:39 2009)
marital status有这么几种吧？
single
married
divorced
seperated
这个seperated怎么定义？
1。两人不住在一起，long distance就算？
2。准备离婚了那种分居才算，两人long distance而不是要离婚的那种不算？
3。指中文的鳏寡？要不然怎么填表没有这个选项？
哪种对啊？ |
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X**********n
发帖数: 14 | 30 Hi everyone,
I have some tax questions to consult with you.
My visa is H1-B and my wife is H4. We filed 2007 1040 jointly and only I
received $600 economic stimulus payment. Why? Can we receive recovery rebate
credit?
On my salary payment, why is my marital status labeled as single for federal
tax purpose and married for state? I have been in H1-B status for 4 years
and we have been married for many years. When can I ask payroll to change
the status to married for both federal and state tax pur |
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k**f
发帖数: 372 | 31
federal
years
You can change your marital status for federal income tax withhold purpose
with a new form W4 and send it to your payroll department.
http://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/fw4.pdf |
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a***a
发帖数: 13 | 32 我去年是F1->H1B，但我是2003年来美的，从置顶文章来看，得file resident form。
去年11月份结婚，但是老公除了少量出差外，一直在国内，收入也全是在国内的。我该
file as single, or married jointly or as head of household? 越想越糊涂啊。哪位知道的帮帮忙吧。
多谢啦 |
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s***x
发帖数: 885 | 33 single is your best choice
married jointly can save more money but seems illegal based on your sit
uation
married separately you need applied ITIN for your husband too and you can't
save more money than claiming as single
head of household? no unless you have kids
哪位知道的帮帮忙吧。 |
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S*********u
发帖数: 143 | 34 no, have to before or on Dec. 31 |
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e*******9
发帖数: 261 | 36 刚刚准备动手填税表，可是突然发现好像W-2表有问题。我们夫妻都是09年毕业，LD10
月1号后转成H1，去年生了1个宝宝，我一直在家待宝宝，所以我的理解应该是我们都是
NR，不能joint filing 税表，也不能claim dependent。 可是拿出W-2 却发现上面写
着：
Taxable marital status: married
exemptions/ allowances
federal: 3
married/ joint filing
这是不是意味着W-2表有问题，需要更正吗，找谁更正呢？如果更正需要多长时间呢，
还能否赶在deadline前呢？
多谢大家了！ |
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a********r
发帖数: 538 | 37 I think Glacier can not
but CINTAX can change marital status |
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a****1
发帖数: 306 | 38 这两年父母都符合dependents的183天条件，都是4月15退税的时候报为dependents多退
点税。现在突然想起我应该把w4上的Number of Allowances改了，这样每个月工资单上
就可以直接少扣税，不用等到来年再退了。
更重要的是，今年报税时我的marital status已经可以由single变为head of
household了，那我在payroll上可以把这一项也改成head of household？我想这样应
该还可以少交些social security tax吧?可怜我这两年都忘了改，不知道多交了多少
fica，都退不回来了呀 555555555 |
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c******s
发帖数: 85 | 39 谢谢。 我下周和公司说。还有公司给我的earnings statement 上我的taxable
marital status 是Single. 想问问我如果是non resident alien的话，能和lg一起报
税吗？会比我们分开报退得多吗?他是f1 student. |
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k****r
发帖数: 593 | 40 为什么学校PAYROLL说好像是不行了？
While we were entering treaty information we noticed that you are now in
Resident Alien tax status and are no longer eligible for tax treaty benefits
. You are now eligible to claim marital status along with additional
withholding allowances.
有什么办法前$5000还免税的吗？
谢谢！！ |
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S**I
发帖数: 15689 | 41 Is your spouse in the US?
to |
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l******7
发帖数: 4449 | 44 得提供H4的ITIN，你单说你married没用的 |
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I******t
发帖数: 1619 | 45 我的经验是，过了183天就可以claim married了，具体为什么不清楚 |
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c*********v
发帖数: 35 | 46 请问是向哪个地方claim？
我是向学校payroll的人claim的，他们说no |
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C*********y
发帖数: 2738 | 47 只能讲你们学校HR白吃。J1和H1b都能claim dependent for tax purpose. |
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C*********y
发帖数: 2738 | 49 J-1头两年有必要吗？不然irs要倒贴你钱了。 |
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S**I
发帖数: 15689 | 50 不是直接从中国来的J-1又不能claim treaty。 |
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